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Beauty Tips
When you seem down and out, please always remember what Audrey Hepburn had written for her funeral.
Maturing Everyday (ladies this is a good beauty tip from a beautiful actress)
1. Lips: speak words of kindness
2. Eyes: seek out the good in people
3. Body: to keep a slim figure, share your food with the hungry
4. Hair: let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day
5. Poise: walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone
6. Friends: even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone
[>] [<] Remember, if you ever nee a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms and as you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.
Maturing Everyday (ladies this is a good beauty tip from a beautiful actress)
1. Lips: speak words of kindness
2. Eyes: seek out the good in people
3. Body: to keep a slim figure, share your food with the hungry
4. Hair: let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day
5. Poise: walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone
6. Friends: even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone
[>] [<] Remember, if you ever nee a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms and as you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
Hmm, I like this...so tell me, just what does one consider when judging the winner of such a contest? The length of the cum squirt? The length of the member's uhh, member? Also, upon submitting our pic, do we waive our rights to privacy entitling you exclusive rights to use them at your discretion; ie: releasing them to the public? I'm serious, I need to know these things if I wanna win.
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
A new low for CC. If I win your fee video can I donate to a blind member so somebody would appreciate it?
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
And what precisely do you imagine that they might be jealous of? It alludes me.
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
... they are jealous of her modelling contract for Kazakhstan Vogue !!
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
Her?
ohhhh
i was assuming xxxkaz was a man.
i was thinking to myself, what an odd contest this is ...
ohhhh
i was assuming xxxkaz was a man.
i was thinking to myself, what an odd contest this is ...
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
kaz a man?? i think i have some glasses around here for you some place :P
RE: Win a free 15 minute session
Kaz, hunny, me a little shy to send a picture of me cumming, the contest does sound like fun, good luck to all, wish I was in, oh Kaz hunny can I have a free 10 minute session, I can moannnnnnnn good and make good typing sounds, just kidding hun, good luck with your contest
Did I Have a Son-In-Law
Hey room, this is the beginning of a new year and this might be some good advice to those young women here, dont let your age catch up with you and to you men out there if you get caught with a vibrator by your wife, here is a good example to tell her:
My wife was walking down the hall when she heard a humming sound coming from our daughters bedroom, by the way our daughter name is Misty. When she opened the door she found Misty naked on the bed with a vibrator. "What are you doing?" she scream. Misty replied, mom, "I'm 35 and still living at home with my parents and this is the closet I'll ever get to a husband. Later that week I was in the kitchen and heard a humming sound coming from the basement. I went downstairs, I found Misty naked on the sofa with her vibrator. "What are you doing?" I ask. Misty replied, dad, I'm 35 and still living at home with you and mom and this is the closet I'll ever get to a husband." A couple days later my wife heard the humming sound again, this time in the living room. Upon entering the room, she found me watching television with the vibrator buzzing away next to me. She hollar out "What are you doing". I told her I was watching the ball game with my son-in-law.
My wife was walking down the hall when she heard a humming sound coming from our daughters bedroom, by the way our daughter name is Misty. When she opened the door she found Misty naked on the bed with a vibrator. "What are you doing?" she scream. Misty replied, mom, "I'm 35 and still living at home with my parents and this is the closet I'll ever get to a husband. Later that week I was in the kitchen and heard a humming sound coming from the basement. I went downstairs, I found Misty naked on the sofa with her vibrator. "What are you doing?" I ask. Misty replied, dad, I'm 35 and still living at home with you and mom and this is the closet I'll ever get to a husband." A couple days later my wife heard the humming sound again, this time in the living room. Upon entering the room, she found me watching television with the vibrator buzzing away next to me. She hollar out "What are you doing". I told her I was watching the ball game with my son-in-law.
RE: Just reading some posts
Life is like that, Vera. Some people just gotta bitch and try put-downs. Preesent company excepted, of course. :-)
RE: Just reading some posts
Gort. Once again we are all a little bit dummer after reading one of your posts. Thank you.
RE: Just reading some posts
Well said Gort... but those who add the oil are sad and it makes them feel better to attack others. Hopefully something will make them happy in 2007
RE: Just reading some posts
Humans are mamals, we think we have "advanced" our behaviours a bit more than most other mamals, (not by much) but you can not change instinct. Males will always boast and perform unusual acts for the females to have the chance to mate with her. The strong survive, the weak parish. It's as simple as that. A woman is not going to procreate with a pitiful fool, she is going to choose a man who is strong confident and secure becuase she knows he will be a good provider and that her children will be strong with the genes of her mate. We all want to win, that is just the way it is. Everyone has troubles, how you handle those troubles determines your charachter.
Is it wrong to kick someone when they are down? maybe. Will that change how people act? I doubt it. The only one you can change is yourself. If you act like you want other to act, maybe they will respect you and try to be like you. Change is slow, but life is short, and often over before the real changes can be realized.
Is it wrong to kick someone when they are down? maybe. Will that change how people act? I doubt it. The only one you can change is yourself. If you act like you want other to act, maybe they will respect you and try to be like you. Change is slow, but life is short, and often over before the real changes can be realized.
Keeping it up.
THE IMPORTANCE OF WALKING ---
Walking can add minutes to your life. This enables you at 85 years old to
spend an additional 5 months in a nursing home at $5000 per month
My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was 60. Now she's
97 years old and we don't know where she is.
The only reason I would take up exercising is so that I could hear heavy
breathing again.
I joined a health club last year, spent about 400 bucks. Haven't lost a
pound. Apparently you have to go there.
I have to exercise early in the morning before my brain figures out what
I'm doing.
I like long walks, especially when they are taken by people who annoy me.
I have flabby thighs, but fortunately my stomach covers them.
The advantage of exercising every day is that you die healthier.
If you are going to try cross-country skiing, start with a small country.
And last but not least: I don't exercise because it makes the ice jump right
out of my glass.
You could run this over to your friends but why not just e-mail it to them!
Forget exercise, I'm going to bed.
I need my beauty rest...
Walking can add minutes to your life. This enables you at 85 years old to
spend an additional 5 months in a nursing home at $5000 per month
My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was 60. Now she's
97 years old and we don't know where she is.
The only reason I would take up exercising is so that I could hear heavy
breathing again.
I joined a health club last year, spent about 400 bucks. Haven't lost a
pound. Apparently you have to go there.
I have to exercise early in the morning before my brain figures out what
I'm doing.
I like long walks, especially when they are taken by people who annoy me.
I have flabby thighs, but fortunately my stomach covers them.
The advantage of exercising every day is that you die healthier.
If you are going to try cross-country skiing, start with a small country.
And last but not least: I don't exercise because it makes the ice jump right
out of my glass.
You could run this over to your friends but why not just e-mail it to them!
Forget exercise, I'm going to bed.
I need my beauty rest...
What can I say!
At a Senior Citizen's luncheon, an elderly
gentleman and an elderly lady
struck up a conversation and discovered that
they both loved to fish.
Since both of them were widowed,
they decided to go fishing together the next day.
The gentleman picked the lady up, and they
headed to the river to his fishing boat and
started out on their adventure.
They were riding down the river when there was a
fork in the river, and the gentleman asked the lady,
"Do you want to go up or down?"
All of a sudden the lady stripped off her shirt
and pants and made mad passionate love to the man
right there in the boat !
When they finished, the man couldn't believe
what had just happened, but he had just experienced
the best sex that he'd had in years.
They fished for a while and continued on down the
river, when soon they came upon another fork in the
river.
He again asked the lady, "Up or down ?"
There she went again, stripped off her clothes,
and made wild passionate love to him again.
This really impressed the elderly gentleman, so
he asked her to go fishing again the next day.
She said yes and there they were the next day,
riding in the boat when they came upon the fork in
river, and the elderly gentleman asked, "Up or down ?"
The woman replied, "Down."
A little puzzled and disappointed, the gentleman
guided the boat down the river when he came upon
another fork in the river and he asked the
lady,"Up or down ?"
She replied, "Up."
This really confused the gentleman so he asked,
"What's the deal? Yesterday, every time I asked
you if you wanted to go up or down you made mad
passionate love to me. Now today, nothing!"
She replied, "Well, yesterday I wasn't wearing
my hearing aid and I thought the choices were
f**k or drown."
gentleman and an elderly lady
struck up a conversation and discovered that
they both loved to fish.
Since both of them were widowed,
they decided to go fishing together the next day.
The gentleman picked the lady up, and they
headed to the river to his fishing boat and
started out on their adventure.
They were riding down the river when there was a
fork in the river, and the gentleman asked the lady,
"Do you want to go up or down?"
All of a sudden the lady stripped off her shirt
and pants and made mad passionate love to the man
right there in the boat !
When they finished, the man couldn't believe
what had just happened, but he had just experienced
the best sex that he'd had in years.
They fished for a while and continued on down the
river, when soon they came upon another fork in the
river.
He again asked the lady, "Up or down ?"
There she went again, stripped off her clothes,
and made wild passionate love to him again.
This really impressed the elderly gentleman, so
he asked her to go fishing again the next day.
She said yes and there they were the next day,
riding in the boat when they came upon the fork in
river, and the elderly gentleman asked, "Up or down ?"
The woman replied, "Down."
A little puzzled and disappointed, the gentleman
guided the boat down the river when he came upon
another fork in the river and he asked the
lady,"Up or down ?"
She replied, "Up."
This really confused the gentleman so he asked,
"What's the deal? Yesterday, every time I asked
you if you wanted to go up or down you made mad
passionate love to me. Now today, nothing!"
She replied, "Well, yesterday I wasn't wearing
my hearing aid and I thought the choices were
f**k or drown."
And this is not ageist.
A group of tourists were traveling by tour bus through Holland. As they
stopped at a cheese farm, a young guide led them through the process of
cheese making, explaining that goat's milk was used. She showed the group a
lively hillside where many goats were grazing.
"These" she explained "are the older goats put out to pasture when they no
longer produce." She then asked, "What do you do in your country with your
old goats?"
A spry old gentleman answered, "They send us on bus tours!"
stopped at a cheese farm, a young guide led them through the process of
cheese making, explaining that goat's milk was used. She showed the group a
lively hillside where many goats were grazing.
"These" she explained "are the older goats put out to pasture when they no
longer produce." She then asked, "What do you do in your country with your
old goats?"
A spry old gentleman answered, "They send us on bus tours!"
This is NOT anti-semetic
A man goes to see the Rabbi. "Rabbi, something terrible is happening and I
have to talk to you about it."
The Rabbi asked, "What's wrong?"
The man replied, "My wife is poisoning me."
The Rabbi, very surprised by this, asks, "How can that be?"
The man then pleads, "I'm telling you, I'm certain she's poisoning me. What
should I do?"
The Rabbi then offers, "Tell you what. Let me talk to her. I'll see what I
can find out and I'll let you know."
A week later the Rabbi calls the man and says. "I spoke to your wife...spoke
to her on the phone for three hours. You want my advice?"
The man said yes, and the Rabbi replied, "Take the poison."
have to talk to you about it."
The Rabbi asked, "What's wrong?"
The man replied, "My wife is poisoning me."
The Rabbi, very surprised by this, asks, "How can that be?"
The man then pleads, "I'm telling you, I'm certain she's poisoning me. What
should I do?"
The Rabbi then offers, "Tell you what. Let me talk to her. I'll see what I
can find out and I'll let you know."
A week later the Rabbi calls the man and says. "I spoke to your wife...spoke
to her on the phone for three hours. You want my advice?"
The man said yes, and the Rabbi replied, "Take the poison."
Is this you?
PERKS OF BEING OVER 50
If you are not over 50, this is what you have to look forward to.
1. Kidnappers are not very interested in you.
2. In a hostage situation you are likely to be released first.
3. No one expects you to run - anywhere.
4. People call at 9 pm and ask, " Did I wake you ???? "
5. People no longer view you as a hypochondriac.
6. There is nothing left to learn the hard way.
7. Things you buy now won't wear out.
8. You can eat dinner at 4 pm.
9. You get into heated arguments about pension plans.
10. You no longer think of speed limits as challenge.
11. You quit trying to hold your stomach in no matter who walks into the
room.
12. You sing along with elevator music.
13. Your eyes won't get much worse.
14. Your investment in health insurance is finally beginning to pay off.
15. Your joints are more accurate meteorologists than the national weather
service.
16. Your secrets are safe with your friends because they can't remember them
either.
17. Your supply of brain cells is finally down to manageable size.
18. You can't remember who sent you this list
And you notice these are all in Big Print for your convenience.
Also Forward this to every one, that is everyone you remember .
If you are not over 50, this is what you have to look forward to.
1. Kidnappers are not very interested in you.
2. In a hostage situation you are likely to be released first.
3. No one expects you to run - anywhere.
4. People call at 9 pm and ask, " Did I wake you ???? "
5. People no longer view you as a hypochondriac.
6. There is nothing left to learn the hard way.
7. Things you buy now won't wear out.
8. You can eat dinner at 4 pm.
9. You get into heated arguments about pension plans.
10. You no longer think of speed limits as challenge.
11. You quit trying to hold your stomach in no matter who walks into the
room.
12. You sing along with elevator music.
13. Your eyes won't get much worse.
14. Your investment in health insurance is finally beginning to pay off.
15. Your joints are more accurate meteorologists than the national weather
service.
16. Your secrets are safe with your friends because they can't remember them
either.
17. Your supply of brain cells is finally down to manageable size.
18. You can't remember who sent you this list
And you notice these are all in Big Print for your convenience.
Also Forward this to every one, that is everyone you remember .
RE: wanker
It means beating off, slapping the salomi, five knuckle shuffle, spanking the monkey...hundreds more euphanisms for this, so a wanker is someone who wanks.
Merry Christmas
MERRY CHRISTMAS to all of my sweet russian lady friends here(you know who you are :-P).hope your day is filled with much joy and happiness!
RE: Merry Christmas
a VA wanna b.....er..i joined b4 he did..i always been this way..and im tryin to b like him? yeah..ok..and now u can go play in the yard with all the other little girls and boys
RE: Merry Christmas
typical shy response.i try to wish some friends here a Merry Christmas,and see what i get? ya twat
How do I know?
If she really likes me. I have know a girl from here for about a year now. We never use cc now just yahoo chat.(sorry about that cc). Which obviously means i dont pay for her time but i have on occasions helped her out if she is short of cash or bought her little gifts. We are great friends and talk non stop about anything and everything. We fool about sometimes when in mood but its rare. I dont really mind that because its great just spending time with her and if im honest i think it would make things little awkward if or when we actually meet in person. When we chat we blow kisses and hug, all the usual stuff and we talk about liking each other alot. I know my own feelings for her and she knows how much i care for her and would do anything for her. Im just not sure how exactly she feels for me. Obviously she is beautiful and im the opposite lol. She is little older than me so its not me cradle snatching or anything. We plan to meet sometime this year but im just not sure if she really really likes me or if she would prefere just to be friends. I would be gutted if that was the case but i would accept it (eventually) and probally stay good friends with her. I am 99.99% certain that all she has told me is true. No boyfriend for real, and that she really does care for me etc.. But when you read some guys horror stories from here you cant help but be scared that this could all end in tears. I think ill just wait and see how things turn out. See if there is real chemistry like we have when we chat. God why cant life be simple.
RE: How do I know?
If she talk to you all the time and never asked you for vid or something, i think shes a great girl and you should give to her credit.
Dont listing all those pathetic comments. If she never changed the way to treat you , if she give you the same attention, if she didnt get bored with you in a whole year and you never pay a cent in her vid, she must like you alot. Thnk about how many girls did u meet here and who treat you the same, and u will see the difference. You better dont lose her, try and do what your heart tell you. Best of luck to both of you!! Cheers!!
Dont listing all those pathetic comments. If she never changed the way to treat you , if she give you the same attention, if she didnt get bored with you in a whole year and you never pay a cent in her vid, she must like you alot. Thnk about how many girls did u meet here and who treat you the same, and u will see the difference. You better dont lose her, try and do what your heart tell you. Best of luck to both of you!! Cheers!!
RE: How do I know?
Umm, it seems you overlooked the part where he said he sends her gifts and money...anyway. Guy, you can try not sending any gifts or money for awhile and see if she still talks to you and if she continues to, well, good.
RE: How do I know?
Whether she asks for money or gifts or not is irrelevant!! Besides, it's obvious that she doesn't ask for gifts...that's why they are called gifts. If he just gives stuff to her, she knows she has the guy wrapped and it just makes it that much easier for her to take advantage of the poor guy.
RE: How do I know?
I think your trying too hard , putting too much importance
on making some decision. Which is going to end badly.
You need to have no concern or expectation about how things will turn out. Especially if you go to visit her.
She is a great friend to you and your both having fun.
See where it all leads.
Remember this is a fantasy site for her too. If things are not as you expect them to be. Don't be upset with her.
on making some decision. Which is going to end badly.
You need to have no concern or expectation about how things will turn out. Especially if you go to visit her.
She is a great friend to you and your both having fun.
See where it all leads.
Remember this is a fantasy site for her too. If things are not as you expect them to be. Don't be upset with her.
RE: How do I know?
Hey
here is an idea... Try asking her!
If you are not sure she likes you as much as you like her, then ask her. You are bold enough to ask all the perfect strangers here right?
I would tell her your feelings for her and your intentions for the future and so what if she says no , she dosen't feel the same? She might just say yes ! you don't find love, it finds you. If you can't talk to her about a future, then she will not be in it.
here is an idea... Try asking her!
If you are not sure she likes you as much as you like her, then ask her. You are bold enough to ask all the perfect strangers here right?
I would tell her your feelings for her and your intentions for the future and so what if she says no , she dosen't feel the same? She might just say yes ! you don't find love, it finds you. If you can't talk to her about a future, then she will not be in it.
RE: Chic and Mature
You may get a lot of different answers to this question. :)) I was talking with a friend the other day about age… to me… a 30 yr old woman is not mature in age… she is still a young lady. I see mature (when it comes to age) as being 50+ years. Your profile says you are 27…so that makes you a young lady in my mind :)
As for who they are around and taking care or not taking care… as long as she is who she really is and not pretending to be someone else… I think that is great. Of course it is better for everyone to take care of themselves when ever possible.
As for who they are around and taking care or not taking care… as long as she is who she really is and not pretending to be someone else… I think that is great. Of course it is better for everyone to take care of themselves when ever possible.
RE: Chic and Mature
she must have changed it bella as she 30 now? I think 30 plus is good, 40's and 50's too if they still have good looks.
RE: Chic and Mature
could have sworn it was 27 when i posted :P
you are only as young as your heart is... does not matter if you are 20,30,40,50,60..... just need to feed and nurture that inner child always. :))
you are only as young as your heart is... does not matter if you are 20,30,40,50,60..... just need to feed and nurture that inner child always. :))
RE: Chic and Mature
you are very welcome ally... and actually... i wanted to thank you also :)
RE: Merry XMas
Yes keep belitting other peoples nations in your own little world. Russian? You're just an imposter...
RE: Merry XMas
Merry Christmas to you and all the ladies here who celebrate today! I hope that Santa will be very kind to you all! :))
RE: Merry XMas
yes merry christmas Gorty. we should come there then we can celebrate it twice:))
regular girl
Honey, the only thing that keeps me coming back to you is your price. If you raise it too much I\'ll just find another girl.
Another way to keep me is if once in a while as you keep sending me messages in Yahoo is if you offer a small, special discount to me or a short Free Video.
Another way to keep me is if once in a while as you keep sending me messages in Yahoo is if you offer a small, special discount to me or a short Free Video.
RE: regular girl
Well... If you promise to be in my 1-2-1 video for 2-3 hours everyday, then you'll have a 30 minutes video free at the end of each month and I promise I will not raise my price. Deal?
Appreciation!
I really want to express my appreciation to the chathosts
at CC.
You gals do a great job!
Especially when you have to put up
with guys like me! ;) :D
at CC.
You gals do a great job!
Especially when you have to put up
with guys like me! ;) :D
RE: as a rule...
Are you SURE it isn't:
As a rule, a girl is cruel,
When it's hot, she wants it cool;
When it's cool, she wants it hot,
Always wanting what is not. :D
As a rule, a girl is cruel,
When it's hot, she wants it cool;
When it's cool, she wants it hot,
Always wanting what is not. :D
RE: as a rule...
ok....then kisses to all who love me! :))
pity it isn't a Red nose Day now, i would help u to get your noses red by kissing them :D
pity it isn't a Red nose Day now, i would help u to get your noses red by kissing them :D
Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
I will be interested to see if this gets posted but I want to advise any newcomers to this site to get out of here before it's too late. That may sound dramatic but if I could go back to just over a year ago I would never have joined this site or any other webcam sites.
What started out as a bit of harmless fun has ended up costing me about £40k (not all on CC). I admit I am a mug and a fool for doing it and I have no one else to blame but myself - but I got hooked and couldn't see the long term damage I was doing. Only now, looking back and having blown nearly all the savings I had, can I see what an idiot I have been. I could have invested that money or had 10 once-in-a-lifetime holidays (ok its not once in a lifetime if you have 10 but you know what I mean)
I always thought I was the sort of person who would never get addicted to anything ... that I would recognise something if it was getting out of control, and be able to get out in time. But I was wrong!
The problem is I genuinely do really like a lot of the girls I have spent time with on here. Im under no illusions about meeting up or marriage or anything (although I have played out certain scenario's in my head many times haha). In fact I have a very happy life in the UK with some good friends and a great family. I am very lucky! But its because I like the girls that I go back. It seems harmless, you may only speak to a particular girl once every 2 weeks. But if you spend an hour with her because you haven't seen her for a while and want to catch up ... and then do that with several other girls too for the same reasons, the bills start to pile up.
Obviously there is the lust side to it. But 99% of men love being in the company of beautiful girls and love to see them in sexy outfits (or preferably no outfits ..). And there are some damn sexy girls on this site who are also intelligent and appear to be really nice and are good to have a laugh with. I wont deny I have enjoyed being here ... but I also enjoy going out for a drink with my mates and meeting girls in my own country in real life and I tell you that is a hell of a lot cheaper. Part of the reason of earning money os to treat yourself ... you pay for pleasure, be it a nice meal in a fancy restaurant, a flash car or even sex. So Im not preaching to anyone how to spend your money.
All I am saying is that this sort of thing is lethal. I am shocked that I got sucked in ... and even more shocked that I only realised when it was already too late. Im 32 and could maybe have retired when I was 50 ... bit maybe now I can't. So when I am 60 and having to get up for bloody work, can no longer get an erection and am not in the slightest bit tempted to pay heavy prices to talk to girls young enough to be my granddaughters I will look back on 2006 as the year to blame that I am not in a position where only gardening and bingo are of interest to me.
I would also say to the girls who read this to try as hard as possible to find another way to spend your lives. I am aware that the economic situations in your countries are the main reason you do this work. But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it. Obviously its better (and safer) than working the streets but come on ... undressing in front of a webcam is not what you dreamed about when you were a little girl is it?
We all make mistakes .. but the secret in life is to learn from them as quickly as possible and not to repeat them. I am fully aware of my own shortcomings. If I won the lottery tomorrow I am sure a lot of it would be spent on here. Its all too easy. You come home from the pub a bit drunk one night .. stick the computer on, check who is online on CC. Or maybe its too cold to go out, or its raining (this is england) but you fancy doing something horny .. so again CC is the easy option. It doesn't beat the real thing but girls on here are a lot more beautiful than most you meet in real life. And in real life they don't strip within 10 minutes. Thats the temptations but for me now the temptations no longer exist. Not because I suddenly have willpower ... it's because I dont have any bloody money left hahahaha! (thats the laugh of a madmen btw)
Anyway dont say you weren't warned.
Happy new year to everyone here - staff, members and the lovely girls.
What started out as a bit of harmless fun has ended up costing me about £40k (not all on CC). I admit I am a mug and a fool for doing it and I have no one else to blame but myself - but I got hooked and couldn't see the long term damage I was doing. Only now, looking back and having blown nearly all the savings I had, can I see what an idiot I have been. I could have invested that money or had 10 once-in-a-lifetime holidays (ok its not once in a lifetime if you have 10 but you know what I mean)
I always thought I was the sort of person who would never get addicted to anything ... that I would recognise something if it was getting out of control, and be able to get out in time. But I was wrong!
The problem is I genuinely do really like a lot of the girls I have spent time with on here. Im under no illusions about meeting up or marriage or anything (although I have played out certain scenario's in my head many times haha). In fact I have a very happy life in the UK with some good friends and a great family. I am very lucky! But its because I like the girls that I go back. It seems harmless, you may only speak to a particular girl once every 2 weeks. But if you spend an hour with her because you haven't seen her for a while and want to catch up ... and then do that with several other girls too for the same reasons, the bills start to pile up.
Obviously there is the lust side to it. But 99% of men love being in the company of beautiful girls and love to see them in sexy outfits (or preferably no outfits ..). And there are some damn sexy girls on this site who are also intelligent and appear to be really nice and are good to have a laugh with. I wont deny I have enjoyed being here ... but I also enjoy going out for a drink with my mates and meeting girls in my own country in real life and I tell you that is a hell of a lot cheaper. Part of the reason of earning money os to treat yourself ... you pay for pleasure, be it a nice meal in a fancy restaurant, a flash car or even sex. So Im not preaching to anyone how to spend your money.
All I am saying is that this sort of thing is lethal. I am shocked that I got sucked in ... and even more shocked that I only realised when it was already too late. Im 32 and could maybe have retired when I was 50 ... bit maybe now I can't. So when I am 60 and having to get up for bloody work, can no longer get an erection and am not in the slightest bit tempted to pay heavy prices to talk to girls young enough to be my granddaughters I will look back on 2006 as the year to blame that I am not in a position where only gardening and bingo are of interest to me.
I would also say to the girls who read this to try as hard as possible to find another way to spend your lives. I am aware that the economic situations in your countries are the main reason you do this work. But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it. Obviously its better (and safer) than working the streets but come on ... undressing in front of a webcam is not what you dreamed about when you were a little girl is it?
We all make mistakes .. but the secret in life is to learn from them as quickly as possible and not to repeat them. I am fully aware of my own shortcomings. If I won the lottery tomorrow I am sure a lot of it would be spent on here. Its all too easy. You come home from the pub a bit drunk one night .. stick the computer on, check who is online on CC. Or maybe its too cold to go out, or its raining (this is england) but you fancy doing something horny .. so again CC is the easy option. It doesn't beat the real thing but girls on here are a lot more beautiful than most you meet in real life. And in real life they don't strip within 10 minutes. Thats the temptations but for me now the temptations no longer exist. Not because I suddenly have willpower ... it's because I dont have any bloody money left hahahaha! (thats the laugh of a madmen btw)
Anyway dont say you weren't warned.
Happy new year to everyone here - staff, members and the lovely girls.
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i have to agree with you CJ, i was hook also, thanks a lot for waking me up from this, I to have spent around $10,000 on here within a year, I could had pick me one out and went to her country and spent it in real life, not necessary with the ones on here, but could have found someone
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lol oh cheers mate ... but the ones with spare money might be dafter than you think once they start.
I aint no sad case whose life revolves coming on here so if it can happen to me it can happen to others
Anyway whats done is done .. I aint looking for sympathy. But maybe if I had seen a post like that when I joined here I might have been a bit more careful.
If it helps someone it was worth doing. And if it doesnt help anyone then it was still worth it cos it helped me feel better.
Of course if i get run over by a truck next week it dont matter that I blew my savings ... but Im not planning too
I aint no sad case whose life revolves coming on here so if it can happen to me it can happen to others
Anyway whats done is done .. I aint looking for sympathy. But maybe if I had seen a post like that when I joined here I might have been a bit more careful.
If it helps someone it was worth doing. And if it doesnt help anyone then it was still worth it cos it helped me feel better.
Of course if i get run over by a truck next week it dont matter that I blew my savings ... but Im not planning too
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its ok for u kaz u get money but members spend here so butt out kaz !!
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Praise to CC for letting the post see the light of day.
Such a site feeds a compulsion that quite a few guys have. I'm sure management does't want this place to be the downfall of anyone - letting such a message show up here is a damn decent thing to do, in my opinion.
Good luck, CJ... Good luck all.
Such a site feeds a compulsion that quite a few guys have. I'm sure management does't want this place to be the downfall of anyone - letting such a message show up here is a damn decent thing to do, in my opinion.
Good luck, CJ... Good luck all.
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Yes I agree it was very decent of them to allow this. They have also contacted me and offered to block my account so I can't continue. Again a very decent and honest gesture that most other sites would never do.
That's why CC is the best
I'm glad I don't have an account here anymore, but when I read about how they treat you and even offer to block your account... I almost miss it. :)
It's such a friendly place.
It's such a friendly place.
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Go cold turkey.. and save you money.. you'll think yourself later LOL
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I wont lie I enjoyed it all at the time ... but its dead money!
If you buy something with that money you have something to show for it and maybe something to sell. All I got for to show for the money I spent on here is a few stains on my carpet lol
If you buy something with that money you have something to show for it and maybe something to sell. All I got for to show for the money I spent on here is a few stains on my carpet lol
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thanks CJ--good advice, where was you a year ago,, oh yeah in here, I want to thank you anyway for now, waking me up from this, I too have spent around $20,000 over the last 2 years, just think, I could had went to college and got me a better job.
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Actually thats a mistake its $40k .... in real money about £25k lol :-)
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If you go to the most expensive restaurant and order the most expensive meals.Next day you will want to eat again.Nothing left.No spots on your carpet.All you got are pleasant memories.
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I agree with you Oxygen. Its all enjoyed money. As I said before: What good will money do in your pocket if you are all alone and sad? It better do something for you. Money is for bringing you pleasure. No remorse, go out and work if you need it back, LOL.
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about your post because it's very hard to ascertain whether or not you are being on the level? Perhaps you're just throwing this out here to get reactions from others? That's one of the problems in the forum when someone posts something that is absolutely genuine. How are we to really know, or, does it really matter or not, what is the truth and what isn't?
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CC is one of many activities involving exchange of money for temporary satisfaction. Drinking, gambling, whoring, reading, sports (either watching or participating), entertainment, lavish dinners are only a few of those activities. Life's small pleasures.
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If you do not intend to purchase any of the premium services, then you do not need to concern yourself with this agreement (there is plenty of free stuff on the site that does not attract a charge
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Sorry to hear of your prdicament.... another alternartive if you are hooked on the girls here is to check out their new pics.... granted it is not the same as a live session ... However it can be almost as good and a whole lot cheaper....
Not trying to be mean to hosts.. Just stating the truth of responsible spending....
Also CC does have one advantage to many other sites... alot more price selection... and also no monthly fees are charged to be a member..
A few other sites charge members $8 to $20 a month even if you do not go into vid.. FACT .. Patience is very important....
Always wank responsibly !!! :)))
Not trying to be mean to hosts.. Just stating the truth of responsible spending....
Also CC does have one advantage to many other sites... alot more price selection... and also no monthly fees are charged to be a member..
A few other sites charge members $8 to $20 a month even if you do not go into vid.. FACT .. Patience is very important....
Always wank responsibly !!! :)))
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Hes tellng the truth i agree 100 % and most guys know hes telling the truth and the same thing has happened to many of us and yes it's our own fault. You probaly even put a block on and asked them to remove it. This is most of all all stories, or it will be your story soon hes not the only mug many of us are but trurly each has to learn for them self. lucky for u CJ u only found cc and not a lot of other sites to help destroy u ,as i have so cheers one mug to the other. All the smart ass comments can be kept because if you stay here long enough u be in the mug club. No such thing as a little bit . It may be a little now but soon it will be more and more.
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and in my opinion you sound like a bitch, it's good advice to newcomers to warn of what can easily develop into a addiction. Try using some self restraint... and keep your clothes on
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Kaz I had you in my favs for a future visit after seeing your video playback recently. I have been keeping an eye out for when you are online. After reading your posts in this thread, I am happy to remove you from my favs. I know this wont bug you at all.
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Damn, Steve...look around a little. You mean seeing some of Kaz's comments are what prompted you to remove her from your favourites? Tell me...what the hell ever convinced you to add her to your favs in the first place?
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Kaz, u dont know what addiction is. It is an illness, not lack of self-restraint!
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Then to be safe, buy a good porn filter for your computer. Set it up right and take your password and give it to a member of your family and tell them it is a number to a secret Swiss Bank Account.
Who will know, and you will be safe.
Who will know, and you will be safe.
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damn--i dont make that much total income working in 2 years, where do you find those good jobs, I need one, so I can private more here
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Very good advice!
I think this is an important discussion.
As has already been said, CC is like other things that
bring us pleasure or a thrill. These include drinking, gambling, sex, activities with a potential for danger and even shopping!
The problem is when these things become an addiction or uncontrolable compulsion. Often the reason is because it numbs
the pain and emptiness people have in their lifes.
Having confidence and self esteem is the only thing that will fulfill us.
We can have that, even if we have nothing and our lifes are a mess.
Its about doing the best with what you have and feeling good about it.
You will find you will have a positive effect on others with your good work and smile! That is true happiness!
In our bars or pubs we have warnings about drinking responsibly and gambling places or lotteries have numbers for help with addictions.
Yes each person is responsible for their own actions and choices.
However I think none of us wants to see someone getting hurt.
Thats why I think warnings like this are all that can be done to make people think.
My Mothers Father did not even drink but became an alcoholic through the pressures of life. He ended his life stepping in front of
a train.
I agree this post is worded too harshly and do not agree with some of the views.
This has nothing to do with chathosts, just like you can't blame employee's at a bar, casino or even a store for a customers addiction.
I think if a warning can prevent tragedy from happening, even if it is extreme, it is worth it.
I think this is an important discussion.
As has already been said, CC is like other things that
bring us pleasure or a thrill. These include drinking, gambling, sex, activities with a potential for danger and even shopping!
The problem is when these things become an addiction or uncontrolable compulsion. Often the reason is because it numbs
the pain and emptiness people have in their lifes.
Having confidence and self esteem is the only thing that will fulfill us.
We can have that, even if we have nothing and our lifes are a mess.
Its about doing the best with what you have and feeling good about it.
You will find you will have a positive effect on others with your good work and smile! That is true happiness!
In our bars or pubs we have warnings about drinking responsibly and gambling places or lotteries have numbers for help with addictions.
Yes each person is responsible for their own actions and choices.
However I think none of us wants to see someone getting hurt.
Thats why I think warnings like this are all that can be done to make people think.
My Mothers Father did not even drink but became an alcoholic through the pressures of life. He ended his life stepping in front of
a train.
I agree this post is worded too harshly and do not agree with some of the views.
This has nothing to do with chathosts, just like you can't blame employee's at a bar, casino or even a store for a customers addiction.
I think if a warning can prevent tragedy from happening, even if it is extreme, it is worth it.
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I'm thinking about a store or bar with a sign saying
"Get out of here now"
As with CC, that is ridiculous!
Sorry about my rambling.
Just had some thoughts ;)
"Get out of here now"
As with CC, that is ridiculous!
Sorry about my rambling.
Just had some thoughts ;)
dear "CJ"
It's a good idea to keep track of the amount spent at the end of each video and keep a running tally next to your computer.
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You just summarized why CC is so great LOL.
No not the addiction and excess part but meeting beautiful women who reveal their charms in minutes in the convenience of your home or mobile.
To me its an entertainment expense I have to budget like anything else in life or as with you it will budget itself..............if this post if true.
As for warning people to in effect leave now.......better warn a teen about thinking of sex and not doing anything about it. Its the new net age and its only going to get better and more realistic...........
Don't retire early with nothing to do.............work till you drop with a smile on your face at least part of the time................
No not the addiction and excess part but meeting beautiful women who reveal their charms in minutes in the convenience of your home or mobile.
To me its an entertainment expense I have to budget like anything else in life or as with you it will budget itself..............if this post if true.
As for warning people to in effect leave now.......better warn a teen about thinking of sex and not doing anything about it. Its the new net age and its only going to get better and more realistic...........
Don't retire early with nothing to do.............work till you drop with a smile on your face at least part of the time................
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I blew a small fortune here during the first few months of joining. To their credit, CC wrote to me saying how concerned they were at my level of spending in such a comapratively short times of joining. I have gradually disciplined myself to keep within sensible limits but still capable of going way over budget at times.
One thing you are wrong about, being old is no defence! ;-)
One thing you are wrong about, being old is no defence! ;-)
CJ
LMAO!!!!!!!!!! That was the funniest post i have read in a long,long time.Don't get me wrong i believe every word that you wrote & understand what you mean.Its just your dry laconic matter of fact way of talking about it. Man you could make all that spent money & more back as the British Jerry Seinfeld!! If you're looking for a manager mail me( i only want 15%)LOL!!
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I agree with u CJ.. I think u said it well... I`ve been here 2 years and i started out with 1 credit card, i now have 4 and 3 of them are at the limit... The total i have spent over the 2 years that i have been here!! well i`m to afraid to actually add it all up, but its a lot and at the minute i still have about £5,000 to pay off... I have gotten CC to block all my cards at sometime during my stay here and have then went to them and asked them to unblock them again...
It`s easy for a lot of ppl here to say budget ur spending, but its the part when u like the girl and u have had fun with her and u have made a connection with her, thats the part thats not so easy to disconnect from..
I have said to myself many times not to get to know the girls to well and then it will be easier to leave etc etc, but its hard to do.. I`ll say to myself "I`ll only go say hi and catch up for a few minutes and then leave" YEAH RIGHT those few minutes turn into 90-120 minutes or even more, the thing is that when u are having fun with a girl, either just chatting or having some sexy fun the time goes by so fast u don`t realise it, and when u do realise it it`s then to late and u get one hell of a shock after u leave the girls video and ur total time and money spent comes up on the screen in front of u..
I`ve had gr8 fun here as well, i`ve enjoyed every minute with all the girls i have visited and chatted to, but i no longer do videos now.. I have wised up, to late granted, but its a start at least... It`s time for me to pay off my debts and delete my membership and start out differently, and also start buying things for myself to show for my money.. Ohhhh and if anyone ever noticed, that is my reason i have not been around so much in com chat or anything else.. But i`m sure no1 noticed anyway, so doesn`t matter :P
It`s like everything here people are only remembered when they are here, when they leave its on2 something or someone knew..
But anyway have fun everyone and try ur hardest to keep ur spending under control.. CC is addictive just like most other things in life... U need a fix to help u out... Just watch what u spend, but have fun also...
Ummmm kinda double edged sword i know... So i`ll say BYE.... :)
It`s easy for a lot of ppl here to say budget ur spending, but its the part when u like the girl and u have had fun with her and u have made a connection with her, thats the part thats not so easy to disconnect from..
I have said to myself many times not to get to know the girls to well and then it will be easier to leave etc etc, but its hard to do.. I`ll say to myself "I`ll only go say hi and catch up for a few minutes and then leave" YEAH RIGHT those few minutes turn into 90-120 minutes or even more, the thing is that when u are having fun with a girl, either just chatting or having some sexy fun the time goes by so fast u don`t realise it, and when u do realise it it`s then to late and u get one hell of a shock after u leave the girls video and ur total time and money spent comes up on the screen in front of u..
I`ve had gr8 fun here as well, i`ve enjoyed every minute with all the girls i have visited and chatted to, but i no longer do videos now.. I have wised up, to late granted, but its a start at least... It`s time for me to pay off my debts and delete my membership and start out differently, and also start buying things for myself to show for my money.. Ohhhh and if anyone ever noticed, that is my reason i have not been around so much in com chat or anything else.. But i`m sure no1 noticed anyway, so doesn`t matter :P
It`s like everything here people are only remembered when they are here, when they leave its on2 something or someone knew..
But anyway have fun everyone and try ur hardest to keep ur spending under control.. CC is addictive just like most other things in life... U need a fix to help u out... Just watch what u spend, but have fun also...
Ummmm kinda double edged sword i know... So i`ll say BYE.... :)
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It's a pity that u leave :( ...but i agree with u and am glad u have wised up :P
Thanks for the great fun we all had with your presence here. Hope u will continue having fun in your real life and I wish u all the best!.....espesially for your wallet :D
Peek in forum sometimes, i will miss your posts :(
kiss
Thanks for the great fun we all had with your presence here. Hope u will continue having fun in your real life and I wish u all the best!.....espesially for your wallet :D
Peek in forum sometimes, i will miss your posts :(
kiss
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Hey kosh, will always be good to see you in chat - you've more than paid your dues by the sound of it - yeah take a break from spending by all means, but you still entitled to the free stuff.
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Great post Koshed!
I can really identify with your second paragraph. That is exactly how it is for me too!
Good luck mate
I can really identify with your second paragraph. That is exactly how it is for me too!
Good luck mate
to CJ
CJ, i must admit that your message really moved me, this is so good for reminding me why i wanna give up cc.Its not the fact that cc is bad for my self esteem, and i am sure i talk in the name of most of the girls when i say this, bcs it makes me feel wanted and it makes me feel beautiful to know that men r paying by the minute just to look at me.It doesnt make me feel cheap coz i am not ashamed of my body, i like showing it if ppl want to admire it plus i am very sexual and an exhibitionist , the perfect combination to make me want to be on cc when playing with myself.But indeed, it does damage to my soul bcs i feel like i am luring guys into my vid and put them ''under my spell ''when i know that some of them cant really afford it.It just makes me feel so bad...:(
When i used to live in romania, me and all my cc coleagues used to think that ppl in the western countries and america must be so rich that spending $100-$200 with us on vid was nothing to them, but only after coming to england i realized that every penny has its purpose, every pound pays for smth....
CJ, i would really like to talk to u, so i'd apreciate if u'd pop into my chat when u see me online.I promiss not to let u enter vid :))
When i used to live in romania, me and all my cc coleagues used to think that ppl in the western countries and america must be so rich that spending $100-$200 with us on vid was nothing to them, but only after coming to england i realized that every penny has its purpose, every pound pays for smth....
CJ, i would really like to talk to u, so i'd apreciate if u'd pop into my chat when u see me online.I promiss not to let u enter vid :))
RE: to CJ
You should not feel bad! You are not responsible for decisions other people make.
Host is right!
Both men and women tend to spend money when they have it.
From drinking and gambling to shopping and restaurants.
If you spend all your money doing these things, would you go back
to these places and look for sympathy for the mess your in???
CC is no difference!
He needs to take responsiblity for his own choices and not blame
CC or anyone else.
It often takes lessons like this to teach us the value of money. ;)
And yes.....for crying out loud!!! This is an adult entertainment site, where consenting adults interact with each other!
Why is it so hard for this guy and others to get this???
Host is right!
Both men and women tend to spend money when they have it.
From drinking and gambling to shopping and restaurants.
If you spend all your money doing these things, would you go back
to these places and look for sympathy for the mess your in???
CC is no difference!
He needs to take responsiblity for his own choices and not blame
CC or anyone else.
It often takes lessons like this to teach us the value of money. ;)
And yes.....for crying out loud!!! This is an adult entertainment site, where consenting adults interact with each other!
Why is it so hard for this guy and others to get this???
RE: Reply to host
Wow ... nice reply and some good points. But you have got me so wrong!
Firstly can I ask where exactly I was asking others to feel sorry for me? Also where am I blaming others for my stupidity? I have only blamed myself. Read my post again and you will see.
Secondly in reply to the bit where you claim I would foolishly waste my money elsewhere if it wasn't on CC, surely if I was that type of person then I would never have had the savings to spend here in the first place would I? That was my point. I am NOT the addictive personality type or someone who spends money for the sake of it ... but it still happened to me anyway. In just over one year the savings I had built up have all but gone! I have admitted 100% responsibility for it ...there is nothing I can do about it now. But if my post prevents the same thing happening to someone else then it was worth doing it.
Lastly I do apologise for the comment about the streets but I didn't mean it how you interpreted it. I was merely stressing that in several countries the economic situation dictates that lots of young girls have to find some ways of making a living that they would not have chosen if they had a better choice. In extreme cases that means street prostitution. But I would never compare those girls to girls on CC, thats a totally different thing. However, you will still not convince me that sitting up nearly all night, having many members treat you like a piece of meat by demanding you strip and then having to pretend to be nice to them is an ideal way of earning a living. In fact I know it isn't because the girls I have chatted with here have told me how much they hate that part of it.
Oh and im not miserable at all btw ..... just somewhat annoyed with myself.
Firstly can I ask where exactly I was asking others to feel sorry for me? Also where am I blaming others for my stupidity? I have only blamed myself. Read my post again and you will see.
Secondly in reply to the bit where you claim I would foolishly waste my money elsewhere if it wasn't on CC, surely if I was that type of person then I would never have had the savings to spend here in the first place would I? That was my point. I am NOT the addictive personality type or someone who spends money for the sake of it ... but it still happened to me anyway. In just over one year the savings I had built up have all but gone! I have admitted 100% responsibility for it ...there is nothing I can do about it now. But if my post prevents the same thing happening to someone else then it was worth doing it.
Lastly I do apologise for the comment about the streets but I didn't mean it how you interpreted it. I was merely stressing that in several countries the economic situation dictates that lots of young girls have to find some ways of making a living that they would not have chosen if they had a better choice. In extreme cases that means street prostitution. But I would never compare those girls to girls on CC, thats a totally different thing. However, you will still not convince me that sitting up nearly all night, having many members treat you like a piece of meat by demanding you strip and then having to pretend to be nice to them is an ideal way of earning a living. In fact I know it isn't because the girls I have chatted with here have told me how much they hate that part of it.
Oh and im not miserable at all btw ..... just somewhat annoyed with myself.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
Your advice is good for those who have an addictive personality. For ever person who becomes addicted porn, gambling, or whatever there's always those who know their limits.
"But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it."
I disagree. I find that it's a great self esteem booster. I don't know why people think that chathosts must think low of themselves.
"But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it."
I disagree. I find that it's a great self esteem booster. I don't know why people think that chathosts must think low of themselves.
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Maybe some see self-respect as something that isn't genuinely gotten from how others perceive you - maybe.
If hosting boosts a woman's confidence, that's cool. Personally though, I wonder sometimes if maybe being judged ultimately pretty superficially ever takes any kind of emotional toll on the women here after a while - especially among those hosts who initally get that kind of surge of confidence when first starting out.
If hosting boosts a woman's confidence, that's cool. Personally though, I wonder sometimes if maybe being judged ultimately pretty superficially ever takes any kind of emotional toll on the women here after a while - especially among those hosts who initally get that kind of surge of confidence when first starting out.
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Posts such as CJs are a helpful reminder concerning the potential pitfalls of this website. Even at much lower spending amounts there are hosts laughing at the amount they can squeeze from viewers. When you begin to feel you are overextending yourself, tell the host. An ethical host will understand. Be aware of your budget prior to entering a vid session.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
As a cc addict I am well aware of the pitfalls of overextending your bank balance! My advice is development a relatinship with one host , stick with her. Also check when you go to video time yourself and keep regular updates of your spending.
To CJ
Dear CJ! Ur post is speaking from my heart. Sounds like my story. I cannot believe how many thousands Euros I have spent here in one year! I am over 40 and never had any signs of addictions before in my life! And i am still in it! I also enjoy my time with hosts tremendously! CJ, I would like to get in contact with u, to discuss the topic more. Or with any member, who has the same problem. So i would be thankfull if u would cc-mail me!
3 Viagras:-))
A man goes to his doctor and says. "Doc, I have a problem. My girlfriend is sleeping over this Friday, my ex-wife is sleeping over this Saturday and my wife is coming home Sunday. I need 3 Viagra pills to satisfy all 3 of them.
The doctor says "You know 3 Viagra pills 3 nights in a row is pretty dangerous for a man of your age. I will give them to you on the condition that you return to my office on Monday so that I can check you out."
The man says "You have a deal Doc."
Monday morning the man returns with his arm in a sling.
The doctor says "What happened"?
The man answered "Nobody Showed UP!"
The doctor says "You know 3 Viagra pills 3 nights in a row is pretty dangerous for a man of your age. I will give them to you on the condition that you return to my office on Monday so that I can check you out."
The man says "You have a deal Doc."
Monday morning the man returns with his arm in a sling.
The doctor says "What happened"?
The man answered "Nobody Showed UP!"