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Hosts: What do you think about harshly abusive hypnosis/slave/fin domination scenarios?
There is a large subgenre or trend around "hypnosis" videos like the ones that are so common on various other clip and cam/phone sites.
Do you think this style has evolved more because of demand from male 'customers', or is it because the Domme/host actually intends to manipulate the male into actually spending more and more time and money obsessing over the Domme? Is it intended to implement the scenario as described, transcending a fantasy and becoming reality, albeit exploitative? Or is it expected that it is a role-play, perhaps in which the roles are not explicitly acknowledged, so as to intensifty the sense of risk as the scene more closely resembles the reality it ... that's what the guy meant when e said hall of mirrors, isn't it? ;)
Do you think this style has evolved more because of demand from male 'customers', or is it because the Domme/host actually intends to manipulate the male into actually spending more and more time and money obsessing over the Domme? Is it intended to implement the scenario as described, transcending a fantasy and becoming reality, albeit exploitative? Or is it expected that it is a role-play, perhaps in which the roles are not explicitly acknowledged, so as to intensifty the sense of risk as the scene more closely resembles the reality it ... that's what the guy meant when e said hall of mirrors, isn't it? ;)
RE: Hosts: What do you think about harshly abusive hypnosis/slave/fin domination scenarios?
In reference to CC being a hall of mirrors, I wasn't speaking to this scenario, specifically. People tend to see what they want to see. Then sometimes they insist that you inhabit their own little world that they call reality and explain it to you in absorbing detail.
Which is still far outside my own little world.
Anyway. CC is one of the best amusement parks I know. Thank you for your post.
Which is still far outside my own little world.
Anyway. CC is one of the best amusement parks I know. Thank you for your post.
I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
As I read some of the things members post here, I find it interesting that some of them seem to give the impression that the host is doing them a favor, and that they owe the host for doing so. The fact is, the member is paying for the service here. If anyone is doing anyone a favor, it is the member not the host.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting anyone should go into a paying session being rude and demanding, as if their paying for the host's time means the host is the object of their whims and desires. On the contrary, I believe in respecting hosts (and vice versa). And I believe there should be mutual give and take, a desire to bring pleasure to both.
But still, I don't understand this idea that the host is doing them a favor. (It's not explicitly stated, just implied in things they post.) What we have is, at the very root, a business transaction in which both parties are being benefited.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting anyone should go into a paying session being rude and demanding, as if their paying for the host's time means the host is the object of their whims and desires. On the contrary, I believe in respecting hosts (and vice versa). And I believe there should be mutual give and take, a desire to bring pleasure to both.
But still, I don't understand this idea that the host is doing them a favor. (It's not explicitly stated, just implied in things they post.) What we have is, at the very root, a business transaction in which both parties are being benefited.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
How do you know that the notion of the host doing the member a benefit isn't at the heart of the "transaction," to use your word? "I am pleased to please you, if you please" :)))
I wouldn't be quick to characterize what happens here so simply. It is a hall of mirrors here sometimes.
I wouldn't be quick to characterize what happens here so simply. It is a hall of mirrors here sometimes.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
If you see this as a transaction, you'll never allow any cam girl to offer you something to be grateful for. The entire show will be mechanic and the conversations will just fill your time and drain your wallet. We're happy with just that as well, but don't expect us to offer anything more than required. There are guys around here that bring more than money to the table. And THAT is what we're grateful for. Cheers ! ! !
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
first u are wrong u are not paying for service. u are paying for Host's TIME! mutual respect is requied but see this difference please. paying for service u mean SHE MUST do something u desire. how u desire and she has no right to introduce ur fantasy rules because U PAY.
but paying for our TIME (wich is correct) means u pay to spend ur time here, respecting host's rules and wishes and trying to get what u want or.. doing what she wants =) cheers
but paying for our TIME (wich is correct) means u pay to spend ur time here, respecting host's rules and wishes and trying to get what u want or.. doing what she wants =) cheers
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
Yeah, when I visit the doctor I always remember that I'm paying for their TIME, not their medical expertise....
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
there re difference between paying for time and service.
manicure = 20$ => u re paying for service,
doctor = 100$ u re paying for service,
host = 1-10$/min! u pay to spend time with HER not for her service! u may spend this time as u want but even if u wanna say hi, and it takes 2min U PAY! so its different.
manicure = 20$ => u re paying for service,
doctor = 100$ u re paying for service,
host = 1-10$/min! u pay to spend time with HER not for her service! u may spend this time as u want but even if u wanna say hi, and it takes 2min U PAY! so its different.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
You appear to be confusing two things:-
1) The charging model
2) The buyer's expectation of a service being provided for the charge.
1) The charging model
2) The buyer's expectation of a service being provided for the charge.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
The two things are conflated, not distinct. The categories are set up to create expectations, but the hosts are not compelled to follow them. IA is a possible exception, since nudity seems pretty much required (or your money back lol). But you are literally paying for their time in the other categories.
The best hosts I've met and talked to are able to connect with a member to create a satisfying experience, whatever that means for the member. A "primadonna" won't get very far without some savvy, misandry or not. Of course, YMMV, That's the whole point.
The best hosts I've met and talked to are able to connect with a member to create a satisfying experience, whatever that means for the member. A "primadonna" won't get very far without some savvy, misandry or not. Of course, YMMV, That's the whole point.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
You're absolutely right. There are a few unusual men who actually come here to waste their money with women that treat them like dirt. Seems crazy to me - why don't they just marry an awful woman for the same experience 24/7? :-)
But yes, the host is here to give a service. Of course that needs some meaningful interaction - no one wants a fembot - but ultimately the majority of viewers are certainly not paying for "time", they are paying for a sexual encounter over in which, first and foremost, their desires are fulfilled. Whether that involves the explicit pleasure of the host is secondary to that.
But yes, the host is here to give a service. Of course that needs some meaningful interaction - no one wants a fembot - but ultimately the majority of viewers are certainly not paying for "time", they are paying for a sexual encounter over in which, first and foremost, their desires are fulfilled. Whether that involves the explicit pleasure of the host is secondary to that.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
Ultimately for every one of the entitled primadonna hosts, there are five nice girls in their early twenties who are eager to please.
There seems to be a market for entitled primadonna hosts. They think they're somehow "empowered" by exercising more discretion over who they show their boobs to than the younger, less experienced hosts. Their very being screams misandry.
My advice is to leave these hosts to the masochists and seek out the others. The ones who will be here for a year or two and then move on.
There seems to be a market for entitled primadonna hosts. They think they're somehow "empowered" by exercising more discretion over who they show their boobs to than the younger, less experienced hosts. Their very being screams misandry.
My advice is to leave these hosts to the masochists and seek out the others. The ones who will be here for a year or two and then move on.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
well trouble is the newbies don't have the "skills" that the oldies acquired along the years :)
you might not always have the oldies bend to your needs though cause they have their followers to rely on so they've got that going for them...but their knowledge of "how its done " might have some value to some..and since theres no way in hell that an actual girl would do any of the "stuff" for them ... theyre grateful even if its done for monetary gain. its not as sad as it sounds ! lol
you might not always have the oldies bend to your needs though cause they have their followers to rely on so they've got that going for them...but their knowledge of "how its done " might have some value to some..and since theres no way in hell that an actual girl would do any of the "stuff" for them ... theyre grateful even if its done for monetary gain. its not as sad as it sounds ! lol
it's fun to watch his magic tricks videos:)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8A2X12KODU
CC Marriage Game!
So this is simple, the CC Marriage Game will start with 1 guy and any guy can sign up. Then there will be 16 ladies and this will be in bracket format. One versus One format where all other ladies not in the bracket for that particular guy can vote for any lady to advance out of each group. Starting round is 16 followed by round of 8, 4 and 2 until there is obviously a single winner. At that point the guy and the winner get married.
RE: CC Marriage Game!
1. Seems to be a lot more ladies than guys (at least in comm chat)
2. I and another were bored last night so bounced ideas and came up with this
3. Do I really need a reason? lol
2. I and another were bored last night so bounced ideas and came up with this
3. Do I really need a reason? lol
RE: CC Marriage Game!
so jackpot is to marry a strange male playing this kind of games jerking off under his desk?
he may be old or fat, poor and play here loaning money, he may be without cam and obviously cheat telling how awesome he is, he may fart in the restaurant.. his penis may be super tiny and teeth smell yesterday beer&chips.. and he will be a prize for Woman-Winner?!!!!
he may be old or fat, poor and play here loaning money, he may be without cam and obviously cheat telling how awesome he is, he may fart in the restaurant.. his penis may be super tiny and teeth smell yesterday beer&chips.. and he will be a prize for Woman-Winner?!!!!
RE: CC Marriage Game!
im pretty sure in real people keep a lot of secrets too, but at last u can smell, see, verify if its real hair or fake; ask for a bank statement or medical certificate and so on BEFORE u marry a guy.
RE: CC Marriage Game!
Jeez. Ask for a bank statement before marriage? Not too materialistic then!!!! What happened to romance? lol
RE: CC Marriage Game!
It goes both ways Brit - you should see their private forum - Gold digger alarms puts in a different light - but after all it's a business and we are their cash cows just as we lust over the ladies ;)
RE: CC Marriage Game!
ha! marriage is too serious to take someone for happy living together and ignore if he can buy u a dinner or if honey moon paid with bank credit.. or if he spends his pay on cc? =)
RE: CC Marriage Game!
for me looks and bank account isnt huge issue, although is still important as well, but still second...
but presenting urself to 16 person anonimously online really sounds like a huge "present"
so, id rather pass for sure, but wish luck to those who risk lol
but presenting urself to 16 person anonimously online really sounds like a huge "present"
so, id rather pass for sure, but wish luck to those who risk lol
RE: CC Marriage Game!
We can fart in the restaurant?!? Damn! And all this time I've been bearing the pain.
RE: CC Marriage Game!
You just took this way too seriously and also far too stuck up for this. Quite frankly it goes both ways, what if a guy gets someone that turns out to be the crazy cat lady. Maybe she wants to shove her feet in his face and they smell horrible. Get over yourself, I was fucking bored and already wrote that previously.
RE: CC Marriage Game!
Don't sweat it, sensual.... some people just can't appreciate humor and light-hearted non-serious posts. maybe she didn't see the fun in your post.
But then again, when I read Sakura's post i thought that was a funny response to what you posted. I guess it's all how you read it.
But then again, when I read Sakura's post i thought that was a funny response to what you posted. I guess it's all how you read it.
RE: CC Marriage Game!
the problem is this topic about game MUST be fun (16 Ladies for one guy hey its so MISOGYNIST), but when we look from another side and find ur game very limited, u find it 'too serious way'. well we are all kidding here no?
RE: CC Marriage Game!
whoever has a day job gets enough of a mental abuse as it is... why totally ruin your fun time with marriage and arguments over making it a pizza night or a hot wings night :))
a great pick up song for the day
think of your fellow man (and added woman) and lend them a helping hand, put a little love in your heart, and the world would be a better place
song by Jackie DeShannon, a cheerful music video by Annie Lennox and Al Green....... it doesn't get any better than that, well maybe one exception......think about it
song by Jackie DeShannon, a cheerful music video by Annie Lennox and Al Green....... it doesn't get any better than that, well maybe one exception......think about it
RE: a great quote to start a day
Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.
RE: a great quote to start a day
good sex is like a good movie only happens on a screen :))
RE: a great quote to start a day
Sigh, i have to agree. Have our imaginary or virtual lives whether it be via books, films or on line fantasy made "real" life pale by comparison? It is very difficult for any relationship or sexual experience to measure up to our idealized fantasies.
IT
So the movie IT was fantastic, if you hate clowns or seen the original and find that scary this will scare you as well. Personally I thought it was better in some ways. Also at the end it says 'Chapter One' Guess I cannot really give anything away but I do not want to say too much and ruin the movie.
RE: IT
That is good, I really liked what they did with Pennywise. More scary and evil looking I think versus the original.
RE: IT
I too like the scary stuff, the "Conjuring" movies creep me out. I too want to see the new "it"
RE: IT
Yes I also seen Annabelle in the theatre, they show Valak the demon nun twice in that movie, one is in the photo and once at the end credits of the movie. I look forward to seeing the Nun spinoff movie from this Conjuring world and the Crooked man.
RE: IT
I did not get a Goonies feel from it but I do like your thoughts about the movie. Actually a friend wants me to go see it with her tomorrow because she hates clowns. So looks like I will watch IT once again. lol Like yourself I did find a couple parts humorous and also interested to see the next chapter. All was well done and I enjoy this one more than the original.
RE: IT
I would say, not Stephen King is overrated, this movie is overrated. I have an impression that nowadays scriptwriters do not bother to read at all, they just pass eyes over the book and hey presto, the scenario is ready. King has always paid great attention to the growing emotional tension and the social aspects, as if to show that "man is the cruel animal". Remember "the Mist", for example. Without control, many people are not able to keep their rotten nature and begin to do a lot worse things than monsters in the fog. In “It” book all horror was that the dirt and injustice have become an integral part of the lives of the characters, and Pennywise only revealed the unconscious fears. In this film the horror is mainly that the children wander somewhere, straggle by ones, and crazy fool in the clown suit is starting to frighten them all in turn. The fears of children, which reveals Pennywise, not terrible, because the emphasis is not on it. The emphasis was made mostly horror lurked in the clown jumping out from around the corner. So the result is it is boring and not scaring if only you have clownphobia
RE: IT
I agree about style. Sometimes I think movie makers are more about the special effects and less about developing the story line. The Sherlock Holmes movie a few years ago was that way. The story became ridiculous with improbable and for the time impossible special effects
RE: IT
In the 1980's, for film and tv producers , THE #1 FX was the car in the air routine. A car would collide with another car, a boulder, a wall, or whatever, and it would fly up into the air soaring until it crashed. Made for exciting watching but was totally unrealistic. The objects cars hit would have caused a hideous, crumpled mess instead of an airborne vehicle. At least, thank God, we've moved beyond that stupid nonsense.
RE: IT
That was an excellent review. I know exactly what you mean, regardless of your "bad english" (to which I would say: not).
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.
RE: sneakers
So what you are saying is that all members are men? News to me. I've come across several members who, purportedly, were women viewers. I've talked with hosts, who have stated that they had women viewers.
RE: sneakers
Why do some people feel the need to correct other people's spelling and grammar? English is not the first language of most of the folks here, nor do those for whom English is the first language use it correctly. Thanks, Nick, for reminding us that some people are so anal retentive that they feel the compulsive desire to correct everyone's mistakes. Oh wait, let me spell that mis-steaks so you can correct my spelling, too!
RE: sneakers
I could say the same thing. But when does "humor" become a veiled attempt to cut someone down?
RE: sneakers
You didn't? Previous post: "Sneackers and tights show" by "sneackerstights"
this thread, original post "Sneakers" with comment "you're welcome."
Seems rather obvious that that was his intent."Grammar Police" is what we called them on a former site (though I suppose, technically, spelling is not grammar).
this thread, original post "Sneakers" with comment "you're welcome."
Seems rather obvious that that was his intent."Grammar Police" is what we called them on a former site (though I suppose, technically, spelling is not grammar).
RE: IndoorFireworks
I think I need to update my references anyway...I don't think Antonio Banderas is the "it" guy of 2017 anyway!
RE: IndoorFireworks
I'm more of a Chris Pine guy myself. Actually I'm more of a Chris Isaak guy, if we're being technical.
RE: IndoorFireworks
I was trying to tickle you with details. My "bedside manner" is clearly fading!
RE: IndoorFireworks
More flirting, Indy? #FrlirtingIndoorThinkingHeIsBanderos#
keep it up :D
keep it up :D
RE: IndoorFireworks
yes, that is where I got my name from, although I prefer the Nick Lowe recording of the song.
RE: IndoorFireworks
Try to image Indy with a quitar and sombrero and singing:
Ay ay ay ay,
ay ay mi amor,
ay mi morena
de mi corazon..."
You would be looking much better than Antonio for sure lol
Ay ay ay ay,
ay ay mi amor,
ay mi morena
de mi corazon..."
You would be looking much better than Antonio for sure lol
RE: IndoorFireworks
Don't feel bad Indoor, Kathy doesn't even want her spanking. What kind of bad girl doesn't want her spanking? bwahahaha
RE: IndoorFireworks
That's a topic for another thread. I just want to know what she has against Antonio Banderas!
Country with the most beautiful women?
Seems to be Venezuela: they won 7 times Miss Universe, 6 times Miss World and 6 times Miss International!! Sorry girls of other countries ;-))) Greetz
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
The europeans said that romanian girls are the most beautifull girls :)
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
yes very beautiful women; u should of say u r talking about real life and no cam-world; its easy to look good on cam- lol
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
Not a fan of pageants, so doesn't matter to me who from what country has won most often. I'll take Filipina beauty any day over Venezuela.
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
you're right girl:)
beauty comes from inside always...
beauty comes from inside always...
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
Such a difficult question. Beauty may be different than "hot" and the criteria also seem to vary from country to country. I think fundamentally it probably has to do with an instinctual evaluation of fitness for having offspring. Typically we evaluate aspects such as symmetry, size and shape of curves (bust to hip ratio), skin tone and many other features. Yet beauty is not always advantageous, for beautiful people, particularly attractive women, tend to be perceived as more materialistic, snobbish, and vain. BTW, Hi Erosfilios, I hope you are well.
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
haha Pete, I think what is "instinctual" is actually a result of us being told what beauty is supposed to look like and internalizing those criteria to form a standard of beauty. A beauty from the Italian artist Titian's time would be told to hit the gym today.
If physical beauty is a "burden" sometimes, certainly one can make up for it in character, intelligence, sensitivity, etc. It takes some self-awareness and willingness to go outside of oneself. I don't think any one nation has an advantage when it comes to developing beauty in that sense.
Always enjoy reading your posts, Pete... you beautiful person you :))))
If physical beauty is a "burden" sometimes, certainly one can make up for it in character, intelligence, sensitivity, etc. It takes some self-awareness and willingness to go outside of oneself. I don't think any one nation has an advantage when it comes to developing beauty in that sense.
Always enjoy reading your posts, Pete... you beautiful person you :))))
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
I'd say beauty is a matter of opinion, and has more or as much to do with one's personality as one's appearance. And sexiness is more about one presents oneself than about physical beauty. I've known some very beautiful people who were not sexy at all (at least to me).
And some extremely sexy women who were not necessarily the most beautiful. And then there are some, who are definitely both ;)
And some extremely sexy women who were not necessarily the most beautiful. And then there are some, who are definitely both ;)
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
Beauty is beauty... the russian/ukrainians babes rock the world. you can spot them right away in any club in this world really. theyre magnificent unicorns!
inner beauty my booty :))
inner beauty my booty :))
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
Hey Folks: it was mere statical mathematics!!! Indeed, never generalize. Hence, Venezuela can't be beaten ...mathematically, and some know who is my real beauty, hehe (and she is NOT Venezuelan!). BTW, I'm quite fine, Pete, thank you. ;-)
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
I will not say about the country but I will say that earthlings are for sure the most beautiful women in the universe:D
Goodness and happiness for all!
Muaah***
AngelinNoire
Goodness and happiness for all!
Muaah***
AngelinNoire
RE: Country with the most beautiful women?
What is the difference between Miss International / World / Universe? I guess I am missing something are we competing against other planets and galaxies now? :O
RE: How do you like this quote?
good quote, yes like it, here is another one from the movie "There's Something About Mary" You choke the chicken before any big date. Don't you?
RE: Slaves, subs
Hey ... chill !Even in real life people dont stay together till the " end of times"( some of them die eventually, lol) , and u want this online? And if they consume u so much , im sorry to say but they hold the real power, not u. Enjoy while it lasts . Cheers
RE: Slaves, subs
dont get your panties in a wad:)
most guys are just testing waters... the % of slaves is rrreally low.
most guys are just testing waters... the % of slaves is rrreally low.
RE: Slaves, subs
I'm not into slave/sub, dom, MDSM or whatever, and I get fucking tired of checking out a host that interests me and finding out she only wants to do dom crap. Too damn many on this site in my opinion. There, I said it. Please forgive me, mistress.
RE: Slaves, subs
I agree with you on this Kathy, I do not care when it comes to fantasy talk so much. If someone is paying me or giving me gifts I will talk about a bunch of stuff that I am not into. Although there are a few subjects where I will draw the line but sites want you to stay away from certain ones anyways.
RE: Slaves, subs
It is because there are people in fetish that are not truly dominate even if that is the appearance they try to give.
RE: Marathon? Thermopylae? WTF?
Are you looking for a discussion of circa 500BC Greek history?
looking for a living mannequin
One of my fetishes is asfr, which is ladies who can pose like mannequins, dolls, robots or statues. in this case, I have played with many ladies who have done this well, but always looking for new ones. if there is a couple who can create their female model that can pose and appear like a mannequin from a store window, I would be interested in camming with them. Just let me know. thanks
Dress up
I am looking for someone to play dress up for me. I will try and find you online if you have what I am looking for. I love dresses, the fancier the better. My favorite style is "skater-dress" style (which is fancy, short, but not tight around the ass)...I also love a long fancy gown or a sweater-dress with boots. If you have gloves to match some of the dresses, even better. I also love heels, boots and sandals to match the dresses. My favorite thing to do is to see what you have and choose what you wear for me. Please let me know if you have any interest.
Thanks
Thanks
RE: Dress up
i love to play dress up with hot singles and couples that enjoy pantyhose and lingerie mmm.
RE: How isyour mood?
everyone seems normal until you get to know them, now there is a normal mood to be in
CFNM & verbal humiliation
I wonder if any of the hosts here actually enjoy or even prefer to do these types of privates.
RE: CFNM & verbal humiliation
well women didnt even have the right to have a credit card .. till mid 70s .... in the US that is... so yeah dominating the shit out of a male can be very rewarding and fulfiling :)) still dont appreciate that the pink razor are more expensive then the grey ones though
RE: CFNM & verbal humiliation
Why would you even care about the credit card thing? You weren't around then. Now that pink razor thing.... must be that the pink color costs more to make hahaha.
RE: CFNM & verbal humiliation
An example of CFNM that people seem to forget about is simply male strippers, no humiliation there. Although I think you wanted to talk about the two together.
RE: CFNM & verbal humiliation
Thanks to all who answered. :-) Yes, I like being on the receiving end. :) :)