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Catch 22
I met this chathost who is married already. I like her. She says that the only way she can continue to meet me in future is if she swings with her husband and has sex with other guys/couples.
Then her husband will give me future meets with her alone. I know nothing about the swinging scen, whats involved, reasons to do it, sex or if its search for missing feelings...
Advice please on what to do?
thanks
Then her husband will give me future meets with her alone. I know nothing about the swinging scen, whats involved, reasons to do it, sex or if its search for missing feelings...
Advice please on what to do?
thanks
RE: Catch 22
Did you ever hear the expression there are other fish in the sea? Seems like a lot of risk and hassle for what will ultimately wind up frustrating you more if you find you really have feelings for this girl.
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great job LuvRuShka! By the way I don't mind :D
So, fo Rusha it vil be just vundeful, anivai ve haf lernt tu rite Rushn vordz viz Latin letez if to put zem into Inglish spelin. Not big diferenz zen...loooooooooool
Great job LuvRuShka! By the way I don't mind :D
So, fo Rusha it vil be just vundeful, anivai ve haf lernt tu rite Rushn vordz viz Latin letez if to put zem into Inglish spelin. Not big diferenz zen...loooooooooool
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
rushka heard that b4 but still damn funny...and laughing girl....great reply LMAO :p
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
probably but im a dumb fucker and need clues...like...YOUR NAME!!!!
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
hmmm a friend of mine gave me an idea of u might b...i'll have to find out i guess...
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
well i sent a ccmail to who my friend thought it was..take it that it wasnt u *CENSORED*
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
i do i do..but...c'mon gimme a break and a better clue
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
wow thx..ok////do i know u..i mean have we talked and if yes do we talk regulary?
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
faves only got a couple there and they romanians....as for my yahoo...hmmm...i have u in my yahoo???
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
well thats the problem i dont know who u r..and i sent it to someone i never seen b4 and when she reads it DOH' she gonna think im a freak (yeah i know i already am) and btw...its "wayne" nice try tho :p
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
well damn woman if i know u just tell me who u r
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
why u gotta tease me? and the fact u know my name is a bit unfair...at least give me ur first name or initials
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
loads of questions just none that u will answer :((
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
nah got bored now...u probably a 65 yr old bird with saggy tits and no teeth
RE: Another portion of rubbish. And yes, I was bored.
oh my god shyster if this wasn't so funny it would be sad.all the answers you need are in the nick :--)
:( i hate that i love someone
what to do to forget someone ?? :( i m lost , i m married , i shouldnt have fall for someone :( so wrong :( i met him on cc :( 4 months ago , he wants to marry me :( he doesnt know my situation :( XXXXXXXXXXXXX
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
do u love ur husband? r u sure u love this guy? if u did "love" him as u say why dont u tell him that ur married and see if he stays or runs
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
Don't worry, if it's just an online crush, I'm sure you'll forget this guy and stop caring for him much, much faster than you lost your love for your real-live husband :)
Hang in there and you'll fall in love again with someone even better any minute now, I'm sure of that too :)
Hang in there and you'll fall in love again with someone even better any minute now, I'm sure of that too :)
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
If you love him that much it will take a lot to forget. Just as you think you are over him, there will be some little reminder. A song, a mutual friend, and it all comes flooding back. There is no easy answer, except maybe to totally distance yourself from him but that probably means leaving behind everything and immersing yourself totally in you home life. But even this cannot be guarenteed. Good luck and best wishes.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
Too many will try to justify making a decision. You made the decision on the day you were married. Unless the husband is grossly abusive you are honor-bound to block this other guy from your Yahoo and from your cc Chats.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
Sounds to me like you love your husband and feel guilty about your secret rendezvous with this other guy... even if it is strictly online... and know it is wrong. Let me ask you this... do you really love this other guy? I mean the relationship between a husband and wife can become routine after being married for a while... maybe seem boring. Then this other guy comes along and it seems exciting because it is fresh and new. Maybe it is just the excitement of something new that you are in love with... the feeling of being thought of as sexy and desired and wanted again... cuz maybe you feel your husband doesn't look at you or think of you that way anymore like he did when you first met. Maybe you don't love this other guy... you just love reliving all those old feelings again. Maybe your marriage has gotten boring... but ask yourself this... if you went out your way to spend as much time with your husband, and flirted with him, etc., etc. the way that you have been with this other guy... wouldn't your marriage be more exciting? wouldn't things be better with you and your husband if you devoted that kind of energy and emotion towards your husband that you have been taking away from him to give to this stranger? i think you know you have to get rid of this other guy... a clean break...no "we can be friends" talk... end it for good with no further contact between the 2 of you... and focus your energy on spicing things up with your husband. i think you will be surprised at how great and exciting your marriage will be when you devote yourself to it and your husband and put the energy into it that it deserves.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
you are right..
but it could work out better and well life is short so we must try to make ourselves happy and follow our instincts. I would say, see how it goes. This could last five minutes or a life time.
Better to try than to regret for a lifetime what could have been
but it could work out better and well life is short so we must try to make ourselves happy and follow our instincts. I would say, see how it goes. This could last five minutes or a life time.
Better to try than to regret for a lifetime what could have been
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
Oh yes, please!! Destroy a marriage on a whim with a stranger from only four months in text.
Does the husband beat you? Is he a confirmed drug addict/alcoholic? Does he rent you to his drinking buddies to make extra money? What exactlymakes him a beast? If he's not a beast and you simply think he's boring then go to the mirror and check yourself. Maybe YOU are the boring one in the relationship.
Are you sure the member is single? Are you sure he wants more than a vacation sex affair? I know one formerly famous host here who believed such words and the guy was lying through his teeth.
Even as he said he applied for her visa and continued visiting her country for "benefits." Finally his wife called the host and asked who the hell she was. The host ultimately turned from a popular carefree girl into a bitter witch.
Don't sacrifice a real relationship based on a short text friendship. Frankly, I'm "in love" with about six chathosts (I never say "I love you"), but until we are together in real life nothing is real.
I am single. I am willing to build a real relationship if we want. I have no ex-wife. I have no kids or dependent parents. I am footloose and fancy-free, though older and not so rich.
Does the husband beat you? Is he a confirmed drug addict/alcoholic? Does he rent you to his drinking buddies to make extra money? What exactlymakes him a beast? If he's not a beast and you simply think he's boring then go to the mirror and check yourself. Maybe YOU are the boring one in the relationship.
Are you sure the member is single? Are you sure he wants more than a vacation sex affair? I know one formerly famous host here who believed such words and the guy was lying through his teeth.
Even as he said he applied for her visa and continued visiting her country for "benefits." Finally his wife called the host and asked who the hell she was. The host ultimately turned from a popular carefree girl into a bitter witch.
Don't sacrifice a real relationship based on a short text friendship. Frankly, I'm "in love" with about six chathosts (I never say "I love you"), but until we are together in real life nothing is real.
I am single. I am willing to build a real relationship if we want. I have no ex-wife. I have no kids or dependent parents. I am footloose and fancy-free, though older and not so rich.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
get off your high horse dude and stop speculating.
Life is about being h@ppy, try it sometime
Life is about being h@ppy, try it sometime
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
maybe speculating and riding high horses makes him happy.... who are you to try to ruin his fun?
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
life is not as black & white as you paint it.even the fact that she is thinking of this points to the fact that the marriage is in trouble.this other guy may not be her love but it does show that her marriage is on shaky ground.if you build a house with foundations that are not solid,not amount of repair will make it liveable.it is the same with marriage.love is not a solid enough foundation to build your future on.there must also be trust,respect & honesty.they are the solid foundations of any long-term relationship.the husband doesn't need to have done any of the things you mentioned to end the marriage.the bottom line is if she can't see a happy,better future for her & her child,thinking of moving on is a sensible decision though the bottom line is unless we walk a mile in her shoes,we can't tell her what is best for her.only she can decide this.she must look into her heart & soul to know what is best & right for her & her child.no matter what her decision is in the end,she can be sure those who truly love & care for her,although not necessarily agreeing with her choice,will support her through good & bad.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
what gets me is people who define themselves by being in a relationship, like they're afraid of being independent and on their own or they need someone else to give their life meaning or something. makes them seem weak and codependent and icky.
RE: :( i hate that i love someone
each to there own i would say... i think the counselor made the link to the thread below assuming this thread started is the same girl
to "josephine"
Some of us like and want companionship and some don't have the abiltiy or desire to share our lives. Good luck in your loneliness. And if you say you are not lonely then you already have 'relationships' (whether you call them that or not) or you have a closed heart.
RE: to
liking & wanting companionship/relationships,doesn't mean we have the right to demand or cling,either.it is earnt :--)
RE: to
It is a sad person who automatically equates companionship and relationships with "clinging."
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
unfortunately at his advanced age, hot chicks, free vids and wet t=shirts might adversely affect his health but then again he;s unlikely to care about that part..........lol
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
health??? who cares....bring on the free vids with dancing hot chicks in wet t-shirts!!! and NO, im not sharing, B2!! lol
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
thanks Barb...and tell lil brock i will see him soon!! lol Kisses to u sweetie and look forward to seeing u too ;-)
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Thank u Wild and as for hot, cute chicks...where r U right now??? :-P
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Dear Host in Adult Section,
Thank u for ur kind words. And if u really LIKE older guys, then u will certainly LOVE me!! LOOL Email me and we can talk lol
Thank u for ur kind words. And if u really LIKE older guys, then u will certainly LOVE me!! LOOL Email me and we can talk lol
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Thank u Bridget...kisses to u,too!!! And i will share my cake with u. :-P
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Happy Birthday Brock! Always great to wish someone older than me Happy Birthday! Lol! Have a good one!
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
thanks howie...its always nice to be older than others...but now it seems im older than almost ALL!!! LOL
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
LoveRuShka, it was kinda loud but then u DO have to yell at us old guys so we can hear u! :-P Thanks for the greeting!!
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Very Happy Birthday brocky and many more to come but PLEASE stop calling yourself old! You's in your prime - I am the one who is old, remember? :-(
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Nina, now i AM blushing!!! Thank u for ur sweet words. U r truly a lovely and wonderful person!! Now, if i could only agree with ur kind words!! LOL KIsses and warm hugs to u, sweetie!
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Thank u Cara!!! And i do hope that when u mentioned "free vids" that they would be WITH the "hot chicks"!!! :-O BTW, what r u doing later today??? :-P
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Happy Bday Brockyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy(K)(K)(K)(K) Wish u all the best and dont forget to pass me a piece of ur bday cake))))
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
Thanks Moni!!!! kisses to u sweetie...and here is a piece of my cake....i didnt even drop this piece on the floor!! LOL
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
glad to see you around answering all these post,, so here is another one for you-happy birthday who ever you are
RE: Happy Birthday Brock!
how do i feel at 160??? about 1 year older than 159. :-P thank u, annabunny :D
Mobile Phones ........
I am fairly new to this site but already have had two one2one videos interrupted by mobile phone calls to the host! The mobile phone may be a great invention and i could not run my business without it BUT when you are half way through a one2one video and the host takes a phone call it really changes the 'mood'! Then the host wonders why you are annoyed and want to leave! If I ran my business with that level of customer service I would not have a business anymore! Sorry to rant and rave!!!! Lol!
RE: Mobile Phones ........
Best solution is to call her on her mobile during the video...nothing beats a video with phone. Very personal and intimate or just out and out funny. In either case she can't receive calls if you are talking to her. Very inexpensive using international calling cards.
RE: Mobile Phones ........
Another 10 years or so and all of humanity will come down with one big collective brain tumor..... And all the polar bears will rejoice.
RE: Mobile Phones ........one way to earn a one-star rating...
Younger people are so committed to staying connected. Go somewhere and observe them checking their phones every few minutes, even if it doesn't ring. One guy even told me the girl checked the phone when it rang during sex with him.
Tell her straight out when she reaches for the phone that itnis not acceptable if you are paying for video. If she doesn't immediately hang it up (or offer you a make-up session at a reduced rate) then express your displeasure in text, log off, give her a one-star rating and complain to CC.
Tell her straight out when she reaches for the phone that itnis not acceptable if you are paying for video. If she doesn't immediately hang it up (or offer you a make-up session at a reduced rate) then express your displeasure in text, log off, give her a one-star rating and complain to CC.
RE: Mobile Phones ........
Ahhh, but what you must remember is, these calls are VERY IMPORTANT. It is studio boss or Mom and must be answered, no matter what else is happening. No way should you get the wrong idea that it is a boyfriend or another customer wanting phone or to arrange an appointment. That would NEVER happen here.
RE: Mobile Phones ........
It could just be her friend arranging a meeting later or mom telling her to bring bread home. I don't care if it's 100% innocent, she's on my time so she earns one star.
RE: Mobile Phones ........
I agree with you BlueMoon. If a phone is answered I leave as soon as possible on a 121. Phone messages can be left so that the host can call back the caller later. I do not visit that host after that.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
be happy to use mine. whoever hmmmmmmmm is in viewer's forum
WHAT? worst dressed? forgetting that that is silly, that woman could make a burlap bag look like an armani., and do you really go to her vid to check out what she;s wearing? the woman is gorgeous, smart and may very well have the most wicked sense of humor on this site .
WHAT? worst dressed? forgetting that that is silly, that woman could make a burlap bag look like an armani., and do you really go to her vid to check out what she;s wearing? the woman is gorgeous, smart and may very well have the most wicked sense of humor on this site .
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Its especially rude to compare 2 girst who are friends.Chicka is the last person i know to call not stylish. She dresses good ALWAYS and has her own style which is so much more important than to just dress good and fashionable.Love u bebe(K)(K)(K):)
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
I suspect it was not really meant. Just some jealous host or member trying to stir things up. Outrageous statements like that are best just ignored. Anyone with half a brain and one eye can tell Chickory is lovely and inherently stylish. But then so is XextasyX, Emanuelle20, sirenne and pretty much most of the hosts I know. Certainly, I would not be ashamed in taking any of them the Ambassador's party, to wine and dine with the best of them. Of course I would have to gatecrash myself, you just can't take me anywhere ;)
But I digress, there really are some very childish people on CC. Ignore them, they soon get bored and drift away.
But I digress, there really are some very childish people on CC. Ignore them, they soon get bored and drift away.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Uggg, dunno what is wrong with me this morning.. minds a sieve..
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RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Such a big drama because one guy said he dont like her style......get a damn life ppl!!!!! Grow up!
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
and old one's iife is telling everyone else to get one? changte your depends and take and get some sleep
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
If he said only that he didnt liek her style there wudnt be any drama here;) But he insulted her and was rude. And she has many friends on this site, so defending-isnt it what friends usually do? Anyway how wud u know it, u probably have none, if u say this;)
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
A PW host?, i suppose that could happen but if you could read, doesn't seem to fit now does it. you on the other hand have only one AH which you seem to be talking through alot this morning. perhaps you should take a rest and give it a wipe...lol
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Monika dear, why are u jumping on me and get in a hurry to judge me so easy? I have nothing agains ppl deffending their friends, i also defend my own friends...i only said you all did a big drama for nothing, noone been rude or insulted her. If you or her are so sensitive, i suggest you to change ur work place, this is a place for big girls:) Stop being so ful of yourself, you only shows lack of respect and intelligence. And about my friends, dont worry, i have alots, most of them ladies who knows how to be nice and polite, perhaps thats why you will never be one of them, your not a lady. Enough said, bye!
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
that's a rather odd notion you have of polite oldone to both your posts
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
you make two rude posts the second of which appears that your notion of a nice polite girl in the year 2008 sits there and takes whatever some rude old coot has to say to her and smile demurely. Welcome to the modern world, perhaps you should the senior friend finder. i'm sure the women there will fit your profile of nice and polite
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Oh really? Dont worry abt my work place, im ok with it. And i dont jump on u, i cudnt care less if u have friends or not, i have my friends, and i cant keep quiet when someone insults them, and oh, maybe english isnt my native language but i believe, that scarecrow is an insult. Lil gal wud shit up and cry, and big girl can talk. At least i sign with my own screenname, im not afraid to say my opinion of loud, no matter if someone likes it or not. Ur hiding behind some anonimous name, and i bet ur so talkative and brave only in front of ur computer. And now go and tell ur ladies friends how rude and arrogant and nasty that Monikababe is haha))
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
I don't know Chickory but I think you answered your own question when you said "she has her own style" unusual. Anyone with a strong individual style is likely to find people either love it or hate it.
As an artist I am surprised you are not aware of this. Almost all the truly great artists who broke new ground in art were srongly criticised during their lifetimes and sometimes for many years thereafter.
As an artist I am surprised you are not aware of this. Almost all the truly great artists who broke new ground in art were srongly criticised during their lifetimes and sometimes for many years thereafter.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
now if only you knew her s/n for it to be self promotion
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Chick could wear a trash bag and look great. She is elegant and stylish in everything she does. Does she vamp it up? No. But she could if she wanted to and play it to a t. I think Chick is a love her or hate her girl. She is independent, bright, funny and she has a quick wit. She is also a kid. She is not driven by money, lust or even boredom. She controls her own destiny and doesn't care what people think and that drives many of the control freak guys here crazy. Rock on Chickster.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Yeah and she one of the kindest hosts in CC. She allows me 2 minutes vid every year on my birthday. She's a saint!
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
th cardiac arrest unit on hand for those two minutes nick?
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
aswell as chickster being the most beautifull girl on cc, i also love the way she dresses. i think she is styleish, fashionable and unique. she always looks amazing.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
The pictures that I have seen of Chickory have always shown her to be well dressed. So in my opinion she is not the worst dressed.
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
there is simply no way she could ever be the worst dressed period. whether u like her style or not she clearly looks good in anything. rock on chicka..kiss
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It seems to me it's not polite to critisize anybody.....She has her own style and she is very unusual girl.....She attracts everybody....But some ppl admire her and some just envy her......Each girl on CC differs from another....So....
RE: about best dressed girls---annoyed
Is and im sure always will be one of the most stylish and attractive , original ladies here. was a cheap shot .
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
As others have said you need to work out how you can leave him. I do not mean walk out tomorrow with nowhere to go but start making plans on how to do it. Can you say what country you are in? In most European countries there is a presumption that a young child should stay with its mother unless this is very clearly not best for the child. Also is there any organisation there that could help or offer some protection if as you fear your husband tries to take your child?
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
for next to nothing u can hire someone to have a good long talk with him.
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
better without an abusive father than with one...no question about it.
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
A child doesn't needs a father when the person in question is just his biological producer. You think its good for kid to see every day dad hates mom and mom hates dad? Leave him. If he and kid have good relation, try not to cut it. But separate your life from him. He<->you is another story than He<->kid<->you.
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
i have never replied to any links on here but u sound desperate, and your mail touched me, i agree with gortensia, its better to leave a loveless marriage (i say loveless coz it sounds like that to me, but obviously im not in ur shoes so i dont know the full facts) and the financial security that comes with it, than to live of unhappiness, ur young and have all ur life ahead of you. my mum was a single parent, she walked out on my dad and i had a gr8 childhood, yes it was tough but she gave me all the love i ever needed, i didnt miss a father figure nor did i feel different coz i only had one parent, in my late teens my mum met and married another man, he was kind to her and she loves him, my mums happiness made me happy, and my brother and i grew up well-rounded inviduals. my advice would be to get out, you sound like a decent women, and he dosnt deserve you......take the giant step for you and your child, think about the long-term future, ....good luck to u...let me know sometime how it works out....frag
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
you are welcome sweetheart, i expect through all this shit ,you've forgotten how to laugh, everyday seems like heartache dosnt it, what u need is a knight in shining armour and a white horse,... well my armour is a little tarnished and rusty, and my white horse is in the garage having a new engine fitted, lol...but now im curious.....if u ever fancy laughing with a crazy englishman, who will gaurentee to cheer u up, or if u want to chat further about ur leap to happiness just ccmail me i'd be happy to visit ur room....frag
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
It happend to me the same. I fall inlove with him and everything been ok since i got pregnant. He didnt wanted the child, his mom was against me too. When my tummy went bigger they started to call me ugly and umiliate me. I had no friends because of him. Shity life, we did fight everyday, he started to hit me, call me names, he started to spend all the money for alchool. Before to born my child i made the decision to leave him. So i did. I rent a cheap place and belive or not, i started to sell papers on street. I found a girl who were looking for a place to live, i brought her home and we shared the rent, wich was good for me because i did save some money. It wasnt easy, but i had no regrets. Being a single mother is a sacrifice for sure, but i did it for me and my child. We are alone, but happy together. Everyday i see my child`s smile is a blessing. Just go away from him and take the chance to be happy, you and your child desrve that. And remember, you are not alone. There are so many single mothers in the world, and if you are romanian, count on me, i will leave you in the chathosts forum my mail address, so if you need any help, feel free and contact me anytime. Hugs!
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
Some time ago there was another topic about the same. I've already posted my opinion, but for you I would repeat the same and a little more.
As the one "been there, done that" and the one "who knows" I can assure you it is possible to grow a child being single...even in Russia (I just suppose you are from there). I am not saying it's easy...I remember those days when we have nothing to eat but it was because I really had no one to support me the first 11-12 years. I had to have 2 or 3 jobs at the same time but I was trying to work from home and look after my child.
Of course I am not going to describe here all the problems I have met on my way. I just want to say...I survived and got over all that. My daughter now is grown and all those difficulties are in the past. Well, I was lucky only with having my own apartment, and FOR SURE with not having such a "husband" like you have. Know and be sure he IS NOT a GENUINE MAN, dear! Such his behavior is just a reason to leave him without looking back. Trust me, it will be only worse for you and your daughter. Those so-called "fathers" are the worst thing than even to be single. There is nothing to hope you could change...And the faster you leave him and his mom...the better for you, so the faster you could find someone who would love you and care of you. At least you would get your friends back or find new ones.
Remember, you have the only one life and it is YOUR life. No need to spend it with a person who has no willing to make you happy. Do you understand that?
So, be strong girl...I wish all the best for you and your baby.
As the one "been there, done that" and the one "who knows" I can assure you it is possible to grow a child being single...even in Russia (I just suppose you are from there). I am not saying it's easy...I remember those days when we have nothing to eat but it was because I really had no one to support me the first 11-12 years. I had to have 2 or 3 jobs at the same time but I was trying to work from home and look after my child.
Of course I am not going to describe here all the problems I have met on my way. I just want to say...I survived and got over all that. My daughter now is grown and all those difficulties are in the past. Well, I was lucky only with having my own apartment, and FOR SURE with not having such a "husband" like you have. Know and be sure he IS NOT a GENUINE MAN, dear! Such his behavior is just a reason to leave him without looking back. Trust me, it will be only worse for you and your daughter. Those so-called "fathers" are the worst thing than even to be single. There is nothing to hope you could change...And the faster you leave him and his mom...the better for you, so the faster you could find someone who would love you and care of you. At least you would get your friends back or find new ones.
Remember, you have the only one life and it is YOUR life. No need to spend it with a person who has no willing to make you happy. Do you understand that?
So, be strong girl...I wish all the best for you and your baby.
RE: when ur young and inlove.....
Going to bed and spreading your legs is a VERY important decision in life. Save it until you are committed to each other or use strong protection.
RE: To guys
thx Love, for bringing this up. As a Viewer, I wonder the same thing... I look for them when I check out a host's profile, but rarely see anything posted there. What gives?
RE: To guys
i [almost] always post on host personal forum. Problem is they keep deleting my posts (lol)
RE: To guys
i usually send personal messages. but i have posted on their pages before, too. i agree...it must be nice for the girl to see all the love, if her forum is filled with posts from guys who think she's great. come on guys! let's show some love!
i think the site needs an update. (macs still don't work with the cam2cam feature! puh-leez!).
i think the site needs an update. (macs still don't work with the cam2cam feature! puh-leez!).
RE: To guys (Macs and cam2cam)
Cam2cam works just fine on my 3 y.o. Mac, for the first time ever. Thanks CC!
RE: To guys (Macs and cam2cam)
that's GREAT! what kind of mac do you have? are you running leopard?
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RE: To guys
do you think that maybe we do both.tell her in chat and again in her forum.i know i do.
RE: To guys
one thing that cc mail can't accomplish is that when a guy is looking for a good chat, he might want to know what other guys think of the girl. A pretty picture and a 5 star rating aren't everything. and if a girl's forum is filled with loving posts from a bunch of guys, then it's definitely a good idea to chat with her. At the same time, sometimes guys offer warnings: "chatted with her for 20 minutes...just a tease, never took anything off." or "very cranky, paid attention to multiple visitors to her room at one time...". That's information I'd like to know. CC mail doesn't help with that. The forum does.
RE: To guys
The negative posts often get deleted. They only remain long enough for the host to see them, then, poof! they're gone... My experience, anyhow.
RE: To guys
no need to get snippy, alittlesad.
all i'm saying is that the forum helps the buyer beware before *clicking* to start the money clock *ticking*. ccmail doesn't.
in other words, without the forum, CC offers no way at all for us to know if a hostess has the tendency to be a total bee-yatch before you enter a chat.
all i'm saying is that the forum helps the buyer beware before *clicking* to start the money clock *ticking*. ccmail doesn't.
in other words, without the forum, CC offers no way at all for us to know if a hostess has the tendency to be a total bee-yatch before you enter a chat.
RE: To guys
but they were really talking about the hosts personal forums where the host can delete any negative posts.
RE: To guys
I usually do post there if the host does acknowledge the posts. A lot of hosts do not acknowledge therefore I do not post. I usually will send them cc mail instead. Wanda22 is real good at acknowledging posts.
RE: To guys
well love what u read on the hosts forums is her his choice to keep so vasted time to post there
RE: To guys
A lot of guys post to host personal forum, but some hosts have no idea they have a forum, and without translator, is vey hard to reply.
RE: To guys
Few people read them as they tend to be loving odes to the host from very loyal members. As the host can delete bad posts you never would see a complaint. Consequently it is not worth reading. I already know the men who posted there think you are wonderful. I need to find that out for myself.
RE: To guys
The feedback of the forum is of course great for the host and potential new viewers. But to get the functionalty to get new visitors there should be a "shortcut or button" next to the host in the overviw page when listing a categorie. Like Video, Profile and Text. Skip the Text in the listing section and replace with Forum. That way I'm sure it will fuction as desired. Well my 2 cents
RE: Meaning of dream
Avr0ra, you're so cute!
do you mean a dream of how we want our lives to be, or the kinds of dreams we have when we're sleeping? I have not attained my dreams for my life. but i'm am closer to them every day.
do you mean a dream of how we want our lives to be, or the kinds of dreams we have when we're sleeping? I have not attained my dreams for my life. but i'm am closer to them every day.
RE: Meaning of dream
Yes I have dreams. I dream how to live in couple of years... a great interesting and well payed job, the best wife of the world, a great familly i will love to take care.....
RE: Meaning of dream
I dream every night. Generally I am traveling. I love to travel and visit different countries and cultures. Surprisingly my dreams are not overly sexual. I am usually with a pretty girl but we generally are just being tourists and having a good time.
RE: if...
She told me she is surprised that I forgive her, but for me my love is too strong and I feel she is honest in her apologies.
RE: if...
"the things that people in love do to each other they remember,if they stay together it's not because they forget,it's because they forgive." p.s.have no idea who should get credit for this but it was told to me by someone who i had great respect & admiration for :--)
RE: if...
many different types of forgiveness...some involve the other person...some do not...u must decide the type of relationship u want with the offender.
RE: if...
Yes, but it is easier for some than others. Also, to forgive is not always to forget. Once the magic is gone..........................
Old....
Here is my way of making some of you feel old, plus myself, but how many people here remember the space shuttle challenger? 22 years today that it happend, odd part is I turned 22 today...
RE: Old....
Yes, I remember it well. Jean Michel Jarre composed a special piece of music that was going to be played in space by one of the crew. It is a very poignant piece of music and I remember the disaster every time I listen to that music.
RE: Old....
I remember so many things from my life. Both good and bad. I remember the first time The Beatles performed on the Ed Sullivan Show. I remember when Neil Armstrong made man's first step on the moon. I remember whe John F. Kennedy was assassinated. Also his brother Bobby and Martin Luther King Jr.. I remember when my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimers and when she passed away in 1995. I remember when my father passed away in 2005.
Probably the day I remember most was September 11, 2001. It was a beautiful late summer day and then tragedy happened for America.
All of our lives are like this. we should all learn something from our past.
Probably the day I remember most was September 11, 2001. It was a beautiful late summer day and then tragedy happened for America.
All of our lives are like this. we should all learn something from our past.
RE: Old....
Some here remember it well...some remember the Kennedy assasination equally as well...we probably even have a few who remember when FDR died.
RE: Old....
Yes, I remember it very well. I was cross-country skiing in the mountains in Vermont, and we had an ice storm. The trees looked like they were made of glass, and after the storm the night was so clear and bright it felt like another world. The morning one of my group went in to camp, and came back out with the news... so sad. I felt so guilty for treating it like it was routine... space is a dangerous place.
RE: Ok. Next question!
But every time I try to go to your room you have it locked with a password. :-((
RE: Ok. Next question!
Yes i am..Married to myself)) Too much n love with myself=))=))
RE: What do I do?
Go with the one without children and an ex-wife to support or you'll wind up supporting the man as he supports them and everyone calls you the foreign whore. A single man is the best choice every time.
RE: What do I do?
but i know from experience you are correct.
families dont understand new love
families dont understand new love
RE: What do I do?
It's why guys who stand up for the girl and don't have to support ex-wives and kids are the best choice.
Many seem to forget the quote "leave father and mother and cleave to your wife." The wife and husband are supposed to be a comfort and joy to one another. It's harder to cleave if there is an ex-wife and kids.
Many seem to forget the quote "leave father and mother and cleave to your wife." The wife and husband are supposed to be a comfort and joy to one another. It's harder to cleave if there is an ex-wife and kids.
RE: What do I do?
Go with the one without kidsand an ex-wife. All his money and attention goes to them and her and you'll have to work seven days a week to support everyone.
RE: What do I do?
you can love one and love them fully or you can love two people and love 2 people fully too. Love is not shared 50% either. It does not work like that. Love is a seperate entity and you can love as much as the first with the second.
The hardest part is sharing quality time between them both!
The hardest part is sharing quality time between them both!
RE: What do I do?
To say you are in love with two people tells me you are in love with neither. Grow up a bit before you think you are in love.
RE: Mature women
belochka is obviously shocked that men can be attracted to women older than 22, i quess she is to young to realize than sexual attraction is more than having a perfect body.Dont worrie, belochka, u'll understand more once u get older, but i find your post very disrespectful to ''mature women''.U see, thats why some guys prefer older women, coz they wldnt say smth silly like that
RE: Mature women
Sure, normally many of them do like. Starting from 20yo men and ending 60-70yo...A mature woman can have not only perfect body, face and skin but also perfect personality which is coming from her experiences each year more and more. And also another very important thing is her perfect knowing a men's nature. She is understanding, patient and knows how to give and to take pleasure. Her partner feels himself more comfortable and isn't afraid of any "flash in the pan"...and of course it is not a full list of her advantages...
RE: Mature women
Without a doubt there are many old men on CC (I say 50+ but you choose). Whether or not how many of us qualify as mature is open to question. A little girl or boy coping with alcoholic parents, for instance, can be mature way beyond their chronological age; adulthood is thrust upon them. I have got to know very young women here, still in their teens who I think qualify as being mature. I have also known a woman old enough to be their grandmother (!) who was silly and fatuous.
Maturity for me is having the wisdom to 'think outside the box', not having a rigid mind-set, willing to learn from new experiences. If, however, you are talking about physical maturity, there is something for me incredibly arousing about a woman no longer so young but far more erotic to be with than most nubile youngsters. When I was 46 I fell in love with a 73 year old woman. She rejected me as being too young; I wasn't mature enough. Still not sure I am.
Maturity is a state of mind.
Maturity for me is having the wisdom to 'think outside the box', not having a rigid mind-set, willing to learn from new experiences. If, however, you are talking about physical maturity, there is something for me incredibly arousing about a woman no longer so young but far more erotic to be with than most nubile youngsters. When I was 46 I fell in love with a 73 year old woman. She rejected me as being too young; I wasn't mature enough. Still not sure I am.
Maturity is a state of mind.
RE: Mature women
mature enough to control herself, acting like a lady , able for a convo, able to keep my attention, looking sexy and lovely, something betwen 30-45 years old, after this age we can say: yes, a lil out of line
RE: Mature women
Out of line? Really? And what about Tina Turner, Jane Fonda and many many others in their 50-60yo who are still the subject of every man's admiration?
RE: Mature women
then i wonder why some guys are complaing here about mature hosts, sometimes insult them too
RE: Mature women
Wikipedia: Born November 26, 1939 (age 68)...
So, you are a little wrong...Also, not necessarily all of them are "plastic surgery ladies". I know dozens of great Russian actresses who are still a real beauty in their 50-60yo without any plastic surgery.
Of course no one forces you to sleep with old-aged ladies...but I would be glad to know if there any of mature and natural woman who wants to sleep with you...
I think both men and women can be happy each with other at any of their age if they have a deep feelings between them and enough long life together. But if we are talking about short terms, it is another case for sure and they will pay attention mostly to each other's ages and looks.
So, you are a little wrong...Also, not necessarily all of them are "plastic surgery ladies". I know dozens of great Russian actresses who are still a real beauty in their 50-60yo without any plastic surgery.
Of course no one forces you to sleep with old-aged ladies...but I would be glad to know if there any of mature and natural woman who wants to sleep with you...
I think both men and women can be happy each with other at any of their age if they have a deep feelings between them and enough long life together. But if we are talking about short terms, it is another case for sure and they will pay attention mostly to each other's ages and looks.
RE: Mature women
lol you got me:) im sure noone will sleep with me just like this...well i wasnt talking about having sex with them, i just defined the term "mature woman"
RE: Mature women
and what is mature for you .?
is it experience ?
is it their nature , and acting responsibly ..
or is it just a number ?
or an age ?
is a man mature at what age ? or ever ?
is a woman acting like a child at 60 mature ?
are women not at their sexual peek at about 35 ?
(or so i am informed)
some are mature at 21 , and some never , and i have seen many here ,,
and known some in real , and if you read some posts and see some in com chat ..
are any mature ?
is a man who can be disrepectful to any woman mature ?
or a man who thinks of a woman just by her age ?
is it experience ?
is it their nature , and acting responsibly ..
or is it just a number ?
or an age ?
is a man mature at what age ? or ever ?
is a woman acting like a child at 60 mature ?
are women not at their sexual peek at about 35 ?
(or so i am informed)
some are mature at 21 , and some never , and i have seen many here ,,
and known some in real , and if you read some posts and see some in com chat ..
are any mature ?
is a man who can be disrepectful to any woman mature ?
or a man who thinks of a woman just by her age ?
RE: Mature women
I don't personally. For me the appeal of CC is the youth of the majority of its hosts. You can see older women anywhere and they will be happy for the attention. Young women are less approachable and far more full of themselves. But whatever floats your boat......
RE: New generation
I think it is only so much hookum. It is what people would like to believe in so they can off load their own guilt about the lack of responsibility that is shown to their children.
There is no mystic evolution coming for the next generation, considering the world ceased to become a 'quiet' world 150 years ago, if kids glow today it is it because of the cacophonous smog of a billion million trillion radio waves passing through them every day of their waking lives.
No longer are people allowed to be born sensitive. They are too soaked and drowned out by a hundred million people talking away on mobile phones every second of every day, or being bombarded by billions of electrons as they leak out of their monitors their TV 's and their microwaves and anything else that SCREAMS out it presence to the once tranquil, silent, airwaves.
No, they are not more sensitive the are becoming increasingly desensitised.
There is no mystic evolution coming for the next generation, considering the world ceased to become a 'quiet' world 150 years ago, if kids glow today it is it because of the cacophonous smog of a billion million trillion radio waves passing through them every day of their waking lives.
No longer are people allowed to be born sensitive. They are too soaked and drowned out by a hundred million people talking away on mobile phones every second of every day, or being bombarded by billions of electrons as they leak out of their monitors their TV 's and their microwaves and anything else that SCREAMS out it presence to the once tranquil, silent, airwaves.
No, they are not more sensitive the are becoming increasingly desensitised.
RE: New generation
What is interesting is that many ancient cultures point towards 2012 as the year of major change for the world. The Mayan's called it the end of this world, Native Americans also had a similar prediction.
RE: New generation
why don't we all just stop working and party for the last 4 years remaining to us
RE: New generation
Thats ok Kivan02, I'm not trying to take her heart just enjoy her beauty and intelligence. ; )
RE: New generation
I agree! Personally, I blame Billy Haley, he started it, adding hormones to music - was all downhill ever since.
RE: New generation
Wikipedia is your friend to do general, non-professional research.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indigo_children
It's interesting that "indigo" was the ritual color of the "untouchable class" in India.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indigo_children
It's interesting that "indigo" was the ritual color of the "untouchable class" in India.
RE: New generation
the concept is touch bizarre, has to do with the color of their aura and these people believe that the children with indigo auras have paranormal abilities. if i recall at one time the said that something like 70% of the children at that time under 10 had these abilities. then to make it stranger there was talk of a master angelic energy named kryon.or something one can assume that at some point the will proclaim kryon the second coming. but it does appear to be the basis of some new religion based on mysticism
RE: New generation
Actually the Bible says NO ONE knows the time of the end of the earth and things on it, but only God knows...
Before there were so many predictions about the end of earth...but it still exists. So...no one knows really.
Before there were so many predictions about the end of earth...but it still exists. So...no one knows really.
RE: New generation
For some reason I'm not allowed to explain what the Indigo Children are. I found a rather detailed explanation online.
RE: New generation
Is "Indigo Children" the name given by L. Ron Hubbard to the prepubescent boys he usesd to keep on his magical yacht?
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
i aint proud of my cock..mainly coz i cant see it most of the time
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
yeah there r some times...but only when i find the damn magnify glass *BANGHEAD*
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
guess so tommy...this time next week i'll have double figures :p
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
I'm proud of my cock too, the little fella has hardly ever let me down, always performed his duty to the best of his abilities, a real trooper. Last year i gave him a much desrved vacation, trouble is he hasn't come back, i don't think i showed him enough love :( my hand misses him so much :(((((((
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
almost all men are proud excepting the ones who like small cock humiliation..lol
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
Okay maybe not pussy but replace pussy with boobs and you have the female equivalent.
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
my cock isn't lying when it keeps telling me i don;'t understand it?
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
i keep telling it it's not attractive to women and it refuses to believe me. now i can show it your post and prove to it that it isn't
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
Avr0ra's right. besides, other than our faces, our cocks are all we've got. women have beautiful breasts, curvy figures, pretty asses. we have *that thing* between our legs. my cock is pretty big, but i don't take it out until the girl i'm camming with asks to see it. if she likes it, then i will make sure it's always in view. sometimes girls like to see how hard they make me!
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
Aha...and the most stupid theory in my opinion. Both things were created to suit each other so perfectly which makes just useless all the human's theories...Why I have to envy men if I know they haven't such a thing that I have and which one they endlessly desire? :)
to researcher-host
If u really want to know why men r so proud of their cocks look on google and read about the Oedipal complex.For ex a part of it - it appears in kids aged 2 to 5, when they start to realize that boys and girls are different.The boys realize that their sexual organs are visible comparing to girls genitals which r inside of their bodies.Kids of that age are very competitive and proud of new discoveries so boys realize that they have a willy, smth a girl doesnt have, and they feel ''superior'' for that reason.Also, they see that daddy has a willy while mummy hasnt, and they see that daddy is bigger than mummy, therefore stronger, and sometimes daddy tells mummy off or bosses her around.So the little boy is proud of his daddy (who has a willy just like he does) so he is proud of himself - or better said he is proud of the willy that makes him like his dad
of a dress down to1
Hi
angelic worck
new sophisticatedness
senks
for nothing akaaunting
G'diminution Goetterdaemmerung
angelic worck
new sophisticatedness
senks
for nothing akaaunting
G'diminution Goetterdaemmerung
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
Envy men cuz of their cocks aaaaaaaahahahahaaha)))I think men love pussy much more than women love cock;)
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
Woody Allen once said in a movie, if he would have tits, he would just sit in a corner and play with them all the time. Never heard a woman saying similar about what doing if having a cock...
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
they don't need to say, they assume since that's what all the boys here do they would be doing the same
RE: why girls r so proud of their tits??
I think it is just a part of the body. Nothing special about it. I know i know u can play with it, but girls have diff attitude to a pussy
RE: why guys r so proud of their cock??
I've had it since birth. It has been with me in good times and bad. Sickness and health. Poverty and prosperity. All it asks for is a shower and a good tug now and then. And...if it is a good boy I will stick it someplace, hot, tight and wet.....yes...I mean my underwear.
RE: im sux
awww thats sweet and sad too...try giving him a ccmail and ask if he would like 2chat...if ur not 100% sure he has someone else u have a chance of possibly developing smth with him...good luck..huggles
RE: im sux
I used to think CC was about porn, I have checked out girls in all categories. Then i met some of them in real and had great sex..
I am happily married 8 years now to an amazing wife who understand me. She knows about CC i dont lie to her.
I miss the freshness and excitement of discovering someone new as i did with my wife. so i thought come to CC see what happens.
I tried single women here, but that was to complicated and i ended up hurting them and me. So i looked for a like minded woman who was married also. Figured she would understand this about losing excitement as relationship gets longer.
And now i love 2 women !!! hmmm...
I am happily married 8 years now to an amazing wife who understand me. She knows about CC i dont lie to her.
I miss the freshness and excitement of discovering someone new as i did with my wife. so i thought come to CC see what happens.
I tried single women here, but that was to complicated and i ended up hurting them and me. So i looked for a like minded woman who was married also. Figured she would understand this about losing excitement as relationship gets longer.
And now i love 2 women !!! hmmm...
RE: im sux
ur wife understands u??? damn...a wife that understands u going to other countries and fuckin other chicks....seems a bit surreal to me...u let her fuck other guys too???
RE: im sux
urmm.. well i can't explain it. If that is what she wants in future then fine:) Sure there has to be balance. I can't really explain myself with the words i know in a short sentence. But it is equal and i trust her :)
and of course safety first:)
and of course safety first:)
RE: im sux
he just thinks his wife is sitting at home all by herself while he's away getting laid with her approval
RE: im sux
anon is right. if cc just had its 7th birthday, how did this guy meet his wife here and already been married for 8 years
RE: im sux
Don't feel so bad. He doesn't really love either of you. Now...dont you fell better?
Grass - Tell-tale
OK, I have permission to ask this question. Who grassed me up to Gwen and made her mad as hell at me again???
Just one innocent comment in private got back to her and I was toast.
She won't tell me in case I eat the perp, but I told her, I am too old for that now!
Just one innocent comment in private got back to her and I was toast.
She won't tell me in case I eat the perp, but I told her, I am too old for that now!
RE: Grass - Tell-tale
Surely the person that you made the one innocent comment to in private would be a good place to start your investigation.
RE: Are you in love..
*BLUSHES* thought im meant to b the resident asshole around here??? ur gonna ruin my bad rep
RE: Are you in love..
Yes I am, definitely, and I have never been happier! Its not easy - long distance love - but it can be wonderful if you try!
RE: Are you in love..
ur right,it can be very wonderfull but so difficult sometimes
would be much easier if there was no visa needed
would be much easier if there was no visa needed
RE: Are you in love..
if love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting that they won't , then yes i am
RE: Are you in love..
No only one, but there was someone here i cared about , but her feelings were not returned, so i moved on "difficult" but i had to as it was destroying me, but someone found me, we are going to meet .
RE: why?
Damn, I gotta agree with shy again. I don't like that. But, yes, if we knew the answer, it wouldn't happen.
RE: why?
Well think of this when its "uphill"
· In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.
János Arany
· In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.
János Arany
RE: Happy BirthDay!
try not to scare him cara at his advanced age i wouldn't want him having a stroke
RE: Happy BirthDay!
war isn't that why he comes here?to have a stroke or two,or... :--) p.s belated wishes for your birthday caramia.wish you health & happiness every day.
RE: Happy BirthDay!
tis i get to bust his chops for 45 days every year at this time and besides and i'm rather hoping cara has something wicked in mind lol
RE: Happy BirthDay!
busting chops,cara's wicked mind & brock what a combination.now you got me intrigued & interested war.are there ticket sales for this event & where do i get one? :--)
RE: boxers
your english is so much better than my russian,so don't worry about it. your point was understood.it was a good fight(compared especially to some other bouts lately)& the russian is technically good,imo.still needs more high level bouts to reach his best but the potential & more importantly the heart is there :--)
RE: boxers
I saw Povetkin here in my city 5 years ago,at the stadium.There was a european chapmionship of boxing among amateurs. He was an amateur 5 years ago and he won gold as far as i remember.He is a very good boxer, im glad he won))
RE: looking for girlfriends
there is a female host with this nick so don't jump to the conclusion it is a bloke after a freebie, urosana could just be wanting to compare how hilarious some net bf's can be, or how great we sometimes are.....hmmm i wonder which