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Thank you.
My friends working here were not here today, that's why I needed to congrat myself for my 23 years old... lol
Moreover it wasn't a good day today....

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Exactly, as you say we must "seize the day" (not sure how to write it, i'm not english) and live till we can.....

Coz when I told you the day wasn't good today, it's because the best friend of my sister died in a car accident today. She needed to have results of her exams tomorow, be 20 years old next month and visit Turkey with my sister in 2 months....
Well, wherever you are, Marjorie, we miss you

Agree.Life is the biggest lose.My condolences.

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Thank you Jassy !!!!!!!!!!

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She is only online in the morning. You will have to wait for the morning shift to punch in. Hot looking girl. Worth a crack.

The question is... are they real? I knew some Ukraine girls who were thin with big yaboos so I am going to say yes.

huh?

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Happy Happy Birthday to YOU sweety Lee!!!!!!!
kissssssssssssssssssssssssss and huggggggggggggggggggggg

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thank you all for yours wishs it is most graceful of you very kind woman (K)(K)(K)

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YOU cant save him. HE must save himself. If refuses to do it, you are wasting your time.

no person ever changes for another - they only change for themselves. you can only give support if a serious effort is being made.

no other way it can work.

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dump the looser , you dont need to go through life with somebody who's alcoholic.

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Wanda, Advising her to respond in kind as if this will make him "see" himself is not good advice. There is no one so blind as he who does not want to see. She can avoid the ugly scenario you paint by following "huh!'s" clear-headed advice.

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I know it hurts but you have to leave him.

I have been with someone who had other addiction which apparently isnt so bad as alcohol ... but i tell you he did not waste any occasion to treat me bad and make me feel miserable so he could give in to his addiction. If you have no children run ... run and run. Dont look back.
We ve also had a child which he treated like she did not exist, did not care if she has food to eat, clothes ... ah times .. if u knew how many times i told to myself it will get better ... 4 years wasted and a river of tears
Get away from him .. help him as a friend, distance yourself from him, let him hit rock bottom ... if he doesnt he is lost u cant do anything and he will pull u back too
DONT drink alcohol to show him how bad it looks to have such an partner ... dont do that .

umm, leave him now or plan on a beating sooner or later
but remember if you stay, he will always say that he loves you and is really sorry for hurting you when he picks you at the hospital. altho expect him to be late if theres a bar on the way to the hospital.
or am i wrong?because that senerio only happens 100,000 + times here

Get some self - pride.
Love yourself.
Escape now!

Thank you for your answers, you all have right in what u say. I see all that i just cant leave. True we live together, but we didnt get so far as beating. Probably that would make me run. I'm not sure he realises how deep he is in alchool. For me is first time i write this word when talking about him. Its true after he acts crazy (usually at the end of the day after manyyy beers) he says he's sorry and he kisses me n says: ohh girl ive been again crazy last night, u know beer. But when i try to talk about the fight and why we did it etc, it is always MY fault. In general, the guilty people are parents, sister, all the friends he has, but not him. And i am sorry to see him like this, he's young, good looking, educated ....stilll unhappy n drinking. He's parents are wealthy, thats why he doesnt care about money, his parents wont leave him die, even if i go away.
Leaving now is not an option for me as i didnt set up yet things at parents so i can work there online, but i try urgent things there so that when he gets crazy i can simply leave; i still hope he will see how bad he looks and how this will destroy his future at only 30...

Thx u again wish me luck

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The trouble is when you are in love you think you can change everything just by the way you are feeling. There seems to be plenty of advice about ditching this guy because he is bad for you, or could be bad for you, but that you are with him only shows you see something in him that you think can be redeemed. But as the song says, it ain't necessarily so.

Either way what you are going through is not an isolated experience and many partners both men and women go through a similar experience each and every single day. What you need is help, not just for you, but help to help him help himself.

I know nothing about your background and I can only speculate what facilities there might be at your disposal. I do know that in Russia where increased alcoholism has become a serious problem among young men (and women) that the government is taking steps to put in de-tox centres and give support to families who are affected. See if these exist. Ask about how to find professional advice.

Try seeing what support you can get. What about his family, do they know his problem? Have you spoken to them about it? What about his friends, do they have any influence on him either? Do he drink alone or in the company of others? Do those others see he has a problem?

It is all very trite to say just walk away when someone is in trouble, but reverse the situation and imagine if you were in trouble yourself, how would you feel to be abandoned by someone who swore they loved you?

That is not to say you have to needlessly waste your life trying to get him to kick his addiction, some people are just not strong enough to carry someone like that through this. There is no shame in that. But from the sounds of it it has only just started getting as bad as it has and so if you can talk to him still and get through to him the pain you are put through there might be hope to steer him away from a path of self-destruction. But don't go it alone, it will drive you nuts and not help either one of you.

It is hard when people we care about get into trouble, but if you really do care about them, then being their for them when they need it can make all the difference.

Good luck Anny, wish you all the strength you need to get through this.


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Sorry for being nasty, I imagine your try to help her, and the advices are good, but im afraid the poor girl fell asleep while trying to read all your reply.You are not a bad guy, but if you would ramble less and be more succint in your coments...would be even better.Now shoot me,I know im bad ;)

You are right SG ...... as ever :)))))))))

oh are you ever in for one of his great putdowns.....lol

Well if that was a put down then I am afraid I missed it. Guess they are not what they used to be.

Given that the advice was intended for her and not for you I'd suggest you let her make her own mind up what is useful and what is not.

Seems a lot of people are apt to give glib advice when it does not concern them without ever really having any experience or knowledge of the subject.

Guess that'll be you as well. Off centre , off topic and off-ensive.

Better luck next time trying to bait me. I'll have to give some sort of a damn first.

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Maybe i was off topic a little...my point was : a lot of rambling wont be of too much help either.Her mind must be confused anyway if she asked for an advice here in the forum...so just a brief and concentrated advice would value more that half hour of rambling.
in my point of view it would sound like : " Kick him in the balls, take your luggages...and go live your life ".But in general i avoid giving advices aslong as im not in her shoes, i dont know her personal life and the real situation.OMG i better stop, i already wrote almost as much as you did.

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Amen.

You must be new here if you thought _THAT_ was a long post by me.

S'nuff said :)


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Im shocked of how briefly you replied...i must go take my medicines now, my heart is beating so fast...By the way im not so new here, i read enough of your posts untill i decided to just skip them when i see your signature.Now just happened to click on your comment by mistake, and then i imediately realised what i have done...i risked my life, at my age i could die exhaustered by the efforts i made to read all that.Pls have mercy for your keyboard, it is a poor object that didnt do anything wrong to deserve this.
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A smug reply if ever i saw one ..... and you replied so you was baited ...... end of .

I too have been on this site for some time and I am inclined to agree with SG , you seem to have the view that you are the font of knowledge .

The posts are rambling and only serve to the make the reader lose the will to live .......... or send them to sleep . And as an expert in writing i figure at the very least you can cut your posts in over half and still make the same point .

even you could have left it at just.........typically smug

as an expert? you can not start a new line with And.....very bad grammer...back to school

Finally someone spots it !!! well done Ray , seems you are the only one

NakedTruth -
the problem with people addicted to something is they dont realize they have a problem ... in their mind its not them who have a problem .. its the partner (for bitching about it) .. its the parents .. its the friends ... its never "their" problem.

By staying at this point by him .. she s making the situation worse for him and even harder for later for her when it will be harder to leave the relation ... in his mind her staying by him while he continues to drink and treat her with disrespect makes him think ... there s not really a problem .. why would she go back if there wasnt a problem ...

i think a lot of chathost r supporting deadbeat b/f...parents and so forth in the eastern block...welcome to the nightmare.

Leave him immediately and do not look back.

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get another boyfriend!!

drinking is a big problem with youth in russia...seen it on the streets many times and the corrupt authorities (lol) don't give a shit about it either...and i'd like to know if there is a public law prohibiting open container consumption in public.

he only thinks of himshelf....you should think of yourshelf....is this the person you want to spend your life with.......now you have your answer?

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a mentally,physically & emotionally healthy man is like the loch ness monster.often talked about,regular unconfirmed sightings but never any hard evidence to prove the existence of it :--)

sexism is not cute and it is definitely nothing to smile about.

Where's the sexism and who's smiling?

are you blind?
both are in the post to which i directly replied!

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Sweet Chantal ...Welcome to General forum, make it an habit, post ... reply ... participate... We will be happy to know you more.. by the way how is Jake.. I hope you still together!

a proper introduction is more then saying hi i am chantel.
let me introduce myself..
hi i'm john, and im a breastaholic (i like small boobs)
i live in a box in the usa
my hobbies include collecting photos of nude models and paying $1 or less to watch strippers strip. and umm well ok thats my only hobby
:D

Hahahaha dont scare the girl John ..not yet lol

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Yippee !!!!! Hope you had a great holiday but it's also great to see you back :D

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doesn't sound like uv come to terms with ur addiction so you'll be around to continue and starve for attention that both parties seem to require that come here to feed and btw...they're not bored taking your money 'o contrare they're laughing all the way to the bank thats cynical who give a shit and its sad and pathetic and fun for a while a transition to who knows where for some but it does have consequences and changes people regardless of what they might think...so ramble on.

Amusing. Thank you for your "thoughts"... easy pickings from low-hanging branches.

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we are creatures of habit...

i think i can relate. i just looked at my session stats: 1457 video sessions on my current screen name alone since 2003.

ive used other names for "my loves" and i would hate to even look at those stats.

3 trips to russia, countless "gifts", etc etc etc.

it all adds up to 10's of thousands of wasted dollars and countless hours in front of a pc.

now im happily married to a wonderfful young woman and ive discovered "free" porn.

you can get better dude.

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Nicely said, Wanda. I tip the rest of my glass to you... (K)

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some inside joke? comments like this make no sense...so why bother if u don't have smthg constructive to say.

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wow - angry because the comment doesn't help you? Is this a group help session for you? I would love to explain to you how the 12 steps work and how you can stop the madness but I require payment. 145 USD per session. I can do it online here and I accept paypal. Interested? ;)

this is whatever it is to people but clear communication is a good thing use 12 steps for your own benefit.

If the glass is too opaque for you, move on to something simpler that you can perceive. I'm not an optometrist and neither is Wanda.

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Good one Member! LOL! Here's another:

A nun goes to confession:

"Bless me father for I have sinned. Father, I gave a man a blow job."

"A blowjob? What's a blowjob?," the priest asked.

"$25," the nun replied, "The same for you as anyone else."

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http://forums.mozillazine.org/viewtopic.php?f=38&t=713605

if you have version 3 get rid of it and take 2

Nope !! Firefox working fine for me at present. Hope you solve your problem.
Cheers .

Just like it's described in that link posted by the guy with the friend, I can't connect to any Mozilla sites either.
Not from Firefox, not from Opear, and not from IE.

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not even listed as a chathost anymore.

happy bday sean have a few beers for me

happy birthday little bro, get you a vid on me.

Happy bday)))))(K)(K)(K)

HAPPY BDAY SEAN!!!! :))

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happy birthday sean,, smoke one for me---hey save me a piece of cake

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happy bd-sean i have a new video for you to check out--anasticia with queen playing we are the champions check it out and also hope all is well and hurry up get better and return

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Happy bday Sean, may God bless you and keep you forever! Kisses!

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happy bday sean..speedy recovery

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have encountered that a few times( your second part)
regarding if they cut\paste..
if im looking at a topless babes breasts, she can cut\paste comments or file\paint her nails for all i care :D

I agree but it can add several minutes to a video. At 2 bucks a minute that adds up and means less boob watching overall.

Cuz some members expect 100% honesty from their new found love and think that you betrayed them if you had a second nick and never told them. Me, I dont care. You can have 101 nicks, I will always be happy as long as you always give me good shows :-D

because it implies dishonesty IMO.

it's far less dishonest than the motives mostly behind member's having multiple nicks

It would be dishonesty only if girl from non adult saying i dont/cant strip, has a screen in adult where she performs all sexual things. In other cases, I dont agree about dishonesty. A girl is not obliged to say all her screen names. What, members tell us all their ids in here? LOOL Come on!!

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Some hosts do not log off other IDs during video and they spend a lot of time responding to members in chat in other ID. Some hosts tell a member they dont strip in Glamour when they have an ID in Not So Shy....frustrating. Plus it show the member is a hustler....not the sweet girl the member thinks he is going to seduce. I have no trouble with it but it does show the host is here for one thing and one thing only...make as much money as possible.

Dude its not about the money. They deserve to earn it. Its just about the fact that they are not honest about having a second (or third, etc)ID.

Partner...just ask them...most will tell you they have multiple IDs. And it is always about the money with them...nothing else matters...honesty is the cheapest commodity on CC.

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mind if im 121 with the higher rated name while shes taxting someone else.
but you ask why!
because its fukn rude if im paying and someone else isnt, dont you think?

i thought hosts are not alowed to be online at the same time with 2 screenames if they have viewer in one of them?!!!

i thought so 2.

and hosts cant show boobs in glam too.
point is many dont do what they can and do what they arent sappose to. get over it

they can show boobs in glam. seem lots of boobs and kitties.

probably cosue they dont try to see the reality here- that you try to make yourself available and earn money in more then one category - online in 2 categories waiting for viewer in any of them, couse as we all know viewers have their fav. category they go to and if you are not in it, they will never know you even exist; god knows how many members dont know i exist on this site couse i work only in one category - lol; as i would guess reading this forum, they get it personaly if they see girl under other nick thinking that girl is doing more for one viewer then another (some viewer and not him) ! am I wrong members? im curious about this also!?

Doesn't bother me, a girls got to work :D

Hosts with 2 or more nicknames does not bother me. I feel they have the right to be in different categories under different names

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nice one...........a good clean joke and funny with it !!!!!

yes funny :-)

I enjoyed the story .....lol

OHHHH Canadaaaa!!! eh...

yay! Fireworks tonight

Congrats, my canadian friends)))))))

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Congratulations Canada !!!!

I'm still hung-over!!!

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Naty,there should be more people like you on Earth,then it would be a far better place.but there would still only be one Naty :--)

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Aye, Gorty :)

Friendships can last and there is life after CC, trust me. Just be sure to choose carefully who you will take on that journey with you.

I know I was very lucky in oh so many ways...

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i would rather say it starts with need then after awhile you can see if its going to turn into real one or not; i like to think i have good friends online, not based only on money relationship, but mutual love, respect and undersanding; and for that part of "friends after sex", why not, sex can bring people together and more close same as it can break them apart!:)

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Well I know it is idealistic but I always go in with the attitude my friends will last my lifetime. In fact I cannot see it in any other way, because old friends , even if you have not spoken to them in years, are still some of the best friends you can have. That you meet them online or not is quite often irrelevant. It is how you continue to grow as people and as friends that does.

I could go on to say more about the longevity of true friendships but it would only bore some and not believed by others so...

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I think the friendships here are like the friendship of waitresses and customers in a restaurant. They like certain customers, give them special service, like to see them every day because they are nice guys and always tip well, and make their work go by faster. But...once they quit the restaurant there is no context for the friendship and well it is over. It is a business, a place for work. Also these girls are kids. They have nothing in common with most members. They would not give up an hour of sleep, an hour of time with their friends, an hour of staring into space were it not for the fact you are paying them here. I made several "friends" here and over time ..most just moved on or others dropped the friendship when the economic connection stopped.

so true.

very good description of relations here...some hope for more but realistically this is what you get.

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i think there are lots and lots of "GREAT" friendships here......until the cxedit card gets maxed.....

never a more true word spoken...but it falls on deaf ears...always !

that is because it is only spoken from his position & perspective.it is not relevant for everyone.that is an undeniable reality.

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I am a boy :) , Are U a boy or Girl :)

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dont know u yet but happy birthday to u

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TINAAAAAA!!

Hope you get all that you wish for.....and if you don't get it, demand to know why!

Have a great day.

xoxox

Happy bdayyyyyyyyyyy))) Wish u all the best)))) Kisses))

Have fun)(K)(K)(K)

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Happy bday Tina....best wishes:-)))))

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Tina, Happy Birthday!!!!!! and many more

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TINAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!! hope you have a great day.

Happy birthday to youuuuuuu kisss

again a year older.... kisssssssssssssssssssssss

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Actually I think the moral of that story is that ones generosity should be selfless. There was a chance for other sinners to be saved but by being selfish and instead wanting the onion only for herself she was doomed to be a sinner.

In other words to be saviour not a sinner you give you give without thought of reward.

Something I believe all of the great and the good have done in their time.

Thanks Gorty , very thoughtful.


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she was already in hell though....was it god's intention to have those other sinners saved too?.....presumably, god doesn't make many mistakes so the chances of being surrounded by so many people who just happened to wrongly be sent to hell too was unlikely....really, for her to hold on and carry those sinners with her out of hell would have been the selfish thing for her to have done.
i think the real moral of the story is that god can sometimes be kinda of a jerk.

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lol...why?

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i'm sorry, but if god's decision to either send her to heaven or hell rested on her tossing a stinky old onion to some beggar or not, that's a pretty jerky thing to do. especially if he overlooked that deed initially and just tossed her into the river of hell anyway.
and i wonder, did god intend for the woman to fall back to hell with all those other sinners trying to hang on for a ride to heaven? and if he did mean to have her fall back to hell with so many other sinners clinging on to her, why? she's already in hell, what, is it going to teach her some kind of moral lesson now that she doesn't need it? really, what's the point in that except to be a jerk by giving her some hope and then yanking it away?
admit it, if anyone other than "god" treated someone that way, you call him lost worse than just "jerk."

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Prefer MsPacman. I never could get to junior though.

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they have legit g/f...don't need to visit here.

all guys in"legit"relationships don't need to visit here?but some do. BOOM!

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if you had a husband/boyfriend, and he virtually fucked around with girlies who showed their cooch on cam for money, would that make you feel like a legitimate wife/girlfriend?

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don't be insecure bb...theres enough to go around...even for u. but soccer star with money...? what he need u for bb ??

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Congratilations)

i really love that cutie they call el nino. when he strikes a pose sucking his thumb after a goal that's just the single most ungayest thing a guy could ever do! soooooo dreamy!

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Congratulations Spain!!!!!!