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Stop and Think, There is someone for you
Just thought I share this with you people that don't think there is someone out there for you:
When I was 18 years old and working as a waiter at a little family restaurant, I met a woman who was 15 years older than me.
She was so beautiful and sexy. We dated for three and half years, and even lived together during the last year
and half of that relationship. We moved into a tiny little cabin and we really did think we love each other.
But for every moment of those three and a half years, I had a nagging, itching, aching feeling that she would never be the
right one for me. Despite her great heart, age and she lacked ambition and drive and handled her finances very poorly and, at the heart
of it all, was very insecure despite being a bright and attractive woman. I understood her, though. I understood that her family
had never like the idea she was living with an younger man, and the poor decisions I had made as a younger man.
As the years went by, she could give me less and less of what I needed. Things became strained between us.
I was a terrible nag, and I see that now. But the problem was that there were just too many things about her that I wanted to change.
And as I began to realize that I could never change her and shouldn't have to, I struggled so much with what the right thing to do was to be patience. It ate away at me day and night, because I honestly couldn't imagine my life without her. So I finally ask her to married me and things
began to change in our lives, we became closer together as one doing the things we both like to do and share a wonderful life together
for 30 years when she pass away at an early age of 75, I thought the world would end for me, not knowing if I would ever share so much with
another woman before I passed on from this world. Now 7 years later I have to say life has been awesome and great and I have been bless with
great friends from all around the world. To end this story I share, just wanted to let you know, never give up on someone that you like
and/or love in your life, all things at the end are good.
When I was 18 years old and working as a waiter at a little family restaurant, I met a woman who was 15 years older than me.
She was so beautiful and sexy. We dated for three and half years, and even lived together during the last year
and half of that relationship. We moved into a tiny little cabin and we really did think we love each other.
But for every moment of those three and a half years, I had a nagging, itching, aching feeling that she would never be the
right one for me. Despite her great heart, age and she lacked ambition and drive and handled her finances very poorly and, at the heart
of it all, was very insecure despite being a bright and attractive woman. I understood her, though. I understood that her family
had never like the idea she was living with an younger man, and the poor decisions I had made as a younger man.
As the years went by, she could give me less and less of what I needed. Things became strained between us.
I was a terrible nag, and I see that now. But the problem was that there were just too many things about her that I wanted to change.
And as I began to realize that I could never change her and shouldn't have to, I struggled so much with what the right thing to do was to be patience. It ate away at me day and night, because I honestly couldn't imagine my life without her. So I finally ask her to married me and things
began to change in our lives, we became closer together as one doing the things we both like to do and share a wonderful life together
for 30 years when she pass away at an early age of 75, I thought the world would end for me, not knowing if I would ever share so much with
another woman before I passed on from this world. Now 7 years later I have to say life has been awesome and great and I have been bless with
great friends from all around the world. To end this story I share, just wanted to let you know, never give up on someone that you like
and/or love in your life, all things at the end are good.
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you
Hey Ray-yes a good story: In life, if you are intelligent, you are admired. If you are wealthy, you are envied. If you are powerful, you are feared. But if you're blessed with a good heart, you are remembered, always. It's not about the wealth, power, and intellect, but the legacy in life behind those people you've touched. So never say never at any age-there is still someone out there for you.
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you
Ray you have some good stories, have you ever been over seas
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you-to AlawaysZana
oh my sweet Roxi, there will be no other woman that I will come to love like the last one, as you see I'm getting tired, old and senile. I do wish you the best and one day you have your perfect love .
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you
How does that make you now 67?, plenty of time to find some one else.
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you
Porta your Maths is right based on this story, but OS is clearly senile as on another post he states he is 80.
RE: Stop and Think, There is someone for you
you missed the point. Doc is saying hes senile not cos hes 80 but because in this thread he says he 67 but in another thread he says he's 80 - senile or telling porkies .......
deformed Photos
I noticed a new way to see the photo archive of hosts, similar to the previous photo viewer allowing to magnify chosen photos , shall I say goodbye to deformed photos?
Thoughts and doubts...
"You got a lotta nerve, To say you are my friend
When I was down, You just stood there grinning.
...
I wish that for just one time, You could stand inside my shoes
And just for that one moment, I could be you"
(Bob Dylan: Positively-4th-Street)
...To whom it might concern...applicable on CC? :-)))
When I was down, You just stood there grinning.
...
I wish that for just one time, You could stand inside my shoes
And just for that one moment, I could be you"
(Bob Dylan: Positively-4th-Street)
...To whom it might concern...applicable on CC? :-)))
your morning wake up call
A good rule for going through life is to keep the heart a little softer than the head but keep the head a little higher than the heart if you know what I mean.
Wake Up Call
A good man will see something new in a woman everyday, but each day it will make him feel the same way he did the first time he saw her.
RE: Wake Up Call
Have 2 friends, they married to each other for 47 years, they still look at each other like teenagers in love .)))
cynics need not reply
cynics need not reply
RE: Wake Up Call
no after 47 years, that look is them trying to get a clearer look because they now need bifocals or trifocals, and because the cataracts are making everything look distorted. What you see as teenage love, is really just confusion and bewilderment. :D
RE: Wake Up Call
I should divorce then. Really confused :/ So want to make the right decision and not sure which one it is.
RE: Wake Up Call
A good man will see something new in a woman everyday, but each day it will make him feel the same way he did the first time he saw her.
........and a sorry man will see nothing in a woman everyday and each day it will make him feel like crap. Hey Sean, good wake up call and by the way when is the date and am I invited. Have a great day bud.
........and a sorry man will see nothing in a woman everyday and each day it will make him feel like crap. Hey Sean, good wake up call and by the way when is the date and am I invited. Have a great day bud.
RE: Wake Up Call
sorry ray, just go back and now seen your post, I have never seen so many mustangs in one place as this.
Happy Birthday SoGlamourous!
May you always have everything your heart desires beautiful Goddess!!!!
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
Where is the tiara though? I thought it was ur trade mark!
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
Tiara is the thing that you usually wear on your head :) She asked why you are not wearing it in your video... And trademark in that meaning means that people should recognize you somehow :)
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
And no lips as well... :( XD
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
That's nothing. From your pictures, it appears you have no face :( XD
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
cmon someone pays you to do that. I would tip you few dollars if you do the same with tiara on your head. and on the same beach ofc.
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
love the song and great attitude friendforyou
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
I admire this inadequacy between your appearance, arrogance, self-confidence and mental handicap LOL
your a sweetie darja
your such a sweetie really awsome u do have a nice voice straight up and when i get a bit of time ill chat to you about background notes and sound using reason 5 u could look into making a soundcloud basically with the right backgrounds and your voice on top would go cool u actually got a very cool voice really awosme darja. i like her tiara i got one too i had it from my catholic confirmation ceremony. tiaras rock xxx
hugs xxx sofia
hugs xxx sofia
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
I do not know that much about music but this sounds very flat. No high notes, no low notes, very monotone. Have you ever tried singing a famous song to see how you do at the tough parts or maybe rapping would be more suitable? The music industry is one of the most difficult.
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
with the right sound equipment and voice and notation practice she can actually do very good she was after all using a phone u cannot expect her to pelt out high strong definition in her notation using a phone it cant handle it and take into the factor the enviromental things like fact she was on a beach and wind blowing. taking all tht into factor cut the girl a break shes not a bad singer shes got a basis to work upon and can be very good, thats coming from a ex teacher prospective - aka me i used to be a teacher in art and music until i got narcalespsy so ye guys and gals cut her some slack plz. live and let live darja has some strengths to her voice i just needs the right sound equipment and some notation fine tuning , shes not bad by any means i got respect for her for sharing big respect. lifes to short lets all stop being mean nasty haters and support each other in efforts of our various paths. takes all sorts to make the world go around ladies and lasses :) we can all be critical of others but i would like to see others try to sing on a beach in wind with a phone and pull it off with perfect notation definition :) xx
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
... nearly 20 years professionally? And youre only 26 .... WOW! No comment.
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
Hey, Shirley Temple was only 4 when she started.
diplomacy and tack and modesty
Have you never heard about diplomacy and also being modest about ones self and such?
Your approach if one looks at your psychology regarding your replies defines you potentially as one of those people that likes to rack down and exploit other peoples weakness,
Constructive criticism goes a long way but outright downing other peoples skills and attacking them is of no help what so ever, katy i mean this with the greatest respect truely I do.
I can say yes some notation from darja is not completely perfect and such but indeed with practice darja has potential to become better, but totally knocking down person and highlighting how intensely wonderful your vocal skills are is not really helping out darja is it. constructive criticism is welcomed direct hurtful remarks are not. Learn how to communicate more effectively with a little bit of respect and decorum ,
I truelly hate how people are so fucking cold and nasty to one another i really do, your actions can bloody well affect others katy. one day you might actually really hurt someone and actually push them that distance to do something negative. Remember this katy a ripple effect of your actions all things you do and say effect the actions and reactions of others in this life. Think before you speak and respect other people or just keep yourself to yourself until you learn now to communicate in a more productive manner.
Kindest Regards katy do not wish to cause cause animosity between us or anyone I just wish to stress being about kind to others and not hurtful. Kindness gos a long way, there is enough bad shit wars and evil in this world lets not bring it into CC katy please.
I dont just aim this at katy but ladies we have to learn to be more helpful to each other and not harm each other. its better to help each other then it is to hurt each other right?
Your approach if one looks at your psychology regarding your replies defines you potentially as one of those people that likes to rack down and exploit other peoples weakness,
Constructive criticism goes a long way but outright downing other peoples skills and attacking them is of no help what so ever, katy i mean this with the greatest respect truely I do.
I can say yes some notation from darja is not completely perfect and such but indeed with practice darja has potential to become better, but totally knocking down person and highlighting how intensely wonderful your vocal skills are is not really helping out darja is it. constructive criticism is welcomed direct hurtful remarks are not. Learn how to communicate more effectively with a little bit of respect and decorum ,
I truelly hate how people are so fucking cold and nasty to one another i really do, your actions can bloody well affect others katy. one day you might actually really hurt someone and actually push them that distance to do something negative. Remember this katy a ripple effect of your actions all things you do and say effect the actions and reactions of others in this life. Think before you speak and respect other people or just keep yourself to yourself until you learn now to communicate in a more productive manner.
Kindest Regards katy do not wish to cause cause animosity between us or anyone I just wish to stress being about kind to others and not hurtful. Kindness gos a long way, there is enough bad shit wars and evil in this world lets not bring it into CC katy please.
I dont just aim this at katy but ladies we have to learn to be more helpful to each other and not harm each other. its better to help each other then it is to hurt each other right?
RE: diplomacy and tack and modesty-thanks SwedishGoddess
I agree with you 100 percent SwedishGoddess in my 80 plus years of life I have heard and seen a lot of shit from all over the world and yes there will always be people who think they are better then others and I know through out my life I had my share of criticism and I know it surely didn't hurt to have some criticism to help me out over the years it did make me a better person later on in my life, I was once young and a fool and bad mouth people a lot. I was told later by a friend I had problems and issues to work out, wish I knew that back then,but that goes to show people are people, so I think those people are like that now have the same thing going on in their lives.
I listen to the song she sang several times and thought it was good, I have heard a lot of songs out there, especially rap songs that sounded a lot worse in my ears. Anyway I love her and admired her for singing from her heart and I did notice that over and over in that video singing from her heart and soul and I love your comment what you said, very few will agree with it , but who gives a shit what they say and of course what I say, and I love you to what you are saying and thank you for the support you gave this girl with your comment, it made me smile and think, there are still some good people out there in this world.
I listen to the song she sang several times and thought it was good, I have heard a lot of songs out there, especially rap songs that sounded a lot worse in my ears. Anyway I love her and admired her for singing from her heart and I did notice that over and over in that video singing from her heart and soul and I love your comment what you said, very few will agree with it , but who gives a shit what they say and of course what I say, and I love you to what you are saying and thank you for the support you gave this girl with your comment, it made me smile and think, there are still some good people out there in this world.
RE: "there r no chances" my own song on the coast of the river Dnepr
I honestly think people just miss understand you as in your english darja way your phrase things, if they will be haters let them be who you are sweetie straight up let people like you for you and hate u for you never ever be anything but yourself. Do what makes you happy and dont let anyone knock down your passions and aspirations! worlds full of hate give back laughter and joy and self expression! hugs be happy :) x
Let the storm pass or..
...when a sheep is sheared, it better stands still, or it could become a bloody mess
Easter wishes!
To those for whom Easter falls tomorrow, let this spring brings renewed hope into your life, thoughts, ambitions. Hope the time spent with family and friends and god (for the religious ones), is something that would linger in your minds for eternity....
H&A.
H&A.
Friends in Low Places
Friends in Low Places - This song seems appropriate for some reason.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvCgSqPZ4EM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvCgSqPZ4EM
RE: new song "ja s toboj"
Never worry, 'be hated for who you are, never loved for who you are not' .
Keep singing. composing.....
Keep singing. composing.....
RE: new song "ja s toboj"
i think its not the right place for such posts, especially when 99% of viewers here are just making fun of you.
RE: new song "ja s toboj"
Has anyone seen the episode from the "Big bang theory" where Amy with the tiara so wants to be the maid of honour when Howard and Bernadette are getting married. LOL
RE: Guys tell me how you see the category"Make new friend"
"Make New Friends" is the gateway drug to Glamour and other adult categories.
RE: Guys tell me how you see the category"Make new friend"
Well my tongue-in-cheek post was just one way to look at it. The category "Make New Friends" means different things to different people.. It's also not held to a strict "non-adult" standard as it used to be. Whatever. We are all adults here, presumably.
For many new hosts it seems to be a way to ease into the chathosting world. Some will not venture into "adult" territory. Others will, to varying degrees..
The category itself has not much to do with friendship on CC. You can have friends in any category, and there is no set price.
So I think you are confusing two things... the category called "friends" and actual/virtual friends. One is part of the fantasy and the other isn't necessarily so.
For many new hosts it seems to be a way to ease into the chathosting world. Some will not venture into "adult" territory. Others will, to varying degrees..
The category itself has not much to do with friendship on CC. You can have friends in any category, and there is no set price.
So I think you are confusing two things... the category called "friends" and actual/virtual friends. One is part of the fantasy and the other isn't necessarily so.