General Forum
A big Thank You
To those of you who asked, yes I had a lovely day and the weather was fine and it never rained at all. Thank you. :)
To all the hosts who posted positively on my behalf. I cannot possibly know who you all are, but you do, so this is all for you.
I am deeply touched you think of me in such a warm way. I could just never have imagined it. It only goes to show that courtesy and caring go a long way to promoting positive feelings for everyone and that there are really some incredible ladies on CC. I am just so proud and privileged to know any of you at all. I just can't believe how fortunate I have been.
So thank you all and I hope I can continue to live up to be the kind of man you know I try to be. Thank you so much.
TNTIJSLTHFLT
To all the hosts who posted positively on my behalf. I cannot possibly know who you all are, but you do, so this is all for you.
I am deeply touched you think of me in such a warm way. I could just never have imagined it. It only goes to show that courtesy and caring go a long way to promoting positive feelings for everyone and that there are really some incredible ladies on CC. I am just so proud and privileged to know any of you at all. I just can't believe how fortunate I have been.
So thank you all and I hope I can continue to live up to be the kind of man you know I try to be. Thank you so much.
TNTIJSLTHFLT
RE: A big Thank You
Naked truth go away please, ur just stirring the shit now by adding this, cos u know ppl will add bad comments again. I`d be very surprised if it doesn`t get a reply at all, besides mine :P:))
RE: dear members and hosts part 2
No I don't think you were being vindictive. Vindictive would have been phoning her and telling her before she phoned you (well maybe just a little bit vindictive :P) and you may have actually done her a favour.
As for putting on your most beautiful dress and hitting the nite clubs I think that is a great idea. Get out there and show him what he's missing. Who knows you may even meet a gorgeous man way better than your ex.
Whatever happens have a great night.
As for putting on your most beautiful dress and hitting the nite clubs I think that is a great idea. Get out there and show him what he's missing. Who knows you may even meet a gorgeous man way better than your ex.
Whatever happens have a great night.
RE: dear members and hosts part 2
It took a lot of harsh words to put you in your right brain. The likelihood she is smarter than you... who knows?
By the way, I think a one-two punch as administered by the good-cop, bad-cop team is very powerful. I'm happy to play bad-cop to all you good-cops.
By the way, I think a one-two punch as administered by the good-cop, bad-cop team is very powerful. I'm happy to play bad-cop to all you good-cops.
RE: dear members and hosts part 2
Well, there were plenty of posts saying I was right in my opinions, but too harsh in my approach. Sounds like a good bad-cop to me.
RE: dear members and hosts part 2
my ears,my ears.nothing worse than the sound of someone blowing his own trumpet.self-recommendation is no praise :--))
paco
I've known this guy for some time now. He is funny and self-deprecating as only truly genuine people are. The dickhead self-publicists get most of the attention (me included), but paco is always true to himself and his friends. I like this guy. Let's hear it for paco!
RE: paco
aww thanks maya.i think of you as a good friend too.glad to have met you here. (glad you're not mad at me) :-)
RE: paco
I agree ally. He may not have made it onto the list of rude members but he certainly makes it on to my list of members I'd like to kick out of comm chat.
Paco only joking :D
Paco only joking :D
RE: paco
I agree, Ally. Paco is...with the possible exception of TNT and myself...the nicest person here!
Slipping?
Damn, I've not had a post or a mention here for days. Am i slipping or what? And not too many 'or whats', please.
rude
there is this girl in community chat room being rude, but i wont post her name here because she is needing attention and feeling neglected from the chat world, all i can say she has 2 nicknames, well maybe 3 or 4
RE: rude
you people are something else--worrying so much what is wrote in here and who about--are you that bored with your life
RE: yeeeeees!!!!!
Hamilton didn`t fuck it for himself :P the car did, yes he fucked it up on first lap, but that only put him back to 7th or 8th at the time, what put him out of it completely was the car dieing on him for 30 seconds :P and having to stop 3 times in the race as well:P:)) nah nah :))
RE: yeeeeees!!!!!
mclaren were never going to win, they've done a deal with fia so they could rcae next year ;o)
RE: yeeeeees!!!!!
what a rubbish week for sports for us english, football, rugby and now this:( nightmare!! i honestly belive hamilton is the best driver but his car and team let his down in the last two races.he has pleanty of time though, he hs 15 years ahead of him. having said that kimmi is a great driver. i know people who know alonzo and they say he is an idiot in real life
RE: yeeeeees!!!!!
well if reports are true and bmw get disqualified for using the wrong fuel, may not be so bad...
dreamer
Yes, i am a dreamer and can do nothing with it. I know that some ppl prefer to hear something about tits and asses but..i'll never let my soul bury in shallowness. I can't help falling in love to each sunny morning and each friendly smile. and even here in cc there should be a place for romanticism )))
best wishes to all )))
best wishes to all )))
RE: dreamer
Elina, good for you!
Your like a breath of fresh air.
Through the window,
with the rising sun
and the birds singing! :)
Your like a breath of fresh air.
Through the window,
with the rising sun
and the birds singing! :)
RE: dreamer
Elina couldn't you maybe combine the two ?
Romance and tits and asses make a wonderful combination :P
Romance and tits and asses make a wonderful combination :P
RE: dreamer
IMYF do you think i haven't all these things? i just dont want to live think and talk only about it though i realize that it is a usual and necessary thing:). Lets widen our minds!
RE: dreamer
Elina as I think you are such a charming young lady I promise I will try. But as I have a very small, narrow mind I can't promise anything :P
RE: dreamer
I really don't think he does, with respect. He is kind and warm underneath that cold unsentimental realism. But then I'm pissed now so wtf do I know?
RE: dreamer
He is actually one of the least cynical people here, xelina, but if you don't get his humor, I can see how you would conclude that. (k)
RE: dreamer
i have never hesitated that INYF has very kind heart and never got offended with his humour, on contrary i really like his posts
RE: dreamer
Xelina, asking IMNYF to widen his mind would be like trying to get Pavarotti (bless his departed soul) into a wet suit...it CAN be done but would take a lot of time and effort. :P Seriously, he is just pulling your leg, so try to take it as a joke!
RE: dreamer
nothing wrong with living with rainbows xelina18v.you will be the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for one lucky guy.
RE: dreamer
"Discard that which offends your soul.” Walt Whitman
Xelina, you are a beautiful soul for sure, and I always enjoy reading what you have to share. ;)
Xelina, you are a beautiful soul for sure, and I always enjoy reading what you have to share. ;)
RE: dreamer
i always remember what my grandmother said to me when i was young
"dreams give us hope & hope gives us life." dream on elina :--)
"dreams give us hope & hope gives us life." dream on elina :--)
RE: the mystery
yeah, why he/she slag me off? oh well, peeps here I really rate the highest so guess I can endure the petty insults from others - 'You are who you think you are, you are you who others think you are, and you are you who is really you" Rudyard Kipling
RE: the mystery
Damn ally so that makes me an ugly bastard, a total dickhead and a complete wanker :(
If Rudyard Kipling didn't make excellent cakes I could really hate him :P
If Rudyard Kipling didn't make excellent cakes I could really hate him :P
RE: the mystery
i aint curious im just tired of the crap ur sayin and aint got the guts to make urself known to me...simple thing to do...ccmail me or drop it completely...comprendez?
Need a fishing partner today
did you know Guinness World Record Day is Nov. 8, 2007, by the way what is the record in the guinness book of record for posting-LMAO, thanks, this is why I love it here--stay cool...oh almost forgot I need a fishing partner today,, I have 3 boxes of red worms and a case of beer in the cooler,,, and the boat is freshly painted
RE: Need a fishing partner today
Anything would be fine me just as long as it doesn't include you.
Just out of interest is the 4 cases of bear already cooked ?
Just out of interest is the 4 cases of bear already cooked ?
RE: Need a fishing partner today
beer, fishing, im in!!!! just chug ya boat over here and pick me up! and triksy, if you come il bring you all the beer you want!!!!!!
RE: Need a fishing partner today
if you asking who had the longest post i think gortensia and TNT is about tie right at this point if your asking about who has the most most thats hard to say most people here use fake names but i would say gortensia has the most can i come fishing to i love catching deer with 4 legs
RE: Need a fishing partner today
I understand why a friend of mine most wants to meet you out of all the people here chaser.
RE: Need a fishing partner today
I am not sure about my fishing skills, but instead I know how to attract any fish! I can sing loudly...especially after beer. Am I a good partner?
Question for the Regulars
Just looking at this sites forum can I ask the following question of - Annathebunny , TheNakedTruth , DavetheRave , Imshy , Monikababe , Me , Asterix , M , Triksy , Imnotyourfriend .... sorry I cant include you all .
Are any of you in a steady , happy relationship ?
Yes or no answers please .
Are any of you in a steady , happy relationship ?
Yes or no answers please .
RE: Question for the Regulars
I think this questino applies not only to the frequent posters here, but to any person who spends more than one hour a day on internet not due to work purposes.
And my answer is No :)
And my answer is No :)
RE: Question for the Regulars
Those who are pleased with what they have and what they are, have no impulse to advance themselves and their lives. So keep going Wayne (K)
RE: Question for the Regulars
triksy what i mean by "strive to get more" is more free vids :D
ur turn is coming soon ;)
ur turn is coming soon ;)
RE: Question for the Regulars
I have heard that said many times in various ways, but it unfortunately it is less of a truth and more of an excuse for materialistic people to justify their lifestyle. Sort of like their battle cry. LOL.
To be objective, what a person is happy with depends greatly on their outlook on life and what their definition of success is. You must also realize that people (in general) due to their own definitions of success tend to focus more on one particular area of their life whether it be their career, their love life, their family or whatever and be less concerned with or neglectful of the other areas in their lives. We see the proof of it all the time.... the actor/actress that makes several great blockbuster movies but is constantly in the tabloids over another failed marriage/relationship... the musician/music group that sells millions of albums but is in and out of rehab all the time for drug/alcohol abuse. Those are just a few examples... the type of big "news" stories we normally hear about. There are thousands of "successful" business men and women that toil away at their careers and have accumulated great fortunes but have neglected their families, have chaotic personal lives, etc. that we don't hear about in the media. Just as there are thousands of people in this world who have little or nothing in the form of material wealth and possessions, but who have incredible marriages/romances, that are adored and cherished by a large circle of friends and have deep and meaningful relationships with family... who are happy with what they have and feel they have a successful life.
That all said we rarely meet/know people that have it together in every area of their life.
To be objective, what a person is happy with depends greatly on their outlook on life and what their definition of success is. You must also realize that people (in general) due to their own definitions of success tend to focus more on one particular area of their life whether it be their career, their love life, their family or whatever and be less concerned with or neglectful of the other areas in their lives. We see the proof of it all the time.... the actor/actress that makes several great blockbuster movies but is constantly in the tabloids over another failed marriage/relationship... the musician/music group that sells millions of albums but is in and out of rehab all the time for drug/alcohol abuse. Those are just a few examples... the type of big "news" stories we normally hear about. There are thousands of "successful" business men and women that toil away at their careers and have accumulated great fortunes but have neglected their families, have chaotic personal lives, etc. that we don't hear about in the media. Just as there are thousands of people in this world who have little or nothing in the form of material wealth and possessions, but who have incredible marriages/romances, that are adored and cherished by a large circle of friends and have deep and meaningful relationships with family... who are happy with what they have and feel they have a successful life.
That all said we rarely meet/know people that have it together in every area of their life.
RE: Question for the Regulars
Yes, happy people are not those who get what they love, but those who love what they got.
RE: Question for the Regulars
Yes or No. Depending who I am with at the time and if the wife is out of the house. :D
RE: Question for the Regulars
Sorry I'm not going to give just a yes or a no answer as I don't believe that conveys the whole story.
I am not in a relationship at the moment and sometimes I regret that and other times I am really thankful. But I would like to think that if I was in a happy relationship I would respect and like her so much that visiting sites like this would be the last thing I would want to do. Unless of course she was a pervert like me and we could visit together. :P
As for my life I am very happy with it whether or not it includes a partner.
I am not in a relationship at the moment and sometimes I regret that and other times I am really thankful. But I would like to think that if I was in a happy relationship I would respect and like her so much that visiting sites like this would be the last thing I would want to do. Unless of course she was a pervert like me and we could visit together. :P
As for my life I am very happy with it whether or not it includes a partner.
RE: Question for the Regulars
No i`m in no relationship. Haven`t been in one for many years. 9 i think or it it 10 this Novemeber.. hmmmmm
Anyway the answer is NO. And i`m happy to be single, cos i`m paying off my debt and having a gf i would need money to take her out etc etc.. So its better for me and the girl. when i get my debts paid off then maybe i`ll look for a relationship..
Hows that? is that a good answer for u interested.? :):P
Anyway the answer is NO. And i`m happy to be single, cos i`m paying off my debt and having a gf i would need money to take her out etc etc.. So its better for me and the girl. when i get my debts paid off then maybe i`ll look for a relationship..
Hows that? is that a good answer for u interested.? :):P
RE: Question for the Regulars
I meant to add this also.
I would love a relationship with a girl but right now i would have nothing to offer her but some hugs and kisses. :):P
I would love a relationship with a girl but right now i would have nothing to offer her but some hugs and kisses. :):P
RE: Question for the Regulars
Its important to have enough fiber in your diet,
to help be regular. :D
to help be regular. :D
RE: Question for the Regulars
Good one...and judging from many of the posts this weekend, I think that many people here could benefit from some more roughage in their diet to promote regularity and prevent constipation! :P
Azterix
Azterix
RE: enough
consider this an intervention all you virtual porn "friends" step away from the computer and into the light.
RE: enough
And it is a very dark alley at that. For those who travel this way, be warned, you are about to enter the Dark Side.
RE: enough
see the light.there are 2 ally's.the first is the path to righteousness & goodness.the other is the ally to eternal damnation,posting in forum a plea for help.let your conscience be your salvation.
RE: enough
You're confusing me. Which ally am I travelling in? Just chekcing...eternal damnation doesn't sound like much fun! I'd rather fill in for the poor cc moderator who had to work this weekend...:P
Conclusions
Is it not sad that the amount of energy, passion and time which is expended on some threads here, to essentially no purpose whatsoever, has not been used more constructively?
RE: Conclusions
ahhh more constructive on a fantasy site.now what could that be?let me take the matter in hand & i'll get back to you with the answer.tissues please.
RE: Conclusions
I find it absolutely amazing what 'certain members' will do to impress their lady friend hosts.........It's as if they purposely lay out their Merriam-Webster dictionaries, and their Roget's Thesaurus, for the sole intent of 'capturing heats,' but also to ridicule other members. Imagine such a monotonous life within a website.........
How did this get into Yahoo search?.. lol
http://www.camcontacts.com/forummsg.html?postID=399151&sidk=00fdfdc892d2a05a62a7cb056de603ed22872694
Where is shakira21 now?
Does anyone know if shakira21 has quit cc or just changed her screenname?
RE: TNT
heeh.. cute. Well just for the record I am off on my way out for the rest of the day. So don't expect any more posts from me. And one either for me or against me, as actually being me. It is really just such stuff and nonsense.Only the truly desperate would pursue such a ludicrous scenario.
Y'all have a good day ok?
TNTGTTATPUAFS
Y'all have a good day ok?
TNTGTTATPUAFS
RE: TNT
you are the stuff of nonsense.must be rough living with yourself and maintaining such perfection on a regular basis
RE: to davedavetherave
hey i was there to, did you forget about me or you just focus on dave good look,,i knew I should had took that mask off
RE: to davedavetherave
WTF??? Dave u told me im the one and only for u!!!!!!! Ur such a cheater!! I will not marry u now, dont even ask! Ah and btw stop abusing girls in comm chat!Duh!
RE: to davedavetherave
Monika, dave and I were discussing you over some dry martinis on the verandah of his NYC penthouse appartment, watching the twinking lights of Manhattan below - a beautiful evening. He told me, "Ally, I love her but does she really care for me?" I replied, "Only one way to find out, dave my friend, go meet the lady, spend some time with her."
Personally, I think you are made for each other and God bless you both.
Personally, I think you are made for each other and God bless you both.
RE: to davedavetherave
Monika, that is just the internet version of the events, before you get too excited, I used an online translation service to translate it into how it all really went down in the real world....
Dave and Ally were chugging a bottle of cheap Thunderbird wine on a sidewalk in front of the bar they had just gotten thrown out of in the Bronx, looking up and bitching about a broken street light that was blinking in their blood shot eyes. Then Dave said "Dude, Monika has got a f@#king awesome rack, I'd love to throw her the bone." And Ally replied " Oh dude, I know, you should totally go there and tap that ass!"
Dave and Ally were chugging a bottle of cheap Thunderbird wine on a sidewalk in front of the bar they had just gotten thrown out of in the Bronx, looking up and bitching about a broken street light that was blinking in their blood shot eyes. Then Dave said "Dude, Monika has got a f@#king awesome rack, I'd love to throw her the bone." And Ally replied " Oh dude, I know, you should totally go there and tap that ass!"
RE: to davedavetherave
I got a boulder for her, called Mount St. Helens. Hope thats big enough Monika :P:))
RE: to davedavetherave
I can say I am very surprised on what Davetherave and you Monika are doing. Leave Davetherave behave as a jealous child trying to get attention. You have enough on yourself, the bad reputation that all members comment is enough. Dear Monika, please dont get yourself hurt more than your reputation is. Besides please let your bf dave behave irrationally, you are a woman, not an immatured boy as is dave.
RE: to davedavetherave
Thx Ally:) I told u already-if me and Dave get married-ull be the first one invited to our wedding and ill bring a hot gf for u, lets say Chicka))))
Ah and Mary..I cant tell my heart how to feel:(( *sniff sniff* Hahaha))
Ah and Mary..I cant tell my heart how to feel:(( *sniff sniff* Hahaha))
RE: to davedavetherave
are you 2 blind-i seen a lot of his comments made here and also several still in community room--wish you all leave this topic alone, but i see you love it
RE: to davedavetherave
hey calm down! be cool! just a private little joke between me and Babs. :-)
RE: to davedavetherave
ally your getting a kick out of this arnt you--with all these post-hehe,
A simple question to davedavetherave
Did you come from paradise? I feel honored when you come in my vid. Forget that boring nonesense below about NakedTruth. You are the dearest kindest man here. kiss
RE: A simple question to davedavetherave
I'm confused between Carry and Camy? Is Camy actually Carry, and Carry actually Camy, or are they different people? My, this place really is the Twilight Zone, where reality is a fantasy or is the fantasy a reality? Well, this is what makes cc's unique, because it can be anything you want it to be....... ;):)
RE: A simple question to davedavetherave
i love new york, my kinda city, i know goode place go
RE: A simple question to davedavetherave
whats wrong dave hunny, you been in community room all day, are you afraid you going to missed something
just rambling
met a sweet,funny,pretty host in community tonight who is not pushy.she enjoys laughing & having a joke with the people there.she doesn't take herself too seriously & takes jokes well.such a lovely person & to make it even better she doesn't like imnotyourfriend.what a gal.
RE: just rambling
Oh come on you'll have to narrow it down much more than that for me. That could be any host :D
RE: just rambling
Hey you leave INYF alone he is the most intelligent and wondeful member on here. If he wasn''t such an ugly bastard with a small cock and no money and didn't have that strange smell about him I would marry him tomorrow and give him free videos every day. He is the only member who ever posts with his real name always.
And before you ask of course this isn't INYF posting as Julia :P
And before you ask of course this isn't INYF posting as Julia :P
RE: just rambling
yeah which julia--i look up this julia the fictitous host--no such host here
Have Thick Skin
I had a host ask me why is it hard to fit in the group in community chat room if she doesnt joke like others do and some of the jokes are cheap shots from people: hmmm, well this is from expereince, speaking from me not others: to new members and host that go into the community chat room, poking fun, busting balls, taking cheap shots winding you up, whatever you want to call it, people are going to joke around at your expense. Even when they seem serious they're often just kidding around with you. Can't be too touchy or defensive about these things. If someone makes a joke with friendly intentions and you turn around and bite their heads off, or sulk about it, they're not going to see the best side of you. the best response is to make a funny comeback or just laugh it off, sometimes their cutting remarks could have a valid point. It keeps you honest so just smile and shake your head. if you think this was not a joke, speak your mind and give your opinion, we all have them and share them with the group. if the idiot joker don't get it after several discussions, why try to explain any further, all that does is makes the room become a bar-room fight and if you want this to become the best side of you--go for it, but were does this get you. New members and host if all else fell, to put this short--there is a ignore button at the top of the name list if your skin is not thick or just stay cool.
RE: Have Thick Skin
good advice..
applies to real life and real relationships too
would be so boring otherwise..
applies to real life and real relationships too
would be so boring otherwise..
RE: Have Thick Skin
(sometimes) the cheap shots, etc are indeed intentional, and thus someone feeling under attack has every right to defend him or herself. Not all the cheap shots directed by one person to another are jokes, or are meant to be joking. There are intentional attacks by members toward other members and hosts, and it would take a complete FOOL NOT to see this.........
RE: Have Thick Skin
chat room has degenerated since I first joined a few years back. it used to be a great place to party and pick up chicks. now much arguments, rude russian hosts speaking in russian openly and the pesty asian hosts 'hi hun'. i long for old times when u could find chicks that were not busy. it appears that it will keep going downward. it was a great idea by cc in the beginning. no longer it is.
RE: Have Thick Skin
Just seems to me like any other chat room on the internet. A few cliquey regulars and lots of silent people. Pretty much the same everywhere!
RE: Have Thick Skin
Cliched regulars?
I was thinking along the lines of a clique - cliquey regulars. But if the regulars consider themselves cliched, that's another matter :).
(no I can't be bothered to find the e with an accent)
I was thinking along the lines of a clique - cliquey regulars. But if the regulars consider themselves cliched, that's another matter :).
(no I can't be bothered to find the e with an accent)
Hii
Ok just wanted to say hello :) Not a post writer, but gettin bored, no action tonight? Sad
Does CC really offer friendship?
In the past when I went out with people i often didn't have a lot of fun. I didn't really enjoy the company of some of the people I was hanging with. I was physicaly with the group, but mentally I was on my own unhappy little island. I felt bored and agitated and unusally left for home before everyone else, and I was glad to get out of there. Does this sound familiar cc world, if so, is this one of the reasons we are here. Hanging out one-on-one, or in a small group, with like minded people is easy, but in some cases its hard to losen up to some people here on the way some behavior is displayed. I know some advice I was told was to losen up and have more fun with all kinds of people. I think I will take that advice.-Stay cool all-
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
Hi chaser, i think this is happend to anyone here, sometimes i feel the same. I go out with my friends but somehow i feel like is not my place to be. Everytime i feel this, i open my pc and i open CC forums, commchat or yahoo. I love chating with my online friends, i feel more safe here. I know this is not a good thing but is true. Some people say that i spend to much time online, some tell me to get a real life, but i like or not, CC is a part of my life. The strange thing is that i had meet people here who really care about me, people who helped me so much, people who support me when i need , people who i can trust in. I dont know if i can talk about my real problems with my friends, but here i always had someone to listin me, to understand me, i always had a good word, nobody made fun about my troubles. Of course there is also some creppy people, always enjoying on puting down others, but we know them already. I think i did find my best friends here and im sure im not the only one.
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
Humm...I think alot of us are in the same boat. Why does that need to be a bad thing? A lot of "Real Life" friendship are highly overrated, anyway. I can count my real friends on one hand. Besides, who decides that the friendships and interactions on this site are not "real"? I know, you cannot touch people here (which is probably a good thing!), but I consider this site to be very much a part of my "real" life. I don't feel that hanging out here prevents me from having meaningful interactions with others in my day-today life. Participating in the forums sharpens my writing skills and helps me consider my thoughts and feelings...I think that is a good thing! :)
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
This is all fantasy here, and that's why members use their credit cards to use this site for whater reason they see fit to suit their fantasy. If you actually do become REAL FRIENDS with someone, then you are in a vast minority. Sure it can happen, but it's extremely rare! Online friendship cannot compare with real flesh and blood friendship. If you Think It Can, then you have indeed come to the right place! And your credit card company will love you even more!
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
well i hope you use your credit card more here then,, because i want to be your friend,, by the way--I would like to become friends with certain members and host here.
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
well ro-friend, if you would post your chat-name, then we could see what happens. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for friendship, and if the friendship leads to something more, then that's cool to! I will admit that some hosts and members, although a minority, have ended up becoming real friends in real life. It is rare, but it has happened, and I can only respect those who work hard enough to make a true friendship become a very special one! In that "certain respect", cc's has provided an extra service in making dreams become reality......
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
I have 2 very close friends
1 in Dnepro, ukraine
1 in piter, russia
they are both married and both have kids also :)
My wife and I like them both very much and share photos and letters even though they no longer work on cc.
It's a beautiful friendship that will last a lifetime.
1 in Dnepro, ukraine
1 in piter, russia
they are both married and both have kids also :)
My wife and I like them both very much and share photos and letters even though they no longer work on cc.
It's a beautiful friendship that will last a lifetime.
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
And by the way, Chaser, since this appears to be the designated celebration day for the "CC Posters' Mutual Admiration Society", I've always enjoyed your posts as well, but forgot to include you in my list!
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
hey dude, you sound like a intellegent fellow, let me run this by you, I was with a new host here and she was scared to go in the community chat room, because of reasons she had, I wont share them here, but listen this is what I kinda told her: drunk and reckless people in chat a lot sometimes act stupid and annoying. They get drunk while sitting at the pc and become loud, retarded and even abusive. They do reckless, idiotic things on a flash because it amuses them somehow. Don't get too bent out of shape about it. It's just one of those things that happen from time to time. Be laid back about it. One day you'll get to be the dumbass annoying person and they'll have to grit their teeth and put up with you. That's the sweetest revenge of all. Sometimes in order to put up with this and to survive in the community chat room with several others in it, it's you'll have to become like them have thick skin or leave. What about this, and don't be offended if I use the word dumbass, That was the word I come up with thinking back on the way I was. I think she needs more input to ease her mind.
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
I waited a while before replying to your post, because I really had to chew on your question for a while. Actually, you didn't really ask me a concrete question, but I think you wanted me to comment on the scenario you laid out.
I don't spend alot of time in Comchat, but I've checked it out maybe 6 -8 times during the past few months. Had a few friendly chats there, but for the most part, I don't "get" Comchat, so perhaps I'm not the best person to comment on your scenario. Yes, I agree that a lot of people there appear to be drunk. I cannot possibly criticize that, because I've posted in this forum myself many a times when I was a few sheets to many to the wind. However, it appears that in comchat there's less inhibition and quite a few people who appear, at times, to be MEAN drunks. They usually don't mess with me, but I could see that such attacks can be intimidating to a new host, especially one who doesn't posess adequate verbal self defence skills. So, whereas I agree with you that one needs to have thick skin in comchat, I am not sure if I think comchat is for everyone. Actually, what I really mean is that I definitely think it is NOT for everyone. Without knowing this host, I can't really say whether the advice you gave her was good or bad. One thing I'm sure of though, you meant well and she probably appreciates you being supportive. That's really all I have to say...:)
I don't spend alot of time in Comchat, but I've checked it out maybe 6 -8 times during the past few months. Had a few friendly chats there, but for the most part, I don't "get" Comchat, so perhaps I'm not the best person to comment on your scenario. Yes, I agree that a lot of people there appear to be drunk. I cannot possibly criticize that, because I've posted in this forum myself many a times when I was a few sheets to many to the wind. However, it appears that in comchat there's less inhibition and quite a few people who appear, at times, to be MEAN drunks. They usually don't mess with me, but I could see that such attacks can be intimidating to a new host, especially one who doesn't posess adequate verbal self defence skills. So, whereas I agree with you that one needs to have thick skin in comchat, I am not sure if I think comchat is for everyone. Actually, what I really mean is that I definitely think it is NOT for everyone. Without knowing this host, I can't really say whether the advice you gave her was good or bad. One thing I'm sure of though, you meant well and she probably appreciates you being supportive. That's really all I have to say...:)
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
there are not that many attacks on hosts even by the MEAN drunks and when there is it is usually taken care of by those rude, degrading, pervert .members that a couple of people claim are abusive. they are the ones that chase the attackers out. the two sanctimonius posters here, on of whom apparently never goes to chat yet seems to know all about it and one who just admitted to no being there often, are not the right people to ask about what really goes on there
most attacks are member on member
most attacks are member on member
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
Excellent points abovespirit. Appreciate you posting the real truth! :)
RE: Does CC really offer friendship?
Chaser if you are talking about "having friends" meaning finding people you can talk to- well you can do that on any internet forum or through ICQ etc, not just on CC.