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I am a member, not a host. But with all due respect, you are simply looking for some type of reassurance that you are on the right track with your second love. Most answers are not going to really help you. Sometimes relationships like yours work and sometimes they do not.

The bottom line is that age does matter. It is not a barrier to love and marriage but it is a factor. The bigger the difference in age, the less likely things will be okay with the average people. But while the odds are against you, that does not mean you and this girl could not get married and be happy.

Everything depends upon the two people. Even if every host here except one says that you are too old, your age does not matter if your new love is that one. You are asking the wrong people. You should be asking your new love.

Taking a survey is not going to help. All your survey will do is make you feel better if a lot of hosts say age doesn't matter or make you feel worse if a lot of hosts say it does matter.

Like I said, everything depends upon you and this girl. Sometimes big differences in age matter and sometimes they do not. It all depends on the two people. But the bigger the difference in age, the more likely 1) that the relationship will not lead to marriage and 2) the less you will have in common so even if you do get married, the marriage will not work. . This is less true of course if both of you were older, say 30 and 51, but a 20 year old still has a lot to learn and she will change. She may grow with you or she may grow apart from you too. Again, it all depends upon the two people.

I am about your age, by the way, and have been in similar situations here. I could have easily written a similar post. Personally, I think that love means taking a chance but talk to this woman about your concerns and use your judgment, not just your heart, to make decisions. I know that is difficult of course.

And by the way, make sure that you are honest with yourself. Are you sure that this is the woman you really want? Are you lonely? Is she making you feel good because it is nice to be close to someone so much younger? Do a little bit of self-discovery in terms of what brought you to sites in the first place. We all have problems... maybe it is simply lonliness or shyness... but we all have them or we wouldn't be here. Make sure you are honest with yourself.

And make sure you ask yourself if you will be happy with someone so much younger in the long terrm as well as ask if she will be happy with someone so much older in the long term too. I know we cannot always choose with whom we fall in love, but like I said, this woman is still learning who she is and someone about 5 years older or so would be give me great confidence in terms of the chances of your long term happiness.

Good luck.... sorry for the lengthy "maybe". Just trying to help.

when I say about 5 years older... I mean someone around 25 or so as opposed to 20. I find those 5 years really matter with the average woman after chatting online for so many years. But again, that is on average... Perhaps your love is wise beyound her years... Just make sure you are being honest with yourself about her and don't let your love blind you when evaluating her maturity, et cetera.

The age difference is MUCH less important than "stage of life." As I said elsewhere the 18-26 year old ones are not in nesting-mode. An older guy needs a nester unless he only wants a few laughs.

Well without talking about birds and nests and laying eggs, this is basically what I was getting at. Most women around 25 are beginning to lean towards wanting to "nest". But it is a case by case basis. Some never want to build a nest and some are ready at a younger age. But the younger she is, the more likely she is not ready to nest even if she thinks that she is ready to nest. That is the main reason to seek someone older regardless of what she THINKS she is ready for.

Man, you have had a hard time here, you ask the wrong questions here, its not about your age, its about you.
Women can accept you as you are, if you portray you as you are, not some "cast off"
Think about it.

you're wrong about that...age is a factor

Level of maturity, not age, is indeed the prime factor. But the age is a GENERAL guide that can be addressed.

Dude, the 20 year olds seek experiences only. I suggest you avoid ANY girl under 25 or 26 (and more towards 30) if you are looking for something long-lasting. I'm serious.

I agree with the perfessor. Any woman under 30 is mostly seeking new adventures and new glories. They aren't serious about any relationship and most girls here think they are too young and too sexy to get married. I got burned and heart broken too thinking I found true and honest love here, later found out that the woman I loved was only playing with me and scofing at my feelings with her friends, discussing all my talks with her with her other friends and she is now 24, but still immatured. Worse of all is that she still wants to be my friend... No way! Once bitten twice shy! I am not saying all hosts are bad women; they're just too young and immature to commit and respect anyone. They think they could have 3 or 5 men at their feet. Their head had been blown to the max with so many compliments they receive everyday. They want to talk and share with as many men as they can. They want to be with you and other men just to compare and feel wanted. Just try to remember when you were in your 20's and you wanted to conquer as many women as you can just to satisfied your ego. Thats the case here. That is the best way to understand them. Keep your heart away from CC, look for a real woman in your area and remember... no young chicks.

I think 30 is a bit too high for a minimum, but older is usually better. Mid to late 20's.... 25 on up.... is probably a better minimum.

Another thing, I wouldn't lump all of the hosts together. I have been burned too, but I also have made real friends online... including meeting them. But I would DEFINITELY be very, very careful. There are plenty of hosts trying to use a member's feelings to get them into video.

my experience is that she "used" the word love but in fact she merely wanted to start a new life somewhere else...which is ok but only if you're honest about it...otherwise you're misleading someone and likely to move on once you're settled in new environs.

some of the best advice i've seen here...good on ya mate..

obviously not a perfessor of human relations.

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there goes the perfessor treplying to his posts again,trying to give it validity.

I feel sad when man tell me about him like only young girls and this man come in my black list from start. Love not have ages for sure but why do you choice only young? Most young are not seriouse. Well i am not old too but still i am 25, not super young too. From my experienced what i have: in 16 years i had big love with 36 years man, no sex! in 18 i wanted only money and no seriouse relationship still, in 25 i start to feel something for more seriouse but still...maybe not enough seriouse for man who more smart and experienced. I bet our age doing us only more interesting as persons, beuty is not main what us need for life...oh well i think i am enough beutiful, not so silly and not old girl but still telling things like it. My thoughts about age again. On net i had seducted one my member for 14 years older me, i was tied to my pc for years but not met him fr reall never still. We living so far and we never meet. What is good here? Yes he older me, yes i am enough pretty and not old, yes we are from diff cuntrys, yes i feel very warm feel to him still. but what i have from all it? NOTHING....troubles in every step: in culture, age, visa etg...That is what i have. Sorry for my english. Good luck

You explain exactly my point. You are now 25 and looking for a nest, yes?

Your problem is not his age, but the fact that the guy is unwilling and/or unable to get off his fucking ass and come to you. I'd wager he is married and just enjoying a fantasy with you.

I often have heard of a "six-month rule." If the guy doesn't make a serious step in six months the wise girl moves on. What does "serious step" mean? Exchanging phone numbers and home addresses. Writing letters/postcards (or at least e-mails). Planning a trip to meet in reality.

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I'm glad you posted that, and don't worry, your english is just fine! I agree with you. As hinted in some of the above posts, many males, as we get older, find it flattering that some pretty young thing find us attractive. The problem is not the age difference per se, but as Lovecharm points out, a mismatch in emotional maturity. For that reason, I guess I would have to agree with him and the perfessor that for a man in his early forties to hook up with someone under 25 is generally not advicable. However, culture and background are also important factors to consider, as well as the maturity level of the individuals. For example, when I first fell for my filipina sweetheart, I felt that she was way to young; she was 27 and I was 40 at the time. However, in her culture, most women are expected to be married with children at that age, and marrying a man substantially older is very common. Meeting her in person I found her extremely pleasant and calm; just very opposite some of the women I had been with in the past. Perhaps it was me that had changed, or maybe I just found out what qualities are really important to me in a woman. The point I am trying to make is that there are so many important factors to consider, so there really isn't any "right answer", only generalizations. However, if a man is habitually seeking relationships with "spring chicks", perhaps he needs to do some soulsearching and ask himself why that is. Otherwise, there will probably just be pain followed by more pain. I appreciate young, beautiful women as much as anyone; but that does not mean that I have to be in a relationship with them. I am sorry that you had to go through those experiences, but hopefully you learned something from it and you were able to share this with us here. After all, the original poster was mainly asking to hear from hosts! ;)

Looking for a gf online or in these sites is just plain wrong to start with. There is no way anyone could build a solid strong relationship with girls exposed to hundreds of men everyday. It's like expecting a hip hop star to be faithful to his/her couple. Let's face it, the girls here have too many choices. There are men from all over the world chasing her and wanting to meet. Some are serious; others just want a fantasy, but at the end she thinks she very much appreciated by everyone and that makes her difficult to think you're the perfect man for her. Go out, join clubs, and try to meet people not just women. Trying to find a good woman here is simply not smart, it will only be a deception at the end.

As I've understood he was not "trying" to find someone here, but it was just happen to him coz he spend his time here as well...I agree that maybe dating sites are the better places to find love, but why you so preconceived and obstinate in your opinion about chathosts? If you had a possibility to know some hosts in person you will be surprised that they are much more serious and honest and let me say "best wives" than plenty of so-called "respectable" women working at various other places...You could find your wife working even in government where usually people do not show their bodies (lol)...but one day you could discover that your sweetheart sleeps with the whole government!!!

And PLEASE...I am tired of generalizations...

I have been here for 2 years and had 3 relationships. I met with 2 girls and both time I thought I found love. The 3 relationships ended in bad terms. The 3 times I found that they were lying to me the whole time and one of them was meeting with more than 4 members. You say you are better than women in real life? Oh please. No way, you girls are not angels and love the attention you get from us. You end up doing things girls in real life with a good job would not do. I am only 32 years old, I have a nice body since I workout everyday. I also have a great job that gives me all the money I need. I am very used to go in video cam to cam and hear: you look nice. I like you. But my heart for hosts is shut closed now. I just though girls in eastern european countries were nice and good girls, but I was totally 120% wrong!!!

u sound too bitter. dont generalise everythin
32 yo is quite young, and if u have money, and plus, u look good too... why would a sane girl not stay with u? did u ever think maybe the problem is in u? in ur personality?
32 yo ,good financial,good looking and attractive guy would not be refused by girls. just think about it and analise urself better,d ont blame it on the others

I could say to you the same as "humm" below, just dont want to polemize too much with a people who are so sure they are the best in the world. I too had disappointments in my life more than three times, but I still think not "all men are the same"...So your bad experience on here doesn't mean "all girls are the same".

And again...you even can't imagine what things girls with a "good job" are capable to do sometimes......hope you will never meet that.

another good piece of advice...hope the members are reading this thread

age is not a problem, my current squeeze is 47, and very nice 2. the problem is probably the distance..and chasing some1 in a different country, am curious why u dont find a girl in ur own country? where it would be easier 4 u2 date and get 2 know women in person b4 flying off miles ?? that would be my suggestion anyhowz ..good luck

I have had relationships with girls typically 16 to 19 years younger. Most cases they act more mature in the relationship than I, but I'm learning :) I guess that's why I'm home alone ;)

well for me i dont care about the age.so what? if you are old or young when it comes to love we dont care about it as long as you are loyal and you feel is true love.Honestly,i met also my fiancee here in this site we met already in real we still have communications through phone and IM and text and so on....But when i found out he is still looking for a girls to talk and he gave his personal Id's and i found out he talk to this girl and delete to his list but lucky me i saw he's contact addresses he delete the girl id in his yahoo list but when i saw it in his contacts address i saw it. it was really hurt that the man i trust is he goes to girls room and talk and gave his personal id.actually, he always telling me im engaged to him and be good he knows i am good but what he do is not good. engaged is a commitment for a long lasting love in our lives. but u know what i still forgive him bec i love him so much but what he did to me it was really really hurt :( he told me he will never go here and he will terminate his membership for what he did to me. then time goes by i found out he goes to other site and look for a picture but not live i told him live or its just a picture for what he did i wrong again coz he dont need to go there because he already have me in his life i am young asian girl he knows he is my first in everything and i am loyal to him eventhough he is old enough i dont care about it. i talk to his mom 2 times also in yahoo with cam he already met my family.but i dont really know what is on his mind why he need to go to other site just to look for a naked pictures? maybe he is not satisfied that he have me but why he proposed to me to marry him?? and i think i am crazy bec i forgive him again bec i love him so much.
i am saying here is host or a member age is not envolved when it comes to love the first thing you will think is how he/she feels about you is he/she really loves you or not? is that a money involved? well you can sized her feelings. bec honestly, i dont want my fiancee to help me thats why i want to work here but he dont let me work so i respect his decisions for me. So, for you "member" who ask this questions all i can say is not all chathost u can trust bec honestly the girl i saw to my fiancee contacts list is she is flirting with my fiancee i saw her message and her picture with her baby. and i know what is her screename but i will never ever mention her name bec i am smarter than her all i can say to her is i hope "karma" with get you for what you did........so the answer NOT ALL chathost is HONEST and LOYAL be careful who you fall in love goodluck;)

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Does anyone believe this? Do you pay woman from your own country to chat and flirt online? Or is it just because you found someone who you are getting taken by. Common sense!!! Bust your nut with these foxes. But leave them here in their fishing pond. Younger girl will definately fall for a rich older man over a young, poor one. But do you see what part she loves about you most. Your fat wallet.

obviously paying someone to chat with them turns some people on :)

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I agree with majority of points. Just want to add that many chathosts who are truly single in their life are in the similar situation. Yes, they work here for many reasons but deeply in their hearts have a hope to find love anywhere and still waiting for the right man. We all, men and women, never know when and where we will find our love.....or maybe will never find, who knows!

And yes, it's difficult to trust to anyone, doesn't matter online or in real life. Obviusly trusting to somebody is the first and the main problem...just see, all we have some bad experiences in our past relationships. That's why I totally agree with the point that first of all both persons must act to prove their real love to each other and must have the same will to get being together. Just sitting and chatting and promising endlessly are not the actions that could make a dreams come true. I had some guys who seemed to be so serious in their feelings, but...lol...finally I found out that all what they wanted was just spending time pleasantly and yes,"enjoying a fantasy", or simply wanting for sexy talkings, moreover FREE SEXY SHOWS, wow...even after adjurations for "love forever"! So, not only women are about "fishing" here or elsewhere...

As for age...of course feelings are on the first place in relationship but very often love could be broken purely because of ages difference. Mostly young girls aren't able for giving but not only taking, for compromises as well. It takes a time for them to learn what men's and women's destinations are. Also they are easy to be "stolen" by another guy who is younger, richer, better looking or whatever...
Practically there are so many important things to get over, especially with a foreign partner, and you must be ready for plenty of difficulties.
BUT as they say "love is muuuuch stronger" if you both are in love...:) You sound like you are really capable for true feelings if you have took a time to learn her language and even could relocate to her country...

That is why I appreciate your efforts and sincerity, and sincerely wish you all the best!

I like you :) Just thought I'd say. Have a great day.

TNT

Thank you very much The NakedTruth! I like you too :)
And this day is really GREAT for me :)
In return I wish you the same and even much more :D
Kiss

Get a room. Would ya?

Jeez, some people are so jealous for no reason.

So, what do you say laughing girl, your place or mine then? ;) hehe..


TNTHALASE

Yawn.... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Good night!.....

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LMAO.
good one girl

your post is the perfect example of the general "mentality" members will find on this site and others where you pay for ostensible friendship...read it and weep before you pull out your wallet and leap.

looks like u're just after some young fresh meat,dude!
try someone closer to your age,u may find someone who's serious about settling down. but...noooo..u just wanna f**k some young pussy. lol
be realistic, a 20 yo would not settle down with someone twice or more her age.
dude..u gonna die way b4 her... ( natural causes speaking..)

sorry for my words,dont wanna be rude...but just face the reality. stop looking for young firs asses

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I dont know about others and to be honest i didnt read all the comments here. My honest opinion about is that you should look for a mature lady, over 30. Most of young girls are beautiful and i dont blame you to get in love with one of them. But if you are realist, you have to admit it: a young girl will be happy with your presents, with your money, with your time on her video chat. I have no doubt that there are also honest girls who will respect you for who you are, but i wont take the risc. A nice mature lady, with a lil experience and more responsable will worth your time for sure. Just give it a try! I just read a post from one of romanian hosts who was looking for a serious relationship, so you see....good things it happen too :) Good luck and get back soon with good news! Hugs!

Russia: 400 England: 0

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Russia 1, England 2

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Russians!!! Pray for our TEAM please!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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At least she lets you chat with hot young women on CC.... How much of a bitch can she be???

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Let her alone, all hosts that have cc bfs like to give them free privates. Find yourself a cc gf and stop the foolish posts!

Well i must say i don't have a cc bf at the moment. But still thank you for being realistic.:)

CC bf? What the hell is that? LOL

It's the lucky member that sees her free private, LOL.

If you always ask girls to give you smth in such a way, no wonder you are here.

lol i like this last reply:)kisses and lots of $$$$ to u TRIKSY:)

those kind of comments will come back to bite u

I've been bitten too many times without such comments, so who cares.

so your karma card is filling up rather too fast

with attitude like yours - no wonder you dont have a "real" job !

My attitude depends on the attitude of my viewers. Be nice, and i will do my best to make you happy. Stirring things up about me over and over in the forum is not being nice.
And about the job. I make enough money here. I don't strip. So it's a real job for me considering the curcumstances. Which i can't say about having a woman here. No girl online will ever replace a real one. If you keep being this way with them.

dear - i come here for the entertainment ;):):D

not for a substitute gf - lol

Who's talking about substituting gf? i was talking about substituting a real woman, which not nessessary has to be a gf.

you are quite anal sometimes

Yeah thx.

u like anal

Nope thx.

u contradicted yourself

Stupid question - stupid answer...

Your real gf must feel so special

and yours?

hmmm i must be further out of touch than i thought.i presumed you were using ironic humour.

Yeah, I was thought to make a joke and be funny after MoodySnake's post below, but I think this "someone" got it wrong and the hosts here are too greedy. I guess they can't be touch when they are giving free vids to their men. Anyways, f*ck them, now I know I won't visit any of these two.

thx, it is always easier to be rude when nothing to say...

Ah what a gentleman. So generous of you to talk like that about women. Maybe that's why you don't get any passwords and have to make fun of it here.

ahh not as out of touch as i thought.still i don't agree with your fuck them sentiments.so they didn't understand your attempt at humour. rememeber english is not their language so the nuances can sometimes escape them.best to forget it & maybe even show the type of man you really are & apologise.i'm sure it would be accepted in the spirit it is given & can be put down to miscommunication.

there's a lot of anger here from dissatisfied hopeful and ultimately disappoint hosts and members so eventually all the response seem to boil down to sarcasism and skepticism...get a life people.

it mean carrassing

Answers in comm chat ranged from an eye dropper to your belly button. So who knows :(

Cool, a multi purpose word LOL

Pipet(te). To russian it means the same as to other ppl in the world.

$10

little test tube,or in oz slang,little penis.

Shhh that was a special rate for you, INYF :P Now they all will ask for discounts :D

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Yes, it is a girl. Yes she is small :-)
I still like the belly button one though!

Come on, MadisonLee, this is the post you said you were gonna make? That's the best you can do? Duh!...Jeeeeeeeez!

Actually, it is a good idea, but I'm not sure if Gortensia is up for it...

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2 buffalo girls go round the outside, round the outside, round the outside, u know it

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Yeah...I know; I'll try to wait at least a few months before I bring up that topic again! ;) lol

I love Sean

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it's my sean!!!!

I love Andreea

You did it well man, at least i'm annoyed :P

Yes, but at least you still opened the post anyway! Hehehe....Reading some of the other replies directly above yours, I get a feeling that not everyone did, if you know what I mean? :P

To tell you honestly, some posts i open automatically and very often dont go farther than the first few words. But since i replied to this one, yeah i did read it all and yeah i'm annoyed :P

You annoy everyone.

He doesn't annoy me but posts like yours do :)

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not me,though he refused to come to the station for further questioning.

Thanks for the support INYF, Laughing Girl and awol. Hey, I guess I can be annoying, but I'm prepared to take the risk of not being liked by everyone...online as well as offline.

I knew there were some severely unhappy members around, but had no idea that there were so many hosts in such a pissy mood!

Well, too bad for them...I suppose...cause I'm not planning to leave for a while! I've chatted with some really neat people here, members and hosts. As long as these positives are in the majority, I plan to stick around and post whatever I want. ;)

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I know. ;)

Who knows if it's possible? Who cares?

Once I got married to a CC chat host.

My December album. Kelly Clarkson. I saw her in concert. Amazing.

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Foo Fighters -
The Pretender

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Incubus- "Dig"

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"So small" by Carrie Underwood from the album Carnival Ride

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yeah moody...he just wanted the password...tell him to kiss off

kiss u dear(K)

Yes, it should have been clear to him that you wanted to be alone. However, some people lack that basic shred of intelligence, known as common sense, that is oh so crucial to survival, yet somehow manage to make it in life. But don't worry, natural selection catches up with these people sooner or later.

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A texter can READ what the host and viewer types IF the both type in open. But they can't read his words.

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You said "as opposed to One2One where chatters can enter text chat." And I meant that one can enter textchat mode, but can't be read and can only read what is written in open text.

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The host and viewer must still type in (private) mode.

Why do you find this so intriguing and make such an issue of it. If the guy looked at "Who's on line" or at her profile and clicked the Videochat button he would see the host was in a free session with a password. As there is only one person registered to that hostname it is a very reasonable assumption that it was actually MoodySnake in that session. Where is the mystery? I would also point out that both the "Who's on Line" page and her profile would show that she had a free session but not that it was password protected. If the member was actively looking for a host with a free session this would have led him to her.

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I had the same impression somehow.

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no, they suppose us to read forums while we r in vid:P

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am i reading this right? in a 121 members can enter text chat??

they can enter but not interact - they can read what the host and viewer say IF they are in open chat, but can't talk back or see anything

It's just some members being cynical. They know the girls have their preferences to give free sessions to their favorite viewers and they like to tease by messaging the girls to give them the passwords. MoodySnake is acting up like she doesn't know what happened, but the truth is that she was in free private and some member wanted the password, hehehehe

MoodySnake makes it clear she knows exactly what happened. She just asked us for our opinion about a member who she has never actually chatted with asking for the password to a free private session,

True, my mistake! I got confused after reading the other posts, lol. Sorry!

Thanks, one of not many comments about subject i really asked for(K)

Existing host 4 years

ex hosts , 5 years, and a few 4 years

ex-hosts i have 2 that I have known for over 4 years. one sends me Christmas cards every year. i chat with the other on Yahoo on a regular basis.
current hosts 2-3 years.
when some leave cc they disappear as if to erase there past. they delete there Yahoo accounts and you never hear from them again.
sometimes they leave suddenly without warning anyone.

I am still in touch with hosts i first met more than 4 years ago.

nice M :) long time. According to my session statistics :) Dec 2004 for ex host and I called her yesterday to see how the weather is. Jan 2005 for current host, but I don\'t really go to her vid anymore, just BS on yahoo.

7 years, girls from the site which inspired this one

That's total bullshit!!

A guy says he has been on this site for seven years and came from another well-known site. What's bullshit about that? It mirrors my experience.

Alright I've had just about enough out of you!

LOL

eight years

I was about to boast that I had smashed your record of 2 but then I realised you said years not minutes :(

Lol....good one!

that is a question with no right or wrong answer.it comes down to individuals & their relationship.only you will know,imo.

$13.67

Let me make it simplier. Is $200 too much or too little?

its will only encourage her to look for money from you. send flowers or gift instead

$200 may be a bit excessive, if you don't want to give the impression that you're trying to buy her. I agree with "me," perhaps a gift would be a better option, and shows more thought. If you feel like money is the best way, then perhaps a smaller amount "for fun," along with a gift.

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Thanks for the advice. I will go with $100.

And i think new guy are far more interesting than oldies. At least they dont think they are "the judges"

i agree an interesting and beautiful crop of hosts. some though can never match some of the oldies like Tata and Tiasia.

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not sure what you are saying Gort. stalling is something i have not encountered here in years. its ok for host to try to keep session longer. why not if guys are cheap.most new girls i see are willing to perform in a timely fashion as long as we are polite to them and do not demand stuff not agreed beforehand. for those that dont strip is fine as long as they say so up front.

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take it east gort

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I think it is probably that when a girl starts she has fewer preconceived notions of what she should do. Also its more fun when you start. Finding out what members like, lets face it does not vary that much:) once you have been on line for a while. Also she is keener to find regulars who will support her.

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I always thought everybody knows that when you are new to something, you are more intersted in it, rather than if you are used to it.
And you sound like you have discovered something brand new and exciting. But well, better late than never, right? :P
kisses

well I've eaten cheeseburgers all my life and I'm still excited about them.......

Poor you...

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Gortensia if I had had sex with you 6 times one after the other I can assure you I would be just as excited about the 7th time as I was about the 1st :D

Isnt that the same in Life ?

A new relationship, fresh start , fun times, new possibilities... all is possible,,
new things to learn, new adventures,,,

But then , is there anything better than someone who knows u better, someone you have some history with , shared times, good and bad,,, problems overcome, trust , and comfort, more relaxing..


Every time and every age has good and bad,,Best to enjoy what you have, and those you know , and know you well, dont loose them...

I like both new hosts and old hosts. I have become good friends with several hosts and I enjoy chatting with them; however, it is also good to make new friends and I enjoy that. I have just enjoyed my time on cc with both new and old hosts.

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I also like old friends and old wine, but I still like to try new friends and new brands of wine..But i will not forget to enjoy the old too.

Ahh but old whining friends are not the best though, Vera ;) I have a few of those too! Hehe..

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Haha.. touché, dear Vera ;)

TNT :)

Old hosts are already rich and they do not care if you stay five minutes in video or 50 minutes in video.They also, have old regulars...why they should try to keep you longer when they make enough, anyway?
Plus the fact when they are in video, they have to work..and who wants to work, nowadays??...LOL

While I agree with you in principle Mistress.. I would posit that older and, by definition, more experienced hosts, tend to work smarter and not harder. Supplementing their income by other means such as referrals, an online shop, some value added services.

Over the years I have come to know a lot of very smart hosts, who would not be out of place at all in the business world. In fact many frequently become part of it in other fields.

For my own preferences I like talking to experienced hosts so long as they realise they are talking to an experienced member as well ;) CC does change your perception of people there is no doubt about that. And stay here long enough and you either become very understanding or very jaded.

Of course all the new hosts I talk to eventually become more experienced anyway, so I am never too disappointed really. :)


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Not working sounds good to me :)

I correct myself (humbly) its true that hosts i have visited regularly are nearly always pleased to see you again, I like to have a laugh as well as show and remember things they have told me and most appreciate that . A little caring goes a long way. But if a girl is new here they do tend tobe fresher if its a first visit thanhost who has been round the block. I think gortensia is right many girls do not think they will be here for long but just get stuck in work or find it is more lucrative than they thought!

many,many kinds of love but true love is putting their life ahead if yours.

I hear ya, I hope she puts her life in front of mine,espically when we are talking about flying bullets :)

To me love is a give and take relationship between two consenting partners. The give and take relationship is one that is unconditional and respectful from both partners.

its making happy confident children

Just say no to drugs and alcohol.

only time can test the strength of your love...may it last many many years to come

maybe.

Try it, you might like it...wait are we talking about anal sex?

should :P

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Agree

Yes of course you should. It's better to regret about smth you have done, rather than about something you never done :P
Good luck:)
P.S. you tell us later what you do, will ya :P

Im sure you should...

Its said that we often look back and regret the things we never did ..
not so often the things we did

Yes but only if it's with me and we still use the fuzzy felt :D

Funny how many people just tell her to do it, without even having a clue what she is talking about. What if she is considering whether she should or shouldn't... steal your car?.. rob ur flat?.... have sex with ur bf/gf?.... beat you up and take your money? LOL And you told her to do it!

she can have sex with my gf ..:P

Thx baby but im not in to girls:P

But captain I told her she could only do it if it was with me so we would be stealing my car, robbing my flat, having sex with my imaginary gf, beating me up and taking my money together and all of it done with fuzzy felt :D

But seriously I think a lot of the replies were saying that purely because she didn't say what she was going to do.

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there r consequences to everything you do in life....so...not everything is necessarily to be experienced

i sure hope there is, because im in the same situation!

Im pretty sure there is, many a man here would love to care for you and child, but many would scoff at the idea, and i can hear the replies now.
Most men do know why you are here.
So there is always hope.

of course there are but you need more than just acceptance to build a future.

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im the best!!!!!!!!

yeah, at being the worst....lol

i have been looking for love here on CC...but after 7 months..i found nothing but heartbreak. I accept people as who they are..dont try to change anyone in anyway. Girl with children are welcome, and to start family is fine too.

Yes, there is a definite hope for you. There are a lot of guys who would accept you and your child into a loving relationship. The perfect time will come for you; however, be careful in your choice and make sure it is the right one for you and your child.

I have been looking for love here for 2 years. I thought I found it I as honest and truthful with her. She was nice and sweet to me but after 2 years she find another. I want find someone to love and share my life with

There are probably many men here who would accept you and your child. There are also many men here who have been led on by the promises of hosts, only to find their dreams shattered.
I have been fortunate and unfortunate enough to see both sides of hosting. I wish you the best of luck in your search and all happiness.

I'll have anyone crazy enough to have me :)

fortunately no one is

You're right but as I'm an eternal optomist I live in hope :)

But if you're such a hit with the opposite sex what are you doing here ?

You've nothing to worry about, the guys who aren't interested because you're divorced with a child aren't men, just boys who haven't grown up and never may. There's many good men out there, but you'll not meet too many here (though there are some here) just be patient, don't "settle" for less then you deserve and see what happens.

This is NOT a dating site.

My local is for drinking ..

The rugby club is for sports

the work place is for working ...........

But so many people meeting together ..........

why make rules .... relax... fun happens ,,,,,

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but before i decide, i have one question.... do you have big boobs?

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Absolutely! There are plenty of hopeless romantics on this site who would love to meet the right girl, regardless of whether or not she is a chathost, or has children. Good luck, and as many posters have already said, remember to be patient and careful in your search. What's best for you and your child is most important.

omg! even in real life most of the guys, that interested at u at all - interested just in having sex with u once or twice & not ur gr8 intellect or personality. (no matter what they will tell u) . Even in real life there r tons of guys who don't want to raise their own children, not talking ab another guy child. What do u exspect from adult site, where most of guys come to get off be4 going bed or in daytime break?

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A motivated Romanian girl is very attractive to me. Of course I may be too old for you or not rich enough.

Well I cannot attest to the fact you may or may not find a suitable life partner here. But I do know that divorcees do get married all the time. And I know personally at least 2 individuals from CC who have gone through that to find a better life. Of course, there are many times when it did not work out as well, sadly.

May I ask though, why do you think you would find a more suitable husband or a better father for your child here? I would postulate that your chances of finding the right guy are only increased when you take it out of the particular subset of people who end up on CC looking for women or relationships.

Well, just a thought anyway.. Whatever happens I hope you find happiness for yourself and your child.

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Oh I think you misunderstood my point. I had no thought of money when I talked about a subset of guys who are on CC. We all know not everyone on CC are rich or generous, so I was not thinking that at all. No I just was curious why you thought a man from , for arguments sake, a different country, would hold more credentials than someone from your own. Don't get me wrong, I adore children and if I encountered a single mother I would have no qualms about beginning a relationship if it is was a serious one. In fact in my own family I have just such a situation and if nothing else it shows very much that a man is committed to you and is willing to accept you for who you are and your children too. But any relationship is tough and LDR 's are the toughest. With a child to think about too , well i think you get my point.

I admit I do feel for you, but not in a pitying sense. You seem a smart articulate woman and so if you are not finding the right guy in your life it is either your bad luck or bad timing. Certainly, I don't really think your chances increase on CC. There are far more men here who are transitory and fickle then those who are not. CC just plays to that inherent trait of men to want much more than he can have. And many hosts every really see loyalty from a member?

Anyway, I am sure you will make up your own mind. Like I say , I don't have answers but if you ever need to talk about it I am sure you can find me :)

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I don't know why some people have such a hard time understanding why the girl would be interested in fishing in new waters for a companion. If she has found an endless string of losers in her past whe may want to try a radically new tactic.

Imagine that in your neighbor you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I'm have to stay near home, can't stary too far."?

If she has the capcity of widening the net further, good luck to her. She must be especially careful of course, because there are lots of guys playing games here, too. But I wish her the best. it IS possible.

Imagine that in your neighborhood you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I have to stay near home, can't stray too far."?

I am afraid you are making just one assumption too many and that is that the _majority_ not the *minority* of members on this site are honest decent and trustworthy fellows all looking for stable, monogamous relationships.

Having been a member of CC for 5 years + in my experience I am quite sure this is not the case.

Most members start of with some sort set of ideals, true. But given free reign in the candy shop makes you develop a sweet tooth. Few members are very loyal and those that are are not usually on CC for very long.

Hence I do not think it is widening the 'pool' at all. In fact quite the opposite. Because the subset of men who are members of CC are not the ones who are putting ads in the lonely hearts pages.

Of course if you have evidence to the contrary I would willingly accept I am mistaken. But if it is all the same to you , I'd rather not hold my breath about it.

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Having been a member here since the first couple months of cc's inception (what is it 7 years now?) and another site a few years before that I will retell my best advise. Possible, but not likely.

However, I do know enough successes her to say that I never say "never" here, though I advise great care on both the member and host's part.

But if ro-host is willing so am I if our paths cross. Though I do prefer that she can make good ciorba.

Hehe... well if she makes a good ciorba then I would not mind babysitting either :) I do wish her the best of course, and who knows maybe our paths have already crossed and i've missed my chance to learn a bit more cooking skills. :)

Noroc friend,

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I, for one, am particularly drawn to the Romanian culture and can say that under the right circumstances I could imagine a life-long pairing with a girl who can whip up a decent bowl of ciorba. ;-)

I am a bit hesitant to be involved with a girl with kids, but that always depends on the chemistry, doesn't it? Lifestyles must mesh, expectations must mesh, but in life, with people of pure hearts and good will all things are possible.

The thing that I have found here in the online culture is that many guys hide things about ex-wives, kids, deep emotional and financial committments to previous families. The other thing is that you might guys of more mature years answering you. You may find it hard to imagine sleeping every night with a 50+ year old man.

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I'm 92 ... is that older enough ??? ;))

its in your post and dont deny that you are telling the ro-host that she will not be able to find a man here only becuase she has a child. I dont trust in your good man mask.

Children on either side make a relationship a bit tricky sometimes. I've met three hosts with children and I could sense the chemistry was questionable with two of the kids, even if the hosts and I had a nice time. I sensed the chemistry with one kid as being better than the chemistry with the host.

So I was willing, but wary that it could work out long-term. I feel that if I enter a three-way relationship, by entering into an established, if incomplete, family I have a special responsibility to both child and mom.

Well I would not ask you to trust in something you cannot believe in but I would have to ask that before you dismiss my 'good man mask' you at least do the courtesy of knowing me before judging me.

As to the advice I offered ro-host. I never said it was impossible. Anything is possible. However I do think it sounds like she deserves more than to trust in just pure hope and fancy. Yes it is pragmatic of me and call me a cynic but I have seen more happy things come out of CC and more bad ones than most members here.

That does not mean to say anything is guaranteed. It is all just a matter of probability. And given the way CC is, I would not idle months or more looking for a father to my child or a husband to keep me company. I could definitely ensure I was not lonely though or adored and sought after, but at the end of the day what comfort is that when all you want, need, deserve is some genuine love and attention and be a good wife and a good mother.

Who knows..? Maybe I will be proved wrong and next week the same host will post that the man of her dreams came into her room and all is well with the world. To me though, she sounds like she deserves better than just empty promises and CC is sure stacked up to the gills with them, I can assure you.

It is only my opinion take it or leave it, but there is no point trying to change it :)

TNT

"...The question is: is there any man who would accept me as i am ?..."
Yes..., maybe you will find him here... but who are you ???

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You are perfectly right :)

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OK, here it is: SLEEPYDREAMR

BonnyKasl did bait and switch with me

how is a name change a "bait and switch" or as ur posting name suggests "scam"???
ever thought maybe the boss made her change? or she now works home? or she went to a dfferent studio?
the way u guys throw out the word "scam" is pathetic i been here longer than most members and never been "scammed" as u put it maybe u should try thinking first b4 u use the word

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Ok, two same posts on one page is cool. Hope we are not gonna face third one. That reminds me of CherryMary and SexyHana, the poor girls used to take the most of forum space :P

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Who's old and boring? Trisky and Gortensia?

Hahahahahahahahahaha)))))))

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Triksy, speaking of CherryMary, may I ask you, do you know whatever happened to her?

No, sorry, neither about SexyHana :P

All right Triksy, thank you :)

i liked sexyhana ..she invited me to brazil ))

I don't know about anyone else.
But bait has me thinking of fishing! :D

I like cruising also ;)

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You didn't read my post below. Mine DID show up in the end, so it is 41!

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how can a host possibly find out about a members personal life, unless the member reveals it?

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vera, are you saying that if a member tells a host he has a kid or kids, but is divorced and is looking for new relationship, and being honest about it, the host still wants nothing to do with him because of his past? In other words is the member better off lieing to the host about such things?

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I see what you're getting at vera, you have a good point. Thanks for answering my post...... :))

why all the focus on members...many many host lie to mislead and figure not disclosing their personal relationship will scare off members

men simply want the challenge to gratify their ego...some act on it others no

You should have a plan B. The one time I met someone from online (not CC by the way... wasn't a member yet... In fact, she was a friend of a girl that I met on another site, not a chathost, strangely enough), I made sure that I had all my bases covered. I knew other people in the country that I went to. I had travelers checks, credit cards, cash, and a photocopy of my passport. I also had all of my information (like credit card and travelers check numbers) in an email account that I created just for my trip. (Mix the numbers up of course... don't put them in the exact order... Make up a code of your own). The point is that you need to be sure that you are okay in the event that the person does not show up. Consider all possibilities. Other than getting killed, you should be able to deal with every scenario. (Even if I lost all of my bags, money, et cetera, I was just an internet connection at my embassy away from being okay.) Oh, and buy health and emergency (health, political problems) evacuation insurance too... It isn't all that expensive.

LOOLL!!! Good one :))) Can`t stop laughing!!!!

I am not joking. Maybe I am paranoid, but I went to Eastern Europe to meet a total stranger. How do I know how things will go or what will happen? Maybe she doesn't show up at the airport. Maybe she sets me up and has a boyfriend who kicks my a$$ and rips me off. I have been lied to before by chathosts (yes, I know members lie too sometimes so save your posts ladies) so I really did not know what to expect. Obviously I trusted her enough to visit, but you can never trust someone 100% until you meet and get to know them better... and even then, you still are disappointed sometimes. I was just being cautious, and I would like to know where I went too far?

you didn't go too far,you took away the excitement of the unknown,the unexpected.nothing wrong with being a steady eddy,just not the way i like to live my life.to each their own.

Just which part of his plan took away the adventure? I see the adventure was still there 100%, just that he was ready if his pockets were picked at the airport.

It happened to a friend of mine. By a set of strangers, of course, not the people they were meeting, but their pockets were picked clean and without the on-line back-up info it would have been even worse.

The only mistake was the traveleres checks, as Eastern Europeans have never seen them and they can only be cashed at certain banks after waiting in long lines and high commissions.

for a perfessor youir readin sjills aren't great or mayve you don't understand the meaning of unknown.the way he set up his trip,it was more like a kontiki pensioners trip.no living by the sear of his pants,bo pushing hislimits,his survival skills.safety first.as i said nothing wrong,his choice,just not the way i choose yo live my life.comprenende?

Too bad your typing skills are so bad. LOL

Only an idiot goes strange places with no research. Do you close your eyes, throw a dart at a map, stuff your pockets with cash and leave without any questions? You don't read travel brochures or talk to people who have gone there? If so you miss much good things, too.

Have you ever lost your passport and needed it replaced in a foreign country? If you have you better have access to a copy of it to show the embassy. Did you ever lose your money orders? You better have a list of numbers. Did you ever get lost in a foreign city? You better have a map and know a very few words of that language.

By reading some travel books I have learned traps to avoid, things to look for and had a better time.

Just for the record, I have cashed travelers checks in Russia and Romania. In Russia, a hotel gift shop cashed them and I wasn't even a guest. In Romania, major bank cashed them but only in the capital, not in the smaller cities. (I didn't try some of the larger cities besides Bucharest.) The commission was not outrageous in either case. I'm not even sure if I paid a commission in Russia. And now with Romania in the EU and its economy expanding via western cash inflows, it might be even easier to cash them.

Thanks for having my back. Ah.... another backup plan that I didn't even know I had, lol.

No, dude. Travelers cheques are totally old (call it ancient) -school. And if you paid ANY commission you got screwed. And don't try to tell me the transaction took any less than 15 minutes plus line wait.

Cash Card is the ONLY way to go. But tell your bank you are going to Romania and NEVER let the card out of your direct control. I only used mine in major bank machines.

Had the atm card, prepaid debit card, credit cards.... and did let my bank know about where I was going. Paid probably 1% at bank in Romania, maybe less. I only changed about $100 so I didn't really care. I wasn't going to go shopping around, and yes, I did have to wait.

And while "old school", I brought travelers checks because I thought that they might be easier to replace while traveling than a cash card. And cash cards charge commissions at atms by the way, at least the ones I know about.

True. But they are sooooooo easy to use and better that packing $2000 in cash in the many corners of so many secret pockets spread over my whole body.

The only regret I have is a hot little number that hit on me on the street in Satu Mare.

A half hour before I had gotten some cash and didn't stash the cash and the cards yet so I had to blow her off totally. You never know who the expert pick-pockets are. :-(

why when i read this little chat does the song,love is in the air keep playing in my head.no it's not because it is the only thing in there.i know there is at least,we gotta get outta this place,in there too.

You pay a fee/commission when you buy the travellers cheques and also when you exchange them for cash. The exchange rate against a cash card transaction is usually better than that for cashing travellers cheques.

don't forget about your condoms

I didn't lol, although she had her own. (See? Everyone has a backup plan.)

And there are few things better than hearing a beautiful, young eastern European model tell you "I love to f*ck" while you are in bed. Mmmmmmm. Although I could live without the prima dona aspect of women like that.

(I liked her as a person and cared about her too just for the record. I didn't fly to another country for sex. Unfortunately, she was too young and wanted to live her life more, travel, finish school, et cetera before gettng serious.... Keep that in mind all of you older guys chasing young women... Age often becomes an issue no matter how well you get along as people.)

when you are a steady eddy,you seem older,less adventurous,even less exciting to younger girls.

A woman ready for marriage would want someone that is dependable and reliable. A woman not ready for marriage would focus on living for the moment. Balance is good of course, and after all, I did go there in the first place. A member would think that was a great idea but the average person would think that I was insane so perhaps I am not so "steady" as you think.... I drive fast in my car but wear a seatbelt too. ;)

yes but you drive a rolls canardly ;)

I think that it is time for me to rethink my position against animal sacrafice. :p

It is very much a cultural thing. Most of the younger East European girls live life in the short-term. They are much more willing to bed a guy of any age who can show them some life experiences, but you are only a chapter in their book, they are not willing to make you the center of their lives.

When they hit 25 or 26 they start to look around to build a nest. If you are looking for a mate you have to catch them at just the right time and in the right frame of mind.

loooking for a mate,lmao.

It almost happened to me. I flew into Manila, and she was supposed to meet me outside the airport. I walked out to this area where there were hundreds of people waiting, but no sign of her. Hehehe...I had met this nice vietnamese/american on the flight who had a driver picking him up, and he had offered to drive my gf and I to my hotel. When she wasn't there, he had pity written all over his face....lol

Even the armed police guy guarding the entry seemed to feel sorry for me and allowed me back into the terminal to look for her there.

Finally, she showed up. Traffic had been horrible...and she also confessed that she had been postponing to the last minute because she was terrified to meet me in person. Hehehe...funny how someone can really be a "little shy" once you take them away from the computer screen. :P

Must be terrible if someone really doesn't show up at all; I've read posts where people describe this. In my case, before she showed up, I remember thinking that I was gonna have a nice vacation no matter what. For one thing, there certainly was not a shortage of beautiful women in that country...very nice and approachable too. Of course the purpose of the trip was only to meet HER, but if she had turned out to be a flake I think I would still have had a nice vacation.

Bottom line is that no one should committ to meeting someone else in person if they don't have the intention of following through. I can understand the anxiety around meeting someone for real for the first time, but having someone travel thousands and miles and then let them down is just cruel.

Have a nice trip...I'm sure everything works out! :)

Could you try making your post a little shorter next time? I always fall to sleep before i get to the end your posts. Geez!

No.

sure your names not boozer?lmao!

Not even...I'm pretty sure it is the same host who like to attack my posts...think I recognize the Boso name from a thread a few months back...Don't even know her, but if it is who I think it is, she's definitely one of the best values on the site, pound for pound. ;)

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I should mention. I am not worried about my girl meeting me at the airport. This is not our first meeting. This time we are meeting in a country different from hers or mine. But it made me want to ask others the question!

In general I would not be worried. Be prepared but not worried!

See you all in two weeks!

Good luck and have fun;)

I never had any NOT show up. BUT,I did go there to AT WORST make a friend. Hopefully,you've been talking to said hosts for a few months,to get to know them.Of course,be prepared,like warned above. I'll be going back overseas in a few weeks,to spend time with some of the girls I met in Ro ages ago,before I go on to teach at another EE country. Good luck,Cuz!!

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why would a man travel hundreds or thousands of miles just to visit with a lady who is married and even has her husband with her on top of that.?
weird

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Beats me.... weird for sure....

Met alot here, always had a great time, but always be careful physically and emotionally. As for money it comes and goes :) Passport, keep a copy at home with friends to send if you loose it.

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That is great, and perfectly respectable. Just remember that people are different in this respect. Many of us who met someone here did not PLAN getting involved for real...nor is it because we cannot find someone where we live...it's just nature taking its course. That's fine, too...my cup of tea doesn't need to be yours, or vice versa...right? ;)

Because men here have a "knight in shining armour" idea that they will "rescue" a beautiful foreign women from poverty and life happily ever after with lots of rampant sex.

In reality the "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go, all sending her money for her sick dog/mother/grandmother/hamster.

SOME do have 5 men "on the go" sending money, but it's not as common as you thinmk, because a scam like that takes a lot of work and the girls here are seldom thinking of ways to truly maximize their earnings here, even in the 'above-the-board' strategies a host can legitimately use here.

The vast majority of the girls here sit (and often sleep) in front of the computer monitor waiting passively for the "beep" of a member entering video.

I seldom worry about the classic scams here. The worst thing that I find is the slow-to-strip girl.

Sorry, the second paragraph was a bit of an exaggeration :). But there is often a lack of sincerity from the hosts based on just getting more money from the viewer. But the first thing - the "rescue"....that's so true, and those men need to get over it. It's not like that.

"(T)he "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go" is a true industry that I DON'T find here. It is mostly in the mail-order bride business.

The insincerity here goes both ways. I know girls that send the hometown boyfriend away as she spends time with a foreign lover (or maybe mark) and also the member who says he is single and available and even wrangles a few in-country visits until the wife finds out.

I know one mature member who has visited a Russian babe a couple times and had her on a monthly allowance for over a year since the last time he saw her. I asked him if the sex was that good to keep paying for it months and months later. He also sent money for bedroom sets and vacations. She doesn't really work him at this, he is a willing contributor in an attempt to secure her attachment to him. He doen't seem to get it.

It's still a tad too expensive!

$0.75, low enough?

Ok, ok... Deal :-D

could be great...or could be terrible.

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lol you must be kidding :P Or you are deeply in Non-adult and have no idea about what is going on beyond it :P
Wank wank... Oops i mean wink wink :)

LMAO)))))))

It is nerves at first meeting, when couple know nothing about each other. CCmail me your mobile phone number, and i will talk to you :D

Isn't it your job to entertain us ?
As for the phone we want to hear you talk dirty and are to busy with other things to chat.

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The host gets paid to chat. The viewer does not. As long as the viewer is in your video, you are making money. So just shut up!

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In free chat they have no right to waste your time. But when they are in paid videochat, they can say alot or say nothing. Just do your show and think about the money you are making.

Good post Cassy!
Your making an important suggestion,
so viewers will get more out of their video session
with a chathost.
Its about the viewer and chathost interacting.
Its sad that some viewers don't see, that
the reason a video session was not as enjoyable,
was their own fault!

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I am NOT offended that a host is here for the money. This is a business. All business exists to make money, otherwise they wil go out of business.

er...who?

ur cute as a bunny...

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nice yahmamoto :P

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cool wanda--you are sweet

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always keep an open mind about things. most relationships dont work out in the end whether they are in real or on the net. if you dont trust people you will lose more than if you do trust and get burned again. just a thought .

I also admire Charlotte and Wanda. I feel that both are very creative and have an excellent personality. I did not know they had a bad experience, but if they did they do not deserve to be treated in a bad way. Wanda and Charlotte, continue to be yourselves and lots of good wishes for suceess in the ftture.

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We do have to chat in the near future. I would like that.

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charlotte,, hey im chase,, how do you do,, i heard you were a business lady--cool,,, can we have lunch,, i have a proposal to check out with you

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Charlotte you made me scared :(

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how can you say that all guys are incapable of any relationship because they go to the internet. i have friends here so i disagree.

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Oh you're so clever! Why can't those dumb men just see things your way? It's never about you....it's always them. They're dumb and you are smart. If all men could just live by your rules the world would be perfect and faultless - just like you are!

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I read it again and if there's something between the lines of 'all men on-line are....' then I'm missing it.

I can't really believe you've met that many men and they've all been the same. It just tells me you attract a certain type by the way you behave. Or you make men behave a certain way by the way you act towards them.

It just seems to me that you might need to look at yourself and not others.