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I tried it a few times and like it. One change I would recommend is that the number of clothes (to be removed) be standardized to just 3-4 pieces. Some hosts have 5 or 6 which is ridiculous and a sign of money grabbing!

Welcome to another year!

I hope you had a great day and I look forward to celebrating your Birthday in Amsterdam (2 weeks, 4 days to go!)

All the Best mate....

hope to find someone to chat with who has puffy nipples

well its time to pack it up and say by farewell to cc land and all you internet fantasies searches. Its been a great 4 years being here with you and all that mushy stuff, you ask what will i do now, well after being here and listening and watching you all i know it is about time for me to get out of the house more and join the real world as you call it or the real life as some of you call it, so no personal good-byes for me, since their are so many i have met here and might offend somebody if i leave their name off, so all i can say is keep on of keeping on with your life, its full of surprises and love out their--good luck and thanks for the laughs

hope u have a wonderful day alexa take care and have a few drinks for me kiss

when will some grow up and quit all this silly chat and make chat the way it use to be--fun-sexy--fantasy ,,,, not this old crap thats been going on for the last several months, sorry I had to get that off my chest, but i hear the same old lines on here from members and host a like,,, time for some new people,,, thinking of new,, time for me to change my screen name

Yeah, I will be back after my stomach settles. Take care, Kids...

bye,
i.m.

Ivymike is away from camcontacts right now. Please leave a message with one of the regular viewers. They will tell me – unless you are a smoking hot host. Then they will probably *not* tell me and instead keep you for themselves. Rat B*st*rds ;)

doesnt fit song. sorry.

Dealing with Internet Addiction is no different than dealing with any other type of addiction. Whether you are addicted to heroin, gambling, cigarettes, sexual deviancy, or eating Milky Way bars, all addictions have certain basic elements in common.

The purpose of this Special Report is to review some of these common elements, so you can see if they relate to your own situation. While all addictions can ultimately be cured, this is not always an easy or painless process. A high degree of commitment to breaking established habits is required, as are persistence, dedication, honesty, and self-compassion.

A. Denial

All people who are addicted (to anything) have some degree of denial. Without denial, most addictions would not have become established in the first place.

Denial can take many forms. At the milder extremes, a person may believe "I can handle this problem whenever I decide to do so." The fact that one has a problem is at least acknowledged. At the other extreme, denial often takes the form of: "What problem? I don't have a problem. You've got the problem, Dude. And besides, you're beginning to tick me off!"

Denial can sometimes be so strong that a person's whole life begins to deteriorate, and they still maintain everything is "just fine." Jobs can be lost, marriages can dissolve, a person's health can become affected, and all of these things (and more) can be present for some time before the person ultimately recognizes there is a problem to be solved.

B. Failing to Ask for Help

The second hallmark of most addictions is that people affected are very reluctant to ask for help. The mindset of most addicts is: "I can beat this myself." Addicts are often very proud individuals. Not only are they reluctant to ask other people for help, but even when they do, they don't accept the advice of others easily. Another mistake most addicts make when they do decide to seek help is they ask the wrong kinds of people. Asking family members and friends is not often productive. You would think addicts would avoid asking people who have identical or similar problems themselves, especially if they haven't been successful at dealing with them, but such is not the case.

The best thing to do is to look for individuals or professionals who know how to cure addicted people. While these resource people are rare, you should keep looking for them. If you hook up with someone who claims to have this ability, look at your results and don't hang around too long with this person if you don't see yourself making progress. Keep looking for the right experienced helper and you will eventually find one that works well with you.

C. Lack of Other Pleasures

One thing that is true about most, but not all addictions, is they are often either the only or the strongest source of pleasure and satisfaction in a person's life.

People who become addicted often do so because their lives are not fullfilling. They can't seem to find passion, enjoyment, adventure, or pleasure from life itself, so they have to invent these experiences in other ways. Whether such feelings come to them through gambling, getting "high," "tuning out," or becomming overinvolved with the Internet, their work, their hobbies, or anything else, there is often a lack of other pleasures that drive people (at least in part) to crave pleasure from their addictive behaviors.

This becomes important when you try to end your addiction. If you try to eliminate your main source of pleasure in life without being able to replace it immediately with other sources of pleasure, it is doubtful you will be able to stay away from your addictive behavior very long.

In spite of busy times due to studies, I wish you a joyful and bright birthday, hoping many CC members and hosts know where to send you a little or big gift!

Can hosts see when a member is on line or last log-in info?

Following on from below with how many you met / slept with etc I am curious as to what happened after meeting and the sex ........ so hosts ....
1. How many invited you to their own countries or to live with them ?
2. How many proposed even ?
3. Did you talk as much with them after the sex as before ?

For the record i met two , slept with both and remained friends after but talked less .. I think we all moved on and neither was going to be long term .........

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To all Moms.

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Just in case some of you don't know, Imshy (Wayne) has a birthday tomorrow. I know how old he is, and I could be persuaded to tell. (lol)
Have a good one Wayne.

hello people, im new to this so go easy on me, lol i really like your name young lady

...erling and cathy (omp) are in love. yep. its true and confirmed.

I've been a faithful visitor to CC for maybe 6 years now and I've been thinking lately (believe it or not)...

Have you ever seen any of the chathosts here 'diversify' and go further afield? I mean, if they work in studios (or alone), they often have worked on different webcam sites.. but have you ever seen any of them as 'real' models, working as pornstars, seen them 'on the street' out in public, etc?

I'm curious, because one of the girls I first met on CC years and years ago, had been working the webcam sites, off and on - maybe working a year at a time on a webcam site, followed by a year not working ANY webcams, and so on... but in between the periods of working on webcams, photos of her could be found on a fetish web site...

I know the official story is the chathosts are often on here 'for fun' but we know some of the girls are using webcams as their primary source of income... and I sometimes wonder if they actually can develop an 'adult industry' career by starting-out on here...

What are your thoughts? ...from both viewers and chathosts, please..

how do these girls sit around for hours and sometimes walk away with so little money???

After many years of marriage a man wrote this letter to his wife:
My Dear Wife,

You will surely understand that I have certain needs that you with your 54-year-old body can no longer supply. However, I am very happy with you and I value you as a good wife. Therefore, after reading this letter I hope that you will not wrongly interpret the fact I will be spending the evening with my 18-year-old secretary at the Comfort Inn Hotel. Please don't be perturbed, I shall be back home before midnight.

When the man came home, he found a following letter on the dining room table

My Dear Husband,

I received your letter and thank you for your honesty. I would like to take this opportunity to remind you that you are also 54 years old. At the same time, I would like to inform you that while you are reading this, I will be at the Hotel Fiesta with Michael, my tennis coach, who, like your secretary, also is 18.

As a successful businessman, and with your excellent knowledge of maths, you will understand that we are in the same situation, although with one small difference...........
18 goes into 54 a lot more times than 54 goes into 18. Therefore, I will not be back until lunchtime tomorrow!

To me, fair friend, you never can be old,
For as you were when first your eye I eye’d,
Such seems your beauty still.

Leonard777 please send me a CCmail, thanks...

After a minor difference of opinion over a video credit with CC I have decided to pack it for good. I have visitors coming from South America for 5 weeks and I don't think I will have the time, money or opportunity to log on let alone practice my backhand. I am hopeful between that time away from CC and the minor slight from CC customer support I will be able to break away for good. Wishful thinking I know.

I want to wish everyone the best of luck. I have the utmost respect for the hosts and pretty much total distain for the members including me. I can't say I made any lasting friendships but I did fall in love a few times, got my heart broken a few times and regrettably hurt a few people along the way. I have seen some of the most beautiful women in the world and had some good and sometimes very odd experiences. I could have done a lot with the money I spent here but while I wince when I realize how much I spent I do not cry over split milk. Plus some hosts were worth every penney.

CC is the best of times and the worst of times. But all things do come to an end. Peace to all of you.

I leave cc email to some of the hosts I view and although some are very good at replies many will not.

If that is the case i drop the host like a hot potatoe because it shows her character and attitude toward viewers so a lesson for those wise enough to read this.............................