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The USA have a few large Russian communities (Miami, San Francisco, etc.) and maybe a part of the host's family or friend's as well. It can be good enough reasons for her to block the USA. Difficult to talk about racism as so many races are living there!

Isn't it possible to selectively block individual states rather than the entire country?

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thanks for unblocking! damn your HOT!! me like :)

USA? She's blocking a southern european country as well. Thats host n.3 in the last couple of days... wtf?

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their negative comments teenbabe - never justify yourself to anyone here - wtf do they know anyway?

"They" probably dont know much, but... "They" have money to spend that she won't even smell cuz she chose to block them. Who lost? Not "they", but teenbabe777 :-P

If it is something she chooses not to have I don't see how it can really be considered to be her loss

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it is true that you can block by state..... do you just not trust americans in general then?

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Of course a chathost should be able to block
any where they choose.
I would agree with forget
but.....................
why does CC show the chathost picture?????????????
If the viewer is not allowed to see the profile, why show the picture?
This is something CC should fix.
Because I don't blame viewers for feeling insulted.
Anyways, there are many, many chathosts that are more
beautiful and friendly then this one, so no one should let it
bother them!

as a member i consider this very insulting.

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mabe you can be honest and tell us what countries or states you do block?

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This line of discussion was very interesting to me. I did not realize that I am one of those blocked until I read this line of chat and checked on her profile. This to me means that I am one that she does not wish to come to her video or check her profile. Since I did not even know she was a host before this time then I must say that it is her choice to block me and I will be okay with that. I have found a way to save some money. Thank you.

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really? thats a big surprise !

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who cares honey...u made your bed...now you must sleep in it...lol

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you think you'll be so famous that people will recognize you every where you go? lmao!

That is your choice for more privacy. As far as I am concerned, you can have the more privacy and I get to keep some of my money. Thank you.

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I dont even remember the face or name of the girl i wanked with abt half an hour ago. Who knows how many famous porn stars I've seen in the malls and never recognized, lol

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good suggestion,it's how you cope with reality.

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you speak russian?

Yes I speak a little I am just starting to take lessons. Why?

I totally agree with you. I so much like when i have few lines with the mem in text chat before going in video. I am more relaxed and the show is always better when u feel a certain connection between.

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I respect your opinion. However i still give the courtesy of not going in vid if host has other mbr. :) i understand your stand.

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Dude, open vid is open vid.
You want privacy then pay for it and go 121 stop bitching and being such a cheap ass.

Oh how I enjoy the articulacy and witty invective of the New World.

being sarcastic but he's being pithy direct and honest - non of the pretentious crap of the Old World ;-)

articulacy? even spell check here says its wrong

The word is fine, try the Oxford English Dictionary and consign any spell-checker to the oblivion they deserve. Btw, apt nickname :P

are just being pompous

I think it's one of those Limey-type words. Like the kind they use when they're off smoking fags or rubbing their beans on toast.

I agreee with Wanda. Even though there seems to be some type of unwritten rule observed by some to give priority to the first person into open and for some members to wait until the host has finished before entering video if she already has a member, the reality is if a member wants one to one, he should go one to one. And if hosts only wants to talk to one member at a time, she should make her one to one price very close to her open price to encourage members to choose one to one instead of open. I often try to save money by going one to one, but if another guy jumps in, as much as I hate that, and as much as some hosts hate that, he isn't doing anything wrong.

i rather not have free chat at all
hope some day they remove free chat like on some other sites
as for open i'd have 10 people at once, as long as the $ is rolling in it's all great

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Exactly!
Good reply! :)

missed you:)

you ask a very easy question to answer. from members viewpoint it save money not having to go through interview process (how old, u have cam?). from hosts point of view, they are getting double and triple money by accepting multiple members. why not?

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there r degrees of hanging about in text chat. on more than one ocassion, in an effort to get a 'feel' for the host... i've only managed to utter/type a few sentences before me reprimanded that i should enter vid to find all the 'answers' to my hearts content. so...i expect to have some sort of a conversation with the host prior to entering into vid...otherwise i look elsewhere.

Thats fine Hun, we all entitled 2 do as we wish . x . However while were on the subject I might add that it is my regular viewers that get FREE Chat b4, Once I know a viewer, and no they spend money watching my stuff then they get a lot of FREE Chat, emails,info on wot Im up2 etc. I think the viewers who spend money should get priority for FREE Chat as apposed 2 the new member in FREE Chat whos never spent a dime, hasnt read my profile/forum checked pics etc. Also I feel there is enough info about me in these places, the next step is VIDEO, for LIVE Chat and viewing. This is just my opinion and you are welcome 2 pass me by.xxx enjoy.x

sounds good hun...i might add that indeed u r in control. ;)

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now don't miss the irony in that statement...

I respect your opinion. However if I do not have a chance to get to know you before vid how can I become regular. No offense but your bio information is fine. Your very attractive. But I still think common courtesy should be used.

password vids are the only way to go if you know the girl very good,ask her if she will do it for you.

No matter what, there is no correct respons to this one. It all depends on the preference of viewers and hosts. I used to be the viewer that used to wait until the host finished her video and then entered.

There have already been some good points here that I was going to bring up myself. Some hosts don't mind to have multiple viewers at the same time. For hosts it is same show but she gets double or triple the income for same time. Some hosts prefer that, others prefer just 1 viewer and quality time vs quantity. The only way to be only viewer is one2one, but some hosts jack up the price so much for that option, that for some viewers it is not worth it. And even then some hosts work on multiple sites besides here, so there is never no guarantee that if you chose that option that she is truly only just doing video for you if she happens to get a viewer from her other sites during the same time.

To end this short, it turns out to be quality time vs quantity time. Hosts and viewers have their own preferences on that one. if a viewer wants alone time, then pay for one2one. If viewer doesn't, then you pay the risk of someone else joining in. That's the price you pay. And even if you pay one2one, host might still be working on multiple sites at the same time.

some do talk to viewers on other sites even when in 1-2-1 in CC. Happened to me the other day. Went in 1-2-1 with her - got brief hi then she typed for ages with nothing appearing on my screen. I gave up and left. I prefer open now if another viewer already there, tough luck, I feel no obligation to him and host can choose how many to allow in at any one time.

yes. and beginning to agree that i have gotten some good shows lately in open.

Yes Exactly, Quality Shows 4 me are better. Its these 2nd viewers in Open Session that bother me, for instance I was in show lastnite with a gr8 regular, and another viewer enters, who I dont no, and says close up Pussy, no intro, I was naked - and explained Im in a show at the moment, Il close up as soon as i can, he can watch or come back later..needless 2 say he left without a bye ur leave, kiss my ass or farewell, and rated me badly....ha ha...Its these viewers that I usually block, Bad Manners will not be tolerated in my room (unless pre-discussed roleplay), Plus Im here 2 Get My Rocks Off 2 believe it or not, and viewers like that set me back....swings n roundabouts hey..xxx We just have 2 put up with these things or go Password vid..x

Yep, I do a lot of those 4 special viewers, it works well.

interrupting most times is rude or at least annoying but if you're in open... as long as member is mindful of the original member that's the road you chose.like when you get to the cinema after the movie has started.you go in quietly & watch :--)

u have to understand that each host has a accept button. so they r the ones allowing others to join.

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Busting in on a video in progress is a sure way to save money. Of course it gerenally requires that the host or member be chatting in public during the video. That way the member knows what is going on and when to jump in. Otherwise you have to time it. Give the host a few minutes to ask question. Your name, age, etc. Then give the host a few minutes to get naked. Then whammo. Into the vid and hope for hot action. Of course more often than not you see a fully clothed host. But sometimes you see some really good stuff especially if the member visiting the host is a regular. Pathetic? Of course? Cheap? Sure. But hosts try and extend videos all the time. This a member trick to shorten a video to just the hot parts. All's fair.

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I'm of mixed minds here. I agree with the sentiment that coming first to text and asking if the host is available for chat is most polite. On the other hand, I have a favourite who is both popular and not on-line a lot. I've lost chances to chat with her while I was in text and someone else has "jumped the queue" straight to 121. Very frustrating.

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Yes Indeed, I have this a lot ha ha I think its funny, and have 2 say sorry u mist ur chance, dont dilly dally, make sure you get in 1st..because if I do a show for hour say then likelyhood is Il be logging off afterwards...a very satisfied women LOL

ur expecting courtesy out of the members? forgetting the fact that will never happen ur idea of courtesy is absurd.. OPEN MEANS OPEN
PAY FOR 121

I believe in going to text chat or community chat first . It is there where I ask about coming to video even if I am new to the host or know the host. .... I just consider it a courtesy to do that first before I come to video. ... Most will tell me it is okay and sometimes they will tell me to come in a couple of minutes which is okay with me also.

glamour cat is f'd up. to be avoided.

Not so shy cat. - she promised 'hot strip in 1-2-1 only' - her words. Was topless only which took a long time, then she danced around some more so I asked, and the rest? She replied, I don't take off panties. I left, won't be back.

report her for credit.

I understand the girls work here for money reasons. Many girls here are nice and honest, but they should realize that if they go to adult areas they need to show and not be shy. I too hate it when i go to hi-lo and the girl starts being shy after they lose the skirt or top. Girls, i know u need the money and that's why u move to adult categories, but please understand the adult categories are for girls that are not shy to be seen naked. I hope u understand!

it is my understanding that host is obligated to complete the strip in hi lo (if member wins) or member gets credit.

if you spend 10-20 minutes to find out,you deserve everything you get!!

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I am not so sure they all know what to do. One girl in adult told me that she doesnt do shows but she want to see men do show for her. So she want us to pay her for doing shows for her. If i want to show my body to someone i wont to pay for doing that. I think she mix up how it works here:) Or maybe she think we are fools

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no they dont or they try to fool newbies who dont know rules. how would a host know about what hosts do????

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:-)

I made you look - hee, hee

:-)

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Based on your propensity to block members, it figures you would say its always the members fault. Nothing new from you Wanda with your extreme bias.

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Please read her profile. She threatens to block members there. This is a fun site not a prison. She is the antithesis of every other nice host here.

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good news for him.......he can now attempt to be number 1 on this yrs block list and have an entire year to ramp up the level of his whining

give that dead horse a break :--)

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I disagree with you. I think Wanda is outstanding. She blocks only when someone deserves to be blocked. She and other hosts do not have to put up with rude visitors. That is the reason for the block feature.

Wrong the main purpose that was intended by blocking was so people in HER OWN COUNTRY would not see her. Now it is used like eating pop corn.

where did she say its always the members fault

I agree with you Kylie. It is wise that the member knows ahead of time what will happen if it is different from the category rules. That way the member can choose to stay or leave. This should be done without being rude. The one thing that I do dislike is when a host says to come to 121 and you will find out......When I do come 121 the answer is maybe and finally the host says no. .... That tells me to leave very quickly and to never return to that host.

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After a few minutes of formalities always ask. Before I continue this conversation may I ask what you do in video? If you get a it depends, or if I am in the mood, or come and find out, or I am shy, then you can forget it. No strip. If a host is honest she will tell you the limits (if any) of her show. You can ask politely and she should answer professionally. I do agree that Little Shy and above should require a minimum of topless. If not stay in Glamour or non-adult.

I agree. Those answers usually point to someone who doesn't really want to do anything, but wants you to spend money on them anyway.

Personally, I'd like to see the Glamour category just removed. It serves no purpose other than to confuse people.
Adult cams (topless all the way to full hardcore) go to the adult categories... Non-adult (I'm shy, just wanna talk, here to make friends) go to the the non-adult categories. Everyone knows what to expect as a starting point, and less games and guess work for your money.

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Or one colour.. green...

I didn't say two categories total, did I?
But get rid of the ambiguous one. You still have the others inside for varying degrees of performances as the hostess wishes.
But yes, separate the ADULT from the NON-ADULT.

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hehe, make no comments about girls playing with the rules? That's sort of what this was about in the first place..

All I was saying is that the glamour category, as it stands now, confuses members and makes it harder for them to know what to expect. Confusing your customers is not usually considered good busines sense. And "use ur brains" is not really a solution. It tends to do things like make the guy with the credit card say Fine I'll go somewhere else where it is clear.

Maybe this has been mentioned many times before, like you say. That should only go to show that there IS a problem. One thing that is mentioned over and over is The Rules. Are the rules of each category even posted on the site for members to see? I saw some giving a brief description of the non-adult categories, but little else. Maybe this is why it seems so much clearer to the performers. I did look for a clear explanation of the categories, but maybe I am just blind and missed it. Hehe ;)

But again, what I was saying was more along the lines of an overall Adult category that includes nudity... (ie. Little Shy, Not So Shy, etc) and the Non-Adult section where nudity is not allowed and not expected. Want Glamour, fine. Keep it. But put it in one or the other. Hell, even have two Glam categories if that suits the purpose.. one in adult, one in Non. If performer feels adult that day she can go there. If she just wants to chit-chat or tease only, she can go Non Adult Glam. No problem.
It's the gray area "maybe I am adult, maybe I am not, you'll just have to find out when you get here" that is the problem for the members.

but the thing that really pisses me off is when I go in 1-2-1 and host is logged into another site - so, it is NOT 1-21 so I don't get what I pay for! I sit there while she chats to a viewer from another site - so I leave as soon as I realise what she is doing. Bad business though - I never return.

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cc mail me

Neil Armstrong lived there for many years.
:-)

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I can be your photographer if you like. Just let me know at which door I should ring!

Good luck with that.

So, you’re pretty smart and you’ve said some pretty smart things, but you didn’t write them down, did you?
Which means you don’t (regularly) quote yourself, do you? BIG Mistake. LESSON LEARNED: If want other people to quote YOU, you need to quote yourself first. Because if you don't quote yourself, nobody else will. Don’t worry. It doesn’t make you an egomaniac.

what the hell is going on here?

is really confuzed

who cares!!

Pay attention. Sometimes you might say something smart and think, “Damn, that was pretty good!” Or a friend of yours might ask, “Hey, can I quote you on that?” When things like this happen, you MUST recognize them as cues to your brilliance. Because you ARE brilliant.

and someday you will be there to--so don't worry be happy

lol......i will hold my breath......

pathetic

I know that I am pathetic. But at least I am only hurting myself and know that I have a problem. Given that a large percentage of guys here are married or in "committed" relationships, I am not so bad, but I do need to force myself to make some changes.

Dunno if that is justified - if he pathetic, then aren't we all who pay for a woman's attention and just to look but not touch?

Just wondering if a man could get $5 a min. to get women to vid him. Must ask imnotsoshy.

P.S. member, good luck with good intentions. :-)

no nick never had anyone pay me $5 to vid me...most was $1.80...and in my opinion she paid WAY to much LoL

...And might I point out that the very fact that you are coming to a site like this at all makes it very arguable that you are at least a little pathetic in some ways as well?

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Hi ... Meet me & share a hug ... Okay?

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honest post...followed by various sanctimonious responses (stay tuned) for more.

and followed by your usual attempt to be superior and failing. :P

you make better sense when ur drunk ;)

awww hmm - you know I like you but I worry about you - listen, don't take this place so seriously - all posts hang around for a day or so then disappear off the bottom of the screen. Mercifully forgotten forever.

But you're right, so I'm back on the scotch. Hope to see you in commchat later - a host you and I both adore told me who you are. :P

could he disappear to the bottom of the ocean instead

You two... get a room!

lol, ok we will - wanna join us?

Depends... are you shaved? lol

how 'bout some initials ?

problem is...i've never been to com chat...and have no idea the host u'r referring to...if u share host initials...if match someone I know I'll say so...I highly doubt anyone knows me here.

then she must be telling porkies - lighten up my friend, it doesn't really matter. does it?

wouldn't surprise me in the least :)

cold turkey is the only way or its like trying to give up smoking by reducing the number of cigs you smoke daily.

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The only effective way to stop is total withdrawal.

Your relapses if you try to do this in a gradual way will not really work here............................but live and learn

Dowload NetNanny. Set it up with a password you will never remember. You won't be able to access Porn Sites. CC is on the no no list for NetNanny. Then enjoy life.

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i posit that most don't want you to hear they can't speak your language...don't want you to hear the various humorous/musical/office-like goings on at the studio...and lastly its more intimate and this biz is not about intimacy.

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commit and pay to a fiexed time in video ad am sure tha your desires for sound etc may be followed - remember they spend a lot more time to get a livelihoodthan many members are prepared to commt to - spend the ime to know hosts and is amazing what you get

For the 1st time this week, after more than 2 years here, I've been able to talk to my favs through the mic on my webcam. Took some time because I had to adjust settings of the cam. Now is great, they hear me and I hear them very clearly.

LuvDirty maybe a tech prob for you. How about asking for help in Technical Forum - especially of member 'A Little Technical Knowledge' ? That guy helped me a number times to enjoy CC more.

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i dislike all that phonie moanie bs...usa porm is full of it...bet ur studio mates get tired of it...unless of course u work at home then ur neighbors get to put up with it...lol

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watch out for sound, if you have your speakers up too high wifey is going to ask who is the girl you talking to,

Agreed

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Bekki !

only me

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It always cracks a smile :D

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as unwise as it may be to single out one woman among many ....if you mean the kind of photogenic beauty that you see on the covers of fashion magazines...id vote MonicaBabe....with Chicoryblue a close second.i do not know either one personally but i have seen their archives.it looks like the beauty we all have chosen as "it"...that is not meant in any way to be a slight against either one of those beautiful women.i state it as fact(or maybe better,the fact as i see it)...though i personally have my favorites...the ones i call beautiful to me because beauty really is a subjective thing.in the eye of the beholder....cliches' become cliches' for a reason...lol

i vote for Anna (AboveX) most beautiful girl around here

Seems to be a fact charlie that the camera just loves some faces and is unkind to others but maybe mostly in static shots. Once a woman is animated, you can get an entirely different persective on her beauty or lack of it, don't you think?

Same can happen in reverse. A plain man can enchant a woman with his warmth and humour. Dr Johnson, he of the English dictionary fame, was said to be the ugliest man in London but the most successful with women.

i absolutely agree....and the best example of it for me is this....every woman i ever went to meet looked much different from what i had percieved....it never failed...they always "looked" different....i dont mean to get all "hippy" on ya....but....when you stand face to face with someone....there is certainly a different dynamic....an energy of sorts....what we used to call "aura"....and yes i would agree...the way she moves ...can make her beautiful.something in the way she moves,,,lol

Absolutely right charlie - I met a host 2 years ago and, at the airport, I didn't recognise but she did me. It took me some time in her company to get to know her as a different person to the one that I thought I knew in CC. Incidentally, it worked out well, we still talk all the time and I've have seen her since. Reality though charlie, she is now more like my child, my choice after seeing shop window reflections of beautiful young woman with her 'grandfather'.

i have seen that reflection also....no joke....and wondered to myself..."what in the hell are you doing grandpa charlie"

EWWWW!

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oh com`on! you`re just jealous! i think 98% from girls here would love to look like her, including you!

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i guess you have to read again my post to understand what i wanted to say and who im talking about.

first ....this is to ewwwwww.....explaining humor can be a real drag...but this warrants explanation....im not a grandpa...not yet anyway(whats taking um so long?.....hell if i know)i was using humor to drive a point home....as for the poster named "sure"...well......if the intent of your comment was cruelty....id recommend you start chipping away at that mountain of bitterness inside of you....immediately...dont ever feel that you have to tear others down to build yourself up.your comment was without tact.....and without class

chicks with duffel bags under their eyes and old dudes getting boners for chicks young enough to be their granddaughters are all hella groady.

Chicoryblue is a real model as many here are but I would say she is right up there with the best and has a very natural look too

natural makeup.

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Why not give your consideration>

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My own vote goes to Annabunny

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

agree on that . she's my favorite chick

I'm sure sh'es very nice but care to expand on that dave?

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I cant tell. you got my country blocked so i cant see you.

if it is yours,i can't tell cuz you have me blocked from seeing your profile.LOL

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xextasyx is the most beautiful host here

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if only i could join urbrunette and xextastx in a threesome :))

It happens that the admiration is reciprocal :) i like Evi - UrBrunette too.About the threesome...ummm...i don't know who you are so i cannot tell...but about Evi and me...anytime :D.Or maybe a 3some Monikababe, UrBrunette and me...anytime, anywhere, anyhow :D.

Cheater:(

Evi is a very sexy lady , lets get it on :P

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at the end of the day...what's a pretty face anyway? most have the unapproachable 'ice-queen' attitude and personality to go with it, are not that interesting, could care less about you unless of course you can do smthg for them, could care less about the world at large, love to talk about themselves...way way too narcissistic for my tastes. however, if you're a bit like that yourself then maybe its a union made in heaven. Otherwise, for me its better to seek someone not considered 'model' material and is grounded in reality, has smthg to say might think and act outside the box. Why waste your time parading around some pop-culture bimbo...to support your male vanity ?!

Wanda, I like this one. It made me smile too.

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was actually an australian sporting captain who was given that as his nickname.he is still called nobody.

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life is life and full of surprises and if you smile you become somebody and nobody will know------wanda this is a quote taken from the quote of nobody

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Sure Wanda, I have plenty: A somebody was once a nobody who wanted to and did.

i like this quote......."you're nobody until somebody loves you"

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oh english - be honest without lying

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most women here are bi-its the new generation thing

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i have only one girl that keeps me coming back so i wish she would leave.

i could stop being a heroin addict if only the shit would just disappear(and yes,this is only satire)

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if i could kiss anyone right on the mouth at this very moment in time....i would pick "hotsexbitch"..wow!....i even love the name...i gotta change mine to something more appropriate....."hotsexbastard"...whatta ya think?

bring me back a souvinour

tell me if a week is long enough to get over this cc addiction around here--I don't think a week will do it, maybe austin you need to make it a month

i say away for a year once--and now im back--tell me why am I

watch out Brasov---> it will never be the same, hide your girlfriends and wives, the ice man is coming

have a great time and give her a hug and kiss from me and who knows your addiction made be cure

your not the only one here that has a addiction to cc---just look at the number of people here

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have fun my love and come back soon we need more addiction's around here and make sure you visit you know who when you get there-kiss

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he hopes breasts will be used against him

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Then she said "anything you say will be taken down" so he said "Panties"

so you been there? tell us more details please :D

Hey, Nadeen ....you aready know everything about me. Can't give everyone our secret information can we

Hmmm, I often threaten men like that :))))

Hosts do not threaten me like that ... lol

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I love surprises :p

:p

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two can be as lonely as one.it's the lonliest number since the number one

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Several Hosts on here I would give "one". Not so lonely then :)

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To me... it can not be 100% because I am one who has visited non adult to just chat. This is not the only area I go to, but when I do go ...I do it with the intention to just chat. ...I do wish some of the hosts there were in adult category and I may tell them that, but not always

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Since many of the nonadult girls also have IDs in Glamour or are willing to log on and log off and switch to an adult category I do looking for what I always look for. A hot girl. I know a few true non-adult hosts well and you would not believe what they see. I think some members get a kick out of abusing themselves in front of girls who are nonadult. Kind of like virtual flashing without the trial and the stay in prison.

yes the kind that wear rain coats and open them to try to shock girls.

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trying to shock.

its about doing something you've been told not to do....but you do it anyway....therein lies the thrill

lol

good grief man you need a real life not virtutal

you are so depressing - never anything to contribute here, just an asshole trying to be superior in a way you never are in real life

well said Nick x

The problem is ... after you have stepped in the virtual where your fantasy can take control over you ... can you "live" into the real world, appreciate the real touches , the real words out spoken in front of you not thru a screen or phone, can you find happiness in the real world, can you find happiness in a smile of a woman which is right in front of you not behind a screen ... can you move on to the real world ... leave the virtual behind ...
Many cannot leave behind the virtual, where every day new faces come, new thongs&bras , challenges after challenges ... while in the real world can find much less - unless you are perfectly realistic and mature (mentally mature, not talking about age ) and realize the border between real and fantasy

Taking into the real life a relation started on a porn site ... it is a big challenge ... for both ... which does not last if one of them fail to break the border between real and virtual ... and live the reality.

Thats why members/hosts finish disappointed with a broken heart ... when they realize they were just a piece of someone fantasy which it doesnt have a place in the reality .... when they realized they were just tools , not seen as humans with real feelings, when they were told lies, when they discover sacrifices they made were not worth

For the first year after I first discovered these types of sites I started looking at every 16-25 year old girl around me as if she was a chathost. Then it tapered off.

Congrats on your findings, present conquests, and travel adventures. However most of us dont come here looking for romance, not even to make friends with the hosts. I know a lot of members here who have a common life, are married and have a good family and dont wish an extra marital adventure. I don't wish to meet any of the girls or be friends with any of them, I am just here to be entertained. Many girls are in their early 20’s and are here to make money and don’t want a 40 something loser as a husband. They have a life and many a good ring of friends which include nice healthy young guys.
There is nothing evil with coming here and expect a good adult show from anyone registered as a host. This is a site created with the voyeurism and adult show concept and that’s what most of us expect when we register. I dont criticize those of you that come here looking for "LOVE", but please leave the rest of us that only come here for a good show our right to complain when the service is not up to our expectancy as paying members. I would definitely agree with you if this site was expressively for meeting. Myself as many others would definitely respect the girls to the fullest and won't ask for strip shows and won't complain if the girl didn't show her body while we pay video. But that's not what this site is about. It's about Adult entertaining. Sure there is non-adult category, but can a minor open an account here? Can a minor be a host? I dont think so.
There are many girls that have been badly spoiled by some members that spend hours and hundreds of dollars trying to get a hope to meet her in real life. I have been surprised by so many hosts with a "I wish to meet you in real" and "I love you". Huh? That’s not what I came here, Sorry!
Like I said, let us complain for those that try to play with our heads and empty our pockets and let us praise those we adore for giving us a good show. Those members that complain have a reason, they are paying and are not getting their money's worth. I know I wouldn't like to go to a restaurant and wait 3 hours for service while I see the other tables being served at less than a 15 minutes wait. It’s not fair if it’s a business. Every girl here is a professional and they should behave as one. They become professional the minute they charge for a service. We want a good service and those hosts that dont perfom give CC a bad name in the adult entertaining industry. That definitely hits CC in the best of their interest. (I am not mentioning specific host and I am not bombarding anyone just exposing my opinion).

with almost everything you say. well said indeed.

You are sooo right, man. I don't come here to make friends and I hate it when hosts ask "do you have many friends here?" And I say, "Well, if by "friends" you mean people I've visited more than once, yes, but true friends? Nope, zero. How can you consider someone you are paying money to for their time, your friend?"

Consider it a business relationship, and people do have friends in business.

Works both ways btw))) Members often ask-maybe we can be friends? Excuse me? Friends? Im not in Friends and Family, its my job, im here to make money and not friends. And When i say it they get so pissed off, and then tell everyone in forums what bitch i am))) Well whatever))

There you go! Perfect example of what Ric said and a fact of what's thought by most if not all hosts in CC or in any other pay per view site.

Atl least i dont act, lie and pretend;)

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dont worry the moderators removed all those postings yesterday.

Sure, after Nick sent 101 emails to cc, hahaha!

a voice of reason. Of the thousands of members, the vast majority come here to be entertained (to fill some sexual void in their lives). My guess is the forums display a skewed minor customer demographic, those minority of members that are looking for LOVE or friendship (to fill some emotional/romantic void in their lives). It is more likely that this latter demographic would be posting here rather than those that want to get their rocks off and leave. Thanks Ric for giving voice to the silent majority of which I am part. (Though I do like to read the forums its like a combination of a telenovela and car wreck)

How can it be a Sexual VOID ? sorry dont agree with that, try Open MInded, WIshing 2 Experiment, and Up 4 FUN.xx

Because if you had someone who was open minded, up for fun, wishing to experiment you wouldn't have to pay for it. (unless of course paying for it gets your rocks off)

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Nah Jiggly (May I call you Jiggly?) its a void, especially if greed is driving your fun.

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Doesnt sexual void mean emotional void?If u have no one to make love with must be an empty place in ur emotional life?Things u mentioned above r tightly coupled in most of cases,so no point of trying to prove us how happy loved and loving ur in ur real life.Be logical,ok?If u dont need to have friends and love here,it doesnt mean u do not have emotional void in ur life.
Good luck.

Your assumption is incorrect. Sexual and emotional voids are two different things. I didnt describe my life because, like ric, I am not here to make friends, meet someone, creat ea persona. This isn't the Oprah show for me.

I didnt say those were the same things,i said they were connected and came together.Emotional life cant be described as a happy one if a person doesnt have or have not enough sex,right?And sex every day doesnt make u a happy one,especially sex with a right hand:P But on the other hand all have thier priorities:P Maybe u missed my point,but is what i meant.

here is what you said "Doesnt sexual void mean emotional void?" Seems pretty clear you were equating the two.

Do they interconenct? of course they often do. what your initial response had to do with my first post I don't have the faintest.

Absolutely. Allow me to be more abrupt.

I welcome the complaints about awful hosts as I'll know who to avoid. Some of us don't come here with the expectation that some stunning Eastern European woman will fall for them. Some of us just want a service. That's why we get very pissed off when self-important princesses (not naming any names) take our money and then somehow expect us to entertain them.

The more "this host is a waste of money" posts I see, the better. Just another to cross off the list.

The "white knight" types - please just shut up. Have your own host-ass-kissing threads and tiresome waffling in the chat room, but if you don't like the critical threads, just stay out of them. No one gives a **** about your opinion except the three other people on the site who are like you.

Just like the "Black Knight" types stay out of threads wishing a host a simple happy birthday.

Ric, I wish to meet you in real and I love you! =))

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The hosts come here to work for the money.
The member come here for a show.
Once the member doesn't get a show and the host gets the money, the member is screwed.
This is a win, win game for the hosts. I agree that not all hosts are "self proclaimed direct daughters of God" Most hosts are concious that they need to work the money they are paid at the end of their shift. Its called honesty and good business practice. They are professionals regardless, amateurs dont charge. Like it or not the hosts are considered professionals. I have seen hosts here for more than 3 years, hosting as their only job, and you'll tell me they are amateurs? You've got to be kidding me!!! LOL!

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Oh no Angie, by professional I didn't mean prostitutes. Prostitutes are in full contact with their "customers." This is virtual where the chathosts sell by the minute an image to "members" of a site. I would say the girls here are more like adult models than anything else. Sure there is no implied obligation as to follow all Members orders, but it is in the honesty of each host to respect the Members or perform accordingly. I hope this clarifies my point of view. No offense intended to anyone.

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Nick, you said you had many relations started online and took in the real life. Thats shows your inability to adapt to the real world, being dragged in the virtual world.
You will not understand the feelings of those who have resentments because your feelings are pure virtual , does not have anything from what true love means . When the fantasy is gone, your virtual feelings can disappear with a simple delete contact from list and ignore button ... and u re back online hunting another.
In the real world, love, the commitment ... its not easy to be deleted just like that ... its complex, its made of true feelings ... cant explain it ... u have to actually feel it to understand :) Wish you someday to have this gift in life ... TO TRULY LOVE SOMEONE in the real world

hahahahaha - only 1 poster here understood what I was saying.

who wants to understand u? its already crystal clear u r just here to be the hero of hosts! May all the hosts love you. I pass I have a real life already ;-)

the white knight torch has been passed from tisme to Nick!

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this is really starting to smell like a bad 'soap-opera'...melodramatic bs.

soap? now there's something you are in particular need of, if u get my drift......lol

If the world would turn upside down and the only way to save it would be to have only 1 type of women on the entire planet, type A: very beautiful women type B: very intelligent women (not so beautiful by default, only in this scenario) Which ones would you pick?

As long as the world will still have alcohol I fail to see the real dilema.

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You got it exactly right hotsex. I spent all today sleeping off a truly terrible hangover. Yes, I was falling down drunk when I started this thread and yes I wished I'd just gone to bed instead. Nevermind, whatever, my alcoholic ramblings seemed to have sparked-off quite a debate. I agree with everybody. lol

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a lush as well as a lech - awesome. just as long as you don't guilt trip your much younger lady friend into touching your willy for the free place to stay and then blame it all on the booze, you have my deepest respect.
i wish my grandpa was as cool as you.

sure... its like drugs.. do too much and you lose reality... Is it a numbers game to you or is coz you can;t find that chathost who ticks all boxes?

If you REALLY found that someone special on here, it is good for you. BUT: You said you have had MANY relationships that started virtually and continued in real life. I will only related to the love relationships here. It sounds like they started really nice and smooth over the internet, and they ended in real life at some point. You will say that nothing lasts forever, you gave it a shot, it didn't work out, well, the usual:) But the main reason why they ended is that EVERYONE is different in real life, for instance, you think you really know the person you have been chatting for almost 1 year and when you finally meet, you discover that the "real" person is far from the immage of her you created in your mind via internet.
You also say, and i quote: "I have just had the most stunning vid. She a truly beautiful young woman who now is coming to stay in my home soon. Not for money" ... So you just met, you had some fun in vid, and now she's already moving in with you?! I wish you good luck, but don't get too excited, you will most likely end up disappointed:) You say she is truly "beautiful". Not interesting, not "great", not "smart", but beautiful, since that was the one and only thing you had to say about her, this tells some things about you:) Don't get me wrong here, I am just being realistic, I hope i am wrong, but you sound a bit shallow... a person who's in a constant reasearch for "the one". Second, a woman who accepts to move in with a guy without even meeting him should raise a few question marks above your head:) Not for money? Well you met on a paysite, you have probably been a big spender in her room, add more question marks above your head:) I see the scenario like this: She will need to travel to get to you. She will also have to pay errands/rent etc for her current house. You will send her the money. She will, then dissapear. Again, I hope i am wrong, just trying to make you think not twice but 4 times before getting to a conclusion.
I can agree that virtual relationships between hosts and their viewers can become quite tight and genuine, because the host and the viewer have a lot in common. Online friendships are nothing like real ones though. There are hosts (like me) that actually have fun being on cam, if it's just a nice chat, a strip or a full action show, BUT always keep in mind it is BUSINESS mixed with fun/pleasure, and in a business relationships, even if both parties enjoy eachothers company and establish more intimate bonds, in the end it is still business.
To give one last example: Cam sites are designed mainly for "sexual stress relief". Now let's look at it as the stress generated by day by day life in general. Lots of people decide to see a psychologist/psychiatrist when they feel stressed/depressed and not only. Your psychiatrist knows everything about you. He/she is always there for you. You might even see the therapist as your BEST friend ever. There's a catch though, you are PAYING for those services. Will your "best friend" therapist agree to go out for coffee and cake after the therapy session ended? NO! Think about it:)
I appologize if i sounded mean or insensitive, wish you good luck once again Nick, with whatever you are looking for!

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I truly believe it is not me who should think more darling, but thank you for the advice. No, i have no reason to be jealous. You may be a "simple chathost" as you pointed out, but don't put all other hosts in the same category ;)

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hey Babs! :-) I couldn't read it all either - I wasn't worried, just falling-down drunk. I'm on the wagon now to clean my liver.

Congrats !!1

was a good game , best team won , but good competition ,

wished my fab St peter ladies congrats,, too..

OMG!!!!!!! We won!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH Im so happy and very proud!!!!!!!! Go Zenit!!!!!

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Celtic Glasgow won also a bit :-)

Yeah...great match. Happy Zenit won:-) Congrats Russian ladies!!

Great, congrats on winning such an important cup, hahahaha, ever see a russian club team in Champions League Final?????

yep congrats to Zenit and to our dutch coach Dick Advocaat...
, im proud te be dutch...

Yay)))))))))))))

aww and I was gonna take you to Scotland for a lil holiday - you can forget about it now

ahh...back to your old tricks...i see you've sobered up...lol

so that's what you call what is hiding under your kilt, "the little holiday"?

Well played Zenit F.C. You deserved to win, as you played what my old dad would have called "a blinder " lol.... !!!

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Zenit is a team that went very difficult way to the final. They won Leverkusen in quarter final and FC Bayern Munich 4-0 in semi final. In final they played one of the most boring team that have ever palyed football since Houllier was the manager of Liverpool. Glashow Rangers is probably the only team that have ever played in both semi finals and finals and actually not tryed to score. Advocaat is a class manager as Rangers fans should know because he used to be Rangers manager in 1998-2002. He know how to play good football and watching Zenit play football is great. They always look for a goal. Pure class and they dont have so many star players but the teamwork and love for the game is shining when they play. I love this team. Congratulations Zenit supporters and congratulations to the people who love football because the beauty of football won tonight.

Give me RUGBY anytime, Not that sissyboy round ball sh"t..

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URAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :-))))))))))))

I feel so proud that this is my team and my city :D!!!! Russians are the best :))))))))))))))))

Meet them only for sex? Say it isn't so Joe.

Dunno traveler - I met a host who was totally genuine. almost 3 years later, we are still very much involved in each others lives. And yes, I also met a host where it was only about money for her but interesting experience.

No doubt that there are both "genuine" - for lack of a better description - hosts and hosts that are just in it for the money. I don't think I suggested otherwise in my post. For the majority, however, I'd say it's just about the money. Not that there's anything wrong with that at all. It's the nature of things, after all.

not convinced by what you say - hosts are not some strange breed of female - I know absolutely that one is totally genuine - the other made me laugh, it was so obvious it was all about money

what a long-winded post about something that lives within everybody. double standards are part of EVERY persons' character.value of post,zero.snooze factor,ten.pass me my teddy,zzzzzzz.....

you are clearly a host (lol)

you not only displayed double standards but added bias into your post.the only thing you showed is your narrow-mindedeness which is exacerebated by your limited intelligence because you are WRONG,i'm not a host.so now which of your biased,simplictic stereotypes will you label me with now?

Your post begs a question: Why bother posting a response to a post that you deem to have zero value? It would render your own post as having less than zero value. I'm not disagreeing with you, mind you - perhaps my original post was of zero value - just pointing out an inconsistency, that's all. Enjoy.

i posted because in a world of inconsistency you decided this epithany that you had was worthy of sharing.so by pointing out that i thought it had zero value i added to the world's inconsistency.life is a paradox.

thanks tisme

10 for originality!i was expecting PW or white knight.still being original doesn't override you being wrong.

Thanks for your posts. I find you amusing. Keep up the good work. For someone that obviously fancies themselves intelligent, you have a rather serious problem with spelling. Ironic, isn't it?

For future reference:
epithany = epiphany
exacerebated = exacerbated
simplictic = simplistic

And, no, these weren't merely typos. Check the keyboard.

Now you have something (more) to work on. Best of luck and have fun!

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how do you know that i fancy myself as intelligent?answer,you don't,just using your impression to make a wrong assumption. spelling has no correlation to intelligence,though it is has been shown in studies that those who try to draw this parrallel usually suffer from an inferiority complex that manifests itself with them pretending they are a man of the world or something of that ilk to give them a sense of worth.

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Bwahahaha! Priceless. Actually, Marilyn Vos Savant - the person with the highest measured IQ in the world - wrote a book on spelling. She noted that, "While there is a positive correlation between spelling and intelligence, there are intelligent people who don't spell well and vice versa." So, you see, you're wrong. There is a correlation. Perhaps it applies to you, perhaps not. Personally, I can tell just from your blather and unorganized writing style that you're most likely intellectually challenged. But, truly, this is a case of mind over matter. I'm entertained by your inane comments because you don't matter.

again you make erroneous judgements about me from your impressions & assumptions.now you say i'm wrong by using 1 person's words,yes only 1.certainly not an avalanche of rebuttal.even those words are no ringing endorsement of your claim i'm wrong.as they are not definitive.then you add"perhaps it applies to you,perhaps it doesn't..."seems to me you,like her make statements that are neither black nor white,just shrouded in gray trying to cover bases being like this may mean you can always claim to be at least,partially right but you have an ass full of splinters.anyway thanks for your worthless character assessments but i'm sure your time could be better spent removing those splinters.enjoy yourself mr.gray

Hey, believe whatever you want. If it makes you feel better about yourself or helps you sleep at night, then by all means keep telling yourself that you're very clever. It's no skin off my ball sack.

yup 100% in agreement - hypocrisy

What you are trying to say Traveler is that as long as u pay those hosts to get them in bed ... one should not have a quilt feeling for not involving into a serious relation . I agree with you, whores are whores ... you pay, you get what u wanted and you leave. Its not different from just going to a near place where you could get same for less money. The traveling is only completing the fantasy. You know anyway that as they have slept with you they did it with others too for money ... so you 're just one of many for them.

But on the other side ... are also hosts who are looking for a serious commitment, who do fall in love ... it all depends on what u are looking for but dont lure the girls with lies to get them in bed and turn around when u have your eyes set on another. They are not all whores, your fantasy isnt their fantasy

Yes, I paid in dinners, movies, the cost of traveling. But these are things I'd pay for anyway. So the sex was gravy, with a modest incremental cost. Otherwise, it wouldn't be worth the bother. Others pay directly with money straight into the girl's hand. Nothing wrong with that, either. Different strokes for different folks (no pun intended). I'd argue that degrees of prostitution run across a spectrum, with girls who will only date a "gentleman" (that is, a guy that will pay for their dinner, drinks, vacation, etc.) at one end, and girls who want to be paid directly in cash on a per-intercourse (or otherwise) basis on the other end. I prefer to cavort with the former group as opposed to the latter, but it's a fine line really...

as you move into your 40's you'll crossed into the other group my friend...so be prepared...lol

I'm already in my 40s. But I think you're right about my 50s.

wow you are simply amazing.

I have read all these posts, and you know what I think? I think that Plato was right when he wanted to forbid written texts (through poets) in his idial society. On the other hand, reading and writing develops one's ability to analyze... I am so happy for everybody - CC is a great chance to practice your critical thinking... Isn't it great? :D

It's both - catch his mood, like you have your moods :-)

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harmony, do you know Tuppy Owens? I used to work for her.

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I edited the Outsiders Magazine and organised events for the members. Tuppy set it up for people to have adult relationships for those who were socially isolated. I also kept women members company, did some matchmaking between members and organised prostitutes for male members who wouldn't have sex otherwise. My most important question for those ladies was, how many stairs? I often had to carry a full grown man up to her flat. :P

I'm all about the girl next door look. I love a girl in jeans and t-shirt.

i guess it would totally depend on my mood. Some nights i wouldn't mind seeing my girl in a t-shirt and jeans. But others, well, a nice sheer bodystocking or bra, g-string, garters, and stockings is really hot too!

Girl next door who strip and reveals sexy lacy lingerie with thong. That is the best. Then they say "Thanks Mr. Smith"...I give them $50 and say..."Thanks for babysitting the kids last night".

OMG !!!!! you have stripper heels?? guess that answers your question as far as i'm concerned.LOL but seriously,it all depends on my mood really.some days it's one thing,other days it's another.but as long as your wearing your stripper heels,i'm good.

hey...the girls that dress up in lingerie are a big yawn. they look too much like hookers. Guys like me want to think you are a nice girl, and that you are just taking off your clothes only for them. Alot of guys dont even really care if you take off your clothes, They just want someone to talk to, and will spend alot more money doing that then they would looking at you naked... Dress classy, like a sophisticated woman. That wil be the best...It also takes longer to undress that way!