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Korat 6th August
Hi, I am visiting Korat in Thailand on 6th August and would like to meet a sexy girl/LB so we can go out have a drink, have a laugh and some fun later. Drop me a line and we can arrange to meet. xx
RE: Free Photo Programs
Doesn't Picasa do some editing... I've never used it, but I think it is a free photo program that does basic editing.
Not sure if links are allowed here or not, but just google picasa. It's made by google and free.
Not sure if links are allowed here or not, but just google picasa. It's made by google and free.
RE: Free Photo Programs
Why not try something a little more advanced, like the GIMP.
http://www.gimp.org
It is free software (courtesy of the GPL) and there are many tutorials on the web on how to use it for photo retouching. Just put " GIMP photo tutorial" into google and explore.
Hope that helps.
http://www.gimp.org
It is free software (courtesy of the GPL) and there are many tutorials on the web on how to use it for photo retouching. Just put " GIMP photo tutorial" into google and explore.
Hope that helps.
RE: Free Photo Programs
Yeah, the GIMP is really good. Don't know why that didn't occur to me. I use it on a Linux machine, but there is a Windows version too. Does a lot of the stuff that photoshop does and is free. The user interface is a bit different than a typical windows program, but once you play around with it a bit, it's easy.
RE: Free Photo Programs
Thanks so much Helpful!!! I tried all the programs suggested but I've fallen in love with gimp.org!! My son and his now "zit free" graduation photo thank you also!!!
RE: what me to do?
Yeah, I believe that post. A woman in that position would be scared to death and the post would reflect that nervousness.
Assuming you are serious, you need to tell the member and talk about what to do. Hopefully, he will be there for you and your child. If not, then you have to decide what to do on your own.
Assuming you are serious, you need to tell the member and talk about what to do. Hopefully, he will be there for you and your child. If not, then you have to decide what to do on your own.
RE: what me to do?
I'm inclined to agree. It would not be the first time a member or host tries to stir up some controversy for their own amusement.
Personally I am waiting for the one about a host who has just found she has a sexually transmitted diesese and feels bad for the members who now have it because they slept with them. Of course they will be posting their names for everyone to be warned ;)
Personally I am waiting for the one about a host who has just found she has a sexually transmitted diesese and feels bad for the members who now have it because they slept with them. Of course they will be posting their names for everyone to be warned ;)
RE: what me to do?
Not to split hairs, but I think cynics are not so much paranoid as they are sceptical of the sincerity of people's motives. The original "Cynic," Diogenes was famous for going about the marketplace in broad daylight with a lantern. When asked why he was doing so he replied, "I'm looking for an honest man." Now THAT is cynical!
RE: what me to do?
lol melo,let's atomise this hair & see how many times we can split it.granted cynics position may come from scepticism but i think that comes from paranoia that others are trying to deceive them :--)
RE: what me to do?
Tisyou, Hey I'm up for some good-natured hair splitting, but if we're going to do that we can't "atomise" the hair [see below]*. But no matter; I get your drift.
So, you are claiming that the cynic's skepticism is ultimately rooted in paranoia. While I understand your argument, I would say paranoia is not only too strong, but simply inaccurate by the definition of paranoia as it is used here. Webster: "A tendency...toward excessive or irrational suspiciousness and distrustfulness of others."
No doubt suspiciousness and distrustfulness are a mark of the cynic, but it fails to meet the criterion of "irrational" suspicion or distrust. Indeed it is altogether rational to be suspicious and distrustful in a den of illusions like here!
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*The word “atom” derives from the Greek “atomos”, meaning indivisible [a + tom, to cut] or that which cannot be cut. Before subatomic particles were discovered the atom was thought to be the fundamental unit of all matter. Thus, if we were to atomize a hair, we would NOT be able to split it! And that would defeat our enterprise and entertainment! Now how’s that for hairsplitting?!! Lol! :)
So, you are claiming that the cynic's skepticism is ultimately rooted in paranoia. While I understand your argument, I would say paranoia is not only too strong, but simply inaccurate by the definition of paranoia as it is used here. Webster: "A tendency...toward excessive or irrational suspiciousness and distrustfulness of others."
No doubt suspiciousness and distrustfulness are a mark of the cynic, but it fails to meet the criterion of "irrational" suspicion or distrust. Indeed it is altogether rational to be suspicious and distrustful in a den of illusions like here!
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*The word “atom” derives from the Greek “atomos”, meaning indivisible [a + tom, to cut] or that which cannot be cut. Before subatomic particles were discovered the atom was thought to be the fundamental unit of all matter. Thus, if we were to atomize a hair, we would NOT be able to split it! And that would defeat our enterprise and entertainment! Now how’s that for hairsplitting?!! Lol! :)
RE: what me to do?
What to do? I think you'd be better off talking with him than soliciting advise here. But since you asked, I would ask you if you feel genuine affection for this man and ask if the feeling is mutual. If the answer is yes to both questions then you have the basis for discussing a future together. If not, then you must decide if you want to keep the child or have an abortion. As the French say, "Bon courage."
RE: Hosts raising their prices
For many reasons (which is isn't necessary to mention here) the prices of everything are rising, in the UK and I'm sure where you are too. It is unreasonable not to expect that host's prices will also rise, as they have to meet the increased costs of living the same as everyone else. Member's who complain about price rises are merely looking after their own self-interests and lacking a grasp of economic realities. Having said that, one needs to be cautious of rising prices too sharply as that will only serve to alienate those members who will have happily accepted a more modest increase.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
A member. I need to write a little more (ie.this) if only to dissipate the innuendo associated with the word if written in isolation!
RE: Hosts raising their prices
>>Member's who complain about price rises are merely looking after >>their own self-interests and lacking a grasp of economic realities.
A grasp of economic realities? Hmm!! I truly do take offense to that. It is economic realities that have tighened the purse strings. So, in other words, if hosts want to raise their price so they can "live they way they are accostom to, are lacking a bit of economic reality. It is a matter of marketing. That is, during hard times and falling monetaries, that the hosts should realize that it may not behoove them to increase prices. They should understand that more and more visitors are looking for a bargain now and scrutenizing prices because their own purse strings have been strangled by rising prices. It does cut both ways, unfortunately. So, next time you make a statement accusing the members of doing their best to be frugal with their monetaries should not be bombasted by you whom appear to be a self make millionair. Not everyone is in your envious position.
A grasp of economic realities? Hmm!! I truly do take offense to that. It is economic realities that have tighened the purse strings. So, in other words, if hosts want to raise their price so they can "live they way they are accostom to, are lacking a bit of economic reality. It is a matter of marketing. That is, during hard times and falling monetaries, that the hosts should realize that it may not behoove them to increase prices. They should understand that more and more visitors are looking for a bargain now and scrutenizing prices because their own purse strings have been strangled by rising prices. It does cut both ways, unfortunately. So, next time you make a statement accusing the members of doing their best to be frugal with their monetaries should not be bombasted by you whom appear to be a self make millionair. Not everyone is in your envious position.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
I am sorry you took offence, this was not my intention. There are two factors to the equation, both of which are affected by the "economic realities" in different and conflicting ways. For the member it means they have to tighten the purse strings, in your words, and search out bargains (and it is in this context you say hosts shouldn't raise their prices). However, the obverse affect of "economic realities" for the host is the increased costs of production, both directly and obliquely. Take an example away from cc. The cost of wheat is at record highs, due to the effects of the weather on certain key harvests throughout the world. So supply is reduced at a time when there is also increasing demand in emerging economies. There is only one possible outcome: an increase in the cost of the daily loaf of bread. I might not like it, but I cannot deny the reality that the loaf has to be more expensive; bargains may still be available in some places, but it should not be the expectation. By the way, I am no nearer being a self-made millionaire than you are, and am subject to the same economic pressures as you are.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Supply and demand, lower prices = higher volume = more money. If you sit there with no one at $2.50 per minute, you're making nothing, just using oxygen
RE: Hosts raising their prices
lower prices = more volume = more work.That is it.So many hosts prefer to use oxygen which is free:P And I am sure many of them finally catch thier gold fish:P
RE: Hosts raising their prices
dear i charge 3$ a min for open session and u think 1,4o is a lot???omg i cant believe people complain about this price too what a cheap.........men i m shocked !i guess there will always be complainer if u let them!and if u give them credit!
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Yes, but I never visited her and never will! I will not visit any host whose price is higher than $1.00 in open and $2.00 in 121
RE: Hosts raising their prices
dear pete if u dont visit me is no tragedy there are others that do visit me! lol so it is not a big loss cuty!
RE: Hosts raising their prices
yes sweety i m still very popular and i make very good money on this price 3$ a min so pls dont low down ur price is not worth it especially now that the dollar rate is very very down the worst in last 1o years!
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Your price is very resonable, trust me .I worked several places but this one is the best and treats the hosts very corectly in terms of percentage is why i think girls can afford to offer resonable price.But for me anytihng under 2 per min in open (im instant action and i actually provide the instant action shows , i wont even ask their names or small talk if the member is not showing any intrest in it )and i still think is low.In any other place im almost 4 dollars a min and for those raising an eyebrow , yes , i have private shows and i dont waste oxygen for notihng lol.I like this place cause is more like a comunity than a porn site and I found also members who are very very nice .Im sure are also here hosts that charge more than 3 dolars and have very good traffic abd earn big bucks .The price isnt everything.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
The price debate is not gong to ever go away. The bottom line is that each host must figure out what price works best for her. Some hosts can raise their prices and make a lot of money, and some hosts would be better off lowering their prices. For each host, it is different.
You need to simply experiment and see what works best on the average day. To make the math easy, a host charging $1,00/min and that usually gets 90 minutes of video a day gets $90 (minus what CC gets). If that same host raises her price to $1,50/min, she needs only 60 minutes a day to get that same $90. The question of course is will she get at least 60 minutes of video because some members will stay away if the price went from $1,50 to $1.00. If she does not get at least 60 minutes of video at the higher price, she would be better off with the lower price.
On the other hand, a host that charges, for example $2,00/min and has 60 minutues of video a day makes $120 (minus what CC gets). If that host were to lower her price to $1,00/min, she would need to get 120 minutes of video a day to get that same $120. But she could actually attract more viewers because of the lower price and get 180 minutes of video a day and make $180. She would have to work harder, but she would also get more money in this case. Again, only by experimenting will she know what is best.
There is one final factor. Some members don't mind paying a little bit more because there is the idea in people's heads that you get what you pay for. In other words, a member might thnk that a host with a higher price is a better host even though that is not necessarily true. So even though it is strange, raising your price could actually help you get more members. Also, some hosts like members that pay a higher price because those members usually have more money and are older and more mature.
For my part, I like paying as little as possible, lol, but I will pay more for a host that is worth it. have hosts on my favourites list that charge $2,50 or more. I have paid over $3,00 sometimes just to check out a host that has some nice pics, but not very often, and most of the time, it is not really worth it.
But for me to pay more, the host needs to be a top host. Plus, if I am paying more, I usually am not in the mood to chat too much and want to get down to business. So by raising your price, you might find that members are less willing to chat and will demand a show sooner than in the past. You might not like that.
In your case, I have seen you and think that something like $1,50/min open with a 30% premium for one to one ($1,95/min) should be fine. You are nice to talk to and are very attractive. I don't think that you will lose many members or have shorter video sessons, and will probably make more money.
But for other hosts reading this, I tell her to raise prices because she is a top host here. Not all of you are so be careful before you try the same.
You need to simply experiment and see what works best on the average day. To make the math easy, a host charging $1,00/min and that usually gets 90 minutes of video a day gets $90 (minus what CC gets). If that same host raises her price to $1,50/min, she needs only 60 minutes a day to get that same $90. The question of course is will she get at least 60 minutes of video because some members will stay away if the price went from $1,50 to $1.00. If she does not get at least 60 minutes of video at the higher price, she would be better off with the lower price.
On the other hand, a host that charges, for example $2,00/min and has 60 minutues of video a day makes $120 (minus what CC gets). If that host were to lower her price to $1,00/min, she would need to get 120 minutes of video a day to get that same $120. But she could actually attract more viewers because of the lower price and get 180 minutes of video a day and make $180. She would have to work harder, but she would also get more money in this case. Again, only by experimenting will she know what is best.
There is one final factor. Some members don't mind paying a little bit more because there is the idea in people's heads that you get what you pay for. In other words, a member might thnk that a host with a higher price is a better host even though that is not necessarily true. So even though it is strange, raising your price could actually help you get more members. Also, some hosts like members that pay a higher price because those members usually have more money and are older and more mature.
For my part, I like paying as little as possible, lol, but I will pay more for a host that is worth it. have hosts on my favourites list that charge $2,50 or more. I have paid over $3,00 sometimes just to check out a host that has some nice pics, but not very often, and most of the time, it is not really worth it.
But for me to pay more, the host needs to be a top host. Plus, if I am paying more, I usually am not in the mood to chat too much and want to get down to business. So by raising your price, you might find that members are less willing to chat and will demand a show sooner than in the past. You might not like that.
In your case, I have seen you and think that something like $1,50/min open with a 30% premium for one to one ($1,95/min) should be fine. You are nice to talk to and are very attractive. I don't think that you will lose many members or have shorter video sessons, and will probably make more money.
But for other hosts reading this, I tell her to raise prices because she is a top host here. Not all of you are so be careful before you try the same.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Sorry but I dont buy the higher price theory as a factor. I think newness or hotness is the most important factor in selecting a higher priced host. Also, if the host does not normally strip, I would pay higher to get that exclusive privilege. Given that CC has an excellent selection of hosts, there are many with lower prices to satisfy the needs of members here. Those claiming to make good money with their higher prices are few and far between and are also prone to exaggerate. By bragging about their higher prices, they are just trying to get less lower priced hosts to raise their charges so they are more competitive with them.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Well, newness and host ness are always a factor. That is why my favourites list has 20, not 5 or even 10. Variety is the spice of life, after all. And I do agree that there are a number of lower priced hosts that do a nice job, but I tend to prefer the higher priced ones ($1,50 to about $2,50) as long as they don't get too high ($3,00 or more).. But definitely are some nice value plays at $1,00 or so.
In terms of an "exclusive" strip just for one member, I have never heard of that. I am sure some hosts in glamour and little shy will only strip for certain members, but that is based on trust and how much money a member has spent. Trust is a factor because some hosts fear that a member will record the session. Money spent is a factor because the host is simply dangling a carrot at the end of a stick to get the member to spend more.
The trust thing I get. But for those hosts that will only strip if I am a big spender and come into their room over and over again, their game is a nice way to one star and negative post in the viewer forum. If you want to tell me that you strip after I spend $50 or only in one to one and are honest and upfront with me and do the same for all members, then fine, but don't jerk me around.
Finally, in terms of the hosts claiming that they make good money, many hosts do. I know enough hosts and what they make, not to mention that they tell me what their friends make, and can tell you that $2000 or more a pay period is not unusual. Of course, there are many hosts making just a few hundred dollars every two weeks, but many make a lot more. And I don't think that higher priced hosts are lying about what they make to get other hosts to raise their prices. That makes no sense since higher prices do not automatically mean more money, and can sometimes mean less money.
In terms of an "exclusive" strip just for one member, I have never heard of that. I am sure some hosts in glamour and little shy will only strip for certain members, but that is based on trust and how much money a member has spent. Trust is a factor because some hosts fear that a member will record the session. Money spent is a factor because the host is simply dangling a carrot at the end of a stick to get the member to spend more.
The trust thing I get. But for those hosts that will only strip if I am a big spender and come into their room over and over again, their game is a nice way to one star and negative post in the viewer forum. If you want to tell me that you strip after I spend $50 or only in one to one and are honest and upfront with me and do the same for all members, then fine, but don't jerk me around.
Finally, in terms of the hosts claiming that they make good money, many hosts do. I know enough hosts and what they make, not to mention that they tell me what their friends make, and can tell you that $2000 or more a pay period is not unusual. Of course, there are many hosts making just a few hundred dollars every two weeks, but many make a lot more. And I don't think that higher priced hosts are lying about what they make to get other hosts to raise their prices. That makes no sense since higher prices do not automatically mean more money, and can sometimes mean less money.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Yes, lol. Sorry you didn't make the top 20. Maybe I will come see you and give you another chance. :p But I have said nice things about you. :)
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Well, I do aspire to have you on top... of me.... so both of us should keep trying. :))
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Your silly comment made me smile, specially your last sentence. There are alot of better girls around, some of them real legends of this site!
Sheees!!
Sheees!!
RE: Hosts raising their prices
OMG! I'm pulling my hair out reading all this. (And I can't afford to lose much more hair) ;))
1) Members should visit girls they can afford. There are sooo many hosts to choose from. I can't imagine having trouble finding someone you like in your price range.
2) Hosts - charge whatever the hell you like. If you're making money and paying off those dreaded bills...more power to ya!
Next topic please :)
1) Members should visit girls they can afford. There are sooo many hosts to choose from. I can't imagine having trouble finding someone you like in your price range.
2) Hosts - charge whatever the hell you like. If you're making money and paying off those dreaded bills...more power to ya!
Next topic please :)
RE: Hosts raising their prices
just a couple of things...todays dollar value sucks...the economy is down but u raise ur price...in the first instance, it might make sense...secondly, no. take ur chances and see what happens.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
Hosts should charge whatever members are dumb enough to pay.
If a host feels she doesn't need my business, then that's awesome because I feel the same way. There are a lot of options both here and elsewhere.
If a host feels she doesn't need my business, then that's awesome because I feel the same way. There are a lot of options both here and elsewhere.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
It's your job and your income. Obviously I would like the prices to be as low as possible because I'm a pervert and a beggar but if you are happy with the amount of money you make with the higher prices, be it more or less than you were making before, then you go for it.
Basically let market forced decide.
Basically let market forced decide.
RE: Hosts raising their prices
I don't know why hosts keep asking this - of course members are going to want low prices!! I mean really most members would like to be able to find girls who will do this for free ))))
RE: Hosts raising their prices
I have a policy of not paying more for a host than I earn doing my job. My absolute max is therefore just over $1.80/min but of course I prefer to pay less. I know one very cute host that is $0.50/min who I don't mind spending a lot of time with.
More power to hosts who can earn more by raising their prices, that's the free market in action. I won't spend more than my current limit though until I earn more!
More power to hosts who can earn more by raising their prices, that's the free market in action. I won't spend more than my current limit though until I earn more!
RE: Price doesn't bother me
I have to admit that the price a host charges is of little concern to me, its the time spent with the host that does and if I enjoyed my time with them.
I have had good times with $5 a minute and bad times, same with hosts who charge 0.50 a min.
There was a host here who i often spent $2000 a month with (she left in March last year sadly, but happily moved onto better things) The most I spent was just under $700 in one session with a host who charged a high price. But I enjoyed every minute of it :)
I have had good times with $5 a minute and bad times, same with hosts who charge 0.50 a min.
There was a host here who i often spent $2000 a month with (she left in March last year sadly, but happily moved onto better things) The most I spent was just under $700 in one session with a host who charged a high price. But I enjoyed every minute of it :)
RE: Price doesn't bother me
yes $2000 a month. Now to some that probably seems alot of money, others not so much. But its relative to income and budgets. Compared to my total income its nothing, and it only makes up around 25% of my entertainment budget. I always spend within my budget. Thats what members should do, keep within budgets.
As for the hosts name who I spent this money with, I guess I can say it now as there is no chance of ever coming back here. Is Dolores4u.
I still spend the same money here, somtimes more, but with various hosts.
As for the hosts name who I spent this money with, I guess I can say it now as there is no chance of ever coming back here. Is Dolores4u.
I still spend the same money here, somtimes more, but with various hosts.
RE: Price doesn't bother me
ahh to be a rich guy and have an 8000 a month "entertainment budget"!
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Regarding your Delores, I can see why you would spend that much (as I might). She's extremely beautiful and exotic looking.
RE: Price doesn't bother me
Yes she is very beautiful. She very intelligent and great to talk to. She has a great inner beauty aswell as her beautiful looks.
I was hoping to meet her in real. But sadly it never happened. When she finished here all communication from her stopped. I will admit she took my heart. Was I in love with her? Hard to answer this as we never met in real. It would of been good to discover if we got on aswell in real the same as we did in virtual. I still think of what could of been. But she has moved on to better things and is alot happier I hope.
But as another host said to me, alot of girls on here are very very good actress's. Was it all an act on her part? I hope not. My instinct tells me she was genuine. Again a real meeting would of been able to distinguish the truth from fiction.
P.S
I'm getting lots of CCmail from hosts now after putting what I spend on here LOL
I was hoping to meet her in real. But sadly it never happened. When she finished here all communication from her stopped. I will admit she took my heart. Was I in love with her? Hard to answer this as we never met in real. It would of been good to discover if we got on aswell in real the same as we did in virtual. I still think of what could of been. But she has moved on to better things and is alot happier I hope.
But as another host said to me, alot of girls on here are very very good actress's. Was it all an act on her part? I hope not. My instinct tells me she was genuine. Again a real meeting would of been able to distinguish the truth from fiction.
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I'm getting lots of CCmail from hosts now after putting what I spend on here LOL
RE: Price doesn't bother me
Heh - you received a lot of ccMail from hosts?
This is why I don't use my real username on this topic, I'm not quite as big a spender as you, but I just added up my July total, and I spent just over $1200. Ooops.
At least I won't have random chathosts bugging me and tempting me to go spend time in their vids. I prefer to find my chathosts my own way. ;)
This is why I don't use my real username on this topic, I'm not quite as big a spender as you, but I just added up my July total, and I spent just over $1200. Ooops.
At least I won't have random chathosts bugging me and tempting me to go spend time in their vids. I prefer to find my chathosts my own way. ;)
RE: Hosts raising their prices
this is how i see it; i would love to have low price at open - for chat, but then, as you all know, most man that come to cc are not members only here and hosts work on several sites; in my opinion it wouldn't be fair to viewers if they find the same girl with different prices on different sites! my 2 cents:)
RE: TwilightZone
WOW...what are the reasons that make him do nothing in order to get you a visa? If he has no reasons, it means that he is a lier and he enjoys you, takes your love and your time but he gives you nothing in return... I am so sorry for you, babe. I hope you can make yourself stop loving him and be happy again!
My best wishes...
My best wishes...
RE: TwilightZone
Okay, let me first try to translate your post.
I am guessing that you fell in love with a member, and that this member told you, or that you assumed that, he would not go into video with other hosts and play with them, but he did it anyway. You forgave him because you love him, but you think that he will go with another host in video again because he thinks that since you forgave him once, you will forgive him again. But. if he does in fact see another host, you will not forgive him. And you hope that he understands that in life there is karma and that "what goes around, comes around".
Also, it looks like he promised you that he will fill out the paperwork so that you can come to his country and marry him, but there have been a lot of delays. You think that he is stalling and lying to you, but he says that you are worrying about nothing.
Well, a couple things. First, if he is seeing other girls in video, is he playing with them or just talking? He may have some friends here and just like to say hello. I know that could make you jealous, but I don't think he should have to give up his friends for you. I have mixed feelings about that because he should try to respect your feelings and not hurt you, but still, you should respect his friendships if they really are only friendships. On the other hand, if he is playing with girls in video and you are upset by that, he needs to stop. Some women would not care, but if you do, he must stop or you should find another man.
Now in terms of the paperwork to get you to his country, it can take a long time. If he is from the USA, I can tell you that he MUST show the U.S. government that he has met you before they will give him a fiancee visa (unless there is some type of religious reason that he cannot do this). So, if after a year, he has been making excuses that are not believeable to meet you, then you probably must forget him. But if he has met you, a year is not that long to get a visa from the time the process starts, although it should not take too much longer. For other countries, I am not sure. It might be faster than going to the USA. But since your post is by "ur lakergurl", I am guessing that he is an American from California, but who knows?
I do not know exactly what to tell you to do. He could be just chatting with host friends and doing his best to complete the paperwork. Or he could be a lying dog that is masterbating with every host on the internet and only visited you for sex, if he has visited you at all. Or the truth could lie somewhere in between. You will just need to trust your heart and your instincts.
I know exactly what you are going through as do many hosts and members, and more often than not, distance usually kills the relationship even if everyone is being honest. I am guessing that another host that you know told you that he visited her and played in video or you have some other type of proof of cheating. But even then, sometimes people cheat because they are lonely and maybe he did it after you had a big fight or something. I keep typing and typing, but I cannot give you good advice since I need to know more. I can only repeat what I said before. Distance kills relationships. Plus, even if you do get married, you are from different cultures and it will be very hard for the two of you, especially you if you are leaving your friends and family behind. Just do your best to make sure that this is the right man to be taking a chance with.
I am sure that many will just say "Oh, he cheats. Leave him." But without knowing more, I am not ready to give you that advice although that would probably be the better choice if I was going to guess.
Sorry for the definite maybe. :(
I am guessing that you fell in love with a member, and that this member told you, or that you assumed that, he would not go into video with other hosts and play with them, but he did it anyway. You forgave him because you love him, but you think that he will go with another host in video again because he thinks that since you forgave him once, you will forgive him again. But. if he does in fact see another host, you will not forgive him. And you hope that he understands that in life there is karma and that "what goes around, comes around".
Also, it looks like he promised you that he will fill out the paperwork so that you can come to his country and marry him, but there have been a lot of delays. You think that he is stalling and lying to you, but he says that you are worrying about nothing.
Well, a couple things. First, if he is seeing other girls in video, is he playing with them or just talking? He may have some friends here and just like to say hello. I know that could make you jealous, but I don't think he should have to give up his friends for you. I have mixed feelings about that because he should try to respect your feelings and not hurt you, but still, you should respect his friendships if they really are only friendships. On the other hand, if he is playing with girls in video and you are upset by that, he needs to stop. Some women would not care, but if you do, he must stop or you should find another man.
Now in terms of the paperwork to get you to his country, it can take a long time. If he is from the USA, I can tell you that he MUST show the U.S. government that he has met you before they will give him a fiancee visa (unless there is some type of religious reason that he cannot do this). So, if after a year, he has been making excuses that are not believeable to meet you, then you probably must forget him. But if he has met you, a year is not that long to get a visa from the time the process starts, although it should not take too much longer. For other countries, I am not sure. It might be faster than going to the USA. But since your post is by "ur lakergurl", I am guessing that he is an American from California, but who knows?
I do not know exactly what to tell you to do. He could be just chatting with host friends and doing his best to complete the paperwork. Or he could be a lying dog that is masterbating with every host on the internet and only visited you for sex, if he has visited you at all. Or the truth could lie somewhere in between. You will just need to trust your heart and your instincts.
I know exactly what you are going through as do many hosts and members, and more often than not, distance usually kills the relationship even if everyone is being honest. I am guessing that another host that you know told you that he visited her and played in video or you have some other type of proof of cheating. But even then, sometimes people cheat because they are lonely and maybe he did it after you had a big fight or something. I keep typing and typing, but I cannot give you good advice since I need to know more. I can only repeat what I said before. Distance kills relationships. Plus, even if you do get married, you are from different cultures and it will be very hard for the two of you, especially you if you are leaving your friends and family behind. Just do your best to make sure that this is the right man to be taking a chance with.
I am sure that many will just say "Oh, he cheats. Leave him." But without knowing more, I am not ready to give you that advice although that would probably be the better choice if I was going to guess.
Sorry for the definite maybe. :(
RE: TwilightZone
Okay. I think that I got the picture. Unfortunately, my answer is to get rid of him.
He is too interested in meeting new people on sites and does not have enough time for you. And if he is playing with them and it upsets you, that is even worse.
The times that I had someone here, I stopped meeting new hosts and stopped playing. The only time that I did either of those things were when the host and I were having problems, and I was hurt and figured things were not going to work ou anyway. Perhpas he is thinking that too..
Plus, he has no respect for your feelings. He is too stupid even to hide from you what he is doing. It tells me that he doesn't even think that he is doing anything wrong. And the double-standaard where it is okay for him to see and play with hosts but not okay for you to work is a big-time danger sign.
If I loved you the way that you seem to love him, I would make sure that I got the paperwork done as fast as possible. And if things were good between us, I would not be seeing other hosts except to talk to friends that I already had.
Your love for him is very sweet. It makes me wish that I had someone like you. (Well, I sort of do so right now so I am not meeting new hosts or playing in video, but we are having problems too.. But in my case, I am tired of video and if this doesn't work out, then I will stick to people that live near me unless something happened with a host that I already knew.)
Maybe you should stick with people in your country or someone willing to move there if you happen to meet another member since unlike many hosts, you want to stay there. Anyway, get rid of him. I would be surprised if anyone said anything else given what your second post said. You deserve better.
Kiss you and good luck. :)
He is too interested in meeting new people on sites and does not have enough time for you. And if he is playing with them and it upsets you, that is even worse.
The times that I had someone here, I stopped meeting new hosts and stopped playing. The only time that I did either of those things were when the host and I were having problems, and I was hurt and figured things were not going to work ou anyway. Perhpas he is thinking that too..
Plus, he has no respect for your feelings. He is too stupid even to hide from you what he is doing. It tells me that he doesn't even think that he is doing anything wrong. And the double-standaard where it is okay for him to see and play with hosts but not okay for you to work is a big-time danger sign.
If I loved you the way that you seem to love him, I would make sure that I got the paperwork done as fast as possible. And if things were good between us, I would not be seeing other hosts except to talk to friends that I already had.
Your love for him is very sweet. It makes me wish that I had someone like you. (Well, I sort of do so right now so I am not meeting new hosts or playing in video, but we are having problems too.. But in my case, I am tired of video and if this doesn't work out, then I will stick to people that live near me unless something happened with a host that I already knew.)
Maybe you should stick with people in your country or someone willing to move there if you happen to meet another member since unlike many hosts, you want to stay there. Anyway, get rid of him. I would be surprised if anyone said anything else given what your second post said. You deserve better.
Kiss you and good luck. :)
RE: TwilightZone
A simple answer is that this guy isnt serious about ur relationship. U girls should understand that most guys wouldnt accept a gf they really love giving shows and chatting with other guys and not do the same with other girls himself. The ones who tell u otherwise just lie. Think one step further, If its all about sex and sweet chatting why would he choose u if he can get same from any other girl? If theres an agedifference between u he probably thinks deep down that u only want him cause of economic reasons. When ur heartbroken best medicine is to have fun with ur friends and look for a real boyfriend back home. Just try be strong there ok :-)
Happy Birthday CurlyGLasha
Happy Birthday,
This is your special day to celebrate the joy of you entering this world. Such a special day for a special person that you are. I hope all your wishes come true as well as your day is filled with joy and happiness. Happy Birthday !!!
hugs,
Charles
This is your special day to celebrate the joy of you entering this world. Such a special day for a special person that you are. I hope all your wishes come true as well as your day is filled with joy and happiness. Happy Birthday !!!
hugs,
Charles
Daytrader
About a month or so ago, someone posted under the name "daytrader". His plan was to trade oil and make a lot of money for retirement. I commented that "it is never that easy" and warned against doing things like that. I wanted to know how he was doing now and what his current strategy is.
RE: Daytrader
you're looking for financial advice from some anonymous guy on a forum of a porn site?
dude, what are you thinking?
dude, what are you thinking?
RE: Daytrader
Well, just think that if Daytrader is here at a porn site where some girls charge $4 a min to smile is becuase datrader is succesful and has the money to spend.
RE: Daytrader
To bad the pice of oil peaked some month ago and been going down these last weeks
To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
Thanks for the good chats, and enjoyment over the months. Almost everyone here has been friendly and great to chat to, and I have enjoyed almost every minute. I am finding myself on CC more and more recently, hanging around in the community chat, the forums, or elsewhere. This has meant that I have been having less and less sleep too. I have reached the point where I acknowledge that if I want to get my sleep back, I must leave CC.
I have started to contact people to say bye, and offer alternative contact details for those that want it, so I can be reached after I am gone. If you are someone you think should have my contact info then let me know and I will try and let you have them.
I will still be around this week, and I aim to stop my account sometime this weekend - hopefully that will give me enough time to say goodbye to everyone I want to.
All the best for the future for all of you, and I hope life brings you everything you want from it,
Pete888.
I have started to contact people to say bye, and offer alternative contact details for those that want it, so I can be reached after I am gone. If you are someone you think should have my contact info then let me know and I will try and let you have them.
I will still be around this week, and I aim to stop my account sometime this weekend - hopefully that will give me enough time to say goodbye to everyone I want to.
All the best for the future for all of you, and I hope life brings you everything you want from it,
Pete888.
RE: To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
good luck to you pete. take care of yourself
RE: To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
My guess is that u will be back in a week or two if u havent got a sexy gf who keep u busy at home :-)
DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Today a chathost on another site told me many Romanian girls pretend to be Russian. Do you think this is true? I do because it explains why some of the "Russians" I've spoken with have the same accent
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
might be true, doubt if many (any?) Romanians know Russian language these days
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
simple answer the want people to think roma ladies are nice girls...this was said to me...but i still do not understand?
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I have heard this before but on another site. The reason I was given why the Romanian girls do this is because they have such a bad reputation for obtaining money by deceiptful means. i repeat that this was the reason told to me.....and not my own opinion.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
It is true and some ukrainean i speak roma russian and some and when i speak in languie they look stunned and sometime admit were there from all men are not ...roma "Proost" russian "drua'n" forgive my spelling lol
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Moldovans know Russian and Romanian, but younger people such as hosts that are from Romania generally do not know Russian. They often know (at least a little) Spanish, Portuguese, French, and / or Italian, but not Russian. Some may also know German. And of course, many know English.
The Repuclic of Moldova was part of Romania. In fact, Eastern Romania is called Moldova. But then the Soviet Union took control of the country Moldova. Russian is still spoken there by almost everyone. But many are ethnic Romanians so they speak both.
In the far eastern part of Moldova, there is a rebel government where they think it is 1950 and are Communist. They speak Russian there.
The Repuclic of Moldova was part of Romania. In fact, Eastern Romania is called Moldova. But then the Soviet Union took control of the country Moldova. Russian is still spoken there by almost everyone. But many are ethnic Romanians so they speak both.
In the far eastern part of Moldova, there is a rebel government where they think it is 1950 and are Communist. They speak Russian there.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
The ones I've spoken too, all spoke English. But quite a few seemed to have exactly the same accent as the Romanian girls. I think that what Chris heard is right. That if some Romanians pretend to be Russians, it's because some people think Romanians are con artists.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Great!! Now the members will doubt if we are really Russians, lol...I have never thought that being Russian is that popular...
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?:To Wanda22
You ask where a member is from for the same reason I ask a chathost if she's single. Just to make conversation. I really don't care about the marital status of a chathost & am really surprised at how many girls have told me that if they say they are married or have a bf, members won't come to videochat with them. I didn't start this thread because I'm trying to find out if I should avoid certain hosts. I know some members thought this site had too many Romanian girls, whatever that is. lol BRING ON THE ROMANIAN LADIES!!!
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
A Romanian accent sounds Spanish or Mexican? Hmmmm. More Italian in my experience. Maybe the ones that smoke a lot sound more Hispanic. :p Then again, when you are watching a woman put her legs behind her head, the nature of her accent might not be what you focus on.
By the way, you said someplace you are ugly.. You are an attractive woman with a sexy body. The glasses might make you not look as nice, but you still look good. I just happen to prefer you without glasses, just as I prefer you without clothes. :p And you are a very talented, creative woman.
By the way, you said someplace you are ugly.. You are an attractive woman with a sexy body. The glasses might make you not look as nice, but you still look good. I just happen to prefer you without glasses, just as I prefer you without clothes. :p And you are a very talented, creative woman.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I misread your initial post. I do not believe that I have had any Romanians say that they are Russians. Usually they will say that they are Italian or Spanish since they often know those languages at least a little.
I think that they do this to protect their identity, not because of scams. I have had hosts from Russia try to scam me just like hosts from Romania. And I am sure that if economic conditions were bad enough in western countries and a lot of hosts worked there, I am sure that there would be more hosts from those countries and that those hosts from western counrties would try to scam me more often as well.
People are people, in general. I don't think that Romanians or Russians are a bunch of scam artists. But in Eastern Europe, things like bribery are more common in day to day life. Things like that happen all over, but, for example, I have watched a taxi driver bribe a policeman while I was in Russia in front of everyone. In Romania, I have friends which must bribe their teachers to pass them for university even though their papers and tests are good enough to graduate.
That type of routine bribery does not happen in the western countries as much since economic conditions for the average person are better. This lack of economic opportunity causes issues with bribery and scams and a need to do what it takes to survive which is the exact same reason you have more chathosts from places like Eastern Europe as opposed to the West.
This day to day type of corruption of course can happen anywhere but generally in western countries, people hide it because it is not accepted or expected.. After all, a U.S. senator was in the news today for violating laws regarding reporting contributions so it happens all over. But, for example, countries like Romania and Bulgaria have problems that are so bad that there were issues about letting them into the European Union, (And no, it was not just some type of stereotype based on myth so please don't try posting that corruption in Romania is no worse than anywhere else.) In western countries, the scams and bribes occur at much higher levels whereas in other countries, they occur at both the high levels and with the average person at well. It is simply a function of the economic opportunities of the average person and what he or she must do to survive.
I would proceed with caution with any chathost regardless of where she is from. A woman's first instinct is not to get in front of a camera and make money by stripping. It is probably not an easy decision for her. And whatever motivated her to cross that ethical line in her head to allow her to work here, may well be why she thinks it is okay to scam you too. She may even resent you and blame you for her being here.
People will do what they must to survive. The only issue with Romania and Russia would be that more people from those countries are forced to do things that they might not otherwise do because of the economic conditions of the average person. That doesn't make scamming okay, but at least one can understand why a host may resort to that.
I think that they do this to protect their identity, not because of scams. I have had hosts from Russia try to scam me just like hosts from Romania. And I am sure that if economic conditions were bad enough in western countries and a lot of hosts worked there, I am sure that there would be more hosts from those countries and that those hosts from western counrties would try to scam me more often as well.
People are people, in general. I don't think that Romanians or Russians are a bunch of scam artists. But in Eastern Europe, things like bribery are more common in day to day life. Things like that happen all over, but, for example, I have watched a taxi driver bribe a policeman while I was in Russia in front of everyone. In Romania, I have friends which must bribe their teachers to pass them for university even though their papers and tests are good enough to graduate.
That type of routine bribery does not happen in the western countries as much since economic conditions for the average person are better. This lack of economic opportunity causes issues with bribery and scams and a need to do what it takes to survive which is the exact same reason you have more chathosts from places like Eastern Europe as opposed to the West.
This day to day type of corruption of course can happen anywhere but generally in western countries, people hide it because it is not accepted or expected.. After all, a U.S. senator was in the news today for violating laws regarding reporting contributions so it happens all over. But, for example, countries like Romania and Bulgaria have problems that are so bad that there were issues about letting them into the European Union, (And no, it was not just some type of stereotype based on myth so please don't try posting that corruption in Romania is no worse than anywhere else.) In western countries, the scams and bribes occur at much higher levels whereas in other countries, they occur at both the high levels and with the average person at well. It is simply a function of the economic opportunities of the average person and what he or she must do to survive.
I would proceed with caution with any chathost regardless of where she is from. A woman's first instinct is not to get in front of a camera and make money by stripping. It is probably not an easy decision for her. And whatever motivated her to cross that ethical line in her head to allow her to work here, may well be why she thinks it is okay to scam you too. She may even resent you and blame you for her being here.
People will do what they must to survive. The only issue with Romania and Russia would be that more people from those countries are forced to do things that they might not otherwise do because of the economic conditions of the average person. That doesn't make scamming okay, but at least one can understand why a host may resort to that.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Excellent and pertinent analyse! What's more members use nicknames to hide their identity! I being no different
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Longtime member, You deserve kudos for your thoughtful, fair-minded analysis of the larger dynamic at work here. My experience mirrors your own: I've not found Romanian women given to scamming any more than any other group. As you've so well put it, it is economic conditions that compel people to do what they might not otherwise do under more favorable conditions. And given that Romania's economy is the most depressed among the former Soviet bloc countries, Romanians are disproportionately represented among Eastern Europeans.
In many ways sites like this are a microcosm of the global economy. The service providers come from depressed (i.e.Non-Western) economies and the customers from affluent ones. My admittedly inexact statistical analysis is: 70% of the hosts are from Russia and Ukraine; 10% Eastern European (principally Romanian); 10% Asian (principally Philippine); 10% Latina (principally Columbian).
As for Thread starter's initial post, I am puzzled why a Romanian host would want to pretend to be Russian, except perhaps to elude local authorities or, as you suggest, protect their identity. I also wonder whether the alleged reputation for "deceitful" ways might not come from the confusion between ethnic Romanians and Romany (gypsies).
In many ways sites like this are a microcosm of the global economy. The service providers come from depressed (i.e.Non-Western) economies and the customers from affluent ones. My admittedly inexact statistical analysis is: 70% of the hosts are from Russia and Ukraine; 10% Eastern European (principally Romanian); 10% Asian (principally Philippine); 10% Latina (principally Columbian).
As for Thread starter's initial post, I am puzzled why a Romanian host would want to pretend to be Russian, except perhaps to elude local authorities or, as you suggest, protect their identity. I also wonder whether the alleged reputation for "deceitful" ways might not come from the confusion between ethnic Romanians and Romany (gypsies).
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Well, Moldova, not Romania, is routinely viewed as the poorest country in Europe, but the point is that the average person in Romania and Russia has more difficulty getting by each day than someone in a western country. And the same would be true for someone in Ukraine, Philippines and a number of countries which contain a lot of chathosts.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
i never heard that and i dont belive it. i would never pretend to be russian, they are nothing better than romanians!
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
"For me pretending french is definitely very profitable."
Alors, pourquoi vous pensez c'est comme ca?
Alors, pourquoi vous pensez c'est comme ca?
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I suppose this might happen occasionally but I doubt that many do this. Romanians are generally very proud of being Romanian. Russians have at least as bad a reputation for scamming as Romanians so if a Romanian wants to sat she is from another country she is more likely to chose Italy.
more golf
A Catholic priest,an indian doctor,a rich Chinese businessman & Jacko are waiting one morning for a particularly slow group of golfers in front of them.
Jacko"What the hell is wrong with those blokes?We musta been waiting for 15 minutes!"
The Indian doctor"I don't know,but i have never seen such poor golf!"
The Chinese businessman called out"Move it,time is money."
The Ctholic priest"Here comes George the greenkeeper.Let's have a word with him."
George the greenkeeper"They're blind.We always let them play for free." (A momentary silence falls on the group.)
The Catholic priest"That's so sad.I think i will say a special prayer for them tonight."
The Indian doctor"Good idea.I'm going to contact my ophthalmologist colleague & see if there's anything he can do for them."
The Chinese businessman"I think i'll donate $50 000 to blind research."
Jacko"Why the f..k can't they play at night?"
Jacko"What the hell is wrong with those blokes?We musta been waiting for 15 minutes!"
The Indian doctor"I don't know,but i have never seen such poor golf!"
The Chinese businessman called out"Move it,time is money."
The Ctholic priest"Here comes George the greenkeeper.Let's have a word with him."
George the greenkeeper"They're blind.We always let them play for free." (A momentary silence falls on the group.)
The Catholic priest"That's so sad.I think i will say a special prayer for them tonight."
The Indian doctor"Good idea.I'm going to contact my ophthalmologist colleague & see if there's anything he can do for them."
The Chinese businessman"I think i'll donate $50 000 to blind research."
Jacko"Why the f..k can't they play at night?"
dark room
Im serious so this is no joke. When some hosts have a room dark as a stoneage cave whats that all about? Especially if a model got dark skin its sometimes impossible see anything except a shadow moving there so please ladies use some lights.
RE: dark room
You make some very good aesthetic points Wanda. The proper lighting brings more distinct colours which is fine for basic representation. But the subdued lighting brings contrasts, the play of light and shade, which delineate the eroticism of the human shape.
RE: dark room
I can understand noone wants lights straight to eyes but mystery excitement at a paysite is nothing for me ill save it for real life. Im here to have sexy chat and see nude female, thats all. Anyway tx for reply and take care all of you
RE: dark room
One Asian girl I know, sometimes turns her light off if she hears her cousin coming because she doesn't want him to know she gets naked for strangers to earn money
Point system >:)
In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men:
Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.
Here is a guide to the point system:
SIMPLE DUTIES
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5)
In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)
HER BIRTHDAY
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
YOUR PHYSIQUE
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)
ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION
She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.
Here is a guide to the point system:
SIMPLE DUTIES
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5)
In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)
HER BIRTHDAY
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
YOUR PHYSIQUE
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)
ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION
She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
RE: BOOBS!!!
Hmmm. Green contacts? Implants? Still many love her.
Maybe her name should be Miss Plastic Fantastic
Maybe her name should be Miss Plastic Fantastic
RE: BOOBS!!!
So what guys, whats the matter? She looks gorgeous, maybe the best looking girl in CC. I think any man would love such a beautiful woman.
RE: BOOBS!!!
and to some people just the very idea of undergoing such an operation for nothing but vanity speaks to a character that isn't most attractive - to speak nothing of the health risks.
what about problems with back?
If not to say about problems with a back because the heavier and bigger the boobs are, the quickier one's back gets tired...I know a girl who had a surgery to get rif of her natural HUGE boobs and now she has the size B and she is very happy about it ))).
What matters is the shape and the firmness of the breasts... I would never have changed mine ....;)
What matters is the shape and the firmness of the breasts... I would never have changed mine ....;)
RE: BOOBS!!!
once saw a host do the same thing, littlesonya check out her early pics and last ones
what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
is she friendly or just on here for money?
RE: what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
isnt difficult to understand,just i told her i cant come to see her for a while & shes not bein so friendly thats all wonderd if anyone had the same experience with this host?
RE: what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
when i first read the title to your posting, i read "urbestchoice" as "tuberculosis."
kooky.
kooky.
To hosts
How many hosts would stay here if they could make the same money in a regular job? I am especially curious about hosts that marry members but continue to work on sites.
I hear stories here about hosts that marry members and still work on the site (and the members keep coming to the site too. lol). I assume that many of these hosts are moving to more affluent countries, yet they remain here for some reason.
I know this job has its good points such as being your own boss, setting your own hours, and making good money, but given what the host must actually do in a lot of cases to make that money, I would think that she might want to find something else as soon as possible.
I hear stories here about hosts that marry members and still work on the site (and the members keep coming to the site too. lol). I assume that many of these hosts are moving to more affluent countries, yet they remain here for some reason.
I know this job has its good points such as being your own boss, setting your own hours, and making good money, but given what the host must actually do in a lot of cases to make that money, I would think that she might want to find something else as soon as possible.
RE: To hosts
Well I do have a regular job which is very well paid. I still work websites quite often when I have the time, because I actually find it fun. Been a host for almost 8 years now, and I am not planning to quit anytime soon. As for the things a host has to do in a lot of cases like you say, uhm, I feel sorry for those hosts. I never did anything I was not comfortable with for a few extra bucks, which is the main reason why i like what i do. Yes, i do like the extra money i make from chatting, but it's not the main reason i do this for at this point.
No one should ever pick a job they don't like/enjoy.
No one should ever pick a job they don't like/enjoy.
RE: To hosts
Well frankly "yes"...sounds like precisely the best of reasons. What can be better than doing things which one finds fun.
RE: To hosts
I agree. I dont think a job has to be painful or boring. Life is about having as much fun as possible and enjoying what you do.
RE: To hosts
Well, there are jobs...and then there are other jobs, might there be some distinctions implied in his statement ;)
RE: To hosts
I graduated of finance a year ago and I can find a job whenever I want, but then I will not have the freedom and money I make here. This job is easy and fun. I am not married and not planning to get married yet, but if i find husband and he doesn't like what i do, he can go somewhere else. Simply, I am independent and will not ask a man for money. I know he will not give me what I now make here. I will do this job for a couple of more years then I will worry finding a job somewhere else. I started working here in my free times just to get some extra money to buy anything I wanted, but ended up making real good salary so I decided to continue. It's great, I am really glad I found this job.
RE: To hosts
"but if i find husband and he doesn't like what i do, he can go somewhere else"
This sentence tells (almost) everything about you...God please save men from this girl!:D
This sentence tells (almost) everything about you...God please save men from this girl!:D
RE: To hosts
I agree, I mean a husband would have to be some jerk control freak to not want his wife inserting a dildo on camera for strangers...
RE: To hosts
This is some ruthless shit bb...god help all the fools here that love these femme fatale...you guys are in way over your heads!! lol...
Never say Ever ...
It's quite difficult to answer this question... To be here is fun and the fact that it is not the kind of a job you can tell your kids makes this job so attractive... So many good girls turn out to be bad girls... lol. On the other hand, I would like to do something more ...career-like...Something more challenging and eventually, respectful...This is why I am studying. But, again, life can turn out in such a funny way that all I can say is NEVER SAY EVER....;)
RE: Never say Ever ...
What you want and expect?
People find an easy way out of life and make money, not care of self respect and....well...
In life... You cant continue trying to find an easy way out, you cant live like this forever, theres always a time limit, when it goes away only then people learn that life is not about finding easy way out..
It will hit you dont worry!
And then you will feel sorry for the choices you made.. But! If your one of those people who would actually care. If not! Your filth then.
People find an easy way out of life and make money, not care of self respect and....well...
In life... You cant continue trying to find an easy way out, you cant live like this forever, theres always a time limit, when it goes away only then people learn that life is not about finding easy way out..
It will hit you dont worry!
And then you will feel sorry for the choices you made.. But! If your one of those people who would actually care. If not! Your filth then.
RE: what does poka poka mean?
But remember now, its not pronounced the way it looks. I don't want you guys to say it wrong and embarrass yourself. lol Hey I'm just looking out for you. :)
RE: what does poka poka mean?
Don't worry, you have been correctly informed about the translation. Stryker is making an attempt at humour.
RE: what does poka poka mean?
Another phrase commonly used instead of poka poka is pupa pupa.
Girls love it :)
Girls love it :)
Then again........
There are plenty of hosts that are within my personal guidelines to keep me busy for a while. God bless every one of you.
RE: Then again........
Oh, that is a shame for him. Never meeting my favorite bunny. Poor guy. :(
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love my bunny and so does my carrot. Kisses for my bunny.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love my bunny and so does my carrot. Kisses for my bunny.
RE: Then again........
Is it Christmas time already? I thought I just heard Tiny Tim say something. We having a puzzle contest now?
RE: Then again........
Hmmmm. I have been the one using "Longtime member" the most for the last week, but I have seen others use it before. And my name is not Roger, lol. Maybe kahson3's name is Roger.
Anyway, while you are both free to fight over me, I do have to warn you, UrBrunette, that my bunny is correct, If she wants me, I am hers. :))
Anyway, while you are both free to fight over me, I do have to warn you, UrBrunette, that my bunny is correct, If she wants me, I am hers. :))
Not sure what to call this.......
Oh you silly ladies. Am I asking to much to ask for one picture in your profile that clearly shows your face?? I always like to know who I am chatting with before going to video. A nice clear picture of your face will do that for me.
I would also like to talk about pricing, but nobody seems to want to hear about this. Then again, it is only an opinion. So here goes:
For those hosts in not so shy charging more than say $1.50 per min, you gould get many more viewers (including me) if you dropped to that price. Same with Instant Action hosts charging more than $2 per min. Again, a lot more viewers if you do.
To the rest of you: God bless you and keep up the good work.
That is all. Thanks for your patience.
I would also like to talk about pricing, but nobody seems to want to hear about this. Then again, it is only an opinion. So here goes:
For those hosts in not so shy charging more than say $1.50 per min, you gould get many more viewers (including me) if you dropped to that price. Same with Instant Action hosts charging more than $2 per min. Again, a lot more viewers if you do.
To the rest of you: God bless you and keep up the good work.
That is all. Thanks for your patience.
RE: Not sure what to call this.......
Unfotunately many hosts don't like to show their face for privacy reasons until you are in video and you just need to take a chance. I can understand this, but sometimes I will select another host as a result. It depends on what else I see in the pics, comments in her forum, her star rating, and her attitude in text chat. What is worse is that a few of them won't show their face in video so make sure you ask first in text chat before jumping into video.
In terms of the price thing, duh!, lol Of course they would get more members, and of course I would like them to lower their price. But the question is, would they get enough additional members and longer videos to make it worth it.
For example, if a host charges $2,50/minute and gets one member to stay 20 minutes, she either needs one member to stay 25 minutes at $2.00 or two members to stay 12 1/2 minutes at two dollars. Only the host knows which work better for her.
She might also prefer to cater to one member at a higher price than two at a lower price and has no other choice but to make the open price higher because she cannot eliminate that option. Plus, hosts sometimes like member that are willing to spend more per minute because they actually will stay longer at a higher price and seem to be nicer, perhaps because they are older, have more money, and are more mature.
In terms of the price thing, duh!, lol Of course they would get more members, and of course I would like them to lower their price. But the question is, would they get enough additional members and longer videos to make it worth it.
For example, if a host charges $2,50/minute and gets one member to stay 20 minutes, she either needs one member to stay 25 minutes at $2.00 or two members to stay 12 1/2 minutes at two dollars. Only the host knows which work better for her.
She might also prefer to cater to one member at a higher price than two at a lower price and has no other choice but to make the open price higher because she cannot eliminate that option. Plus, hosts sometimes like member that are willing to spend more per minute because they actually will stay longer at a higher price and seem to be nicer, perhaps because they are older, have more money, and are more mature.
How fit are you
Just curious, It is obvious that some spend quite a long time in the gym in order to look attractive for the CC users - but how much? So, how many hours do you, as a host, spend in the gym in order to have the killer body that makes all your viewers moan?
RE: How fit are you
I hope you realise that the poor girl who was next in the queue after you only got A cups from nature as that was all that nature had left to give :P
Turning it around to the male perspective I know just how she feels :(
Turning it around to the male perspective I know just how she feels :(
RE: How fit are you
lol... damn... that must have been my Russian girlfriend after CrazyFrits! but looks like I was in LINE before INYF!.... lol
RE: How fit are you
u have a mother or cleaning lady?!! oh i envy you:((; i go to gym 3 times per week and that I hardly manage to fit into my life; and btw, fitness freak, its not all about looks - i need my health:) muahaaaaaaaaaa stay fit hon even if it kills you:)
hosts and undergarments
When in video, a lot of hosts always show their breasts just by pulling their bra down instead of taking it off. I always hate this. I like to see them swing freely and tell them to completely to remove their bra. Same thing for panties. When they just pull them to the side, I ask for them to take them off completely. I like to see them completely naked.
Are hosts doing this because they are lazy, and in the case of the bra, are they trying to have their breasts look bigger by pushing them up and also to hiide breasts which may be too limp?
Are hosts doing this because they are lazy, and in the case of the bra, are they trying to have their breasts look bigger by pushing them up and also to hiide breasts which may be too limp?
RE: hosts and undergarments
Oh, I am sorry. I thought that I was the customer and that reasonable requests were okay. You act like I wanted hosts to put a television set inside of her.
RE: hosts and undergarments
some members like to see panties moved aside, some members want to see a chathost in stockings, some want to see a chathost naked completely, some want something else... It's better if a member can give hints - what he likes, and what he does not ;) Believe me, chathosts will do their best to show you what you want and how you want))))
RE: hosts and undergarments
Yes teenbabe you are right. I tell the hosts what I like to see and I get to see it. It's simple really.
RE: hosts and undergarments
I rather feel it's the original poster's inability to talk & successfully interact with girls that he is here, and he finds it easier to bitch in the forums than just follow your advice and ask for what he wants, either before or during his videos.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Obviously, when they don't take off their clothes completely, I simply ask them to do it. I am just wondering if there is a strategic reason for their not taking them off completely or is it just they don't feel like it. Perhaps the answer is simply that most members like it that way, but that is the point of the question.
And just as obviously, if there is anyone who does not know how to speak to people, your post makes it clear that that person is you. Even INYF didn't attack me lilke you did. That's how far out-of-bounds your insult is, lol.
And just as obviously, if there is anyone who does not know how to speak to people, your post makes it clear that that person is you. Even INYF didn't attack me lilke you did. That's how far out-of-bounds your insult is, lol.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Lmao. Now chathosts are criticizing other chathosts! You always seem to back me up here when others attack me... Too bad I'm not a slave, lol.
Anyway, I doubt that is the reason. It would make more sense to do a slow strip rather than just quickly pulling the bra down and panties to the side.
Anyway, I doubt that is the reason. It would make more sense to do a slow strip rather than just quickly pulling the bra down and panties to the side.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Well,it would make more sense if u asked questions and needed answers.Coz all u do now is just prove ur own point,dont u?So y do u ask then if u know better what and y hosts do?If u think that would be better to do nice slow strip is ur opinion,and it has a right to be.And I have no idea about what "always" ur talking about.Seems to me and I am pretty sure,I am here not that often.
The Golf Game
Towards the end of the gold course, Jim hit his ball into the woods and found it in a patch of pretty yellow buttercups.
Trying to get his ball back in play, he ended up thrashing just
about every buttercup in the patch.
All of a sudden ......POOF!
In a flash and puff of smoke, a little old woman appeared.
She said, "I'm Mother Nature! Do you know how long it took
me to make those buttercups???
Just for doing what you have done, you won't have any butter for
your popcorn for the rest of your life: better still, you won't have
any butter for your toast for the rest of your life ..... As a matter of fact,
you'll never have any butter for anything for the rest of your life!!!
Then POOF! .... she was gone!
After Jim recovered from the shock, he hollered for his friend,
"Fred, where are you?"
Fred yells back, "I'm over here in the Pussy Willows."
Jim shouts back, "DON'T SWING, Fred; FOR THE LOVE OF GOD,
DON'T SWING!!!!
Trying to get his ball back in play, he ended up thrashing just
about every buttercup in the patch.
All of a sudden ......POOF!
In a flash and puff of smoke, a little old woman appeared.
She said, "I'm Mother Nature! Do you know how long it took
me to make those buttercups???
Just for doing what you have done, you won't have any butter for
your popcorn for the rest of your life: better still, you won't have
any butter for your toast for the rest of your life ..... As a matter of fact,
you'll never have any butter for anything for the rest of your life!!!
Then POOF! .... she was gone!
After Jim recovered from the shock, he hollered for his friend,
"Fred, where are you?"
Fred yells back, "I'm over here in the Pussy Willows."
Jim shouts back, "DON'T SWING, Fred; FOR THE LOVE OF GOD,
DON'T SWING!!!!
RE: The Golf Game
Not bad, but the problem with jokes like that is that you can anticipate the punchline too easily. I didn't know that "pussy willow" would be the key, but I knew something like that was going to happen.
RE: The Golf Game
It can be interesting, why we think something is funny.
For example I used to milk cows and make butter.
I still laugh when I read this joke.
The crazy connection of butter and buttercups! :)
For example I used to milk cows and make butter.
I still laugh when I read this joke.
The crazy connection of butter and buttercups! :)
curious
is like 80% of the girls here from romania? i met so many hosts here and most of them from romania. is the only job in romania for girls is a chat host? im not complaining im just wondering if it really is the chat host capital of the world?
RE: curious
Hosts here are from all over the world. The main countries are Brazil, Colombia, Philippines, Romania, and Russia. There are also a some from Moldova, Ukraine, USA, and some other countries.
In terms of percentages, Romania and Russia are probably at the top of the list, cloesly followed by Colombia and the Philippines. I cannot give numbers since I have never bothered to count.
There used to be more Russians than Romanians here, but because CC had blocked Romanians from opening new acconts. Romanians can now open accounts and may have taken the lead.
If you do decide to count, remember that some hosts have two accounts.
In terms of percentages, Romania and Russia are probably at the top of the list, cloesly followed by Colombia and the Philippines. I cannot give numbers since I have never bothered to count.
There used to be more Russians than Romanians here, but because CC had blocked Romanians from opening new acconts. Romanians can now open accounts and may have taken the lead.
If you do decide to count, remember that some hosts have two accounts.
RE: curious
im not from Romania:) heheeheh or Russia, even though most come and say "private" - when first happened i thought member is not speaking English good and he asks for private show - lol