General Forum
Special Day?
What is special about today that there are so many hosts online at the same time? Almost double the normal amount.
RE: Special Day?
Maybe you haven't been on line for a while or not in the early hours of the morning GMT. Numbers on line at this time have been high for a while.
RE: Special Day?
I also think there are noticably more online... and my immediate thought was that the contest was coming up :D
RE: Special Day?
Christmas presents to be bought? Need to work now to ensure the funds are received in good time.
RE: Special Day?
i'm impressed that not only do you have the patience,perserverance & dedication to collect & record how many hosts are online,but you also have the wisdom to log & keep these statistics for comparison. :--)
RE: Special Day?
lol.. actually its simple observation.. dont need statisticians to look at a row of names/profile pics and realise there's many more around ;)
The Dangers of Breast Implants
So many women seem to want them, even when they are popular and viewed as attractive. They just seem to think that bigger is automatically better. Even if this was true, the problem is that breast implants are not without risk, and from my point of view at least, very often don't look all that good.
I was hoping to get some posts here about the problems of breast implants in terms of health risks and anything else as well as perhaps a psychological discussion about why women seem to want them so much nowadays to the point that they tend to ignore the health risks. This is surgery, after all, and all surgery has risks.
I was hoping to get some posts here about the problems of breast implants in terms of health risks and anything else as well as perhaps a psychological discussion about why women seem to want them so much nowadays to the point that they tend to ignore the health risks. This is surgery, after all, and all surgery has risks.
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
90 % a waste of money; natural is better;
10% builds self-confidence to an extent that justifies the expense.
10% builds self-confidence to an extent that justifies the expense.
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
I dated a woman for five years who had 3 kids. Her breasts were "A" before they stretch out during breast feeding. After all that they were small again and sagging.
She was very insecure about them and wanted implants. I loved her just the way she was, and I made her promise to me that she would never get implants. (I deluded myself thinking that my opinion should matter.)
We broke up, she got married, and her new husband bought implants for her. She got them less than 6 months after our break up.
They divorced, we started seeing each other again, and I couldn't even hug her properly because those implants kept pushing me away.
She is much more confident now. She is married again, loves all the attention she gets from male strangers, and cheats on her new husband.
She got the life she wanted from her surgery. I wouldn't be part of it.
She was very insecure about them and wanted implants. I loved her just the way she was, and I made her promise to me that she would never get implants. (I deluded myself thinking that my opinion should matter.)
We broke up, she got married, and her new husband bought implants for her. She got them less than 6 months after our break up.
They divorced, we started seeing each other again, and I couldn't even hug her properly because those implants kept pushing me away.
She is much more confident now. She is married again, loves all the attention she gets from male strangers, and cheats on her new husband.
She got the life she wanted from her surgery. I wouldn't be part of it.
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
Sure! From now on I will never ever make decisions without knowing what members think/want/like at a woman. ;) Please.... Be serious BBHost !
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
I like natural and will keep them natural. Also I agree with you, it's her body she does what she wish to make her happy.
For now about the body,enjoy it while you still can :) and body in the next 40 years that will be another subject :P However it is nice of you 'member' to care about ur friend host :))
For now about the body,enjoy it while you still can :) and body in the next 40 years that will be another subject :P However it is nice of you 'member' to care about ur friend host :))
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
Tell her there is another way to increase her bust size if she really wants that :-) It is called adult stem cells and fat breast enlragement. She can gain up to 2 sizes. I agree every surgery has its risks, but there are also very happy women who made this step and dont have a problem, not after 1 year or after 10 years. Make sure she understands all the risks after she takes a decision. You cant decide for her. And its not always about money or selfesteem.
RE: bigger brests/awoman
let me tell you ladies,,,there is nothing wrong with getting breast implants, with today medicine and cosmetic surgeons out there (but first find a good doctor.>look for me in 7 years) anyway, its safer these days (just dont expect to breast feed a baby if you have one) anyway its nothing wrong with trying to have your body look more beautiful with some support, nothing to do with low self esteen thats all in your mindset about how low you feel, nothing to do with alternative your body,, just look at it as a bodybuilder who is wanting to be pump up,, anyway--good luck
RE: The Dangers of Breast Implants
Women with breast implants can feed very well. Especially if they are unders (totally under muscles) They dont interfere with mamary glands.
I love implants!
I can't remember the last time I dated a woman that didn't have implants. I love sliding my cock between a pair of big tits on hot chick's frame. Yes, sometimes they can be a bit hard. But if you get silicone (as opposed to saline), they'll typically turn out nice and soft. 500CCs is perfect. Just my opinion.
RE: I love implants!
And you would implant silicons to your...butt lets say if women would prefer?! :)))) Childish expectations you have from women :)))
RE: I love implants!
No, I wouldn't. But I'm a man, not a woman. The primary manner of attracting a man is through sexuality (for a woman). The primary manner of attracting a woman is through power/money - that is, the ability to support - for a man. That's why women spend many times more money on plastic surgery, make-up, etc. than do men. It's completely logical.
Variety
Many member post about their favorite host or their partiuclar turn on, like long hair. And that is fine. But I love CC for the variety! Tall girls, short girls, thin, girls, curvey girls, lots of rules, no limits, innocent girls, total sluts, wont strip, alwyas naked, no touching "down there", lots of toys, straight, bi. i love em all! As long as they nice and honest. so thx ladies!
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
I think doing your own website or blog is a really good idea & much easier to implement because you can do it yourself without having to depend on CC to develop it (which, quite frankly, could increase our costs). And you would have control over your own site, obviously... get creative!
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
Please leave CC as it is. I spend here most of my time and I dont want CC to look like other sites where $$$ is more important than its members. This site is already the BEST in my book. Don't give more weapons to certain hosts that make it so obvious, pls.
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
Any company that fails to innovate and keep up with the market is going to fail. The competition is constantly looking for ways to gain a competitive edge. Why shouldn't CC?
The FUNCLUB idea has some merit. It has worked at other sites so maybe it can benefit CC hosts and members. Enrollment is optional so nobody is going to be forced into anything. It is just another tool that hosts can use in their marketing. ;)
The FUNCLUB idea has some merit. It has worked at other sites so maybe it can benefit CC hosts and members. Enrollment is optional so nobody is going to be forced into anything. It is just another tool that hosts can use in their marketing. ;)
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
Ana, I see both advantages and disadvantages to your proposal.
I was member for a long long time of another site which had fanclubs. They do have their advantages. However fanclubs marked the demise of that site. Today it is but a shadow of its former glory -- it was a leader in the industry. They have too many "freebies" and too many "features". Why see the host in pay video if you can watch all the free videos you want?
The best value of the fanclub feature would be to give discounted videosession rates to members. Another site which also had fanclubs realized this, and went strictly to a club which gave a discount to videochat as a privilege for buying fanclub membership. I do like the idea of a fanclub with special features just for the members of the fc, but too many features becomes overkill and clutter.
Camcontacts' greatness is in my opinion its simplicity and straightforward ease of navigation. I'm here to have fun with the hosts, not experience a 1001 features in the fanclub (as one site seems to think is necessary)
I was member for a long long time of another site which had fanclubs. They do have their advantages. However fanclubs marked the demise of that site. Today it is but a shadow of its former glory -- it was a leader in the industry. They have too many "freebies" and too many "features". Why see the host in pay video if you can watch all the free videos you want?
The best value of the fanclub feature would be to give discounted videosession rates to members. Another site which also had fanclubs realized this, and went strictly to a club which gave a discount to videochat as a privilege for buying fanclub membership. I do like the idea of a fanclub with special features just for the members of the fc, but too many features becomes overkill and clutter.
Camcontacts' greatness is in my opinion its simplicity and straightforward ease of navigation. I'm here to have fun with the hosts, not experience a 1001 features in the fanclub (as one site seems to think is necessary)
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
I am pretty sure what site you are talking of and I totally agree. Added too many features and lost the focus of what they do best, most companies end up making that same mistake in trying to expand market share and their misguided decisions to "keep ahead of the competition" and add many times what are really unneccessary features to try and keep ahead of the competition.
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
Nonsense asdf. No attempt to "keep ahead of the competition" or to keep up with the competition is misguided. You may not like the change that ana proposed but there are successful sites that do have fan clubs and discount clubs. 1moretry's theory that fanclubs marked the demise of one site is just his theory.
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
nowhere did I say no attempt, there's a big difference between adding features just for the hell of it because someone else does it and adding stuff that benefits your site best. Most companies that fail try to just copy while not being innovative or try to please everyone and add every feature under the sun and turn their product into a mess.
she listed exactly what a couple other sites do now. She can easily go set up an account at those and get exactly what she's asking for.
And the site 1moretry I think is talking about was the biggest site for this type of thing for years and it's when they started screwing with their business model is when things went south for them. Slowly at first, but they are now just a shadow of what they were.
video chatting is really the main business of these sites, it shows sites should carefully consider what "extras" they add to their site. Adding too much or things that turn off the customer(s) will cause a loss in both members and hosts. I think the simple approach is the best approach when you're working with just one product like they are here.
she listed exactly what a couple other sites do now. She can easily go set up an account at those and get exactly what she's asking for.
And the site 1moretry I think is talking about was the biggest site for this type of thing for years and it's when they started screwing with their business model is when things went south for them. Slowly at first, but they are now just a shadow of what they were.
video chatting is really the main business of these sites, it shows sites should carefully consider what "extras" they add to their site. Adding too much or things that turn off the customer(s) will cause a loss in both members and hosts. I think the simple approach is the best approach when you're working with just one product like they are here.
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
As the members said ,i think CC is already more than great and elegant with its simple menu. And the majority of CC's members ( and hosts that have profile just in CC and don't work for multiple sites) stay stick to CC and because of its simplicity :)
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
what you described is exactly what a few other sites already have, so there's really no reason for Camcontacts to add these things unless they want to be just like the other sites.
Cam sites have a pretty simple premise: videochatting. No need to get too fancy with that, but that's where a lot of these sites screw up with trying to add too many features.
Cam sites have a pretty simple premise: videochatting. No need to get too fancy with that, but that's where a lot of these sites screw up with trying to add too many features.
RE: FUNCLUB special features and discounts
well, as a member I am not a big fan of funclubs....I like it the simple way...here some reasons:
1) Paying a fee for a funclub or membership brings CC into your lifes foreground - I like it that I can visit girls here sometimes everyday, sometimes once a week and sometimes I have a break of some months. It would be the same like with a fitness-club. You pay a monthly fee and you say to yourself "I must go now, because I paid" - I like the more
"freedom-way"
2) For sure every member here has more than one fav-girl. Paying a fee for each makes the costs too high.
3) I'm afraid that all girls would "transfer" more and more "features" into the funclub. At the end, normal users would almost get nothing or only if they are willing to pay more.
So I think a funclub/membership is not necessary. Other features like
- searching in forum
- to see in your favlist if your online-fav is alone or has a guest (like a signal, green=all free, yellow=guest in open session, red=guest in one2one)
- maybe a video-conference between a guest and hosts would be "interesting"
1) Paying a fee for a funclub or membership brings CC into your lifes foreground - I like it that I can visit girls here sometimes everyday, sometimes once a week and sometimes I have a break of some months. It would be the same like with a fitness-club. You pay a monthly fee and you say to yourself "I must go now, because I paid" - I like the more
"freedom-way"
2) For sure every member here has more than one fav-girl. Paying a fee for each makes the costs too high.
3) I'm afraid that all girls would "transfer" more and more "features" into the funclub. At the end, normal users would almost get nothing or only if they are willing to pay more.
So I think a funclub/membership is not necessary. Other features like
- searching in forum
- to see in your favlist if your online-fav is alone or has a guest (like a signal, green=all free, yellow=guest in open session, red=guest in one2one)
- maybe a video-conference between a guest and hosts would be "interesting"
Sunny
It's the place where u come to w__k, to earn money, to make friends, to find lovers or love or that prince with his white horse, what CC means for you?
RE: Sunny
CC is my fantasy come true. I come see beautiful girls and their naked body. I get to talk to them and fantasize with girls that I cant meet in real life :-)
RE: Sunny
The great thing about CC is if you do have an office job, you can also do this while at the office
RE: Sunny
can earn so much money as i want-not have any level..... cant work any time as i want.day or night or morning.have weekend any trime i want....men tell me compliments....uim covergirl...i can buy cars and flats....traveling./...meet my online friends members for dinner and fun.... good2 spend time before sleep...members send flowewrs and gifts...lots of fun... i love this place alot.. :D
RE: Sunny
I come here all the time to try to find girl of my dreams and fall in love. Still hoping...
What's in a name?
For whatever reason, when I see a host that has pics I like, the name "Elena" seems to be the most common. That doesn't mean that all women named "Elena" are attractive or that women with other names are not attractive. And it has nothing to do with the name, because unless the main profile pic is attractive in my view, I never know what the name is.
Obviously, at least on CC, Elena is a very common name. But for whatever reason, when I see pics I like and click on the profiles or ask the host her name since the profiles are not always accurate, I keep seeing "Elena" more than any other name. It just seems to be the most common name for women on CC that I find attractive that greatest percentage of the time.
So if your name is Elena, let me know, and maybe I will come visit.
Obviously, at least on CC, Elena is a very common name. But for whatever reason, when I see pics I like and click on the profiles or ask the host her name since the profiles are not always accurate, I keep seeing "Elena" more than any other name. It just seems to be the most common name for women on CC that I find attractive that greatest percentage of the time.
So if your name is Elena, let me know, and maybe I will come visit.
RE: What's in a name?
Two of my favorites hosts are Alex (xExtasyx) and Aleksa/Leksa (Casablancka) so there are some great hosts with that name. But the issue is what name is most common for those hosts you think are hot, not what name is great. Of course, if there are 6 or 7 Alexandra's you like, that could be the answer, but I doubt two would be enough.
RE: What's in a name?
The "real" name that hosts tell members is often a fake real name because they have to protect their anonymity from crazies and stalkers. Sadly, there are a few lurking on the Internet.
RE: What's in a name?
All my lovers last 10 -15 years were Lions.Online I found somebody that I hoped to cut the line of Lions...But he was afraid to meet me in real...so I started to date a guy I met while shopping...I asked his sign.Lion!
He asked me five times if I am married.Five times I had to answer YES!
Happy MISTRESS
He asked me five times if I am married.Five times I had to answer YES!
Happy MISTRESS
Question for Hosts
Sometimes I find a host in open already playing for another member. It can be very exciting. What is the proper etiqutte here? also, do hosts like when more than one guy is watching?
RE: Question for Hosts
Better to ask members this because you might get a member to leave a host's room and cost her money. Also, it is for her to follow what members like, not the other way around. Hosts should be treated with respect, but we are the customers after all.
The established rules seem to be that during a show, the first member in open gets priority in terms of what he wants to see. So if the first member wants something that cannot be done at the same time as the second member's request, the host should follow the first member's requests. If a host doesn't follow this rule, she is going to annoy most members here especially if the first member spent his money warming the host up before a show.
Members should understand that when someone is already in a show, that his requests come second. It is kind of like if two people are having a conversation u don't just interrupt. Still, it is "open" session so ur requests are legitimate. They just don't get priority. Usually things go smoothly since a host is changing positions a lot so requests from other members can be accomodated, but there are cases where the first member wants just a certain thing and that thing only so others need to be patient and the host should focus on this first member.
The other thing to do is to type private. Most members here don't want to see what u have to say especially if it is like "I am hard, baby." That doesn't happen much, but it has driven me out of a room if it continues.
The established rules seem to be that during a show, the first member in open gets priority in terms of what he wants to see. So if the first member wants something that cannot be done at the same time as the second member's request, the host should follow the first member's requests. If a host doesn't follow this rule, she is going to annoy most members here especially if the first member spent his money warming the host up before a show.
Members should understand that when someone is already in a show, that his requests come second. It is kind of like if two people are having a conversation u don't just interrupt. Still, it is "open" session so ur requests are legitimate. They just don't get priority. Usually things go smoothly since a host is changing positions a lot so requests from other members can be accomodated, but there are cases where the first member wants just a certain thing and that thing only so others need to be patient and the host should focus on this first member.
The other thing to do is to type private. Most members here don't want to see what u have to say especially if it is like "I am hard, baby." That doesn't happen much, but it has driven me out of a room if it continues.
RE: Question for Hosts
U must be a fun girl! Your name? I think some of us would be happy to accomodate you!
RE: Question for Hosts
My practice if I enter an already-in-progress show.... is to ask IN PRIVATE if it is okay to stay. That will be the extent of my conversation, I will make no requests. As far as I'm concerned, it's first-come-first-serve. If i'm in a show and someone comes in on me, i do not appreciate him rudely interupting and distracting the host. If the host doesn't put a stop to it, I will... by leaving. IMO, it is the host's room and she can run it as she pleases. But I try to respect both host and members, and expect the same.
RE: Question for Hosts
Aie aie aie this hypocrisy about 121 i heard " i prefer 121 to give the best to my member " bla bla bla and bla bla bla ... so why and why the cost of 121 is different ? ehehe Girls i would beleive you if your 121 = prvt price too.
RE: Question for Hosts
I could have set equal prices for 1on1 and 1on-many, but the site does not allow such option. It allows no less than 20% gap between prices.
RE: Question for Hosts
haha. That always cracks me up. I always see this on sites with group shows. A girl will be right in the middle of a hot show, vibrator in pussy and some puppydog fanboy type will come in and try to show her what a nice, caring guy he is:
"Hey babe. How are you today? How did your exam go? I was thinking about ya."
"umm, dude. Yeah. She's a bit busy right now..."
"Hey babe. How are you today? How did your exam go? I was thinking about ya."
"umm, dude. Yeah. She's a bit busy right now..."
RE: Question for Hosts
I have found that if I just watch and not try and direct the action the host will often continue as if you were not there...she sometimes says hello and I respond..keep going or ignore me. Other hosts insist you leave. I also find it exciting plus you save the money on the waster preliminaries...how old are you? where are you from? Etc. Plus the host is making double money so whats the harm?
RE: Question for Hosts
Call me fussy but I really dislike it when anyone else joins my private session. Therefore I try to avoid entering another member's session.
If the host welcomes multiple members and tries to please them all at the same time then she is not for me anyway.
If the host welcomes multiple members and tries to please them all at the same time then she is not for me anyway.
RE: Question for Hosts
personally i never go to vid if i see a host is already busy with someone else.......good to see the password option used..seems a rare occurence these days
waiting nervously
I sit in front of my pc waiting nervously for my host to appear. the screen comes on, and there she is so beautiful, with that incredible smile. She say's hello my heart skips a beat. I turn my cam on as she say's my name in that sweet little voice she has. she looks so beautiful today. i nervously say hello. she's looking right into her camera, right at me. Our eye's locked together. she has some really nice music playing in the back ground. she ask's me how i am today. She's makes me feel like a small child. I tell her i'm fine. My mind is racing at 100 miles an hour nothing else matters now i'm focused on her. she's wearing really sexy clothes. She's stands up and gives me a twirl her beautiful, gracefull body looking perfect in the dim light. she tie's her long flowing hair back. Then goes to sit back down. Completly missing her chair. It all goes in slow motion as i watch her disaper from my screen she's heading straight fo the floor. then crash as she hit's the floor. then nothing, is she ok, has she knocked herself out. The longest 5 seconds passes and slowly a little head pops up on the bottom of my screen. She's ok thank god. we both agree its better to end the session. So i leave. This girl will make me smile for the rest of my life everytime i think of that moment. It's good to see we're all human every once in a while. lol
RE: waiting nervously
ahahaha...it happened to me too...I was in a video with a member and he slipped from his chair...I was shocked when ive seen him down but after we both laughed so much...It was funny..:D
RE: waiting nervously
What a clumsy girl that was. I just hope she's well and didn't break her ass. Lmao.
RE: waiting nervously
A similar instance is what got me to notice my last serious GF. I was servicing the computers in the office she worked in. She went to sit in her chair and missed it. From the expression on her face for the next to seconds it was hard to tell if she was going to laugh or going to cry. She burst into laughter, so I knew she was OK. After that we started talking and dated for about 2 years, We came real close to getting married but I'm glad we didn't.
RE: waiting nervously
"We came real close to getting married but I'm glad we didn't."
LMAO. Such a perfect line. How many guys have said that? lol And how many more wish that they could say it right now? :p
LMAO. Such a perfect line. How many guys have said that? lol And how many more wish that they could say it right now? :p
RE: waiting nervously
Reminds me of a host and great friend about 8 years ago. She had a bad habit of getting drunk and trying to do hand stands on the back of her sofa on cam. One time the sofa was too far from the wall, and presto she disappeared behind it lol.
We still get a laugh out of that when we get to chat on IM :)
We still get a laugh out of that when we get to chat on IM :)
RE: what a men really wants?
I think you have the right idea. Most guys want to look at beautiful women, some maybe date, and flirt with them, but in the end of the day most of us are affraid that we don't have a chance to marry or keep them happy.
Tone down the barbie beauty...don't try too hard to look or dress sexy. Natural beauty will always show even without short skirt or showing too much cleavage. Look at photos of some beautiful actresses like Jennifer Garner or Kate Beckensale when they are out with children or just shopping for food. They're still beautiful but they don't dress to show it.
BTW, don't cut your hair. Long hair is such great gift that I'm sure one lucky man witl enjoy in future.
Tone down the barbie beauty...don't try too hard to look or dress sexy. Natural beauty will always show even without short skirt or showing too much cleavage. Look at photos of some beautiful actresses like Jennifer Garner or Kate Beckensale when they are out with children or just shopping for food. They're still beautiful but they don't dress to show it.
BTW, don't cut your hair. Long hair is such great gift that I'm sure one lucky man witl enjoy in future.
RE: what a men really wants?
I love beautiful women and I have been in love with beautiful women my entire life. I would love to be next to a beautiful women the rest of my life, however the common behavior among beautiful women is exactly what had always kept me far and away from doing so. You girls are so acustomed to be the center of everything and love to get all the attention that you end up flirting all the time with almost every creature that crosses your way. Up to the point that "one" man isn't enough for you. I was in love many times with a beautiful girl or woman. I even heard "i love you" most of the time, but at some point they turned around to cheat on me or gave me a hard time with other men they just met. This happened in real life and in here. Girls, if you really want or need a man that really loves you then please start by changing your behavior, not your clothes, or your hair, its inside yourself that you need to change. Be more conscious of what you really want or need. Choose to be "loved" by a one man or "adored" by a hundred. It's your choice and really, just examine your acts and you'll see there is no one else to blame, but you.
RE: what a men really wants?
Tiburon... c'mon. It's not like guys don't cheat on beautiful women. They don't need to be lectured by you.
In my younger days I dated a few women who were considered gorgeous. They were too "high maintenance" for me... one was too self-absorbed, another was a daddy's girl. But there was another who, I realized later, would have been happy to date me, and perhaps more. She was so beautiful, however, I choked on asking her out, although we worked together and had an otherwise very friendly relationship. She married a guy I didn't particularly like lol.
Certainly on CC I've met gorgeous hosts who are also spirited, intelligent, perceptive, intuitive, warm, earthy... all the qualities I appreciate in any woman, no matter what she looks like. Guys fear rejection, lack confidence, and invest waaaaaay too much in what they expect from a beautiful woman and what they expect of themselves in a relationship with one.
I would just say, Ana, let a guy see you as an individual person, not as some paragon of beauty or sexuality or whatever (at least not all the time). You want a lover, yes, but also a partner and friend for life. Just be real. Then it's really up to him, that right guy, to appear in your life.
My two cents anyway. All the Best...
In my younger days I dated a few women who were considered gorgeous. They were too "high maintenance" for me... one was too self-absorbed, another was a daddy's girl. But there was another who, I realized later, would have been happy to date me, and perhaps more. She was so beautiful, however, I choked on asking her out, although we worked together and had an otherwise very friendly relationship. She married a guy I didn't particularly like lol.
Certainly on CC I've met gorgeous hosts who are also spirited, intelligent, perceptive, intuitive, warm, earthy... all the qualities I appreciate in any woman, no matter what she looks like. Guys fear rejection, lack confidence, and invest waaaaaay too much in what they expect from a beautiful woman and what they expect of themselves in a relationship with one.
I would just say, Ana, let a guy see you as an individual person, not as some paragon of beauty or sexuality or whatever (at least not all the time). You want a lover, yes, but also a partner and friend for life. Just be real. Then it's really up to him, that right guy, to appear in your life.
My two cents anyway. All the Best...
RE: what a men really wants?
I have been with beautiful women my whole life. High maintenance and selfcentered didnt bother me, but as someone else said; they are always flirting around trying to grab all the attention for themselves and most tend to be cheaters by impulse. My choice still goes for the beautiful girls :-)
RE: what a men really wants?
most gorgeous girls i met have so many choices that choose to stay single and happy ;)
RE: what a men really wants?
I'm more frightened by buck ugly women .... one drink too many on my part and I end up becoming sympathetic for a night and then it's 6 months of trying to dodge them .... :) (I'm kiddin .... sort of ... )
Beauty is a bonus ..... but personality and compatibility are the only things that will make a relationship work - so just be more forward and approach the single guys and chat them up! You're allowed to these days ;)
Beauty is a bonus ..... but personality and compatibility are the only things that will make a relationship work - so just be more forward and approach the single guys and chat them up! You're allowed to these days ;)
RE: what a men really wants?
gorgeous girl doesnt mean interesting girl. You can shine, you can be sexy and tease but thats totally superficial. About why women and men (nice) are single, the answer is defintively not into their aspect. look into the reason why women are so difficult to choose, and why men are so versatile.
RE: what a men really wants?
Finally an message that a guy can relate to im a singleguy apparently not too bad looking and with a real big heart and romantic but girls just want to be my friend why is this im glad to hear its not just us guys who think this!
Just be yourself and keep the long hair its far cuter and keep smiling as u never know whos looking
:D
Just be yourself and keep the long hair its far cuter and keep smiling as u never know whos looking
:D
RE: what a men really wants?
Forget trying to be what men want you be be it'll never work. For the most part men just like women full stop, for every one who likes x I'll find you one who likes y. There might be some popular trends (big breasts?) but there's a large minority who will like the opposite. In the end it's personality and compatibility that matter when you're looking for a partner.
If I see a girl and i like her look it's because she's putting out a message about her lifestyle that I relate to and I hope that means we share the same sort of tastes.
If you want a guy you can love, enjoy your time with and relate to then you need to be yourself and your appearance needs to advertise you. Yes you can dress up sometimes but don't be generic, give it your own twist.
I like quirky artistic types including all the punk/goth/emo girls so would never approach a girl who appeared to be a Barbie type because I assume our personality wouldn't match. I also hate finding out that the girl with the fantastic outfit and hair is a boring fashion trend follower and that a look I like just happens to be in style.
Cut your hair how you like it, wear the clothes that you like, put on makeup how you like it and forget about what men want you to look like. As for what to look like on CC I don't know about the other members but I'd love to see a few more girls in their own look rather then the stripper clothes/hair/makeup/shoes that many go for.
If I see a girl and i like her look it's because she's putting out a message about her lifestyle that I relate to and I hope that means we share the same sort of tastes.
If you want a guy you can love, enjoy your time with and relate to then you need to be yourself and your appearance needs to advertise you. Yes you can dress up sometimes but don't be generic, give it your own twist.
I like quirky artistic types including all the punk/goth/emo girls so would never approach a girl who appeared to be a Barbie type because I assume our personality wouldn't match. I also hate finding out that the girl with the fantastic outfit and hair is a boring fashion trend follower and that a look I like just happens to be in style.
Cut your hair how you like it, wear the clothes that you like, put on makeup how you like it and forget about what men want you to look like. As for what to look like on CC I don't know about the other members but I'd love to see a few more girls in their own look rather then the stripper clothes/hair/makeup/shoes that many go for.
RE: what a men really wants?
Well this may sound silly but........
Don't worry about what "guys" want Ana. There is not a thing you can do that will please all of us anyway. Just worry about what you want for yourself. Wear your hair however you like. Buy clothes that make you feel good and reflect your personality. Be confident, be happy and be yourself. The guy who really is right for you will appreciate it. The rest of us don't matter.
Don't worry about what "guys" want Ana. There is not a thing you can do that will please all of us anyway. Just worry about what you want for yourself. Wear your hair however you like. Buy clothes that make you feel good and reflect your personality. Be confident, be happy and be yourself. The guy who really is right for you will appreciate it. The rest of us don't matter.
RE: what a men really wants?
3 letter...GFE. Girl Friend Experience. Think of your bf being far away from you through no fault of your own. You love him. You miss him. You want him to know how much you love him and how much you miss him and you want to satisfy him over the web and show him what he is missing so he better get home soon. If a host does the same show to a member as she would to her bf if he was online under those circumstances you have the answer. Of course you are acting for members and doing the real thing but that is what men want. To feel the love. The lust. The longing. The sexuality oozes from the screen. Ez .
snowsquirel?
any seen snowsquirel? i not sure whether she has an alternate host name? any help?
p.s. no hybernating jokes ;)
p.s. no hybernating jokes ;)
RE: 25bunny
I agree with th OP. She is sexy and fun with good English and ready to play in lots of ways. Her pics do not really do her justice.
RE: 25bunny
good girl indeed, after it's only a question of feeling between us as member and her as host :) so we can write tons of message in forum we go back eternally on the fact we visit a girl from an instant pulsion or need and not from advertizing or global opinion regarding a 'goods'
RE: Tattoos
I have no problem with tattoos but I am not sure if all those in her pics are genuine permanent ones.
RE: Tattoos
You are asking others to give your own opinion.
The answer, of course is:
Yes, it is attractive.
No, it is not attractive.
The answer, of course is:
Yes, it is attractive.
No, it is not attractive.
RE: Tattoos
Tatoos are becoming very common place. Go to a beach in the US during the summer and look at the thousands of girls and boys marked up. Some are not bad but I have seen so many disfigured by tatoos. One would assume there will come a day when they regret it. I have a tasteful shamrock inside of a celtic band. Now thats cool..kinda....
I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
Ok this is the place you can bitch about any thing you want ))
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
when you do something expecting something(eg sms)in return,life is bound to be filled with disappointments :--)
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
hate when guy coming wih fraze"hi show me what u got" "hi bb u horny?" "hi bb lets play""ohh sorry wife back"...etc
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
I hate it when I get all hot watching host, and my wife comes home! Then I have to quickly leave and host doesn't believe me!
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
YOU'RE "FN" UGLY AND I DON'T WANT TO WASTE ANOTHER RUBLE ON YOU !!!
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
Drivers that insist on letting someone in regardless of the problems it may cause to the drivers behind them.
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
Ohhhh, I don't know you, but I'm sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must be. I hope your sadness will soon be able to smile again. Hugs for you.
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
I hate it when all the good places to hide bodies are taken
RE: I Just Wanna Bitch About Something
When hosts fall in love with me and want me in PVT every day. ;)
Birthday Party Contest Pics
I've heard from hosts that pics are due in about two weeks, and this time, NO photoshop is allowed. This could be very interesting to see how the pics turn out and who is selected.
It probably is best that there is no photoshop. It was getting out of control to the point where if the name wasn't attached to the pic, you might not know who it was, lol. And too many of the archives don't reflect what you see in video even though the archives do say "These photos were taken and placed here by the individual Chathost during one of their previous Live Video Sessions" so more accurate pics would be nice.
I think all of this could be a refreshing change and allow members to make better choices.
It probably is best that there is no photoshop. It was getting out of control to the point where if the name wasn't attached to the pic, you might not know who it was, lol. And too many of the archives don't reflect what you see in video even though the archives do say "These photos were taken and placed here by the individual Chathost during one of their previous Live Video Sessions" so more accurate pics would be nice.
I think all of this could be a refreshing change and allow members to make better choices.
RE: Birthday Party Contest Pics
Maybe no silicone allowed either?
I think members may be surprised by the beauty of some of the former cover girls (and others) even without photo-shop
I think members may be surprised by the beauty of some of the former cover girls (and others) even without photo-shop
RE: Birthday Party Contest Pics
Agree with NO silicon, one girl wasted my mood tonight .. she was perfect few months ago - mother nature gave her all in right proportion (and i m photographer) and this girl .... came back to work on cc with a ... heu ... well a bOObs explosion. thats not esthetic, none harmony, not comfy , and simply no t nice at all. Mental checkup would be mandatory before to go for a surgery about Extra large unsual size of boobs. The issue is not in the boobs size but more in brain first .. arrfffg it's done i said. So about contest without photoshop lol :) ..... the rules are : 1) withotu photoshop at all ? in this case the photo will be gray, withotu impact, bad color, many natural defaults on skin, background etc etc or 2) with photoshop as long the effect are 'natural' (no more plastic skin !!!!). I beleive the contest is to show also nice photo of nice girls in their best sides and i doubt a contest from a webcam photo would be interesting at all.
kids say the darndest things
Little 5 year old Melissa comes home from first grade and tells her father that they learned about the history of Valentine's Day.
"Since Valentine's Day is for a Christian saint and we're Jewish," she asks, "will God get mad at me for giving someone a valentine?"
Melissa's father thinks a bit, then says "No, I don't think God would get mad. Who do you want to give a Valentine to?"
"Osama Bin Laden," she says.
"Why Osama Bin Laden," her father asks in shock.
"Well," she says, "I thought that if a little American Jewish girl could have enough love to give Osama a Valentine, he might start to
think that maybe we're not all bad, and maybe start loving people a little bit. And if other kids saw what I did and sent Valentines to
Osama, he'd love everyone a lot. And then he'd start going all over the place to tell everyone how much he loved them and how he didn't
hate anyone anymore."
Her father's heart swells and he looks at his daughter with new found pride.
"Melissa, that's the most wonderful thing I've ever heard."
"I know, “Melissa says, "and once that gets him out in the open, the Marines could shoot the bastard." :--)
"Since Valentine's Day is for a Christian saint and we're Jewish," she asks, "will God get mad at me for giving someone a valentine?"
Melissa's father thinks a bit, then says "No, I don't think God would get mad. Who do you want to give a Valentine to?"
"Osama Bin Laden," she says.
"Why Osama Bin Laden," her father asks in shock.
"Well," she says, "I thought that if a little American Jewish girl could have enough love to give Osama a Valentine, he might start to
think that maybe we're not all bad, and maybe start loving people a little bit. And if other kids saw what I did and sent Valentines to
Osama, he'd love everyone a lot. And then he'd start going all over the place to tell everyone how much he loved them and how he didn't
hate anyone anymore."
Her father's heart swells and he looks at his daughter with new found pride.
"Melissa, that's the most wonderful thing I've ever heard."
"I know, “Melissa says, "and once that gets him out in the open, the Marines could shoot the bastard." :--)
RE: Diference betwen...
Men and women are humans. Humans are capable of feelings and emotions. There's no psychology book classifying the emotions and feelings into male and female ones. We are individuals, hence the way we feel, and our own perceptions of said feelings are unique, that's all there is to it.
RE: Diference betwen...
There are women who believe that men only want women for sex. There are men who believe that women only want men for money. Those people are wrong. Each one of us is a unique individual who is capable of the entire range of human emotions, including love.
All I can know for sure is that I am a man and I am capable of love - real love.
All I can know for sure is that I am a man and I am capable of love - real love.
RE: Diference betwen...
I don't agree with this, though I'm sure there are many who feel the way you have expressed. I believe both men and women -- depending on the person -- are able to love with heart and soul. Perhaps what attracts and stimulates one is different... but the capacity to love belongs to all persons.
The problem with such generalized statements is that one can always think of the exceptions. For example: "All men are pigs." While that may be someone's opinion, it is by no means true. Some men are perhaps categorized as such. But I think most would not be. And same is true about the capacity to love. I've known women who are shallow and self-centered. I've known men who are completely self-giving and deeply loving.
It's an individual thing, not something can be generalized. That's my outlook anyway.
The problem with such generalized statements is that one can always think of the exceptions. For example: "All men are pigs." While that may be someone's opinion, it is by no means true. Some men are perhaps categorized as such. But I think most would not be. And same is true about the capacity to love. I've known women who are shallow and self-centered. I've known men who are completely self-giving and deeply loving.
It's an individual thing, not something can be generalized. That's my outlook anyway.
RE: Diference betwen...
I don't think it's just ego that makes it difficult for a man to express his feelings. I think it is, in many places, culturally programmed into us. I think it is also part of how we are made. I do believe that John Gray is pretty much correct in his evaluation of men and women in general in his book "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" i don't agree completely with him, but I think he has some pretty good insights into human dynamics.
RE: Diference betwen...
the love isn't different,the difference,mostly,is in how women & men love.the way they express it.generally females are more tactile. .females are nuturers(emotion)by nature,men hunters(physical) .other than that piece of babble the only other thing i can add is,i agree & disagree with everything said by all the other posters :--)
RE: Diference betwen...
Men are from mars, Women are from venus!!!...Honestly, in this case, it's why people say only fools fall in love. If you were to ask me, loving one woman is actually worth dying for ... am I a fool for this?
RE: Diference betwen...
Ladies ladies over the world and not only in virtual .... if men doesnt know how to love .... why you all perfect women you continue to love us ?
There is indeed a difference and thanks to this difference we can each others love and build something in life (of course i dont talk about love here ! thats a bullshit) the difference is in the fact we see each a side of this piece (or coins) that is the word we call Love. Ladies is not because you see the verso side that you can pretend be the ownership of Love, dont forget that a coin have also a recto side where men pretend also Love.
Aie aie aie
There is indeed a difference and thanks to this difference we can each others love and build something in life (of course i dont talk about love here ! thats a bullshit) the difference is in the fact we see each a side of this piece (or coins) that is the word we call Love. Ladies is not because you see the verso side that you can pretend be the ownership of Love, dont forget that a coin have also a recto side where men pretend also Love.
Aie aie aie
RE: Diference betwen...
good to know men "pretend" also Love, guess some men are good pretenders ;)
Sexiest Single Word
What is the sexiest single word you have ever heard your lover say? For me it was "Please"
Of course there was conversation before that and the situation was intense, but that one word and the way she said it still stays with me.
Of course there was conversation before that and the situation was intense, but that one word and the way she said it still stays with me.
RE: Sexiest Single Word
One word: "Beg". Very sexy. THE sexiest in the context of: "I beg you, please, I BEG YOU"
RE: Sexiest Single Word
Definitely "Please" for me. An ex-gf used to say it during lovemaking and it was probably the sexiest thing I have ever heard. Context is important. If she had said "please don't touch me " it would not be so sexy. But she said it in a different sentence... :)
Add Mulata4u's favorite word and you get "yes please" which can be doubly sexy. :))
Add Mulata4u's favorite word and you get "yes please" which can be doubly sexy. :))
Question for the Male Hosts
I suspect I'm like most guys... my orgasmability is limited. First one's no problem. 2nd is a bit more work, and getting hard is a litlte more effort. 3rd one's really pushing it, and frankly, getting up for it ... well, if i have enough time in between, no problem. But, what do you do when you burst upon the scene and have exhausted your, umm, man-juices... and then someone else comes in and expects a full show to completion?
RE: Question for the Male Hosts
I think you are missing the point....is a little difficult to fake an erection and whilst he might be able to imitate the ejaculate nobody is going to believe if it came from a flaccid c**k.
RE: Question for the Male Hosts
Given I know a few male hosts, I can tell you that first of all, the traffic for guys is not exactly non stop, I can assure you you'll have plenty of time to "recover" between shows. Second, keep your porn collection handy lol. And third, with a bit of imagination, a few small props and smart camera angles you can fake anything with lotion.
RE: Question for the Male Hosts
Wait a minute, things on the interwebz are fake? Everything is not real? Is it all a lie? I thought that the interwebz is serious business.... :)
RE: Question for the Male Hosts
The Interwebz Matrix haz you! Oh and yes, THE CAKE IS A LIE!!!!1one
private detective
a man suspects his wife is cheating and hires the top chinese private investigator, Chen Lee, to spy on his wife......a few days later he gets this report :
Sir.
I watch house.
U leave house.
He come to house.
He and she leave house.
I follow.
He and she go hotel.
I climb tree and look in window.
He kiss she.
She kiss he.
He strip.
She strip.
He play with she.
She play with he.
I play with me.
I fall out of tree.
I not see.
No fee.
Chen Lee.
Very sorry!
Sir.
I watch house.
U leave house.
He come to house.
He and she leave house.
I follow.
He and she go hotel.
I climb tree and look in window.
He kiss she.
She kiss he.
He strip.
She strip.
He play with she.
She play with he.
I play with me.
I fall out of tree.
I not see.
No fee.
Chen Lee.
Very sorry!