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Friends, Family and Others

As some of you know, last week end I suffered a (Very Mild) Heart Attack. I asked my eldest son to post to everyone on my Yahoo Friends and Family list, that I had suffered a NON fatal heart attack. Unfortunately, in his haste, he left out the NON, and this caused a fair amount of consternation. It also 'outed' me as the boyfriend of freeda, much, I would imagine, to her embarrassment.
I would like to thank all those who sent condolences and good wishes, and appologies to those who made light of my problem, that it was no joke. At the time it was very painful, very frightening and very worrying. I know some of you have, and will agree, it is not something to wish upon anybody. No, Bebe, I have not come back a month later with a new nick. Yes, I can see the funny side of some of the comments, and I cannot even begin to imagine how hurt some people might have been. Once again, A BIG THANKYOU, to all those I hope I can call 'Friend'. Family do not count, as far as I know, none of them even know about CC. And, no, my Son and I do not visit the same host at the same time. As one wise person pointed out, you do not have to be a member to have Yahoo. I think I have rambled on enough, hope to see some of you in commchat in the near future, but no vids for quite some time, Doctors orders - NO excitement. ;-)
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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Good to see you on your feet again Mondo.... take it easy and avoid dungeon for the time being.... take care

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Very relieved, very glad to see you back! :)

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

a good post, mondo! All the best for u and ur health!

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good to know your alive & kicking mate.just one thing the doctor said no excitement,not no vids.so go see DMSLUTs vid certainly no excitement there,just revulsion & horror.also you're guaranteed to lose weight>>>>throwing up in the corner :--))

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Tisme if you want to be a true psychophant you have to be nice to ALL hosts :D

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Good to see you back :D

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Glad to see you're back Mondo :)

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Welcome back Mondo. Yes take is easy and follow medical advice. I know what it's like and some almost a year to the day. I'm glad that your son's erroneous news turned out to be exaggerated. Take good care.

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

you had us all worried there Mondo. Take care of that heart

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

I dont think we have chatted too much together in Comm Chat, but I'm glad you are ok. I wish you a speedy recovery.

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RE: mmmmmmmmm

And, for you, I am glad to be here. Chmock.

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RE: mmmmmmmmm

freeda and Mondo sitting in a tree... k i s s i n g:P

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to Mondo47

don't go sneaking up behind girls like that or i'll have to tell your godfather.LOL!

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Freeda and Mondo sitting in a tree....... C... A......R.....D...I....A......C !
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RE: to Mondo47

oohhh, that's low :P

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RE: to Mondo47

what is.......... his pulse rate?

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RE: Friends, Family and Others

Welcom back Mondo. I wish u a speedy recovery and hope to see u back in chat soon.

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25 Ways to Annoy Your Roommate During Christmas


Claim you were a Christmas tree in your former life. If s/he tries to bring one into the room, scream bloody murder.
Go to the mall with your roommate and sit on Santa's lap. Refuse to get off.
Wear a Santa suit all the time. Deny you're wearing it.
Sit in a corner in the fetal position rocking back and forth chanting, "Santa Claus is coming to town, Santa Claus is coming to town..."
Hang mistletoe in the doorway. When your roommate enters or leaves the room, plant a wet one on his/her lips.
Hang a stocking with your roommates name on it. Collect coal and sharp objects in it. If s/he asks, say "you've been very naughty this year."
Paint your nose red and wear antlers. Constantly complain about how you never get to join in on the reindeer games.
Make conversation out of Christmas Carols. (I.E. "You know, I saw mommy kissing Santa Claus underneath the mistletoe last night.")
Wrap yourself in Christmas lights and roll around in the snow.
Sing: "All I want for Christmas is my roommate's two front teeth..."
Give your roommate the gifts from the twelve days of Christmas song.
Build a snowperson with your roommate and place a hat on its head. When it doesn't come to life, cry hysterically "it didn't work!"
Whip your roommate screaming "now Dasher, now Dancer, now Donner, and Blitzen,etc."
Tear down all your roommate's Christmas decorations yelling "Bah Humbug!"
Wake up every morning screaming "Ghost of Christmas Future, please have mercy on my soul!"
Tell your roommate you're moving out. Santa's buying you a house on 34th Street.
Pin a poinsettia to your lapel.
Make anatomically correct gingerbread people and eat the best parts first.
Put on a fake white beard and insist that all your roommate's friends "give it a yank."
Ring jingle bells maniacally saying "every time a bell rings an angel gets his wings."
Stand in front of the mirror reciting "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" over and over in your underwear.
Smoke mistletoe. Do what comes naturally.
Watch your roommate when s/he is sleeping. When s/he wakes up sing, "he sees you when you're sleeping..."
Steal a life size nativity scene and display it in your room. When your roommate asks, tell him/her "I had to let them stay here, there's no room at the inn."
When your roommate goes to the bathroom, rearrange his/her possessions. Tell him/her that Santa's elves must have done it.
Courtesy of Comic Relief.
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RE: 25 Ways to Annoy Your Roommate During Christmas

Haha great ones gete.. pity I don't have a roommate..

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RE: 25 Ways to Annoy Your Roommate During Christmas

Haha I don't have a room mate either :((

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RE: 25 Ways to Annoy Your Roommate During Christmas

i have four room mates that i would be very happy to send Psy and a host as Christmas presents :D well maybe that would actually be a Christmas present for me :)

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Growing Up

CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE
1930's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70’s!!
First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us.
They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.
Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking.
As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.
We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.
We ate cakes, white bread and real butter and drank pop with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because......
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.
No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.
We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
lawsuits from these accidents.
We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.
We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!
Football teams had trials and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!
This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!
The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned
HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT ALL!
And YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.
And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.
Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!
PS -The big type is because your eyes are shot at your age
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Yes, but as a '42 kid, I was always being told 'You never had it so good! When I was your age I was fighting Adolf Hitler! That Rock 'n Roll will damage your brain and corrupt your morals!' It probably has but I still loved it and I had no quarrel with the Germans - had a German gf at 15.

Kids today are just fine, with similar problems and also some modern ones too. Wish my and everybody's grandchildren well and hope we haven't fucked up the planet too badly for their children and grandchildren to come.

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No, they're not ok.. girls at 15 years talk about blowjobs and who to fuck next. They grow up, somehow, really fast, but they are still imature and they are anti-social, they have their MP3 players and their games, the net.. they stopped talking, having fun. Can't you see most people have no friends?
Why would psychologists be needed? because they have no friends, because they can't share their problems..

Heh, times change, and not always in the best way.

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I read a report about kids and young people where everything was bad about them - it was dated 1796! :)))

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Did I ever say that only kids nowadays have problems? Each generation, as each country, has its problems, we're humans, so we're far from being perfect.

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Psy whats happened to you ?

I remember this sweet cherubic non adult host who used to make all the members and hosts on cc happy with her sweet smile, kind words, warm personality and wonderful sense of humour.

Anyway enough of my reminiscing about Tata906090.

Psy whats happened to you ? :P

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Eh, I'm home alone :)

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the people of 1796 just didnt know what means "bad" really :))

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lol, well London an even rougher place then than it is now - young bucks used to roam the streets with their swords drawn, sticking anyone they didn't like the look of. Kids are fine, just give em a chance! :)

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Your right Nadeen we didn't.

If only I'd known how bad the future was going to be back in 1796 I might have gone off and fought at the battle of Waterloo after all and not hid under my sisters bed.

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Im glad your still alive! :D ...sometimes to hid under the bed is useful :)

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I'd rather hide IN your bed Nadeen :)

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Well maybe because emptying my sacks and cumming were definitely part of my plan :P

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I feel old now, but you made me think of alot of happy memories! Thanks

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oh my god its my parents & grandparents at christmas chatting about the good ol' days,oh the horror!!!LOL!!!

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lol - love that! :)

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...This is mostly an American phenomenon :)

Go to other places in the world and you\'ll find they are not that regulated.

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RE: LOVE

you must be a sap or a evil host trying to get money

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RE: LOVE

why must she be a sap or an evil host? she is a human being... which is something that a lot of people around here seem to forget... so sad. I believe that love can come from anywhere, anyhow and place. so that would be to your question FirreLove. :)

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RE: romanian host

my advice... take the chance and tell him how you feel. it is better to know if the feeling is the same then to never know in my opinion. love is a great feeling between two people that should not be wasted. as i said.. just my opinion. :)

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dear "romanian host"

You should let him know that you would like to meet him in reality if he wants.

But first you should get his home landline phone number and house address and send him some postcards from your city. If he tells you these things and where he works and more then it might be the truth and maybe he isn't married.

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RE: to Fire man

No matter where you are, love can happen. Just don't expect it or come looking for it....or force it.

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RE: to Fire man

the longer you look, search for or chase after love... the longer it hides around the corner from you. the day you stop running after it is the day it sneaks up behind you and grabs hold. :)

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to Fire man

ahh the pearls of wisdom that must reside in your brain waiting to be shared with the world.......NOT!!!

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U must be the one uder ur description.I have many friends,hosts,who felt in love here and married members and i bet im not the only one .U should think better before next time.If u dont belive in Love on CC,is ok,but those who belive for some reasons,because it trully happend here,doesnt means that arent right.

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these woman only know money.. they aleady have boyfriends.. leave your money and your lonliness at home

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RE: LOVE

they may have boyfriends - you can be sure they have guys that want into their panties - but do they have a future with respect and affection?

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Yes! :))))

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love is a very strange thing
we never know where we meet the ONE!
but guys, be careful!

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RE: about love

first nice girl... i wish you a lot of happines in the love you have found here! of course hosts have the right to be in love, to feel the feel the warmth, happiness and caring that most of us crave. i think that the ones who talk about love & money either are unwilling to trust or just have met the wrong people. like the "real" world there are those who are more interested in material things then happiness. do not let the little children here who are so sad that they can not believe in love or that hosts are human upset you! good luck in your love and future. :)

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...but not too careful or you miss out on some of life's best experiences - those who dare win!

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RE: LOVE

If true love is not possible anywhere, then it's impossible everywhere.

Re the money: why a few pieces of paper changing hands should constrain of skew human interaction all that much is really quite strange. Heck it's not even paper here...

Imagine a classic relationship, whatever that is where you're from. It can still be full of deceit, especially self deception, and parasitism, and mismatched advantages. Not to mention abuse, fiscal irresponsibility, neglect, loathing, dysfunctional communication.

When people ask "how did you meet?" it's not necessarily to judge the strength of your relationship by its origin. They may want to vicariously imagine their own love story. They may just want to know where they can score. They may subconsciously seek confirmation -- by overwhelming diversity -- that there are no wrong places for love to begin.

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in the "real" world and in the internet world there are always going to be liars and cheats does not matter where you are, but at the same time there will be those who are honest at heart. the trick has always been to weed out those who are dishonest from the ones who are honest. i wish all those who find love here or somewhere other the best of luck and a blessed life together! :)

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If you never ask questions, you will never know the answers. Communication is the most important thing two people can do when considering a step forward in their friendship. Without communication, there is nothing. Communication will help you decide what you truly feel and help the person you are interested in make their own decisions. There must be honesty when taking the next step. You and your person of interests can only make decisions on facts. If decisions are made with false information, you have failed before you have started.

Some here think all Hosts are only about the money. Some Hosts think Members are here for only porno. Communication will help you learn the personality of the person you have interests in. Host or Member.

One thing we all must never forget. Hosts are humans, a person, with a heart and soul like the rest of us. During the days of work, for a Host there will be \"Members\" and there will be \"Special People\". It is up to the Host and Member, as a team, to think clearly and be honest what the connect between them really is.

One saying that I thought of and live by is. \" The key to happiness is knowing what makes you happy.\" I am a Locksmith, keys...hehehe. For each of us happiness is a different thing. What is important is you meet someone that feels the same as you about what makes them happy.

I wish all of you the best with your emotions and feelings. Sometimes it is good to take the wall of protection from around your heart down and let someone see the inside. Who knows what you will find.

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On the FIRST day of Christmas,

On the FIRST day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
A kookaburra in a gum tree.
On the SECOND day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the THIRD day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the FOURTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the FIFTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the SIXTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the SEVENTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the EIGHTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Eight dingos dancing,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the NINTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Nine crocs a-snoozing?
Eight dingos dancing,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the TENTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Ten wombats washing,
Nine crocs a-snoozing?
Eight dingos dancing,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the ELEVENTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Eleven lizards leaping,
Ten wombats washing,
Nine crocs a-snoozing?
Eight dingos dancing,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.

On the TWELFTH day of Christmas,
My true love sent to me,
Twelve possums playing,
Eleven lizards leaping,
Ten wombats washing,
Nine crocs a-snoozing?
Eight dingos dancing,
Seven emus laying,
Six sharks a-surfing,
Five kangaroos,
Four lyrebirds,
Three wet galahs,
Two snakes on skis,
And a kookaburra in a gum tree.
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RE: On the FIRST day of Christmas,

Northern Territories most amazing place. Going jogging while watching out for the crocs. Merry Xmas gete!

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RE: On the FIRST day of Christmas,

Nice one, but you ain't having the Ashes. That's one prezzie that's coming back with us. :-)

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RE: On the FIRST day of Christmas,

the ashes, what are they? lol

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to ally194

thats what gete leaves on the chair when he stands up

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RE: On the FIRST day of Christmas,

great one gete as always!

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Ewwww

Why are so many of the pictures in the profiles ---- pictures of you girls smoking?? YUCK.
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RE: Ewwww

Mmmm... Do you think any may be able to offer up a gander at an X-ray of a cancerous lung in One2One?

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RE: Ewwww

You do realise some guys get off on that right?
I guess it's a bad girl doing things with her mouth kind of thinking.

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ok....I see your point.....I am sorry for jumping to a conclusion.

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for Russian host

ok.....I am sorry....I understand

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RE: Ewwww

good girl

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I too am turned off by a girl who smokes. If I see a profile with smoking pics I do not visit that girl and prefer to move along to one who does not smoke.

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RE: Ewwww

as i told...to smoke just few times per month isnt that much and i dont smoke properly as well...so it's fine for me, i remain myself anyway :))

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RE: Ewwww

nice idea....thx for the tip :)))

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RE: Ewwww

To me your always smokin :P

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thank u :))....and im very happy to have such a great not my friend! :D

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RE: Ewwww

In the 50s, smoking was good for you and made you sexier. I know cos it said so on the TV and my doctor advised me to start smoking cos it would kill cold and flu germs. Happy Days! :)

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RE: Ewwww

Because there are many members who really like smoking hosts.Did u thought at that?:)

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Christmas carols for the psychiatrically challenged

Schizophrenia - Do You Hear What I Hear?

Amnesia - I Don't Know if I'll be Home for Christmas

Multiple Personality Disorder - We Three Queens Disoriented Are

Dementia - I Think I'll be Home for Christmas

Narcissistic - Hark the Herald Angels Sing About Me!

Manic - Deck the Halls & Walls & House & Lawn & Streets
& Stores & Office & Town & Cars & Busses &
Trucks & trees & Fire Hydrants and...

Paranoid - Santa Claus is Coming to Get me!

Borderline Personality Disorder - Thoughts of Roasting on an Open Fire

Personality Disorder - You Better Watch Out, I'm Gonna Cry, I'm Gonna Pout, Maybe I'll tell You Why

Tourette's Syndrome - Chestnuts...F--- YOU! ...roasting on...BITE ME! an open fire...A--HOLE!

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder -Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
Bells,Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
Bells, Jingle Bells...

Agoraphobia - I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day But Wouldn't Leave My House

Autistic - Jingle Bell Rock and Rock and Rock and Rock

Senile Dementia - Walking in a Winter Wonderland Miles from My House In My Slippers and Robe

Oppositional Defiant Disorder - I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus So I Burned Down the House
Social Anxiety Disorder - Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas While I Sit Here and Hyperventilate
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Remember....just because you are paranoid ....Doesn't mean ...they are not out to get you..

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Awesome! Thanks Gregore!

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Why Buy an Angel?

Tis the season to talk of angels but when you come down to it the state of being one lasts such a short time usually i.e. ten years at most.

So why buy one with marriage when you can just go back to the store and get a new one?
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RE: Why Buy an Angel?

these girls are lazy and want to lay around all day to get money from hard up lonely men.. call it what it is....

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RE: Why Buy an Angel?

No one makes anyone pay here. No one makes any one go into a strip club either. Ergo what is your problem? You seem to have a really bad hangup of some kind dude...................

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RE: Why Buy an Angel?

Doesn't sound like a hang-up to me ...just a man with a realistic viewpoint.

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To Trotsky

Watch out for the icepick! Ah, too late...:(

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RE: Why Buy an Angel?

lazy? i think they are far from lazy.... to get up every morning and deal with a lot of rude and nasty folks.

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RE: falling in love

question for you russian host How is possible to tell if it is real love or just a scam?

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RE: falling in love

I loved a host once lol, as a friend, I thought we were close friends because she helped me through a lot and we talked for hours on end sometimes, there was no pressure for her to perform or want from me to ask for a "show" it just was.

She had a lot of problems and because I cared about her I offered to help even though she didn't want me to. In the end I found out maybe 7 months after losing contact with her, from her best friend, that she had moved to USA to live with some guy and that all her problems never occured lol.

Viewers have become sceptical and find it hard to trust hosts possibly due to previous scams

*shrug*

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RE: falling in love

I loaned one money to start a netcafe in her granny's village. No re-payment or further messages.

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yo sexycrazy99

trust your intuition,your people skills.a friend needs help a scammer needs money.so a scammer will keep going to the well.

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RE: falling in love

Sugar, you have no pride?
If you need money, why would you ask to some guy that you know only virtually? How can you possibly ask money from someone? Borrowing, fine, but I doubt hosts that ask money, think about borrowing.

When I was working, there were many guys that offered me money or presents, but refused them.. I even refused the one that became my husband..
It's not like I didn't need the money.. I needed badly, but I have some pride left..
So don't give me the "why don't you believe the hosts" thing..
I may be stupid and proud, don't care. At least there's nothing I would be ashamed of.

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RE: falling in love

i agree.. get off your ass and go find a job and have some self respect. .but i guess as long as there are suckers on this site.. the money will keep rolling ...lol

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it's soimple. how many member you think were preyed upon for money for the heart medication the girl couldn't afford it( usually $200)
or for help with some other emergency. naturally the ones who fell for these things are bitter about it. life happens

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RE: falling in love

How much u after?

Would u give money to member who asked for help that you love? I never see posts from a host who was scammed by a member ... I wonder wh, hmmmmmmm,
Why do u look from the host side only? Place yourself as the member ands view the situation!
Its not believed cause so many amembers are hit on by hosts wanting money!!!!


PS Charge 1.5%, min. charge 1.50

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RE: falling in love

Why you reading our forum?

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RE: falling in love

Actually, I did hear of a host who was sucked in by a member for a money loan that he never paid back. They're sometimes sucked in by married guys for sex-vacations, why not money, too?

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RE: falling in love

Hmmm.. i dotn think they mean that girls lie when they say they need money...The thing is that girls might lie IN ORDER TO get the money. And that is what members don't like. Of course.

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RE: falling in love

Everyone needs money. Only a very fortunate few have no need or desire for more money. Some host prey on the emotions and insecurities of members. They tell them lies. They tell them whatever they want to hear. Just send them money. The goal is to get money in their hands. They do not care what it takes, who gets hurt or what it means in terms of morality or right or wrong. If they get money they feel they won a game ...hit the lottery....fleeced a sucker. Happens every day and it has happened for centuries.

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RE: falling in love

You are a prostitue and false advertising... i saw you on the strreets with your pimp

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to IVAN

ahhh good to see the LCD has made an appearance.

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Why don't host ask their real freinds and family in theri own country for money...ohhh becuase they know it's a lie and don;t fall for the bullshit.
Bottom line if you send money to ANY host you area fool, if you ask money from any member you are a whore.
Just have fun with the vids and don't try to turn this into a mail order dating site.

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to Stupid Cupid

maybe their friends' & family are just as poor & in need.i know a girl who has had to leave her friends & family to work overseas to earn money for not just her but to help her mother & father.i know another girl who had both parents had to leave their country to earn a living.she had to stay & be mother to her 2 little brothers while still trying to continue her studies

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RE: to Stupid Cupid

at least she worked for it and didn't try to con it out of some members

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RE: to Stupid Cupid

yes but not all are lucky enough.there but for the grace of god go i.a member can not be conned unless he wants to be conned.some members are great at playing the victim.suppose it helps their conscious over exploitation

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RE: falling in love

Exactly my opinion.
Which is why I always wait until the host first professes her love for me before I hit her up for a little monetary help myself.
Not sure why, but Ho Hos bought with money gotten through emotional manipulation just taste so much sweeter.

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dear "Russian Host"

Some members have enough extra money that a few dollars to help is not a big thing. But many are working men who need money for rent and car payments and an occasional beer and once in a while a video.

The repeated stories of sick moms and school taxes get old especially in places with socialized medicine, miniscule tuition and a good income for girls who stay online long hours and do their job well.

I often recall the host I met in real life and spent a nice evening with (no sex and no improper advances) who stood me up the next day and blew off all my phone calls and attempts to contact her, wasting a train ride halfway across her country. Six months later she sent a message asking to borrow rent money. LOL Did she forget she stood me up?

How about the one that I had dinner with and a nice evening of conversation who needed $25 for a cab ride home when a taxi from one end of her city to the other is about $3?

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RE: dear

You must have sucker written on your face...Keep trying though, after a few more withdrawls from the bank you are bound to get it right once.

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RE: dear

for those memebers as you put it that are "working men who need money for rent and car payments and an occasional beer and once in a while a video." maybe they should skip the videos, open a bank account and save those few extra dollars for their families well being and future! God forbid they were to lose their job one day.

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dear "FirreLove"

If you are "very amorous" maybe your love is not true and deep. Love across the kilometers is difficult and challenging? Can your love be a final, permanent and loyal thing?

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RE: falling in love

Quite right! I send $,000s every month to deserving hosts.

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to RussianHost

at the risk of being called a sycophant by the loser brigade,bravo.i agree with you."a friend in need is a friend indeed."

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RE: to RussianHost

100% agree. its good to give. its what means u care. in fact if it wasnt for the money i give to them i dont think i would have any friends at all.

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to i'm a winner to

i'm sure YOU wouldn't :--))

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Newlyweds:-))

The day before his wedding this guy decides to play a game of baseball with his buddies. Playing shortstop he gets hit in the penis with a line drive.

He goes to the doctor in a lot of pain, but the doctor tells him there is nothing he can do except wrap it up. So the doc takes a few tongue depressors and wraps it in a splint.

The next night on his honeymoon his lovely wife comes to him dressed in a nightgown. Taking down the top she shows him her breasts. She proudly says "No man has ever touched these, I have been saving them for just you for tonight."

Surprised but not to be outdone, her new husband pulls down his pants and says, "Look at this, honey, still in the crate."
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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Lol
Ah, glad to see you are back :*

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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Thx Psy...did you miss me?:DD

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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Well of course I missed you
:*
Glad to see you're back. I can sleep now :P

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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Thanks and welcome back!

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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Would you like me sing a lullaby for you?:DD

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RE: Newlyweds:-))

Nah, those things never worked on me..
Had a plushie though, and I slept with it :)

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Showing Gratitude:-))

The patient shook his doctor's hand in gratitude and said: "Since we are the best of friends, I would not want to insult you by offering payment. But I would like for you to know that I had mentioned you in my will." "That is very kind of you," said the doctor emotionally, and then added, "Can I see that prescription I just gave you? I'd like to make a little change..."
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Praying Child:-))

One night, a father passed by his son's room and heard his son praying: "God bless Mommy, Daddy, and Grandma. Ta ta, Grandpa."

The father didn't quite know what this meant, but was glad his son was praying. The next morning, they found Grandpa dead on the floor of a heart attack. The father reassured himself that it was just a coincidence, but was still a bit spooked.

The next night, he heard his son praying again: "God bless Mommy and Daddy. Ta ta, Grandma."

The father was worried, but decided to wait until morning. Sure enough, the next morning Grandma was on the floor, dead of a heart attack.

Really scared now, the father decided to wait outside his son's door the next night. And sure enough, the boy started to pray: "God bless Mommy. Ta ta, Daddy."

Now the father was crapping his pants. He stayed up all night, and went to the doctor's early the next day to make sure his health was fine. When he finally came home, his wife was waiting on the porch. She said, "Thank God you're here -- we could really use your help! We found milkman dead on our porch this morning!"
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Thirsty Child:-))

A small boy is sent to bed by his father. Five minutes later:
"Da-ad..." "What?"
"I'm thirsty. Can you bring me a drink of water?"
"No. You had your chance. Lights out."
"Five minutes later: "Da-aaaad..."
"WHAT?"
"I'm THIRSTY...Can I have a drink of water??"
"I told you NO! If you ask again I'll have to spank you!!"
"Five minutes later...
"Daaaa-aaaad..."
"WHAT??!!"
"When you come in to spank me, can you bring me a drink of water?"
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"ved'ma" ("witch")

I've just seen a russian movie "Ved'ma"="witch" :
http://pix.lenta.ru/news/2006/11/30/vedma/picture.jpg
on the base of our classical story "Viy":
http://www.russiandvd.com/store/assets/product_images/imgs/front/38300.jpg
Perhaps "Viy" can be considered the only russian horror though may be it's mistic like "Dog's heart". The movie "ved'ma"made me a bit curious.I remembered some movies and stories about scandinavian witches, about christian witch persecution in the Middle Ages.I remembered that in Europe in the Middle Ages it was considered that witches should be red haired and with the green eyes of cat .
Something like:http://www.pleasance.co.uk/yp/yfiles/images/witch%20-%20scotsman%20pic.JPG
While in slavic countries it was considered witch must be black haired and black eyed:
http://www.deita.ru/files/Image/news/76055_l.jpg
Or the witch should be an old ugly grey-haired humpbacked woman. In any case witch must be alone person without friends,family,etc.
I tried to find out why there are so different ideas about witch images and I couldnt.
May be it comes from the origin of the word "witch".Well the russian word "ved'ma" has it's roots from the word "vedat' "="to know".As originally they were considered to be ppl who know different drugs recipes, love-potion recipes, different medicinal herb, etc.
Then in the Middle Ages the ppl know knew such things started to be victimized by Christianity.Perhaps the word "witch" takes it origins from the word "victim".
I suspect that red haired ppl were rare in Europe during the Middle Ages thats why if a person had such color of hair he was considered to keep in touch with Satan.As for slavic countries I think the image of dark haired and dark eyed witch comes from the superstition that witch deals with dark powers.
May be someone knows where do such different ideas about witch appealities come from?May you tell me or give me some URL?
I'll be very grateful.
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Pick you up at 7 Monika??

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"I suspect that red haired ppl were rare in Europe during the Middle Ages"

Actually, no Gorty. Red hair is highly prevalent amongst Celts, e.g. Scots. We had the Witchfinder General in Engand who toured the country looking for 'witches' to burn. Excellent film about him by the same name starring Vincent Price.

Hmm, my second wife had the darkest red hair and when I caught her cheating on me, I called her much worse things than witch!

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Consonant please Carol ?

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witches

basically there are tons of websites
for wiccans, pagans, neo-pagans, etc etc etc.
witchvox.com is a nice place to start.
as with all things, do your research on the
subject carefully. there are many traditions/styles,
and just about as many views and opinions on
how to do things, ex. rituals, spells, and all that.

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well PrettyWitch is the antithesis of traditional witch's appearance - see the film Wizard of Oz for the stereotype...

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let me clarify a few things for you.
a witch can be female of ANY eye color, hair color.
a witch can be male as well, and please don\'t
call them warlocks.
we are not connected to satan or lucifer.

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RE: from Wikipedia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Witchcraft

This may be of help or even hindrance. I've heard of a few of the literal references you made - the mainstream ones - but for me many of your Russian ones are unfamiliar.

Enjoy your research :)

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The movie is really sucks girls, nothing good too see, very boring

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only one witch i'm interested in ;-)

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RE: T'WAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS

Lame Brain

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RE: My Music Video!

It helps if you show the link.

One host sent me a music video she made, but made me promise not to send it around. It is very erotic and if yours is half as godd you have a winner.

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RE: My Music Video!

errrrrrrrrrrrrr..........dude..............her link is 'video playback category' at 1.99 a minute in open and 2.99 in 1-2-1, where it must be in colour.

She's been boring the bollox off evryone in comm chat about this all day. A sad dreamer!

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RE: My Music Video!

Don't u profit from all the vids?

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ohhhhhh.....

I thought she made a video such as YouTube for us to watch.

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RE: ohhhhhh.....

Are you crazy??
Youtube is free, she's after our money. I wouldn't pay to see a professional video done by famous people, why on earth would I pay to see this?

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RE: i still love him but im tired

cc is a fantasy world. you need to be very sure of what people say and mean

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RE: i still love him but im tired

If talk is cheap anon typing is almost worthless......I'm sorry nice girl you do seem genuine but go local to be real.........there are simply too many phonies here on both sides to risk your soul and time on.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

Yes, like marriage, divorce, alimony/maintainance, upset kids.........

You can't get pregnant here, catch anything nasty, whatever....

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RE: i still love him but im tired

you should never comit your love to someone you can't you can't touch or see in real

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RE: i still love him but im tired

I suspect everyone here knows reality is a bitch; that's what we flee from here! Those who think they are going to find "love" here or--as so many claim--"make new friends" are either disingenuous, self-deceived, or both! Tallk about the proverbial "Lookin' for love in all the wrong places!" The purveyors of this salacious service understand how powerful, hence profitable, sexual fantasy is. As long as both parties (host & guest) understand the essential nature of places like this, there can be no confusion or inner turmoil (over and above the inner turmoil [or economic necessity], that brings them here in the first place.)

This place may be a refuge from the risks and disappointments of reality---as you rightly point out Ally---but only in reality can we sanely expect to be fulfilled. And hey, as the old saying goes, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." Here, by comparison, guests venture their money, and NOTHING is gained! So what am I---like you---doing here? Don't ask. I might have to think about it! And that might send me back to reality sooner than I intend. Bon courage fellow chatters and hosts.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

Guess I've been very lucky on this site, have the best of both worlds. Made life-long friends in 'real' life plus cyber friends too from CC. :)

So, I get to touch those I want to touch and keep at a distance those I don't or where it would be inappropriate.

I'm not cynical about CC, as some here seem to be; it has provided me with opportunities, both personal and business, which I couldn't have got elsewhere.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

What she's showing on her playback video would probably not be allowed on YouTube, a site that started well but been bogged down with copyright and decency regulations since taken over by Google.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

Sorry wrong thread - should be on My Music Video.

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To MC

Don't worry about it - we just just getting old.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

ladies if a person really loves you than he will tell you not to work at cc anymore.if a man doesnt care how many guys talk to you here at cc everyday and see you naked than i doubt that he really loves you. just my 2 cents

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RE: i still love him but im tired

Yeah, if your bf/husband dosen't mind you getting naked for strange men that pay you well I guess he dosen't love you.

Let the attack replies commence........Now!

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RE: i still love him but im tired

i disagree with this.
after all, if we come here as viewers looking to see naked women then surely we cannot judge the women and think we are better than them and that they should change their jobs.
if you love a host then you may prefer that she could get another well paid job that doesn't involve dealing with any number of us members who may be nice people or who may be horrible people (in the same way that i am sure some hosts are horrible and some are nice). some hosts i speak to or see in video seem to hate doing this work and i would prefer for their sakes that they could find another job that they prefer but some enjoy it (and are very good at it :) ) and it would be arrogant of me to say that they should give up their job and do something more "suitable".
really the only way a member could reasonably say that to a host he "loved" would be if he was sending her sufficient money to cover what she would have been earning here (and obviously that would be difficult to afford for many members and would also potentially be extremely foolish - which from reading the forums i think some people have been.......)
as long as you trust the host not to fall in love with someone else (which can happen to people in real life anyway and is not just something that happens because you are naked on the internet) then i really do not see the problem with her working here until you are actually together for real (at which point i would personally prefer the work here to stop because i would hate the thought that some of my colleagues/friends were playing games with her just to annoy me)

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RE: i still love him but im tired

dont get me wrong.i am not judging or blaming the girls here.they do what they got to do for living but if someone tells a girl that he loves her than he should put his money where his mouth is.either you love someone or you dont.no IF or BUT. i guess our concept of love differs greatly.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

ok - sorry if i misinterpeted what you said.
but i expect some hosts here earn about as much money as some members do - and that would make it quite tricky for the member to pay her enough to replace the income lost. and also i am sure some hosts would resent someone simply paying them not to work (though personally if i could persuade someone to pay me to do nothing then i would jump at the chance!)

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RE: i still love him but im tired

Are you saying they should stop any kind of work? Just sit at home? Why can't the newly ex cc host work somewhere else..McDonalds, shinning shoes on the street corner, you know something that doesn't require much intelligence.

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RE: i still love him but im tired

are you saying that the host here are below intelligence?

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RE: i still love him but im tired

If I liked the girl I would keep talking to her. If I met her in real life I might fall in love with her and ask her to marry me. If she said yes, I'd ask her to stop doing adult while we waited for her visa to be approved.

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dear "sad host"

Yes, it is possible to fall in "love" online. But it can only confirmed with a face-to-face meeting. There are quite of number of budding relationships I formed here that never went beyond a meeting.

However, one relationship exploded into true love when I first looked into her eyes in real-life. Unfortunately, I was slow in making my intentions known and another guy moved in and staked a claim on her. So two of us were pursuing her and trying to capture her heart.

It became a matter of "first come, first served" as the other guy won her hand. Unfortunately, he was still married and it turned into a real soap opera. She apologized and told me she picked the wrong guy. But he has played the guilt card by saying she belongs to him because of all the money he sent her and all the time he has given her. Why are some girls so stupid?

The story continues...

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one man does not equal "all men" or "all people" just cause one guy was a jerk doesnt mean all r

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RE: i still love him but im tired

There is only one test of love here...........if he gets on airplane and visits you and even then it might just be his idea of a sex holiday. In any case there cannot be any real love unless you physically get together so give him or the next guy the "test" soon after you think you really like his personality and approach...........................

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RE: i still love him but im tired

i think the problem is that most of the girls here are attractive enough that persuading someone to come and have sex with them would not be a major problem - but most are also sensible enough to know that a man wanting to have sex with them is very different from the man actually loving her.
many members if they were on holiday or business in eastern europe would love to meet up with a host but that would often not mean they are actuallly in love

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I would suggest when it comes to male libido that whether a man is local or remote there is no difference in what the woman must decide are his true intentions............

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Welcome to the real world missy. Heartless bastards and bitches.... Works both ways.

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because i think the majority of men believe that is what a woman wants to hear... what he needs to say to find his way to her bed. yes it is sad... but i think it is often true. of course there are still some gentleman in the world also. :)

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RE: letting go

You manged to confuse the hell out of me! Thanks ;)

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You are my Sunshine

YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE

You are My Sunshine, My only Sunshine\" (Be prepared to get watery eyes!)

Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling. They found out that the new baby was going be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael
sang to his sister in mommy\'s tummy. He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met her. The pregnancy progressed normally for Karen, an active member of the Panther Creek United Methodist Church in Morristown, Tennessee.

In time, the labor pains came. Soon it was every five minutes, every three, every minute. But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself in hours of labor. Would a C-section be required? Finally, after a long struggle, Michael\'s little sister was born. But she was in very serious condition.

With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary\'s Hospital, Knoxville, Tennessee. The days inched by. The little girl got worse. The pediatrician had to tell the parents there is very little hope. Be prepared for the worst. Karen and her husband contacted a local cemetery about a burial plot.

They had fixed up a special room in their house for their new baby but now they found themselves having to plan for a funeral. Michael, however, kept begging his parents to let him see his sister. I want
to sing to her, he kept saying. Week two in intensive care looked as if a funeral would come before the week was over.

Michael kept nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care. Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not. If he didn\'t see his sister right then, he may never
see her alive. She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU. He looked like a walking laundry basket.

The head nurse recognized him as a child and bellowed, \"Get that kid out of here now. No children are allowed.\" The mother rose up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glared steel-eyed right into the head nurse\'s face, her lips a firm line. \"He
is not leaving until he sings to his sister\" she stated. Then Karen towed Michael to his sister\'s bedside.

He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live. After a moment, he began to sing. In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang: \"You are my sunshine, my only sun shine, you make me happy
when skies are gray.\" Instantly the baby girl seemed to respond. The pulse rate began to calm down and become steady. \"Keep on singing, Michael,\" encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes. \"You never know, dear, how much I love you, please don\'t take my sunshine away.\" As Michael sang to his sister, the baby\'s
ragged, strained breathing became as smooth as a kitten\'s purr. \"Keep on singing, sweetheart.\" \"The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms\". Michael\'s little sister began to relax as rest, healing rest, seemed to sweep over her.
\"Keep on singing, Michael.\" Tears had now conquered the face of the bossy head nurse. Karen glowed. \"You are my sunshine , my only sunshine. Please don\'t take my sunshine away...\"

The next day...the very next day...the little girl was well enough to go home. Woman\'s Day Magazine called it The Miracle of a Brother\'s Song. The medical staff just called it a miracle. Karen called it a miracle of God\'s love.

NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE.

LOVE IS SO INCREDIBLY POWERFUL.
Life is good.
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Even if I don't believe this can be true, it's sweet, and it must be the message that counts :)

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Pass the bag!

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People are People

People are people
So why should it be
You and I should get along so awfully
People are people
So why should it be
You and I should get along so awfully

So we’re different colours
And we’re different creeds
And different people
Have different needs
It’s obvious you hate me
Though I’ve done nothing wrong
I’ve never even met you
So what could I have done
I can’t understand
What makes a man
Hate another man
Help me understand

Help me understand

Now you’re punching
And you’re kicking
And you’re shouting at me
And I’m relying on your common decency
So far it hasn’t surfaced
But I’m sure it exists
It just takes a while to travel
From your head to your fist
I can’t understand what makes a man
Hate another man
Help me understand


I can’t understand
What makes a man
Hate another man
Help me understand

Depeche Mode
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It's fear that stokes the fire of hate, and ignorance is the fuel.

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KMFDM

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Thats just fucking NASTY :-)) I have to go poke something sharp in my eyes to try to get rid of the image of the "Sharon Stone moments on the sofa"
ROFLMAO

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Early Merry Christmas

Just wanted to say Merry Christmas to everyone here and exspecially my friends like Psy, Joy, AssMan....

Also a special Happy Birthday to my ex GF who lives in Romania who has a her birthday just a couple days before Christmas.

Take care all :-}
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