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Every one of my pvt sessions has a happy ending. Same old story though... :)))

me to not lucky.... im also available weeeeeeeeeeee

i fell more in love with myself..does that count?

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mh...well im a good story teller....i can make smth up for ya if u want?

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"Dairy Queen"?

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It was almost three years ago we first met. I believe it was a Wednesday evening , just before bedtime,when I had decided to peruse the gallery of who's on line.

There were several which caught my eye as I slowly scrolled though the list of hosts. Blond, brunette and redhead, some clothed, some not, slim and full figured, it seemed every fantasy would be represented.

I suppose I had viewed 10 or 12 hosts when I came upon a picture of a girl which mesmerized me instantly. "Who is this?, I haven't seen her before", I thought . Quickly I went to her profile and let me assure you, I was not prepared for what happened next.

Suddenly, there appeared the most inviting smile I had ever seen. Her tanned skin and dark almond shaped eyes only served to accentuate her beautifully white teeth.

Now I began to notice more. She was seated on a deep red sofa beside a vase of white lilies. Her head was tilted slightly downward and through those dark eyes appeared to be looking right into my soul. I was love struck..

I'll admit it did take a minute or two before I made the decision to actually enter her room. Perhaps it was her age, being considerably younger than myself, which brought on the hesitancy Then again, maybe I was just intimidated by what I considered to be one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen, "What the heck" I thought, "What's to lose?" .

If you think my mention of being "love struck" when I saw her picture was an exaggeration, you are most definitely not going to believe what I felt when I entered her room and actually saw her. That scene was more like what one might expect to read in a drug store paperback,

I swear it was as if the heavens had opened and released this tiny angel just for me. My mouth went dry and my palms became damp. There she was, wearing a white lace camisole contrasted by her olive skin and that incredible brilliantly white smile. When she looked up to say hello , I damn near melted to the core of my existence.

Truthfully, I really don't remember much more about that meeting as I felt what I expect a young schoolboy might feel if he were suddenly addressed by the class beauty, whom no one had ever dared to approach. But there we were , and we were talking. And I was happy.

Over the next six months there were many encounters and with each meeting, my fondness grew. It might be interesting to note I never once asked to see her naked. For some reason I felt it would almost be a dishonor to do so. Yes, I know this was rather silly , but it was the feeling I had, and one which I believe helped establish the relationship on a different plane.

We would talk often, for hours sometimes. Most every subject was touched upon. Philosophy, religion economics, personal experiences and even politics. While we did not always agree, there was a mutual respect for each others opinion and expression of feeling.

It wasn't until the seventh month when I revealed my feelings for her. Those feelings, which I had kept to myself, were soon to be placed in the open. Oh, I knew well there was the possibility she would dismiss what I was to tell her as a joke, but that was a chance I had decided it was time to take. So, with heart in hand, I told her I loved her

I will never forget the expression on her face as she looked up. The laughing smile I was accustomed to seeing had suddenly been replaced with an expression I had not seen. As she looked into the camera, a tear began to fall from her cheek and she began to speak more softly than I had every heard her speak. " I love you also", she said. " I have felt this for so long, but I was afraid telling you might push you away and I couldn't bear the thought of losing your friendship." With those words , I cried also.

Shortly after this conversation we met in person. As we had no expectation from a physical perspective, it was a wonderful and relaxed time together. Not only did I have the chance to visit her home city but , for 6 days, we also toured the countryside together. We stayed in small bed and breakfast style establishments and quickly made friends with many of those we met. It had been many years since the sensation of holding hands with someone had filled me with such a sense of well being. Now I am thinking about it, I believe it was very seldom were were not touching hands.

to be continued....................... it's dinner time

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Yes please continue....................:-)

Are you a staff writer for Mills & Boon?

WOW DQ i'm almost without words and tears in my eyes What can I say i'm a sucker for love stories and thats an amazing CC love story, thanks for sharing it and please please continue, i want the happy end (i'm crossing my fingers for one). A bunch of kisses for u!

There was one particular place we stayed which was most memorable. It was a very nice cottage, just outside of the city, owned by a couple in their mid fifties. The quaint home was the only place they had ever lived together and had once been part of a larger estate where the man had worked after completing his military service.

She was nineteen and he twenty-three when they met. On that day she was traveling with her parents and they had stopped by the farm, about ten kilometers from their home, to purchase eggs and butter. Normally the farmer's wife would be attending the small roadside stand but on that day the young man had been asked to mind the business.

As the girl's parents were making their selections, the boy and girl had made eye contact. She began to feel flush as his eyes seemed to never leave hers. Though she was unsure, she could not summon the strength to look away from his gaze The entire encounter was brief as the parents soon had made their selection, concluded the purchases and were headed back yo their car. He watched, still unable to take his eyes away from her, as she walked away. Just as she began to enter the rear seat of her fathers car, she looked back at the handsome young man and smiled.

It was a week later the young girl, riding a bicycle, came again to the farm. She had hoped to see the young man once more, but today the farmer's wife was minding the store alone. Nervously, the girl asked where the young man might be. With a understanding smile the woman told her he was working in the stables that day. The girl's disappointment must have been obvious as the woman then suggested if she returned on the same day the following week , she believed he might be there. The woman never told the young man of the encounter with the girl, only that she wished him to tend the stand the following week as she had something to do that day.

For the girl, the week passed as if it were a year. She had been unable, and most likely unwilling, to remove the young man from her mind.

Finally the day arrived. She was preparing to leave when her mother reminded her it was the afternoon for her piano lessons. “Oh”, she thought. “How could I have forgotten?” She looked at the clock. It was one now. “If I hurry , I’ll be back by half past three, just in time and no one will know”. Without wasting more time and with a plan in mind , off she went .

It had been said love brings about an exaggerated concept of time . In this case it seemed to be most assuredly so as the bicycle ride of the ten kilometers each way would leave scant time, if any, for a visit. Nevertheless, she was undaunted as she pedaled toward her meeting.

With the farm in sight she began to question her judgment. “Would he even remember me, what will I say?” “No matter”, she thought, “I’m here, and I am not turning away now”.

It was early in the spring of the next year when the young man from the farm and the girl from the city, decided to tell her parents of their love and wish to be married. His parents had been killed in an accident when he was eleven and the family who owned the farm, while not officially adopting him, had taken him in and treated him with the love and caring they would have provided their own children. He had already told them of his feelings and intentions and, as they had come to know the young girl well and liked her very much, it was a happy day where he announced his desire. Sadly, the same could not be said of the girls parents reaction.

to be continued................

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It seems I have wandered significantly from the story I began so, with that in mind, I will summarize the story of the young lovers and why it was so memorable.

The girl’s father was furious with her. He was a prominent doctor and a University professor, His father had also been a doctor, and his grandfather had helped establish the medical school at the University. He wanted more for his daughter and had hoped she would become a doctor also. Certainly he considered this “farm boy” to be beneath the dignity of his family and wanted no part of this relationship.

Her mother on the other hand, while always siding with the father in his presence, came to understand her daughter’s relationship was far more than a passing infatuation and
secretly supported her daughter.

It was no surprise to the mother when she found the note by her daughter’s bed explaining how she loved them both very much, but had made the decision to elope with her lover. Upon learning of his daughters leaving, the father denounced her and forbade her mother from contacting her.

After their marriage they moved into the small cottage, where they now live, which was given to them by the farmer and his wife as a wedding present. The girl quickly assumed her role as the wife of a farmer and became accepted an integral part of the family life.

Over the next several years she bore two beautiful children and, even though forbidden to do so, her mother would visit almost weekly, just as she had from the beginning, to now see her grand children .

A number of years passed and the two children grew into fine young adults . It was when they were attending University, in another province , they learned of the passing of the farmer’s wife. She had died during a horrible winter storm when she became stranded as she searched for a lost cow. The farm vehicle she had taken in search of the missing cow had become disabled and it was not until three days later she was found..

Shortly after her death the farmer called the couple to the main farmhouse. He told them it had been decided some time ago, since the farmer and his wife had no biological children, the farm would be theirs. He was quite old now and asked only that when his time came he be buried on the same grassy knoll where they had buried his beloved wife.

I have told you the shortened story of the farmer and his wife as it was a lesson to me in not only what can be overcome by two people who are devoted to each other, but what surprises life sometimes presents.

It was a about noon time, after having heard the story of our host’s lives, we decided to go for a walk. Our hosts packed a nice lunch, along with a small bottle of wine, and suggested a road, which they told us was their favorite place for a walk, nearby for our excursion.

There was a small stream which ran beside the narrow, tree lined dirt road. The trees provided the perfect shade from the afternoon sun . It was indeed romantic. Having walked a bit we came upon a small grove of fruit tress. I am not sure ow far we walked, but by now we were both hungry and decided this was the perfect place for our lunch. We spread out the blanker, which our host had also provided and , as I opened the wine, she began to unwrap the lunch package which had been wrapped it in brown paper and tied neatly with string. Please don't ask me what was in the package, as I am not sure what I ate that day. I do however .remember asking "What is this?" My answer came as a laughing ." Don't worry, you will love it. She was right, I did.

Our appetites satisfied, small cups of wine in our hands, we began talking. Perhaps it was our hosts story which influenced our conversation, as we now began to share thoughts neither of us had expressed to the other.

Of course one might say , "How can you have come this far without discussing everything?" I suppose we thought we had, but in reality it was our hopes and dreams we had talked most about, Now, we were speaking of our fears as well.

I lost track of time sitting beneath the tree that afternoon. We had shared more and become closer in those hours than I could have imagined possible. I noticed it felt cooler, and in looking up noticed the sky had changed. With the sun seemingly suspended just above the hills in the distance, the entire sky had become what seemed to be an artist canvas. As we stared at the beauty nature had provided, I pulled her closer. I could feel her heart beating as I stroked her temple and gently kissed her neck. "You know, I do love you" she whispered.

It was then we made love for the first time.


Wicked Angel, I promise I will finish the story tomorrow. There is a happy ending.

The story I have told is about a host I met on CC. My description of her, including her beauty and intellect , as well as my thoughts at the time I met her, are factual. My respect for her and the communication we shared is also fact.

While there was never a relationship with me as described in my story, I suppose it could have been possible had I been 25 years younger. During the times we shared it was never eluded to or discussed.

What we did share, was a connection with a similar spirit. And yes, it is true, I never once asked to see her naked.

But, and especially to you Wicked Angel , the story does have a happy ending.

Though I was not the one, she did marry a fine man whom she met here. They are quite happy and are building a life together.

Perhaps I got a bit caught up in the story but as I began writing, it seemed as though it could have happened this way. Perhaps the point of it all was, in this cyber world of fantasy, to remind myself we all have that sensitive and vulnerable aspect to our persona. I think some who read it perhaps felt a connection of sorts to the couple described in the story. Perhaps too often some, myself included, hide this side of ourselves in fear or denial and continue to be “Caught between the longing for love and the struggle for the legal tender”* or somewhere in between. Even at my age , those feelings are within me. Truly love is universal and all around. For the spiritual minded, consider this; “ We are not human beings having a temporary spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a temporary human experience”. Let your spirit guide you.

As a good friend once told me; "Love cannot enter the hardened heart"

Cheers , and best wishes in finding your dream.


*(Jackson Browne-The Pretender)

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I'm sorry. I did try to find you to tell you. Maybe the story was not such a good idea but most people liked it seems. DQ is donquixote.

Dont get me wrong i like it too. But i was expecting another kind of happy ending that's all. U cannot find me because this is a name that i use in forums recently, i wasnt aware that the name exist on the site. I'm not that Wicked anyway i'm like u said a big Pretender. Take care (K)

aww, what a rip off - detour into someone else's story in the middle.

any of you hosts falling for that?

I also thought the start was good, but come on.

damn DQ if this doesn't end with you being married & living happily ever after i might just have to marry you myself :--)

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Met here in 2002...met several times in her country,,,she came over K1 visa,,,still married to this day.She has good job and just finished college for paralegal. Never planned to do this,just happened after getting to know her.

does she still entertain viewers on here?
and if not what are you doing here? lol

Really, what the hell are you still doing here?????

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Thank You for your support,,,as far as why i`m still here. I still have friends here,i come to visit and chat ,,,lol,,,,,,and I don`t do shows .
Since we are secure in our relationship she doesn`t mind as we have something called TRUST in our relationship.

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she does :)

wow, someone answered the original request with a true story

lol,sometimes,,,,,,,,,real life is stranger than fiction :)
As a foot note,,,we both learned a lot from the entire process of the K1 visa and more. We have since offered advice to others going thru the same process. Amazing the misconceptions that abound on this,,,,but that would be a new thread I think :)

Umm yes.....Except that it wasn't a true story after all:

and why do you think that?

seems to me,,,,,,,if one reads thoroughly,,,there are a few real stories woven into this thread .

it's what i said about urs and urs has been the only one

Because if you read the post above from "ending of the story" the original poster "DQ" admits it.

uhm, i responded to yup's story, not DQ, didnt need to read more tha a few words of DQ's to know it was fake. too bad you had to, just want that good.....lol

I suspected it was not real also but I did think it a good story anyway. I guess I read it for the same reason the person about in the ending. I wonder who the story was about..

I met a girl here and we are now married. She is a wonderful wife and a great friend.

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Summer is starting here on the seacoast,,,you are all invited .
Let me know how many to expect :)

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Me

You my dear are definately invited,,,i always enjoy your company
Beijos :}{

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echo echo echo echooooooo
helloooooooo

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Thanks for sharing. I know just how Kevin feels except in my case it makes it smaller.

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Isn't his name Andrei? lol

Wish all "football" would go away, such a boring game...it goes on, and on, and on and....

never understood the fascination people have with grown men playing children's games. all of it seems pretty silly, and with the economy the way it is, the money those grown men are paid for kicking a little ball around is obscene.

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Hola!!!! Sports Fan!!!!!....

russian football is alive and well, it's just moved to england

:))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

ohhhh ...hohoho that was a really good one.. jokes with an unexpected endings are the best ones...LOL.. Thank you old biker..

good joke..but saw it coming a mile away :0)

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Very funny.

An Amish farmer walking through his field
notices a man drinking from his pond, with
his hand.

The Amish man shouts: "Trinken Sie nicht
das Wasser, die Kuhe und die Schweine haben
in ihm geschissen!" (which means: "Don't drink
the water. The cows and pigs have shit in it!)"

The man shouts back: "I’m a tourist. I don't
understand, nor do I care to understand your
gibberish. Speak English!"



The Amish man shouts back in English:
"Use two hands, you'll get more!"

Now, that one was funnier!!! It happens all the time, LMAO!!!!

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didnt u say in com chat it was $1000? u even copied the chat and sent it in public

maybe there is interest attached to it that makes the price go up by 100%...

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Your hair grows back, his $2000 is gone forever :-P

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As I read this thread, I noted the response of some who write they wouldn't shave their head for any price. Would $10,000 change the minds of those who say no? I certainly wouldn't pay that, but for that kind of money I would shave my head in public and give you several hours to call the TV stations and whomever you wished to have there as witnesses. I wouldn't have the slightest concern that someone "owned me". I'd just laugh my ass off as I was receiving the money. And after the fact, since the event had received such attention , I would promote myself in the media by doing talk shows and such. Of course it is always important to remember the famous words of Jerry McGuire; "Show me the Money" :)

I agree completely. For that kind of money I will shave my head in public and let the newspapers take pics of me any time. I am telling you these girls have it so easy that still want to talk about pride over money. I know many of my female friends in my city that would happily shave their head for $2,000 any time and anywhere.

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Yeah, principles are important, no doubt. But I don't plain don't get it.get it. Slamming a big fat object up one's butt on camera is OK, but shaving the head is unthinkable. Something is really wrong with that message I think. But, that's just my opinion. Which I doubt will make it past the CC police. :)

you made it - congrats! :-))

I think the difference is,,,no one knows when all is said and done about the huge object ,,,when in public.
But the hair thing is noficable.
On the same note tho,has anyone thought of the long term health consequences ?
The human body will only forgive so much torment

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I disagree, EVERYTHING and ANYTHING can be done for money in this world, the only thing that makes a difference being every person's PRICE.
If some filthy rich guy would put a million dollars on your table there is nothing you wouldn't do for it. You just think you wouldn't, but trust me you would, lol.

That's some serious cynicism. The flip side of your comment is that money (or other consideration) can buy anything. That may apply to you, personally, but it does not apply to everyone. To borrow a biblical analogy - Mammon doesn't always win vs. Jesus.

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So for those who say everyone has their price.
How much would it take for you to kill your Mother, or your Best Friend, or your child?
There may be a price that many would do some things for like cutting hair, or maybe not. But I believe there are some things that some do not have a price for.

The replies above make it sound as anyone has a price for everything, but I disagree.

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Money first and send him to me! Lol
On a serious note I used to wear my hair very short a long time ago, even shaved (because I liked the look) so when a guy asked if I would shave my head live for him for a certain amount I won't mention, (my hair was quite long then) you bet I did lol.
I guess it sounds terrible for some girls who always had their hair long, for me it was a "show me the money and I'll get back to my old look" thing.

I would love to come and visit you here. Can you give your hostname?

i will shave my hair on head if somebody will pay me 50.000$ minimum.(they growing pretty fast:P

If anyone is remotely thinking of accepting that offer for 50,000. I will, for the same price, arrange for 3 absolutely beautiful, university educated, girls to shave each others heads while the buyer sips single malt scotch and receives a massage from two more beautiful girls, all on a private yacht in the Black Sea . And, The airfare is included. If you wish to forgo the Yacht and Single Malt Scotch, the package can be had for much less. Let's get real here... :)

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I would rather pay to see a host shave the hairs round her pussy. Or even better use an epilator to remove them :).

What about sigourney weaver and Demi Moore? They both did it for films. Thought Aliens was much better than the crap that Moore was in.

Sinead O'Connor adopted the same look and was still beautiful too

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You are missing the point. He's not expecting you to ask yourself if you want to do it FOR HIM because you think he' special or something. It's just like he might pay you to get naked, he's paying you for something that turns him on. If you don't want to do it, don't do it, but quit whining like you're so superior. As if shoing every guy who asks your private parts is somehow more virtuous and "normal".

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huh?

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Sounds like another "blow job" to me. :)

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i dont choose who to talk to by forum, i choose by appearance and personality. i just assume some forums cost more....

There is presumably some logic behind the minimum prices for each category. It is lower in little shy (for instance) because more foreplay and conversation (or indeed only chat) may be expected. It is higher in instant action precisely because the videos are going to be of shorter duration, and also potentially more explicit. It follows that members may well be inclined just to enjoy your company and chat, and you seem to have a pleasant personality, but you can't necessarily expect the same IA minimum to be applicable if you do.

so why is glamour and non adult so often higher prices than little shy?

I prefer glamour and little shy as my two favorite categories. I like to chat for a while when I enter.

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You are right ...I could chat in not so shy and instant... (I have)... But I still prefer little shy and glamour as my two main categories.

I don't really worry about category, as most hosts I meet I meet in commchat. If we chat there and things go well, then I think about whats next. Of course there are very very few I ever make it past comm chat with ;) But the are great friends.

if you are good looking come with the cam on, not waving your pvt bits in my eyes of course.

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another question, if the viewers turns on his cam and you don`t like the look of him, what do you do?

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Stick a post it on the monitor :)))))

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i trust to members with a cam.can do a better show2 thems. then to guys without,

must be hard for you to log in..... you copy and past your id or have you memorized it?

yes very hard:))))))))))) try to find me in search, or maybe im just a psicho?;)

I'll guess it's the second option :P

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adore2 c member cam.no cam-no trust-no relations-not good show,,,

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i prefer to talk to a person not a ghost - same as in real life - and looks dont matter for me just the reaction of the man - is he enjoying his time with me or not

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only if u take advantage while she is unconscious on the operating table

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Joe it was all said tounge in cheek to liven up board arent you sick of "im horney "" and yes it got you talking and the rest

not much will help you

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logical

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doctors have access to anaesthesics vivid :--)

Community chat...I avoid that place...jusr few members in and lot of hosts that try to bring members in video with words like "I'm naked, I'm hot " etc so why wasting the time there when you can better so something else :))))

i avoid that place to, reminds me young kids trying to bait old men to act like young kids again

What is Kristina's screenname? Otherwise leaving a note in her personal forum would have sufficed.

"Welcome back Kristina (yourspassion and morethanbody)" - Just a guess but I'm thinking her nicks may be yourspassion or morethanbody.

"Mature" age doesn’t forgive anyone...

welcome kristina and made your day be cool and best wishes

Biscuits go soft when they are stale and cakes go hard. Leave a jaffa cake out overnight and experiment:-)

=))

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lol all the biscuits I make get hard as a rock if you leave them out a few days.

Did someone die or ar you just leaving the site?

sure sounds like someone died

between austin and his alter ego who knows?

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i know what you mean, but its not a bye, its just a beginning

Are you getting married to a host?))

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yes austinpp, she will be missed in many ways not only here at cc where she always brought smiles, laughter and good knowledge and try to cheer people up but out there from her family and friends who knew her personally, ours prayers and thoughts will also be with them and cc will missed a good nature woman, again we come and go and life moves on and we will meet new people along the way. Stay cool good buddy and keep on fishing

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or olga oscar oliver ))

also noticed a lot of new host with choco in their names lately, and for fun search straw, like in strawberry, never knew so many ways to spell strawberry lol.

ntmu alexa :P

Cassablanca is also Alex/Alexandra

i notice that 2 others casablanca on cc r alex too:P

I dunno... but I know which one is my favourite. :D

many Sashas

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time to painting eggs:Phappy E A S T E R !

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hi bb:)hru?:)will u be careful with eggs this year?:Pxxx

I know my friends here are looking forward to having Cozonac for the weekend.

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never thought that eggs doing cellulite;)

thank you and happy easter to you toooooooo - knock them out - heheheh

hehehe, I see one of those parked in the same spot on my way to work every morning.

If I am interested in a show, I don't care about age.... I just care about how a host looks and the show she puts on. I will look at the pics, and if they are good and the price is right, I will check her out. (Hopefully, the pics will be accurate.) But I don't think it is a secret that very often, a person's body is not quite as attractive as the person ages so I would probably end up going for a younger host due to looks, not age. (And yes, I know there are some very hot women that are 40 or even older... I am talking about "in general".)

If I am not interested in a show.... Well, wait, I am a guy that is on a cam site... I am always interested in a show at some level, lol... Let me rephrase..... When I am not focused on getting a show and am okay with talking, I will not worry about age. I still will want a pretty face and someone nice to look at but I am not focused on age. And with an older host, I might find the conversation more interesting.

Thirty-seven is fine. I would not just automatically eliminate you from consideration. If you're hot, then age doesn't matter. And I might even find it more fun to laugh and to play with you than some 18 to 21 year old. (And by the way, sex in real with a woman 30 to 40 is often a lot better than with someone younger.)

I was wondering how long i will do camming (been doing it 6 years) but I hear grannies porn is becoming very popular, so don't you worry, there is plenty of fish in the sea for the younger and for the older :)

I don't care about the age. When I visit a profile I read the text and watch the pics. If I like what I see/read I check the price - and then either I enter or not.
Anyway usually in a small talk the age is being asked....
So dont worry about your age which is quite nice :)

I dont mind about hosts' age as long as they are young and sweet :-D

well u have been here for years under many names and always put early 20's so most guys know that aint ur real age anyway.....but age dont really matter....how many guys here say they r a certain age and really aint..its a fantasy..tell them ur 20 and they wont care if its true

Age is not important to me, being friendly and nice means much more. I usually only look at the age section of the profile to see just how much the host tries to hide it lol. Many I meet here will tell me quickly they are older than what is on the profile.

Really age and wisdom can make for a better show than just being cute and young ;)

I do consider age amongst many other factors. But I target a particular age or age group. I'm not here to find a relationship, just temporary companionship.

As I have heard the term "Nice Age" , both personally and mentioned frequently in the forum, I would suppose age is secondary to whatever those communicating seek or find in common.

What does matter to me is attitude, charm and that certain "je nais se quois".

From a personal perspective, I think it is the artist persona I am attracted to. And no , I don't mean gymnastic skills.. :) Cheers..

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It's Don Quixote.. DQ is just the short version. And nope, not French. I just like the expression.. And I like Canada also.. Cheers

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It is "Je ne sais quoi", and it means "I don't know what" in French. You say it when you don't know what else to say - it means something un-definable.

Quoi (Qua) means "what". "Sais" is the first person conjugation for the word "savoir".

'je nais se qua' is a common misconception (esp. in canada). You have further twisted ne or nais to "nous". "nous" means us in french.

I tend to find that many of my best video experiences are actually with the more mature hosts. The reason is quite straightforward...they have learned what their body responds positively to, and how to give themselves pleasure; the younger hosts are often still on a learning curve.

I was never interested in any specific age. I do care in people's mental maturity. There are hosts in their late 30's that are more immatured than others in their early 20's. A nice chat is important for me than age. Besides, marriage or any serious relationship will not be a factor so age is not important.

The age does not matter, the person and personality and character matter most.

It is offensive if you lie about your age to catch a member in video.

been many successful hosts here in their mid to late 30's. not everyone here wants teenagers

Hell no, I am 40 years old and I dont like teenagers. I want to see women in their late 20's to early 30's I usually go out of video when they say they are 18-19 We all know most profiles say 18. Then you look at the pics and think she's 28 and she says I am 19, lol. Why not say the truth? I dont like teenagers. Not even lots of make-up hides your real age. It can hide a couple of years, but not 8-10 years. Honestly, I would definitely like that hosts say the true age, afterall most members here are between the ages of 40 and 60

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always,,,,,,,,,great age :)

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WOW.... So many comments to my message! Thx a lot to All who spent their time answering it. U ve really encouraged Me! I appreciate ur attention . As I see now, mostly Me was worried about age quiestion- not many hosts took part in this discussion- they r more confident than me fortunatelly( or I m one of the oldest here) lol LOT of kisses to all!

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well, what more interesting is what a host thinks when she get a man in video say over 40 and he is 10, 15 maybe 20 years older than her. Is that an issue for them? will probably not get any truthfully answers here lol but i had to ask....

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Love the older age, thanks for posting, will visit you XSoSensual

age is not important. i know some hosts your age and older who are much more attractive and sexy than younger girls.
what matters is a good physique, good humour, and ..experience.
dont worry about age, just look after yourself and have fun! :-) x

U all are so sweet!!! ( havent expected it...) I love u...

thank you :-)
i just checked your profile and you look really nice! great figure....id love to see you anyday you look hot! are you really 37.....wow...love the way you look x

sorry, what was your original question again?

If you forgot the question read between the lines becomes much clearer, lol.

i copied and pasted from my pc... sorry about the double spacing,,, i know it made it hard to read.... i am not sure why that happened

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You have described exactly the situation I mean.

Your grocer considers you a good customer, not his friend. He likes you so he does things that are a little special for you.

Do he and his wife visit you at your house for dinner? Do you go to their house to watch a movie? Do you call each other on the phone and say "Hey... How's it going?" Is he somebody you would turn to in a time of crisis? If not, then he is not your friend at least according to how I would define friendship.

What he does for you is to help one of his good customers just like hosts who talk on yahoo but then ask the member to visit video. Sure, you have some friendly conversations and ask about the family and stuff while you are in the store, but you really feel that he is your friend?

And even if he was your friend, of course he should not give you free apples all of the time since he paid for them. The situation is different. I do not pay for a friend to spend time with me in real life.

The point of my post is should I be paying to spend time with a friend just because she is a host and this is what she sells? Should I open up a host account and tell everyone that "Okay, I am a host so you must pay to see me?"

I am not questioning a host and her reasons for being there. I am talking about those times when a true friendship develops and asking if at that point, should a person still be paying to speak with his friend.

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Are you trying to say that a grocer should work for free or give his groceries away to his friends? If you had a lifelong friend who became a grocer you woul dthen expect to eat for free? You must separate business from friendship. Your problem is that you are paying working women for companionship not a grocer for groceries. It is what they are doing to earn a living. You are creating this concocted dilema so that you can justify your payments or so that you can request free services by claiming some right of friendship. Don't hide this fact.

yeah, i can see how the commodification of companionship can throw some people for a loop. it seems something that someone wouldn't want to admit to buying - it seems inherently kind of pitiful and something a person would not even want to admit to one's self.
it's definitely not like buying a bunch of bananas.

I would compare it to a friend who works as a waitress. Even if you knew her outside of the restaurant first, you will tip her if you come to eat in her place of work. However, if you know she is busy at work, you won't hang around and expect to talk to her as a friend.

If you met at the restaurant you could become the kind of friend that ipost is talking about, and that friendship would take place mostly away from her place of work. Again, if she serves your meal at the restaurant, you will tip her.

She might call you on the phone during a slow time at work, and you would not expect to pay her for that, but as soon as she gets busy she hangs up the phone with no guilt and no complaint from you.

As a friend she WILL NOT expect or ask you to come down and eat at the restaurant just because she needs your tips, and tipping her would NOT be the main reason for your friendship regardless of whether you met at the restaurant or not. If you ceased to eat at the restaurant at all the friendship would continue. (at least the type of friendship ipost is talking about.)

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If you are rich.. you will have friends here for life ;)

Hey, I understand what you mean. Is it appropriate to pay spending time with a "friend"? ...When you call a real-life friend to go for a drink, would you pay the time he spents with you? I wont.
Here its the same. For me its not friendship to get a message only when the host is online and wants me to visit her video.
When she is in real life, I dont here a sound of her even if she has my mobile number. But the moment CC starts, I become her friend and she sends me a textmessage....(thats only an example ;))
So I think the members are customers. They pay for a service (show, chat, etc.). I used to think I have 2-3 special friends here, but well - was misstaken. So I decided not to listen to the "friend"-word. When I enter CC, I like to have fun, no matter if it is sex or show or a nice talk.

KinkyDiva made the best comment. This is a pay site so of course you have a "professional" relationship which is paid for, but that doesnt mean you can't also become online friends and enjoy each others company. This happens all the time with all sorts of "service industries" so why not here.

There is time and place for everything. I agree with that saying, but not everyone runs with the luck of being rewarded with "friendship" everywhere. I have been a member of CC for 5 years and I still haven't met anyone here whom I can call "friend." I can't say I saw one host for free. I never asked, they never offered. I always paid and pay if I want to see any host. So why call someone here a friend? I have no reason.
Of course, there might be a few exceptions. Maybe lucky guys or just nice guys, lol. I know some hosts make "free privates" or send their cam on chat messengers to member friends. I guess they can say they have friends, but not in my case.
It really does not bother me if I have or had friends here or no. I enjoy cc and I will still be a member in CC as long as they keep the apples nice, lol. The truth is the hosts "work" here to earn some money and the members are here to see the hosts' performance or just for virtual fantasy. It's fair the host get paid, after all I will not be able to make my fantasies real or virtual if it wasn't for CC.

I guess that I define friendship differently than some people.

I am not talking about being very friendly and having a nice relationship with someone. I have no problem being a "member" and paying a host in such a situation.

When I say "friend", I am talking about someone that you are very close to. I am talking about someone that is in your heart and that you are in hers.

I am not talking about someone at work that maybe you have a beer with after work is over on an occasion. I am talking about a true friend. I am talking about someone that you would help in a time of crisis and that you could count on to help you. I am talking about something much more than a very friendly, but yet still casual, acquaintance.

I know that there are a lot of feelings that develop between hosts and members and that they consider each other "friends". But as long as the member is paying, I still question if this is a true friendship or is it just a very friendly customer relationship.

I know hosts are here to make money. I have no problem with that. I have no problem chatting with a host and paying to see her when I am bored or lonely or need someone to talk to.

I just have difficulty with the idea that when I am paying, that I am paying a friend to talk to me. It is a service, not friendship, and I see very little, if any, overlap no matter how well the member and host get along.

Remember, other than a free session, the minimum rate here is $30/hour to chat. That does not sound like friendship to me. That doesn't mean that members should not pay hosts. I just question whether they should be paying friends if a host really is a friend. A member would never do that in real, so why here? And if the answer is that this is not reality, then my response is that then it is not friendship either.

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eir place of business, if ur friends the kind of friend hyou want they will talk to you outside cc

well ,i adore cc,and i adore my 10-15 friends from cc.well,im always busy on vid for example.and if i will b send free cam2 all my friends.who will pay my bills?:P u?lol..friends are understand that im busy,i can send a cam 1 time a week or so.if friend not understand that i need2 live and need a money-he is not a friend.and btw my friends are suggesting me their help to come in my vid for i earn some money as their help;)

How much time would you spend talking to these 10 to 15 people and sending your cam for free if they were not visiting you on cc? That might be a good test for you and other hosts.

And I have no problem with your answer, by the way. I just have the problem with the idea use of the term "friend" when another term such as "member" or "customer" would be more appropriate no matter how "friendly" the person is with the host. That is all, and that was the intent of my post.

I also, by the way, acknowledge in my posts that I have no problem helping a host out by visiting her on cc. I have, by the way, sent a lot of money to help people that I have met on sites. (It may well be close to $80,000 to 100,000 so I am certainly not some cheap member looking for free shows. I might be a stupid member, but I am not a cheap one.)

What chathost in her right mind would agree with you and risk her relationships with her regular members/clients? I agree, I think the kind of friendship you're talking about is quite rare and certainly very difficult to cultivate in a place like CC.

But it's just semantics. I have no problem calling my relationship with some chathosts a "friendship," because that relationship is interesting to me for all kinds of reasons, and it's one I want to cultivate over time, if circumstances allow. I love my friends, in all kinds of ways...:))))

I mean, be nice, but don't take CC so seriously. My two cents anyway. I appreciate your post.

You can't call "friends" who treats you professionally. There is a professional relationship if you pay for a service you received. Can you call your psychologist a friend after you get a huge bill? You asked and paid. That's a professional relationship not friendship.

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i not need2 b tested.;)time= money,,,

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time is money;)

Consider CC and going to a strip bar the same. You pay for drinks and you pay for lap dances yet you can enjoy the other person very much.

You are paying for a fantasy image and to some extent social interaction but at its core its always about money.

it's a fantasy site, yo. some guys here just like to pay to get the warm and fuzzies over thoughts that really hot chicks in far away places think that they're all sweet and nice and junk.

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who forcing u to pay for a chat with a friends?if u dont want to go on video and pay just dont go on video to a host,but u also dont complain,that host is busy all the time on video with thouse who is agree2 pay,u also cant talk with a host without cam.just a yahoo.btw its a very adventage position to call a host "my friend" only for not to pay;)will say again-nobody force u to go on video!!!here i seen many times that member call me "my friend" only for to get a free ,password video,or yahoo or skype cam for free...

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I guess I am lucky. I am friendly with a couple hosts on here and they never ask me to come to video. We talk on ym when we have free time that matches each other. I don't care if they show me their cams or not and I dont ask. I dont need to see them on cam to know that I am friends with them...

being friend means talk on yahoo but not about sex, no sexual fun in videochat anymore because of respect for ur friend. if host is really a good friend or even more than host will send her cam on yahooo for free for a nice talk :) while being member means see the chathost when u want, doing what u want

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spending long hours online keeping you company, adoring you from afar, until the next cheapo finally enters your video?????

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Friendship between man and woman its based on sex most times so no problem friends can also have sex

A friend should always be able to get free show and freebies

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the best reply here...

marrying a guy for his money is equally as acceptable as is paying for friendship. it's how the world works, people. not everyone is someone who others would willingly choose to spend time with on the basis of their personality, character, charm, etc alone. sometimes money is good enough.

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i think your no good friend if no freebies

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I never ask a girl from site to give her yahoo id to me but lots ask mine and they come to chat me when im online and some also in yahoo when they have prvt at work. Some are friends and some are not. It all depends how we connect

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jeez man, that joke is older than my great grand mammy...

I like the ladies faces. Lots of bodies look great..but the face really turns me on. Or not..lol

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I agree. Face is #1 for me and I won't ever go in video if face is not pretty.

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Hosts do not show their faces in galleries, even to members, for privacy reasons. This probably makes it less likely that a member will enter video because he does not want to waste his money on a host that he is not attracted to. I suppose that some members might like the mystery aspect and maybe some others figure that they will take a chance and pay for a minute to see what the host looks like, but I would expect most to stay away and move on to another host. Of course, if the host has a hot body and looks sexy in her faceless pics, the member might be more willing to try her in video. You will have to decide for yourself if you qualify.

Another thing that some hosts do is never to show their face at the same time they are naked in video. The reasons for this are obvious and will not be stated here. But this practice will deter members from staying in video. There are even cases where a host won't show her face in video at all which is obviously going to drive members away.

You need to balance your interests in privacy with your desire to and ability to attract members. One suggestion would be to establish enough regulars, and then hide the pics of your face and hope that you get some new visitors every now and then even without showing face in pics.

Also note that at a minimum, you can have a pics without face for non-members and pics with face for members.

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VividAngel ur pics are good and u looking great.u will get pvt soon. just chouse a right category.btw u mustb made a mistake with age on profile,u look like 25:)

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Well I can tell you why you are not getting any privates from me. You have restrictions set on who can come see you! I can't even view your photos.

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I'm not sure if this is what "restricted" means. It seems you are blocking some people on a geographical basis and if you have blocked the USA that represents a large amount of your potential custom. You've a nice body btw, and that's coming from someone who doesn't like tattoes.

non members cant see u.,only members can coming on video.guests cant.btw 90% guys from usa.so better unblock thems.or only block ur state.,

I agree, if i can't get acces to your profile, then i can't get access to your video, so you won't be getting my business.

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I'm with the others -- I can't access your profile, so I can't visit or give you any business at this time. Without naming a state in particular (so you can preserve your privacy somewhat), I assume you are in one on the west coast that I am in. But I wouldn't worry too much about being noticed by someone you actually know. What are the realistic odds of that? Do you actually have friends that you know of who are out web surfing cam sites?