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Its hard to say man, ive met some girls here who i known for loong time, then ive been stitched up. Others have been great and continue to be with me long after leaving cc. Def one of most asked questions though, after all alot of its about money, you have it, she wants/needs it, be carefull young Anonymous Me, your emotions ( may ) betray you ( since disney have bought the starwards rites :P )

It can be either way. I know a cam model who just got engaged to someone she met online camming, and that's not the first I've heard of it or seen people get together.

But these models by nature are friendly and get by on making a guy feel welcome and loved, so tread carefully.

being a host who made a lot of friends online, i can give you a piece of advice.
if this host is not after your money, but wants to talk with you a lot, she will agree to do it in real ONLY, even if it costs HER a lot of money, because she would have to spend certain amount on phone calls, sms, etc. just tell her that you have no money anymore that you could spend in privates. absolutely NO money. complain to her as she always complains to you (about her sick granny, big family that she supports, sore back from sitting all day on cam and many other classical stories of any scammer) that now you can not support her financially anymore - and if she keeps in touch with your through other means, without begging or forcing you to come back in her chat room (even if she is hiding it by words "i miss you loads", "i want to see you so much"), she might have real feelings to you and really want to be friends or more.
another thing you can offer to her is to let you have FREE video at least once a week (there is such an option in chathost settings) if you want to see each other on cam, but have no other ways than here. it will not harm her at all. i do it often with my friends. i sometimes set zero price for private and anyone can see me for free and show on cam himself also for free andchat for free. this can even bring her some benefit, as by showing herself on cam from time to time for free would attract more men to her room, who will later gladly pay for the show with the lady whom they already saw live.
if this girl really cares about you, she cares about your money also, in a sense that she doesnt want you to get broke and spend too much. she will not ask you to visit her in privates every day for hours but will find a way how to stay in touch with you without making you bankrupt!
this simples steps may help you and reveal for you the real nature of your beloved girl and your type of relationships.
good luck to you!

My bf is from USA, we meet on cc, and in real 17 times. we have big time difference.we are very in love with each other.and wanna marry. He come to see me on CC everyday and he spent a lot of money. i said him that if he cant it is ok to not come. but he keep coming. during the day im very busy in my other job, and he sleep.we have time difefference.and when i back home late , i must work , it is only way for me to earn some money.
in the morning i must awake at 6 am and go work.so when i back home i have 3-4 hours free for work. So how else i can spend time with my bf?its sound impossible for me. Even if we meet every month in real life,i still want see him everyday .just have no time.
I never asked him to send me money etc.never asking expensive presents. But why u saying that if woman love man she shouls not let him come on CamC? SOME PEOPLES PHISICALY DONT HAVE the others solutions as to meet on cam...yes you can meet for some minuts in sk or ya, but loving peoples want to spend hours together

"But why u saying that if woman love man she shouls not let him come on CamC? SOME PEOPLES PHISICALY DONT HAVE the others solutions as to meet on cam...yes you can meet for some minuts in sk or ya, but loving peoples want to spend hours together"

i did not say that the gf should not let her bf visit her here. read more attentively please. i was giving advice how they can do visits cheaper or free. there is a free video option on CC, and you can use it, for example, for 30 min a day and see your bf. it will not harm you, but would protect your bf's vallet a bit.
and anyways PEOPLE PHYSICALLY CANT PAY ATTENTION to each other when they are at work, i mean you can not chat with your bf if you are performing a show for another man in private.at the same time if you get rid of all men who want to spend time in your video only because you want to have your time with your bf, you will not get many customers during your 3-4 hours of work.
and come on, working from home gives you a great opportunity to have sk and ya open on pc parallel to CC. and your bf can spend ALL your working and not only hours there if you really miss each other so much as you try to claim. he can watch what you are doing online all time, no matter if you have customers (then he simply stays silent in order not to disturb your business) or if you have no visitors, you can chat with your bf for free. easy isnt it?
seems like you do not look for solutions, but just complain that something is impossible because the way you do it seems easier for you.
i am 100% sure about what i say because i also have a bf whom i met here on CC, and what i advise are ways which we experienced ourselves and it works great for us. why would it be impossible for others? as i can understand from your post, you are working from home, you have access to other sites while you are on CC, so no problem for you.
besides, if you really miss each other and cant stand being separate for too long, time difference doesnt matter, and you can even stay up longer and sacrifize your sleep in order to hear your beloved one (i mean both of you).
and moreoevr, we were not talking here about bf-gf relationships at all. yes you are a couple with your bf, but the man who posted his question has friendly relations with the girl and has never even meet his favorite chathost in real, and as you can read, he is not sure in his own feelings towards her, and even more doubts in her feelings, therefore he asked for advice if he should trust her or not, and i gave a good piece of advice how he can check if she has feelings to him or his money only.

And "one host" you give excellent and reasonable advice.

I knew a host who married a member. After struggling for a couple years with immigration/visa issues, she finally did leave her eastern europe country. It didn't work out, and they divorced two years later. I lost track of her, unfortunately.

Just getting married isn't the end of it for everyone.

Agree. perfect advice!

you know, in your post there are some things contradicting each other. let me give examples.
first you say you have another job that you do from morning till evening, so why do you say later that your CC job is the only one that gives you money, that you must do it because, as you say, "it is only way for me to earn some money"? really? dont you get paid for your other job? then why do you keep doing it?
another thing, if you met with your bf already 17 times, i suppose it could not happen more than once a month, because you live in different countries with such huge time difference (you probably live in Russia or Eastern Europe) and he can not have vacation from work every week or just fly to see you every weekend. so as you had 17 meetings supposedly once a month, you must know each other for a year and a half already. and you say that all this time your bf comes to your room every day and spends hours in video every day? wow! he must be a millionaire then. if he is so rich that he can spend hundreds of dollars daily with you in privates, why doesnt he help you financially that you dont need to do 2 (!) jobs and spend all your life working your ass off?
again, why in such long time (more than 1 year together) havent you prepared a fiancee visa yet? why havent you moved to him in 1,5 year?
another contradiction is: "So how else i can spend time with my bf?its sound impossible for me." and "yes you can meet for some minuts in sk or ya, but loving peoples want to spend hours together".
i think one host gave you perfect advice how you can do it. do not complain about having no time when you do have this working hours to spend with him freely while you work.
in general, all you wrote in your message sounds ridiculous and unbelievable!
yes there are many love stories abot the host and the member who became a couple in real, but yours is definitely a very strange one.

some hosts work on normal jobs and getting 200-300$ a month, they simply need to have a paper, that they have a real job. and often girls do it not for money but for documents.or pension.and cc is a only job which bring money to them . many romanian ukrain and russian doing it.
some men on cc have a business.they can travel as much as they want. many travel different countries for work. i havea friend who travel around 20-30 times a year in turkey and uae for business and each time he invite his cc gf for 3-5 days there.so many have a lot of free time.

very well said!

Is this the same post as in Viewers forum? Read replies there :)

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so...trip d....sup :P

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I will tell you smth that i witnessed myself...not heard from someone else..one of my friends was hosting on here, had some guy visiting her as a member once in a while for some period of time, then he offered to meet in real, they met, got married in half a year since first meeting, have 2 kids by now - happily married)

My honest opinion, without pussy-footing around the issue. She likes your company and likes the money but could easily live without you also.

There's no point in writing an essay, it's as simple as that.

finally the right answer , its all about the money , stop paying to see her for about 6 months and see how friendly she is then .

Yep, a host I used to visit a lot around from September to December of last year gave me her skype, email, phone number - even her physical address. Emailed me almost everyday, skyped about 2-3 times a week. Then, after she left in December, the emails continued, but to maybe twice a month and skype chats stopped altogether. She never answered any sms. I asked her about it in emails, but she always avoided the question. I think April was the last email I received from her with no indication I would never hear from her again - no good bye, no good luck, nothing, so I just stopped trying to reach her. Then, in July, I thought what the hell, I would just send an email to see if she would reply. I got an auto reply saying the email address didn't exist anymore. Wow, really considerate, huh?

hahaha ... your guys and girls are quite funny !
First cause the original message is a bit bogus ..for me ... cause you see .. if you really like /want a host you go and get it ( not only in video ) or at least try , but you( for sure ) dont ask others about it .
Second ... yes if you like to be that realistic it's about money for sure since she is here , and your a guy jerking off in her video ( nothing wrong about it don't get it twisted ) .
But in the end if anything is going to happen ..in time ... its between you and the host , the ideea of a love story getting real here it''s really ok and 100% real as long as both of you want it.
So my humble advice ... stay happy keep paying ... have fun ... maybe take a trip have lunch and see where that goes :)
You pay anyway , here or in real , well here at least your safe of any STD's :)
Peace ! :)

Amen, sister! I like the way you think!

You want to get married? :P

I think you're missing the point that if he keeps paying and it isn't real, he is on the path to becoming an increasingly jaded human being. After all, no one wants to invest that much effort (and finances) into something that is ultimately going to make a fool of them.

Forum moderator(s) - please don't censor my post this time, if you do, I would appreciate it if you could please explain to me why you think this is necessary.

Okay! I'm not the only one then!

It is clear that some sensible and reasonable points of view are just not finding expression here because of the heavy-handedness of the moderators.

Now let's see if this gets through.

I'm with you on the message seeming "bogus" and for the reasons you give.

i think she found bf or got married:P

these girls are here to make money and not to be trusted or fall in love, simply porn models who stop loving when there is no money

I wasn't in love with her. I just really enjoyed her company - even if it was only virtual, and i never expected it to go beyond that. I knew we wouldn't keep in touch forever, and it just would have been considerate of her to say good bye when she decided to sever the ties.

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It's all about the money.

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it's not quite true."

Yes it is very true. But you're a good host and you are very good at what you do.

It not all about money to the exclusion of everything else, which is what your statement seems to imply (and I gather this is what AndreaCherry means when she says, not quite).

"It not all about money to the exclusion of everything else, which is what your statement seems to imply "

I didn't imply. I clearly stated the cam girl business is all about the money.

I was just being generous. But you really don't have a clue.

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EWWWWWWWW meet a girl(scared)

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U r right to question your own sanity or wrongness but 2 years seems a long time to have remained so tentative. Also other guys r wondering about the clues and u dont indicate if u have sussed the kind of relationship she has with other regulars. However the contact by phone and sms outside cc is an indicator.
Ive met only one host (and arranged holiday with another where i let her down) and ive even done the crazy job help and loan for granny. These girls are facebook friends (we werent lovers meeting up, just tourists) and as it turns out everything they told me turns out completely straight. And gran's medical test fees were repaid promptly.
So i'd say you may not have covered all areas but you know her pretty well and would have caught her out in lies by now. I'd just say she probably hasnt lived without your regular cash for any length of time (only about 2 weeks has been enough to exhaust my camgirl's love supply in my past experience). Even if she is happy or keen to move to a relationship in real u have to remember she's been probably dependent on her cc earnings for supporting her home life for at least the time you u have known her, and more. That's going to be an obstacle for both of u. Good luck finding out. Cam world or real world nothing's sure and we all have to risk heartbreak some time.

Why do you begin with an apology for being here? Without lending my thoughts to that, and since you asked for an honest opinion, I will say one thing; Virtual Reality is not a substitute for living a real life. Do not confuse the two. Perhaps it would be a fine idea if you could discover why you are not successful in making a connection while in the bar and have come here to do so. This discovery might be a better long term value for your money. Best wishes.

you know her a little bit more than you know the rest of us.. so if you have to ask complete strangers about it then you must have some serious doubts ... and each time I put a lot of time into getting to really know someone .. they turn out weird .. well not the kind of weird id like to deal with. so I end up thinking why the hell didnt i do something more meaningful and fun with my time like.. watching animal videos. i really crave closeness... romance and all that but to hell with it. id rather put my energy into something else.. for now lol
anyways, its tricky when there are money involved ..

i could trick u into giving me a treat :D

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Stay safe guys ! All the best wishes for the guys in Washington , New York ! I hope your safe from any harm ! kisses

We love you guysxxxxxxx"

That should read "we love you guys' money"

Funny, i was thinking the same ! contest soon ? maybe i will be away for that one, it'll only be a repeat from before, ill wait till the new season starts :P

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That's strange. CC anniversary is coming up in a couple weeks. They almost always have a CC Birthday Contest of some sort.

very true interpretation!

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welcome to cc , hope you enjoy your stay .

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So far your doing a good job and the kisses makes it better. Keep up it.

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LMFAO

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I thoroughly enjoyed your amazing fantasy that after finishing reading it, I had to change. I really should drop by one day in your video room to say hi. Keep pouring out those fantasties of yours. Like to know if there is an end to it and also, should i bring tissues?

With love from the shyone

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sounds like one of those articles in Playboy Magazine we guys love to read for the articles, rather than look at the pictures.

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NO

I don't think she was asking you :)

I didnt ask for it but i did stayed for the girl:P

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If you are in the US you dont need a visa to go to Romania.. Im not sure but i think you can stay for 90 days before you must leave the country...

That is only if she is a US Citizen

Why do you think its a girl asking???

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It really depends on what you are willing to do. If you want to keep your clothes on, then maybe try saying it in your profile. Then guys would know before. But, if there is possibility of nudity and more, then state that in profile as well. Then no one has to waste time their time or your time asking in free chat.

I think expensive has little to do with whether you take your clothes off or leave them on, or what you do if you take them off. If a member is willing to pay for your time, knows what to expect, and is happy when he (or she) leaves, then the deal is good. And if you get enough of these, you are a happy host.

Maybe that's just too simple, but it works for me.

I have no expectations on this site due the culture. I am here to see naked girls, but it doesn't always happen on cc.

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Both are amaizing! But now i wanna be your prisoner... lol

army for me

I vote for the police. Short skirt and high boots mmmmm ..very nice.

Seems no one cares...Shame

Police bb.

time for an"a typical"male answer.the colour of police suits you better,but the fit of the army is better.in the end,the right answer is the uniform that you can get out of quickest! :--)

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Can I opt for the birthday suit poses instead? :P

to late :(((

getting older dosnt require you to grow up :P

it is an easy thing to re-open old screenames now. just try to log in then choose the reopen your account option. Your old favs should still be listed.

If you had deleted them there is another procedure you can follow but it is fairly involved. so CC Mail me.

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Oops! After re-reading, I believe you are right. LOL

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you would now have 2 dollars :p

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I better be on the lookout for this. Hope to find a great panter in crime.

Hmmm. Heavy breathing, Tony??? :P

Not funny :P

We bang ok!!!!!!

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Very nice and the colour red suits you best.

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She had on red? Wow! I must have not got that far! :P

Happy Birthday to you obirogkenobi....may the sun shine on you all day with a cool breeze...and the stars fill the sky to take you thru your night....huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

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happy birthday lover boy .

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Happy Birthday Roger..i wish you the best of luck ,joy and happiness.
take care and have fun :)

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Ohnigwobblyone i was gonna wish you all the best,but when i saw all the hosts wishing you a happy"roger",i realised my wishes would be just words...hope you got the rogering you deserve! :--)

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Seems like all his birthdays have come at once. Cum at once...? I couldnt say. Many more Rogers to you.

La Multi Ani, Rog :P

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Yes.
Makes me wonder why I moved on.
Maybe we need change, new encounters ?

Absolutely. I developed a total crush on the first host I met here. Maybe it was all about her being the first, or maybe she was just great. Whatever the case all subsequent hosts are measured against her.

Yes, I miss encounters, here, with two of the first hosts I knew. Fortunately I am still friends with them and chat on facebook and sms.

Just realize that if you are paying them for their time for all the chatting, you are not really their friend, you are their customer.

If she becomes your friend for real, then you will know how to contact her outside this site, she will welcome your contact and she will contact you, and you won't need to lose touch with her.

party pooper!

This question comes up nearly every month. It was talked a million times. But CC does not offer a search-function to find the threads.

In the last 9 days there have only been 4 new threads started, including this one: the forum is moribund. If there was a search facility to prevent repetitive threads it would be even more of a dodo (not a perfect metaphor, but my dinner is ready!).

i work at studio and there worked two girls which married with members) and now happy) For two years work here i have never seen viewer with who i am ready married) but some did me offer)

yes- i known 2 members here married a host and know one host here now engaged to a member here- it does happen, but is a very low percentage and love can happen anywhere, chat sites-facebook-twitter-yahoo-skype,etec.....

Fat chance of that happening. That would be like finding a wife in a strip club. May happen, but all your money would be gone in no time at all!

yes I married a member here and were doing couples shows now

i want find a beautiful host and ask her to by my wife :)

... and it was a great marriage. We were together for almost 10 years (no kids - I didn't want them) and although now (very amicably) divorced we're still very close friends. No regrets at all.

Likewise, I've met several hosts from this and other sites while traveling (since you're wondering, had sex with most, but not all), again with no regrets. Personally, I find this is a very good place to meet travel companions. Just my two cents.

I date strippers all the time. I spend money on them of course, but never never never in the club.

When you meet a girl you really like - someone you think you would like to take out and really get to know better - then absolutely refuse to become her customer. Don't buy dances in a club, don't go into a vid with her on this or any other site.

The moment you become her customer, you are done for in 99.99% of the cases; you'll never get her to go out, you'll never get to know her - except as a customer burning lots of $$$.

I won't get into the psychology of it here; suffice it to say that you are not showing her that you genuinely like and respect her when you pay her to take her clothes off, or otherwise pay her for her time. To the contrary; your actions make it clear you don't respect her.

On this site, in other places, in clubs, I find plenty of girls to play with. I only find a few that I would like to keep - at least, for a little while. I would like to find one that I could keep forever, and so I keep looking.

But when I do run across one of those who I really do like, as opposed to merely being attracted to, my message to her boils down to: "I really like you, and because of that I will never be your customer. If you like me and would like to get to know me, then we will do it outside of here."

On this site, I almost never deliver that message; distance is definitely a factor. However not long ago I did tell that to someone - someone who I find to be very impressive and really like. Now, she contacts me at least as often as I contact her. We get along very well and are definitely becoming friends.

As far as the money...yes, many of them are working for the money because they need it. But many of them are looking for other things as well and the money is less important. If one of these girls becomes close enough to me, I'll protect her. That means that, if money is a serious issue with her, I'll see she has what she needs. I never, ever tell a girl that. Not ever. But when the time comes, if she really is in trouble and some money will fix it, it gets fixed.

I did not think of this while doing my previous post, but just a week ago on this site I had a rather unusual experience - which contains a lesson for everyone who really, genuinely wants to get to know one of these girls.

I had a long chat with a young lady in community chat. After we had talked for awhile, she confessed to me that she did not like being here, did not like what she had to do to make money, and told me she did not want me to come into her vid (I had not offered to) because she thought I was great and she was ashamed.

She is in not shy and I asked her about that. She said she was there because it seemed to be the best place to make money; she said she did better there than anyplace else.

She is in a studio and her money situation is such that she presently cannot afford internet at home. So, to this point, contacting her outside this site has not been possible, though she is hoping to pay for internet real soon. So we keep talking in community and sometimes in her text chat.

The moral of the story is obvious; most of the girls are not so forthcoming about what they really think. But a lot of them think it. If you really want to know her, you need to keep that in mind.

Agree 100%. Never become a service provider's (cam host, stripper, etc.) customer. If I meet a stripper I like I will chat with her and say, "Here's $50 - I don't want a dance but I understand the nature of your job: time is money." While I never buy a dance, I think it's important to recognize the nature of the job and not waste her time. A little bit of consideration goes a long way.

Where hosts are concerned I have a ruse for chatting with them that has nothing to do with wanting a show - I never ask a host to strip or do a show... with my primary screen name. But I have a second screen name (where I won't go on cam) that I use to see how nasty they are. Deceptive, I know. But that's the nature of the business...

I made a friend here and we continued to be friends after she came to the US. Then we became more than friends and were very happy together for about 2 years. It ended..just one of those things. But it was nice while it lasted....

I'm a woman, by the way. Don't know if that makes a difference....I suspect it does.

Thats hot!!!!!!!!!!!

yes its possible but you might end up with a few surprises while living with them.

yes yes yesss

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troubles is once we started talking in depth they were a completely different person that what they seemed to be. yeah hanging with my sister cats can be considered lame .. I got that (I happen to enjoy some of my time alone) but Im afraid of seeing their nice side only if we meet several times and then one of us does the big leap of moving together. some of the guys come in my area for work so .. hmm "i dont know "

really?

Know a few who were married, but none that lived happily ever after.

that kinda cleared it out :))

Yes it's possible, met my wife on another site and told her about CC after she moved to CC we spent a a fair amount of time together here and started a relationship away from "work hours". After a year or so we met for the first time in the Caribbean..then a couple months later we met again in the Caribbean..a couple months after that we applied for a fiance visa to the US...got it with no problems. We were married almost 3 years ago...still going strong even with a 20+ year age difference.

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Just a small English point, but it might save u if, for example, you got a job as a spy. Spouses and partners are often referred to (a bit ironically) as our 'other' halves (or even more ironically better halves). Second halves only ever occur in football matches (and similar - except in US, where it's soccer matches).